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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Gummy8: 2:45am On Sep 08, 2019
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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Nobody: 3:18am On Sep 08, 2019
Facebook. I was just going on my own jeje. Wasn't even looking for any relationship. Guy was seriously on my case. My friend then was gingering me to accept. I accepted. 3months later I decided to google his name and nickname. Saw that he was married on facebook. Broke up the whole thing. Was seriously mad at those friends. Looks like friends weren't aware sha as guy stays in another state far from family. The idiot was still forming in love.
I didn't act crazy or blow up the roof. I just quietly explained all he did to him. I told the wife, idiot and wife blocked me.
Few months later his father was on sick bed terminally ill, that's how the idiot was calling me forming remorseful, trying to ask forgiveness.
So if his father didn't fall sick, he won't realise that he did something bad.
Idiot probably thought I was the one doing him. Of course, I wasn't the one. In my mind I was like so you can value family Abi but think others are trash.
Anyway, Now a days if you like compose poem pass Shakespeare, show endless care more than Jack of titanic. If I no wan do na like this I go just they look you.

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by okikiosibodu(m): 9:11am On Sep 26, 2019
Freciprocal:


Yeah... I remember. I also got a pet (Neopolitan Mastiff) in November 2018. I would soon come up with a diary detailing her growth.

Good to know u are happier... I just came across ur post and decided to ask. Thanks Bro! smiley
Gentle reminder on the proposed thread
Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Partnerbiz3: 8:52pm On Oct 30, 2019
Njeps:

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Kenturkey048(m): 9:47pm On Oct 30, 2019
Joislim:
Some of you sef, how many relationships did I tell you I've had before?
why did you answer himnext time just ignore please....
Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by JohnOkolo: 12:00am On Sep 28, 2020
martyns303:
Guy called and she couldn't talk properly, she was saying "hmm" "OK" "yes" "ok". snatched the phone from her and put it on speaker, the guy wasn't happy with her about something, he was yelling at her through the phone "is this how u used to talk to me"? "hello, hello!!!!!" I ended the call, she kneeled down and started begging.

Called the guy later with my phone, talked to him as man and he opened up and gave me the whole rundown. I died 1001 times within 5mins.

Oh! did I mention we had been dating for 6yrs?

Come and collect a Trophy for dating so long. So you were dating a Nigerian Girl for 6yrs and your mother never told you, you weren't the only one she sleeps with and call the same pet names.

Welcome to Nigeria where God created all the Hoes, Prostitutes and Cheap Shit Ladies and dump them here for us to pick and die.
Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by JohnOkolo: 12:09am On Sep 28, 2020
Facebook. I was just going on my own jeje. Wasn't even looking for any relationship. Guy was seriously on my case. My friend then was gingering me to accept. I accepted. 3months later I decided to google his name and nickname. Saw that he was married on facebook. Broke up the whole thing. Was seriously mad at those friends. Looks like friends weren't aware sha as guy stays in another state far from family. The idiot was still forming in love.
I didn't act crazy or blow up the roof. I just quietly explained all he did to him. I told the wife, idiot and wife blocked me.
Few months later his father was on sick bed terminally ill, that's how the idiot was calling me forming remorseful, trying to ask forgiveness.
So if his father didn't fall sick, he won't realise that he did something bad.
Idiot probably thought I was the one doing him. Of course, I wasn't the one. In my mind I was like so you can value family Abi but think others are trash.
Anyway, Now a days if you like compose poem pass Shakespeare, show endless care more than Jack of titanic. If I no wan do na like this I go just they look you.

Babe if you don't want to do, they are many ladies outside who will kill for what you left. No one is trying to convince you, you look out for attributes of people you will love to date, settle with and hookup with such people. That way you will not feel like a stupid Nigerian babe who thinks all men wants to bleep their pussy when they approach you for friendship and conversation.

Cause it's not everyone who wants your body, some are truly searching for someone to love, and understand.

Have you earmarked 5 guys you like their attributes and character and want to learn more about them, or you are waiting for Prince Charming on a Horse. You will find the one who hides a pregnant wife behind
Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by JohnOkolo: 1:44am On Sep 28, 2020
Joystark:
Just here to read comments.
This should make front page in a bit... If it hasn't already.

Madam don't just read talk about those you broke their heart, head and trust.

And the times you bleep your boyfriend friend out of say you no wear pant come and your boyfriend go buy you icecream.

