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Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by donaldtruman(op): 9:24am On Sep 08, 2019
boiz2men:
You are a yahoo boy. So easy to see.

A legit hustle will not spend foolishly
This is a fact...It's just in an effort to make her happy and don't lack.
Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by boiz2men(m): 9:26am On Sep 08, 2019
donaldtruman:
This is a fact...It's just in an effort to make her happy and don't lack.
You think we don't have sense? Post your transfers to her here

These apps keep history.
Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by donaldtruman(op): 9:29am On Sep 08, 2019
boiz2men:
We think we don't have sense? Post your transfers to her here?

These apps keep history.
Hmm
Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by boiz2men(m): 9:31am On Sep 08, 2019
carter009:
Lol, Why will I step on toes just to get attention, that's childish dear,,why are you this angry all of a sudden, you need to take it easy...
What she is saying is you act like a sissy.

Go and read "subtle act of not giving a fucckk"

If the op story is true, you can do such to a lady
Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by boiz2men(m): 9:33am On Sep 08, 2019
donaldtruman:
Hmm
I thought as much. You want NL girls to send you DM . some hungry fools will sha
Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by donaldtruman(op): 9:42am On Sep 08, 2019
boiz2men:
I thought as much. You want NL girls to send you DM . some hungry fools will sha
Bro,u and most here are finding it tough to believe and am shocked b'cos ur reactions thus far ve shown that I seem to be d only guy in d whole of Nigeria who has spent so much on his girlfriend or spent unprecedentedly and obviously ve been stupid.

But if I may ask,for all these single girls who can afford to live a lavish lifestyle and do not ve a job,is it that they are all prostitutes or how do they survive their lifestyle?

Most also ve boyfriends.

We re all different.D fact that u and some can't do it does not mean I ve not or there are some guys who do not or don't spend as much.

Peharps, it is b'cos I don't ve any other babe except her as I don't flirt but loyal.
Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by boiz2men(m): 9:45am On Sep 08, 2019
donaldtruman:
Bro,u and most here are finding it tough to believe and am shocked b'cos ur reactions thus far ve shown that I seem to be d only guy in d whole of Nigeria who has spent so much on his girlfriend or spent unprecedentedly and obviously ve been stupid.

But if I may ask,for all these single girls who can afford to live a lavish lifestyle and do not ve a job,is it that they are all prostitutes or how do they survive their lifestyle?

Most also ve boyfriends.

We re all different.D fact that u and some can't do it does not mean I ve not or there are some guys who do not or don't spend as much.

Peharps, it is b'cos I don't ve any other babe except her as am I don't flirt but loyal.
Easier to screenshot your transfer yo her than type this
Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by TooGod942: 9:46am On Sep 08, 2019
Do not give her money for the iPhone she asked for................





Then you will see that she is just their for the money nothing else
Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by Nobody: 9:49am On Sep 08, 2019
donaldtruman:
I am a 31 year old guy.

I met this babe,now 25 in 2017 while she was in her final year in the University.

We started going out and I developed so much love for her.

Though I observed that she was the kind of babe who loves material things d very month we met but felt that all women love good things and comfort and nothing wrong in taking care of my woman.

Three weeks after we met,she demanded for an iPhone and I bought a brand new iPhone 6+ for her @ #180k then.

Two weeks later,she demanded for #70k to celebrate her birthday.

That she needed it for photoshoot and sit out with her friends which I gave her.

Subsequently I had spent so much on various demands ranging from school expenses, dressing, grooming and others,running into hundreds of thousands at different times.

Obviously, she is someone who loves social media so much and loves to flaunt her beauty and style as she is no doubt very pretty.

There is no day she does not take pictures to upload on facebook,Instagram and her WhatsApp status.Competing in social media stunts with her friends and others.

She is also very used to eating outside as she did not think of going to d market to say she wanted to cook for herself,let alone me.

She was always eating at fast food restaurants and I spent about 20-25k weekly on patronising fast food for her.

Sometimes,she even asked me to buy for her friends and siblings.

I also gave her 15k every weekend to make her hair and nails and #50k monthly as pocket money.

At d end of last year,she demanded for an iphone x which I bought for her at d rate of #380k.

