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Re: When you want a man other ladies desire. by Nnemuka(f): 7:37am On Sep 08, 2019 |
Agbaya writing nonsense |
Re: When you want a man other ladies desire. by Nobody: 7:39am On Sep 08, 2019 |
Toks2008: So, what if you build with the broke guy until he becomes rich? Won't he start cheating? This your write up seems like you are expressing your grievances that girls refuse to date you cos you're broke and not so good looking. 1 Like |
Re: When you want a man other ladies desire. by Nobody: 7:44am On Sep 08, 2019 |
Toks2008: Complete Bullshit Tell that story to Jeff bezos. The babangidas, Marwas etc, those wives they parade are not their first wives.they married their first wives before they hammered. Those wives are now relegated to obscurity while some fine women are paraded as their wives. There is zero guarantee that 'sticking by a man when he is struggling' means he will stay with you. That is the same reason why oyinbos have trophy wives while we have polygamy. 1 Like |
Re: When you want a man other ladies desire. by LadyFBI(f): 7:49am On Sep 08, 2019 |
A very myopic post. |
Re: When you want a man other ladies desire. by OfficialSam(m): 8:08am On Sep 08, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth: Did i hear you say 'not all ladies are attracted to money?' Yes, they are. I mean ALL of them are gold diggers, including you. |
Re: When you want a man other ladies desire. by smartoliver(m): 9:13am On Sep 08, 2019 |
Krystal28: Na lie. This mindset of getting married to a man who loves you more than you love him is very flawed.. I won't go too deep in it but trust me, it backfires a lot. And BTW, a man or woman that loves you can cheat on you any time. Love doesn't stop cheating, self discipline, self respect and self control does. |
Re: When you want a man other ladies desire. by realtalk19: 9:27am On Sep 08, 2019 |
Toks2008: Mr toks2008, for the fact that you have Neva seen a guy dump a lady that struggles with him doesn't mean they don't exist. Why wuld a lady that stuggle with a man suddenly misbehaves at her man's success. So ar u saying a man that has a girlfriend that stood by him and after he suddenly become successful has every reason to still have other girlfriends.? Ar u encouraging polygamy or licence to have more than one girlfriend and the main babe shuld be cool with that and every form of cheating? |
Re: When you want a man other ladies desire. by Toks2008(m): 10:46am On Sep 08, 2019 |
realtalk19: I am not encouraging polygamy dearie...IT WILL HAPPEN IF THE GUY WANTS IT. Polygamy is not a sin but a choice. |
Re: When you want a man other ladies desire. by Nobody: 10:53am On Sep 08, 2019 |
Toks2008:sir toks can you write on woman lowering or holding on to their standards for men in today's world |
Re: When you want a man other ladies desire. by Toks2008(m): 10:56am On Sep 08, 2019 |
Hipsofagoddess: Only dumb people jusxtapose a writeup to the life of the writer. I repeat..marital faithfullness has nothing to do with cheating except you are referring to sexual faithfulness. |
Re: When you want a man other ladies desire. by enemyofprogress: 11:25am On Sep 08, 2019 |
benji93:no be small |
Re: When you want a man other ladies desire. by niyidenrele: 11:34am On Sep 08, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth:....I wonder if you will repeat same ,when you are in the shoe of frustration of all these...by the time ,you keep waiting,and waiting and the Mr Right,has not shown up,and those men that falls out specifications keep showing interest,and age is no more on your side.....am sure as a lady,you will reconsider your options,don't forget the pressure form peers , families and neighbor...it is a widely known perception that ,you ladies most say all these in surfaces,deep down,they want the opposite... imagine ask any ladies,their kind of man , they will tell you,he must be tall,dark ,slim and handsome,...now ,try check them up ,when they eventually married,u will see them marrying someone opposite to what they earlier dreamt of or mentioned |
Re: When you want a man other ladies desire. by nairamaniac: 11:40am On Sep 08, 2019 |
virgoquin: Abgeros have money. Dont even try the amount of money they keep to themselves and remit peanuts to their bosses and the government. Toks never gave an excuse for cheating here. |
Re: When you want a man other ladies desire. by zezebabyxoxo: 11:51am On Sep 08, 2019 |
Ok |
Re: When you want a man other ladies desire. by Toks2008(m): 11:59am On Sep 08, 2019 |
ornicus: Why do you think marital faithfulness is the same as sexual faithfulness? This is where you and many people making comments got it all wrong. Marital faithfulness in the real sense is when you remain married to your wife and give her all the full respect that comes with that position but that does not mean you can't marry another lady. POLYGAMY IS NOT THE SAME AS MARITAL UNFAITHFULLNESS. This may be huge for you to decipher but it is what it is. |
Re: When you want a man other ladies desire. by Toks2008(m): 12:04pm On Sep 08, 2019 |
PrimadonnaO: Any lady who still thinks they have issues with their man being with another lady should just remain single for life or be prepared to cry a river. My writeup will make sense to deep thinkers...it simply means as long as your man has or attains qualities that other ladies desire then be prepared to share him. If he decides ti be with just you then congrats but don't ever expect him to be sexually faithful to you. If you have issues with my stance im so sorry i can't help you out. |
Re: When you want a man other ladies desire. by Toks2008(m): 12:07pm On Sep 08, 2019 |
[s] zezebabyxoxo:[/s] The most foolish post i have ever read in a long time and this goes to show your level of stupidty and lack of proper IQ. Your parents has wasted money on your education. Next time please if you cant contribute to the subject matter just view comments. |