Are you not a Nigerian Lady, nothing was created that is worst and useless to a Nigerian Lady, my Mother and yours inclusive. You are a Nigerian babe so fucking up and down is something your Mother must have taught you, when she was telling you to double/tripple/Quadruple date cause you will never know the one you may settle down with.
Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Joystark(f): 2:01pm On Sep 28, 2020
JohnOkolo:


Madam don't just read talk about those you broke their heart, head and trust.

And the times you bleep your boyfriend friend out of say you no wear pant come and your boyfriend go buy you icecream.

Are you not a Nigerian Lady, nothing was created that is worst and useless to a Nigerian Lady, my Mother and yours inclusive. You are a Nigerian babe so fucking up and down is something your Mother must have taught you, when she was telling you to double/tripple/Quadruple date cause you will never know the one you may settle down with.

Sending love and light your way. smiley

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Jessepaid(m): 4:10pm On Sep 28, 2020
Called her after an appointment with her doctor and she said her doctor said sex is bad for her legs that we should discontinue...I was laughing in my mind...somebody that I left to be dating herself since a year ago...
oh did I forget to mention that she logged her FB in my phone and forget to log out.... went straight to the Dm's and was seeing messages like....babe when are you coming I want to change oil...na so Dem turn my babe that year to mechanic oil changer..

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by JohnOkolo: 7:35pm On Sep 28, 2020
Joystark:


Sending love and light your way. smiley

Very well received.
Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Nobody: 9:11pm On Sep 28, 2020
Never been cheated on. I go for guys who know what they want. I know how to choose them grin
Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by JIMMY1393: 10:11pm On Sep 28, 2020
lilbarracuda:
I've never had a GF.
So I will come back later maybe in the year 20infinity

any story now??
Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by JIMMY1393: 10:16pm On Sep 28, 2020
jayextra:
Omo see past questions for Relationship 101 grin grin


I'll come back wen i finally get a girlfriend grin

you still never return...this single life no good oh
Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by lilbarracuda(m): 10:50pm On Sep 28, 2020
JIMMY1393:

any story now??

Make I no talk long thing ooo I still never get ooo
Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by luscioustrish(f): 11:28pm On Sep 28, 2020
The almighty Phone, saw messages on Facebook, whatsapp and even Snapchat
.
It is well.
Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by BabbanBura(m): 2:41pm On Oct 04, 2020
Joystark:


Sending love and light your way. smiley

Wow, now this is real maturity. Bravo babe
Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by UndauntedYOCA(f): 4:02pm On Oct 04, 2020
pocohantas:
Lol. I like threads like this,

Gives everyone the opportunity to play the victim.

Everyone would suddenly turn the one that was cheated on.

Create another on "How were you caught cheating?" Nobody go gree comment.

I wonder who are the cheats. grin
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You dey mind some of them??
Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by RtdGeneral: 2:53pm On Jun 30
Wherever you are Keji, e no go better for u. I got to know through her Facebook chats that she was fucking a Catholic Reverend Father. I confronted her and she was crying �
Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by KingDash: 4:05pm On Jun 30
Kenturkey048:
Godddd...How would a guy cheat on you...why Guys dey fuc*kk up like dis....if I get you...I will worship the ground you step on..see as person pikin fyn...
useless simp
Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Kenturkey048(m): 8:18pm On Jun 30
KingDash:
useless simp

Dude...This is 2021....you comment over something of 2019...2 good years dude..2 good years....wake the f*ck up...
Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by KingDash: 8:26pm On Jun 30
Kenturkey048:


Dude...This is 2021....you comment over something of 2019...2 good years dude..2 good years....wake the f*ck up...
bruh you don Bleep up... just accept it, hope you're an alpha now tho.

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by toren(f): 9:21pm On Jun 30
She called. That day remains unforgettable for me.
Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Kenturkey048(m): 12:16am On Jul 01
KingDash:
bruh you don Bleep up... just accept it, hope you're an alpha now tho.
baba I was never a simp....
Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Kenturkey048(m): 12:24am On Jul 01
irumole1975:


Not possible. I had a friend of mine tell me my girl is fucking a guy so shes buying makeup and clothes from and that the guy is his own close friend . I heard this and confronted my babe ,she told me my friend was just trying to frame her only because she declined his sex offer. Can't believe my own friend want to be sleeping with my Babe. Thank God babe is loyal. I discarded the stupid friend, never to see him again

How far you and that your babe now..??

That babe wey you discard your loyal friend for.?? By now you go don realize say you be heavy zombies...