Despite all these,I was still tolerating her until she graduated and wanted to go for NYSC.She insisted on serving in Abuja and requested that I worked her posting with #100k which I gave her and another #200k to get all her materials for camping and pocket money.

When she left camp,she insisted that she didn't want to share room with anybody, that I shld rent a self contain for her @ #700k which I did by withdrawing part of my long term savings to do and another #400k to furnish d house.

Since she resumed in her primary place of assignment she uses Taxify @ #2k daily and instead of cooking,she orders food online to be delivered to her at home.Most times,#1,500 per meal,which is at least a minimum of #3k daily.

I was giving her #70k monthly as feeding & transport but b'cos she eats out,had to demand for more pocket money and I increased it to #100k monthly which excludeds now #20k for her hair and nails weekly.

She also sends her clothes to d dry cleaners as she does not wash her clothes herself.

In the last 6 months she has demanded for a total of #120k in total to buy clothes and I send data of about 4gb to her weekly which she exhaust in no time b'cos she spends most part of her life on social media.

Always talking about d babes who drive Benz in Abuja,how they dress and how she wants to be famous on d social media.She even talks about her friends who sleep with politicians and earn #200k and above.

I just bought human hair of #40k for her last month.

Hmmm

I was already getting tired when she told me on my visit to Abuja two days ago that she wants an iPhone xs max.That she is tired of using her iPhone x that I just bought for her November last year.

She said two of her friends just bought their at #410k

That was her welcome demand from me.

Right now,am so exhausted with her and still love her so much which makes me feel that is d reason she is taking advantage of my love and generosity.

And why I ve been sacrificing all I can to satisfy her needs is b'cos I don't want her to lack anything or go get them from another man outside but it seems she can never be satisfied regardless of what I do.

Moreover,since I arrived Abuja she has refused to pick some calls in my presence and d excuse she gives me is that she does not want anybody to disturb her.That d calls are from her female friends but no names,just d numbers appear.

I spend bulk of all my earnings as a consultant with a construction firm on her and even tampering with my fixed deposits I ve been rolling over in d last five years just for her,to make her happy.

I now feel she is just with me for the benefits.

This is a girl I ve made up my mind that I want to marry b'cos I love her so so much but am beginning to ve a second thought,while I don't want to loose her to another man b'cos I ve sacrificed a lot of my time,emotions and finances on her.

I am still here in Abuja but so unhappy. No peace at all.

I am just tired,confused and need ur advice pls.
Freaking liar but if this is true, bros you are simply a dunce. Will she even tolerate ur ass if you go broke? Highly doubt it. Better dump her inconsiderate ass and look for a homely person.
Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by drealcivilceno(m): 9:55am On Sep 08, 2019
Fountainofyouth:
Blaaaaaaaaaa, no lady makes hair every weekend no matter how rich she is, so this fiction is horseshiit, but let's say we believe you, means you spent close to 2 million Naira on a girlfriend, not bad, for a guy on nairaland.
Meaning?
Nnwa lady come, your papa wey no dey nairaland, how much een get?
Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by boiz2men(m): 9:59am On Sep 08, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
Freaking liar but if this is true, bros you are simply a dunce. Will she even tolerate ur ass if you go broke? Highly doubt it. Better dump her inconsiderate ass and look for a homely person.
Like you right grin
Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by Poorboy: 10:01am On Sep 08, 2019
donaldtruman:
I am a 31 year old guy.

I met this babe,now 25 in 2017 while she was in her final year in the University.

We started going out and I developed so much love for her.

Though I observed that she was the kind of babe who loves material things d very month we met but felt that all women love good things and comfort and nothing wrong in taking care of my woman.

Three weeks after we met,she demanded for an iPhone and I bought a brand new iPhone 6+ for her @ #180k then.

Two weeks later,she demanded for #70k to celebrate her birthday.

That she needed it for photoshoot and sit out with her friends which I gave her.

Subsequently I had spent so much on various demands ranging from school expenses, dressing, grooming and others,running into hundreds of thousands at different times.

Obviously, she is someone who loves social media so much and loves to flaunt her beauty and style as she is no doubt very pretty.

