₦airaland Forum

Welcome, Guest: RegisterLoginWith GoogleTrendingRecentNew

Stats: 3,325,216 members, 8,420,858 topics. Date: Friday, 05 June 2026 at 12:46 PM

Toggle theme

Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? - Romance (5) - Nairaland

Nairaland ForumNairaland GeneralRomanceNairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? (11119 Views)

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 Reply (Go Down)

Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by carter009(m):
Lol, you think you are a man? Seriously is like you don't have any meaningful thing to do with your life,, I know you were raised from a poverty stricken family were you insult anybody and talk shit and about people you don't know,, go get a life bro, I can say whatever I want to say, don't be a sadist, look for something doing.
Daviddson:
I hope you are not a sissy man, because your use of "dear" and trying to be too cool is disgusting. Behave like a man and stop apologizing unnecessarily!
Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by Paul0930: 1:11pm On Sep 08, 2019
When last did spend on your slibings
Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by Daviddson(m): 1:32pm On Sep 08, 2019
carter009:
Lol, you think you are a man? Seriously is like you don't have any meaningful thing to do with your life,, I know you were raised from a poverty stricken family were you insult anybody and talk shit and about people you don't know,, go get a life bro, I can say whatever I want to say, don't be a sadist, look for something doing.
Busted. In other words, you've been putting up a faux personae since. You're now beginning to reveal your true self. Well, I never insulted you; I only corrected your feminine behavior. It's up to you to do something with that advice.
Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by Emperoradrian(m): 1:40pm On Sep 08, 2019
dinak1:
As a normal human being and if I am to take you as my brother, I will call you a big mugu.
Why would you do so much for someone that does nothing for you?
Tell me one thing she has ever contributed to your life.
I know you have so much cash to spend around, but guy you ain't her only money bank
SHE DOESN'T LOVE YOU.
SHE IS NOT A WIFE MATERIAL.
ask yourself these questions:
Would you be able to cope with all this rubbish did the rest of your life?
Would you like your children to be trained this way?
What will happen when you don't have money again?
My dear no stress urself trying to comment or give advice, just do like me, read comments and pass, because DAT story na big fat lie, a guy of 31 does not have all d money DAT guy is spending on d so called babe....when did he grad or start doing business DAT he would have saved up to all dis amount he mentioned here, do you know d start up salary for a fresh graduate in dis country? Do u know how many years u must have been a business man before u can have enough to lavish like d so called OP? Las las we are all here to read stories.
Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by Emperoradrian(m): 1:48pm On Sep 08, 2019
donaldtruman:
Bros,this is not jokes o.U can't expect me to send money to a stranger.
I ve been doing all these for a woman I know and love so much and want to marry,not b'cos it is convenient for me but b'cos I want to make her happy.
But unfortunately she is abusing d privilege.
My guy what business are u into, or where do you work,huh Are u part of d team helping buhari recover d stolen loot?? No one pays his gal/ wife 100k every month, 20k every week plus oda numerous expenses u mentioned , u ma calculate am na...even d federal govt. no go do am.if u spend roughly 400k on ur gal every month , how much u com d earn, how much do u spend on ur self, and how much do u save?
I hate lies o.
Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by Nobody: 1:54pm On Sep 08, 2019
donaldtruman:
I am a 31 year old guy.

I met this babe,now 25 in 2017 while she was in her final year in the University.

We started going out and I developed so much love for her.

Though I observed that she was the kind of babe who loves material things d very month we met but felt that all women love good things and comfort and nothing wrong in taking care of my woman.

Three weeks after we met,she demanded for an iPhone and I bought a brand new iPhone 6+ for her @ #180k then.

Two weeks later,she demanded for #70k to celebrate her birthday.

That she needed it for photoshoot and sit out with her friends which I gave her.

Subsequently I had spent so much on various demands ranging from school expenses, dressing, grooming and others,running into hundreds of thousands at different times.