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by aflame100(m): 10:26am On Jul 01
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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Emmyviva(m): 2:47pm On Jul 04
okikiosibodu:

This is highly untrue. Once discovered my "babe" in Onitsha where she was serving, screwing around, anoda one in Ekiti was busy sending her nudes up and down to different guys, and I was in Lagos.. .. You only need both lines to be online at the same time to be able to read it. When you check the option on your firefox to continue from open tabs, you don't need to be scanning the Barcode again. You just scan it once, and you are good to go, unless the other party cancels the connection
@Nobleking2000 (you can remove your number now) and Hullabaloon, here is a thread I Inc created to explain this, I hope you find it helpful.

https://www.nairaland.com/3060322/how-access-single-whatsapp-account

I once taught one of my big cousins this and he set it up on he phones of a lady he saw a future with. She was a coded runz girl. Wil ask him money for an item, and ask the same money from several other guys. When he gives her the money and other guys to do same, she wil buy one of it and snap the pix to every "Maga" that paid her, that that was what she got with the money they sent her. Each mumu will be feeling proud within himself that he was able to take care of her

I am however withholding some information cos I am not encouraging anyone it hack into anyone's privacy (even though in some cases, it is inevitable when a talented and skilled liar is involved.

*modified *

My very first gf made me discover whatsappweb. She was a chronic lair and a talented one at that. I'll give it to her. If you see her conjure a lie, you will be so convinced she must have been rehearsing it for months and even doubt the facts you have cos of the way she conjures the lie on the spot and it comes out smoothly. When you give a lil hint that you knw the truth, she wil twist the story. It's fun to watch her manufacture a lie and play along, when deep down I knw the truth. She was a kind of person that if you are having a convo with and she says it is raining, you looked out stylishly to confirm truly if it is raining. And even after you confirm that, you still can't trust the next words that comes out from her mouth. The crazy ass nigga that I was spending my savings on to help with her academics even when I didn't have a job, referred to me as a useless guy with the dude she was cheating with, and denied it frantically until I made her know I saw the chat before she deleted it. She even swore with the Bible and deep down she knew she was telling lies. I couldn't cope, cos such lady is capable of killing one in the future. I loved her. I really did. I could give my life for her without a second thought. She was my first babe. It took over 2yrs to get over her. Had to develop some addictions to counter it (cycling and writing. I can fall sick if I don't ride bicycle in a month). I started loving dogs too after the incident.
The second lady I was with, was the one serving in Onitsha. Met her in church, but she was screwing around, and there was this particular married man she just won't leave. A lady I saw a future with, but didn't go into a relationship with was the one in Ekiti. I started being cautious and suspicious when she was pestering me to do blood covenant, not to leave her. Na so I speak to my leg tear race comot

Cc: EzeIgboNwaChukwu
She must be Mrs Lai

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by San2ski(m): 5:54pm On Jul 06
Wizywiz:
Well it hurts to be cheated on.

Mine happened some years back i was dating a girl whom i love so much.and was planning to settle down with her!!!..after she got admision to uni...the babe changed so much...i do visit her in school most times. One faithful day i went. And saw some signs of cheating on her part...but because i was blinded with love abi na lust. I overlooked it because i trusted her...not until a neighbour of hers whom i was nice to as i do tip him sometimes..revealed some secrets about her..i had to visit her without telling her i was coming around. Lo and behold i caught her and a guy making out...mehn i nearly die dat dat.. I was down for almost a month...she begged and even her mum begged..i forgave her but noticed she wasnt willing to change..i had to dump her sorry ass...and that made d good guy turn bad...started taking revenge on other female folks ...no more commitment..make any lady who comes around to be so much in love then gets dumped..no love...d word love was erased out of my heart...anyway...thats in d past..as am married and settled now..the babe still called me as am married and started talking trash. That she is mearnt for me that i cant love any except her..dat she has changed i should leave my wife for her...imagine..the b***h. I had to warn her and block her off..even called her mum to warn her to desist from calling or contacting me...


Some women make some men go wild and bad

If she try am again, write her name and address here and put her picture here make we see how stupidity looks

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Frankicent(m): 8:53am On Jul 07
duchessvikki0:
I'm yet to confirm being cheated on. I pray my man doesn't cheat and I'm yet to cheat and I pray I don't

This is 2021. So who cheated?
Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Jaiyeoba1(m): 9:18am On Jul 07
She used my phone to check her Facebook and forgot to log out...Being curious I decided to check through her messages before I logged her out.....Wetin I see hmmm ..she sent three names to her cousin that just got married to help check with the prophet that choose for her . Lo and Behold my people I no follow First three...and she was always with me 24hours 7days..

Women are s***

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Nobody: 11:34am On Jul 07
Abeg how e happen?
Bash20bash:
Rest in peace to a young lady that lost her life because of a boyfriend

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