There is no day she does not take pictures to upload on facebook,Instagram and her WhatsApp status.Competing in social media stunts with her friends and others.

She is also very used to eating outside as she did not think of going to d market to say she wanted to cook for herself,let alone me.

She was always eating at fast food restaurants and I spent about 20-25k weekly on patronising fast food for her.

Sometimes,she even asked me to buy for her friends and siblings.

I also gave her 15k every weekend to make her hair and nails and #50k monthly as pocket money.

At d end of last year,she demanded for an iphone x which I bought for her at d rate of #380k.

Despite all these,I was still tolerating her until she graduated and wanted to go for NYSC.She insisted on serving in Abuja and requested that I worked her posting with #100k which I gave her and another #200k to get all her materials for camping and pocket money.

When she left camp,she insisted that she didn't want to share room with anybody, that I shld rent a self contain for her @ #700k which I did by withdrawing part of my long term savings to do and another #400k to furnish d house.

Since she resumed in her primary place of assignment she uses Taxify @ #2k daily and instead of cooking,she orders food online to be delivered to her at home.Most times,#1,500 per meal,which is at least a minimum of #3k daily.

I was giving her #70k monthly as feeding & transport but b'cos she eats out,had to demand for more pocket money and I increased it to #100k monthly which excludeds now #20k for her hair and nails weekly.

She also sends her clothes to d dry cleaners as she does not wash her clothes herself.

In the last 6 months she has demanded for a total of #120k in total to buy clothes and I send data of about 4gb to her weekly which she exhaust in no time b'cos she spends most part of her life on social media.

Always talking about d babes who drive Benz in Abuja,how they dress and how she wants to be famous on d social media.She even talks about her friends who sleep with politicians and earn #200k and above.

I just bought human hair of #40k for her last month.

Hmmm

I was already getting tired when she told me on my visit to Abuja two days ago that she wants an iPhone xs max.That she is tired of using her iPhone x that I just bought for her November last year.

She said two of her friends just bought their at #410k

That was her welcome demand from me.

Right now,am so exhausted with her and still love her so much which makes me feel that is d reason she is taking advantage of my love and generosity.

And why I ve been sacrificing all I can to satisfy her needs is b'cos I don't want her to lack anything or go get them from another man outside but it seems she can never be satisfied regardless of what I do.

Moreover,since I arrived Abuja she has refused to pick some calls in my presence and d excuse she gives me is that she does not want anybody to disturb her.That d calls are from her female friends but no names,just d numbers appear.

I spend bulk of all my earnings as a consultant with a construction firm on her and even tampering with my fixed deposits I ve been rolling over in d last five years just for her,to make her happy.

I now feel she is just with me for the benefits.

This is a girl I ve made up my mind that I want to marry b'cos I love her so so much but am beginning to ve a second thought,while I don't want to loose her to another man b'cos I ve sacrificed a lot of my time,emotions and finances on her.

I am still here in Abuja but so unhappy. No peace at all.

I am just tired,confused and need ur advice pls.
Where are you in Abuja, maybe you can buy me beer at the Wells Charlton..
Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by donaldtruman(op): 10:02am On Sep 08, 2019
TooGod942:
Do not give her money for the iPhone she asked for................






Then you will see that she is just their for the money nothing else
Noted
Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by Nobody: 10:02am On Sep 08, 2019
boiz2men:
Like you right grin
I've never mandated any guy to pick my bills. If given, it's appreciated. That's me though. We all have unique mentality.
Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by tiffanyfan(f): 10:08am On Sep 08, 2019
boiz2men:
Guy. . I value my money ooo but these hoes call me stingy... I don't give a Bleep
I don't know how guys like calling girls hoes when am very sure they have females around them. Am very sure guys like you are real life pussy lickers
Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by boiz2men(m): 10:10am On Sep 08, 2019
tiffanyfan:
I don't know how guys like calling girls hoes when am very sure they have females around them. Am very sure guys like you are real life pussy lickers
A hoe is someone who sees her pusssy as her office. I have no apology to anyone who has that mentality
Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by carter009(m): 10:10am On Sep 08, 2019
There's no need arguing with you bro cos you don't know me. Happy Sunday...
boiz2men:
What she is saying is you act like a sissy.