Obviously, she is someone who loves social media so much and loves to flaunt her beauty and style as she is no doubt very pretty.

There is no day she does not take pictures to upload on facebook,Instagram and her WhatsApp status.Competing in social media stunts with her friends and others.

She is also very used to eating outside as she did not think of going to d market to say she wanted to cook for herself,let alone me.

She was always eating at fast food restaurants and I spent about 20-25k weekly on patronising fast food for her.

Sometimes,she even asked me to buy for her friends and siblings.

I also gave her 15k every weekend to make her hair and nails and #50k monthly as pocket money.

At d end of last year,she demanded for an iphone x which I bought for her at d rate of #380k.

Despite all these,I was still tolerating her until she graduated and wanted to go for NYSC.She insisted on serving in Abuja and requested that I worked her posting with #100k which I gave her and another #200k to get all her materials for camping and pocket money.

When she left camp,she insisted that she didn't want to share room with anybody, that I shld rent a self contain for her @ #700k which I did by withdrawing part of my long term savings to do and another #400k to furnish d house.

Since she resumed in her primary place of assignment she uses Taxify @ #2k daily and instead of cooking,she orders food online to be delivered to her at home.Most times,#1,500 per meal,which is at least a minimum of #3k daily.

I was giving her #70k monthly as feeding & transport but b'cos she eats out,had to demand for more pocket money and I increased it to #100k monthly which excludeds now #20k for her hair and nails weekly.

She also sends her clothes to d dry cleaners as she does not wash her clothes herself.

In the last 6 months she has demanded for a total of #120k in total to buy clothes and I send data of about 4gb to her weekly which she exhaust in no time b'cos she spends most part of her life on social media.

Always talking about d babes who drive Benz in Abuja,how they dress and how she wants to be famous on d social media.She even talks about her friends who sleep with politicians and earn #200k and above.

I just bought human hair of #40k for her last month.

Hmmm

I was already getting tired when she told me on my visit to Abuja two days ago that she wants an iPhone xs max.That she is tired of using her iPhone x that I just bought for her November last year.

She said two of her friends just bought their at #410k

That was her welcome demand from me.

Right now,am so exhausted with her and still love her so much which makes me feel that is d reason she is taking advantage of my love and generosity.

And why I ve been sacrificing all I can to satisfy her needs is b'cos I don't want her to lack anything or go get them from another man outside but it seems she can never be satisfied regardless of what I do.

Moreover,since I arrived Abuja she has refused to pick some calls in my presence and d excuse she gives me is that she does not want anybody to disturb her.That d calls are from her female friends but no names,just d numbers appear.

I spend bulk of all my earnings as a consultant with a construction firm on her and even tampering with my fixed deposits I ve been rolling over in d last five years just for her,to make her happy.

I now feel she is just with me for the benefits.

This is a girl I ve made up my mind that I want to marry b'cos I love her so so much but am beginning to ve and second thought,while I don't want to loose her to another man b'cos I ve sacrificed a lot of my time,emotions and finances on her.

I am still here in Abuja but so unhappy. No peace at all.

I am just tired,confused and need ur advice pls.
oga it seems you are not a human but a company. She is working for you. Please where can I apply. I need to work for you
Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by Onoroyiza(m): 1:55pm On Sep 08, 2019
donaldtruman:
I swear on to u that I give her #20k in d last 6 months every Saturday to make her hair and nails.
It's difficult to believe but all u ve read is d fact.
She makes her hair weekly.
Which is about #200k monthly with her #100k pocket money and dry cleaning inclusive
Guy. Sincerely speaking.
I don't believe it is true especially rich guy spending hundred of thousands. Are you a sugar daddy or what
Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by oyatz(m): 1:57pm On Sep 08, 2019
Eh en, wetin Musa no go see for gate!


donaldtruman:
Bros,this is not jokes o.U can't expect me to send money to a stranger.
I ve been doing all these for a woman I know and love so much and want to marry,not b'cos it is convenient for me but b'cos I want to make her happy.
But unfortunately she is abusing d privilege.

Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by Onoroyiza(m): 1:59pm On Sep 08, 2019
donaldtruman:
Bros,this is not jokes o.U can't expect me to send money to a stranger.
I ve been doing all these for a woman I know and love so much and want to marry,not b'cos it is convenient for me but b'cos I want to make her happy.
But unfortunately she is abusing d privilege.
Can you prove that you really did that much
Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by Pharaoh4rin(m): 2:21pm On Sep 08, 2019
donaldtruman:
I swear on to u that I give her #20k in d last 6 months every Saturday to make her hair and nails.
It's difficult to believe but all u ve read is d fact.
She makes her hair weekly.
Which is about #200k monthly with her #100k pocket money and dry cleaning inclusive
Even Beyoncé don't make her hair weekly or demand this much from hova
Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by freethesheeple(m): 2:28pm On Sep 08, 2019
donaldtruman:
I am a 31 year old guy.

I met this babe,now 25 in 2017 while she was in her final year in the University.

We started going out and I developed so much love for her.

Though I observed that she was the kind of babe who loves material things d very month we met but felt that all women love good things and comfort and nothing wrong in taking care of my woman.

Three weeks after we met,she demanded for an iPhone and I bought a brand new iPhone 6+ for her @ #180k then.

Two weeks later,she demanded for #70k to celebrate her birthday.

That she needed it for photoshoot and sit out with her friends which I gave her.

Subsequently I had spent so much on various demands ranging from school expenses, dressing, grooming and others,running into hundreds of thousands at different times.

Obviously, she is someone who loves social media so much and loves to flaunt her beauty and style as she is no doubt very pretty.

There is no day she does not take pictures to upload on facebook,Instagram and her WhatsApp status.Competing in social media stunts with her friends and others.

She is also very used to eating outside as she did not think of going to d market to say she wanted to cook for herself,let alone me.

She was always eating at fast food restaurants and I spent about 20-25k weekly on patronising fast food for her.

Sometimes,she even asked me to buy for her friends and siblings.

I also gave her 15k every weekend to make her hair and nails and #50k monthly as pocket money.

At d end of last year,she demanded for an iphone x which I bought for her at d rate of #380k.

Despite all these,I was still tolerating her until she graduated and wanted to go for NYSC.She insisted on serving in Abuja and requested that I worked her posting with #100k which I gave her and another #200k to get all her materials for camping and pocket money.

When she left camp,she insisted that she didn't want to share room with anybody, that I shld rent a self contain for her @ #700k which I did by withdrawing part of my long term savings to do and another #400k to furnish d house.

Since she resumed in her primary place of assignment she uses Taxify @ #2k daily and instead of cooking,she orders food online to be delivered to her at home.Most times,#1,500 per meal,which is at least a minimum of #3k daily.

I was giving her #70k monthly as feeding & transport but b'cos she eats out,had to demand for more pocket money and I increased it to #100k monthly which excludeds now #20k for her hair and nails weekly.

She also sends her clothes to d dry cleaners as she does not wash her clothes herself.

In the last 6 months she has demanded for a total of #120k in total to buy clothes and I send data of about 4gb to her weekly which she exhaust in no time b'cos she spends most part of her life on social media.

Always talking about d babes who drive Benz in Abuja,how they dress and how she wants to be famous on d social media.She even talks about her friends who sleep with politicians and earn #200k and above.

I just bought human hair of #40k for her last month.

Hmmm

I was already getting tired when she told me on my visit to Abuja two days ago that she wants an iPhone xs max.That she is tired of using her iPhone x that I just bought for her November last year.

She said two of her friends just bought their at #410k

That was her welcome demand from me.

Right now,am so exhausted with her and still love her so much which makes me feel that is d reason she is taking advantage of my love and generosity.