Re: When you want a man other ladies desire. by tpiander: 12:09pm On Sep 08, 2019 |
Re: When you want a man other ladies desire. by Nobody: 12:09pm On Sep 08, 2019 |
Toks2008: ah, i see. the typical double standards you are known and celebrated for. i am sure all those first wives who have been relegate into obscurity are receiving the full respect that comes with their position so, lets take what you are saying. i marry my wife when i am ugly and broke. after 15 years, i make it and am now a multi millionaire. as a made man, i need some beautiful fresh chick that matches my new status. i marry this woman [which already negates all the bullshit you posted earlier about women sticking with their struggling guys, as this new wife is there for the money and good times] i relegate my loyal first wife to the shadows. that is what she gets for keeping with me through the struggling times that is what you are saying. i feel sorry for the lady who decides to stick with a person like you through thick and thin. since all you can be counted on is to give her the full 'respect that comes with the position as a discarded wife' 1 Like |
Re: When you want a man other ladies desire. by Toks2008(m): 12:13pm On Sep 08, 2019 |
ornicus: I always weep inside when i see people digress from the subject matter to start writing crazy trash. If you had focused o the subject matter i would have given you an objective response but since you have deviated to act fooolish by attacking the writer then i will relegate you to the archives of stupdity. Good day. |
Re: When you want a man other ladies desire. by PrimadonnaO(f): 12:15pm On Sep 08, 2019 |
Toks2008: I don't need you to help me out. You're the one who in truth needs help... to re-orientate your mind to stop having such thoughts. Are you trying to say there are some persons who are desirable by just one person on earth? And it is that person to whom they are married? |
Re: When you want a man other ladies desire. by Toks2008(m): 12:22pm On Sep 08, 2019 |
Tina26: It is not about the lowering of standards but the reality on the ground. Many ladies have been deceived by the so-called relationship experts or writers that encourage them to expect sexual faithfulness from their husbands rather than making them face the reality on ground and this is why many ladies are in the psychiatry today because of shock following acts of infidelity from their husbands. I have seen many single mothers who are depressedand ridden with one form of mental illness or the other whilst the man they left is busy living his life and i kept asking myself ''For how long will this madness continue'' So this has nothing to do with lowering of standard...THE POINT IS AS LONG AS YOUR HUSBAND HAS QUALITIES OTHER LADIES DESIRE, BE PREPARED TO SHARE HIM WITH OTHER LADIES. And as i wrote, it will be his choice to either remain with you or not..it is not in your power to decide and if you leave your husband because of another lady then be prepared to live a life of loneliness and depression or become intimacy gadget in the hands of crazy randy men. You may never read this truth from any other place. |
Re: When you want a man other ladies desire. by Toks2008(m): 12:23pm On Sep 08, 2019 |
PrimadonnaO: read my comment above. |
Re: When you want a man other ladies desire. by Nobody: 12:25pm On Sep 08, 2019 |
Toks2008: good riddance to a chauvinistic useless prick you and your reasoning belong in the days of our grandfathers, when women had no choice but to waste the best years of their lives for some joker who would respect them by marrying younger wives when they grew old. 1 Like |
Re: When you want a man other ladies desire. by Nobody: 12:28pm On Sep 08, 2019 |
Toks2008: as a woman, as long as you have not built yourself, you will have to put up with the antics of a manchild who has no self discipline so if i have a very beautiful, very sexy wife, i should also be prepared to share her with others? if my wife is at the top of her carrer, i should be prepared to share her with others in her circle? you are just a chauvinist hypocrite longing and celebrating a world where women are not empowered. all your scenarios will only work when a woman has no choice or no self respect 2 Likes |
Re: When you want a man other ladies desire. by realtalk19: 12:35pm On Sep 08, 2019 |
Toks2008: Well noted. |
Re: When you want a man other ladies desire. by CSTR2: 12:36pm On Sep 08, 2019 |
BTW, one of the foolish things I have seen is choosing a partner based on height. It is a quality that you did not work for. It is just a function of chance. Any fool can be tall if he is born to tall parents. |
Re: When you want a man other ladies desire. by Nobody: 12:40pm On Sep 08, 2019 |
Toks2008: First things first, I'm not dumb. Secondly, you're confused. Calm down and think carefully. |
Re: When you want a man other ladies desire. by Toks2008(m): 12:50pm On Sep 08, 2019 |
CSTR2: I just weak walahi. That moment when 99% of ladies desire 1% of the men and then cry latter that the 1% men now has eyes for many ladies. I just don't understand. |
Re: When you want a man other ladies desire. by zezebabyxoxo: 1:07pm On Sep 08, 2019 |
Ok |
Re: When you want a man other ladies desire. by Toks2008(m): 1:12pm On Sep 08, 2019 |
Tharaja: Lol! Imagine if every lady dey go for tall men who will marry the short ones.
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Re: When you want a man other ladies desire. by boninho: 1:19pm On Sep 08, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth:Taaaa, all ladies are attracted to money...it's the degree of attraction that varies...who no like good thing |
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