Go and read "subtle act of not giving a fucckk"

If the op story is true, you can do such to a lady
Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by boiz2men(m): 10:12am On Sep 08, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
I've never mandated any guy to pick my bills. If given, it's appreciated. That's me though. We all have unique mentality.
I noticed you are in abuja too... This could be a good time to shoot your shot cheesy
Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by missyojo(f): 10:14am On Sep 08, 2019
I don't want to believe this story is true but if it is, your gf has gone to consult jaruma for you.
grin grin
Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by Poorboy: 10:17am On Sep 08, 2019
Since the guy is in Abuja we can meet at Transcorp Hilton, Abuja. How he spends is and how he looks is what I will use to confirm the story... Meet me at Transcorp Hilton @ 3pm
Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by Nobody: 10:22am On Sep 08, 2019
boiz2men:
I noticed you are in abuja too... This could be a good time to shoot your shot cheesy
I'm good.
Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by boiz2men(m): 10:23am On Sep 08, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
I'm good.
There's better and best. Why settle for good?
Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by HendrixxAmadi(m): 10:27am On Sep 08, 2019
donaldtruman:
I swear on to u that I give her #20k in d last 6 months every Saturday to make her hair and nails.
It's difficult to believe but all u ve read is d fact.
She makes her hair weekly.
Which is about #200k monthly with her #100k pocket money and dry cleaning inclusive
Nawa o
This is so disgusting to the ears..you’re giving her all these money as in your village goddess you’re worshiping or what? It shows you’ve low self worth if you feel it’s the only thing that will make her stay with you...and is there even taxify in Abuja (makes me doubt this story tho)
Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by Poorboy: 10:32am On Sep 08, 2019
HendrixxAmadi:
Nawa o
This is so disgusting to the ears..you’re giving her all these money as in your village goddess you’re worshiping or what? It shows you’ve low self worth if you feel it’s the only thing that will make her stay with you...and is there even taxify in Abuja (makes me doubt this story tho)
taxify dey Abuja brother
Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by keryj(f): 10:36am On Sep 08, 2019
yomi007k:
grin
Begi Begi...osho free...lol
Guy not begi begi matter grin.
Me I follow dey tap into this practical.


Op, do show some love to the girls in the house, u don't have to love to do good. Its unfortunate your girlfriend you love didn't value your money but food girls like us can make good use of smiley


Also,
Please guys, help my bestie get votes by clicking the like button through the link below.

Please let's help her hustle, na beg I dey

God bless you all


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Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by Nobody: 10:53am On Sep 08, 2019
boiz2men:
There's better and best. Why settle for good?
Mr matchmaker pls shift
Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by FromZeroToHero(m): 11:02am On Sep 08, 2019
If you believe this co.ck and bull story it means you can also believe that a tortoise can fly.
Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by donaldtruman(op): 11:05am On Sep 08, 2019
FromZeroToHero:
If you believe this co.ck and bull story it means you can also believe that a tortoise can fly.
U re free to believe or not.It"s ur opinion but it is a fact.

At least I ve come to realise from d reactions thus far that I ve been extremely stupid for love.
Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by Obudupikin: 12:06pm On Sep 08, 2019
donaldtruman:
I earn at least #550k montly.
You earn this amount and you spend close to 50% of it on the vain desires of some girl?

Come on man, where's your financial discipline? How do you cater for other expenses? How can you save?

For the sake of your sanity just let the lady go. It may be hard at first, but you'd be the better for it.
Consider her a bad investment and move on.
Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by Daviddson(m): 12:06pm On Sep 08, 2019
carter009:
OK dear, goodnight....
I hope you are not a sissy man, because your use of "dear" and trying to be too cool is disgusting. Behave like a man and stop apologizing unnecessarily!
Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by Egwobobo: 12:23pm On Sep 08, 2019
You been fooled for a very long time.wake up from your slumber of love and find true love.And any girl that is ready to cripple the finance of a man is not worthy to be a good wife in the future
Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by crackhouse(m): 12:46pm On Sep 08, 2019
Pls remember to keep aside some money for your burial so u don't put your family in tight corner when u eventually die.
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