And why I ve been sacrificing all I can to satisfy her needs is b'cos I don't want her to lack anything or go get them from another man outside but it seems she can never be satisfied regardless of what I do.

Moreover,since I arrived Abuja she has refused to pick some calls in my presence and d excuse she gives me is that she does not want anybody to disturb her.That d calls are from her female friends but no names,just d numbers appear.

I spend bulk of all my earnings as a consultant with a construction firm on her and even tampering with my fixed deposits I ve been rolling over in d last five years just for her,to make her happy.

I now feel she is just with me for the benefits.

This is a girl I ve made up my mind that I want to marry b'cos I love her so so much but am beginning to ve a second thought,while I don't want to loose her to another man b'cos I ve sacrificed a lot of my time,emotions and finances on her.

I am still here in Abuja but so unhappy. No peace at all.

I am just tired,confused and need ur advice pls.
no advice for u but have a good heart to give out such money to a fellow guy who migt need ur help....
Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by Ebenaba(m): 2:31pm On Sep 08, 2019
Stories like this and other things are part of what made Jesus said 'It is Finished'
Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by naomishmuel(f): 3:06pm On Sep 08, 2019
Na wah o... This is outrageous!
Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by Neonkeon(m): 3:23pm On Sep 08, 2019
you know this song see brother..... brother wey mumu....if at all the story is true....she is not a wife material man run run run
Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by Brunosamel(m): 3:36pm On Sep 08, 2019
donaldtruman:
I am a 31 year old guy.

I met this babe,now 25 in 2017 while she was in her final year in the University.

We started going out and I developed so much love for her.

Though I observed that she was the kind of babe who loves material things d very month we met but felt that all women love good things and comfort and nothing wrong in taking care of my woman.

Three weeks after we met,she demanded for an iPhone and I bought a brand new iPhone 6+ for her @ #180k then.

Two weeks later,she demanded for #70k to celebrate her birthday.

That she needed it for photoshoot and sit out with her friends which I gave her.

Subsequently I had spent so much on various demands ranging from school expenses, dressing, grooming and others,running into hundreds of thousands at different times.

Obviously, she is someone who loves social media so much and loves to flaunt her beauty and style as she is no doubt very pretty.

There is no day she does not take pictures to upload on facebook,Instagram and her WhatsApp status.Competing in social media stunts with her friends and others.

She is also very used to eating outside as she did not think of going to d market to say she wanted to cook for herself,let alone me.

She was always eating at fast food restaurants and I spent about 20-25k weekly on patronising fast food for her.

Sometimes,she even asked me to buy for her friends and siblings.

I also gave her 15k every weekend to make her hair and nails and #50k monthly as pocket money.

At d end of last year,she demanded for an iphone x which I bought for her at d rate of #380k.

Despite all these,I was still tolerating her until she graduated and wanted to go for NYSC.She insisted on serving in Abuja and requested that I worked her posting with #100k which I gave her and another #200k to get all her materials for camping and pocket money.

When she left camp,she insisted that she didn't want to share room with anybody, that I shld rent a self contain for her @ #700k which I did by withdrawing part of my long term savings to do and another #400k to furnish d house.

Since she resumed in her primary place of assignment she uses Taxify @ #2k daily and instead of cooking,she orders food online to be delivered to her at home.Most times,#1,500 per meal,which is at least a minimum of #3k daily.

I was giving her #70k monthly as feeding & transport but b'cos she eats out,had to demand for more pocket money and I increased it to #100k monthly which excludeds now #20k for her hair and nails weekly.

She also sends her clothes to d dry cleaners as she does not wash her clothes herself.

In the last 6 months she has demanded for a total of #120k in total to buy clothes and I send data of about 4gb to her weekly which she exhaust in no time b'cos she spends most part of her life on social media.

Always talking about d babes who drive Benz in Abuja,how they dress and how she wants to be famous on d social media.She even talks about her friends who sleep with politicians and earn #200k and above.

I just bought human hair of #40k for her last month.

Hmmm

I was already getting tired when she told me on my visit to Abuja two days ago that she wants an iPhone xs max.That she is tired of using her iPhone x that I just bought for her November last year.

She said two of her friends just bought their at #410k

That was her welcome demand from me.

Right now,am so exhausted with her and still love her so much which makes me feel that is d reason she is taking advantage of my love and generosity.

And why I ve been sacrificing all I can to satisfy her needs is b'cos I don't want her to lack anything or go get them from another man outside but it seems she can never be satisfied regardless of what I do.

Moreover,since I arrived Abuja she has refused to pick some calls in my presence and d excuse she gives me is that she does not want anybody to disturb her.That d calls are from her female friends but no names,just d numbers appear.

I spend bulk of all my earnings as a consultant with a construction firm on her and even tampering with my fixed deposits I ve been rolling over in d last five years just for her,to make her happy.

I now feel she is just with me for the benefits.

This is a girl I ve made up my mind that I want to marry b'cos I love her so so much but am beginning to ve a second thought,while I don't want to loose her to another man b'cos I ve sacrificed a lot of my time,emotions and finances on her.

I am still here in Abuja but so unhappy. No peace at all.

I am just tired,confused and need ur advice pls.
I don't mind but you are a big fool, mumu! How much have you spent on your mother and siblings.... You are here posting garbage... Better set you life straight and dumb her or she will dumb you when you can no longer afford her materialistic junkies...
Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by donaldtruman(op): 4:22pm On Sep 08, 2019
Brunosamel:
I don't mind but you are a big fool, mumu! How much have you spent on your mother and siblings.... You are here posting garbage... Better set you life straight and dumb her or she will dumb you when you can no longer afford her materialistic junkies...
Hmm....Noted
Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by OmoDavido(m): 4:28pm On Sep 08, 2019
Chai that girl has scammed op with her fake love.
Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by yomi007k(m): 4:36pm On Sep 08, 2019
keryj:
Guy not begi begi matter grin.
Me I follow dey tap into this practical.


Op, do show some love to the girls in the house, u don't have to love to do good. Its unfortunate your girlfriend you love didn't value your money but food girls like us can make good use of smiley


Also,
Please guys, help my bestie get votes by clicking the like button through the link below.

Please let's help her hustle, na beg I dey

God bless you all


https://www.instagram.com/p/B2EU_u_BOyK/?igshid=ujwvwtn49f48
Practical koor...theory ni. grin.

U want to chop free money...lol...continue.
Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by Owiii(m): 4:58pm On Sep 08, 2019
donaldtruman:
I am a 31 year old guy.

I met this babe,now 25 in 2017 while she was in her final year in the University.

We started going out and I developed so much love for her.

Though I observed that she was the kind of babe who loves material things d very month we met but felt that all women love good things and comfort and nothing wrong in taking care of my woman.

Three weeks after we met,she demanded for an iPhone and I bought a brand new iPhone 6+ for her @ #180k then.

Two weeks later,she demanded for #70k to celebrate her birthday.

That she needed it for photoshoot and sit out with her friends which I gave her.

Subsequently I had spent so much on various demands ranging from school expenses, dressing, grooming and others,running into hundreds of thousands at different times.

Obviously, she is someone who loves social media so much and loves to flaunt her beauty and style as she is no doubt very pretty.

There is no day she does not take pictures to upload on facebook,Instagram and her WhatsApp status.Competing in social media stunts with her friends and others.

She is also very used to eating outside as she did not think of going to d market to say she wanted to cook for herself,let alone me.

She was always eating at fast food restaurants and I spent about 20-25k weekly on patronising fast food for her.

Sometimes,she even asked me to buy for her friends and siblings.

I also gave her 15k every weekend to make her hair and nails and #50k monthly as pocket money.

At d end of last year,she demanded for an iphone x which I bought for her at d rate of #380k.

Despite all these,I was still tolerating her until she graduated and wanted to go for NYSC.She insisted on serving in Abuja and requested that I worked her posting with #100k which I gave her and another #200k to get all her materials for camping and pocket money.

When she left camp,she insisted that she didn't want to share room with anybody, that I shld rent a self contain for her @ #700k which I did by withdrawing part of my long term savings to do and another #400k to furnish d house.

Since she resumed in her primary place of assignment she uses Taxify @ #2k daily and instead of cooking,she orders food online to be delivered to her at home.Most times,#1,500 per meal,which is at least a minimum of #3k daily.

I was giving her #70k monthly as feeding & transport but b'cos she eats out,had to demand for more pocket money and I increased it to #100k monthly which excludeds now #20k for her hair and nails weekly.

She also sends her clothes to d dry cleaners as she does not wash her clothes herself.

In the last 6 months she has demanded for a total of #120k in total to buy clothes and I send data of about 4gb to her weekly which she exhaust in no time b'cos she spends most part of her life on social media.

Always talking about d babes who drive Benz in Abuja,how they dress and how she wants to be famous on d social media.She even talks about her friends who sleep with politicians and earn #200k and above.

I just bought human hair of #40k for her last month.

Hmmm

I was already getting tired when she told me on my visit to Abuja two days ago that she wants an iPhone xs max.That she is tired of using her iPhone x that I just bought for her November last year.

She said two of her friends just bought their at #410k

That was her welcome demand from me.

Right now,am so exhausted with her and still love her so much which makes me feel that is d reason she is taking advantage of my love and generosity.

And why I ve been sacrificing all I can to satisfy her needs is b'cos I don't want her to lack anything or go get them from another man outside but it seems she can never be satisfied regardless of what I do.

Moreover,since I arrived Abuja she has refused to pick some calls in my presence and d excuse she gives me is that she does not want anybody to disturb her.That d calls are from her female friends but no names,just d numbers appear.

I spend bulk of all my earnings as a consultant with a construction firm on her and even tampering with my fixed deposits I ve been rolling over in d last five years just for her,to make her happy.

I now feel she is just with me for the benefits.

This is a girl I ve made up my mind that I want to marry b'cos I love her so so much but am beginning to ve a second thought,while I don't want to loose her to another man b'cos I ve sacrificed a lot of my time,emotions and finances on her.

I am still here in Abuja but so unhappy. No peace at all.

I am just tired,confused and need ur advice pls.
I give you an assignment to do and her true colours will come out. You can't buy love with money. You are over spending on her. Just tell her you lost your job and there is no money and just her reaction. Do you spend that kind of money on your parents and siblings or even on yourself?
Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by dannybrasky(m): 5:09pm On Sep 08, 2019
If your story is true,then you are the greatest mumu of all time. What happens when you dont have the cash to float her boat any longer?? The moment you run out of cash,she would jump ship instantly.

Let me ask u, Do you still have a mother?
If yes,If you haven't taken good care of your mum as much as you have or sacrificed so much for your mother as much as you have for this your girl,then shame on u.

Retrace your steps b4 you loose yourself trying to please a kitten.

Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by jedisco(m): 5:20pm On Sep 08, 2019
@donaldtruman

A quick question... Is this your first relationship?
Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by TYglobal: 5:49pm On Sep 08, 2019
Oh boy....where do ladies get men like you fromhuh.....oh Gawd I need one in my life.
Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by donaldtruman(op): 5:57pm On Sep 08, 2019
jedisco:
@donaldtruman

A quick question... Is this your first relationship?
Not at all....I ve had 3 previous serious relationship.
Is just that I don't know how I ve come to love this girl that I can't say no to her for anything and do all I can,even go hungry to make her happy.

Besides,I had it in mind to marry her but it is obvious that I ve been stupid based on d reactions coming in here.

But d question I keep asking myself is how do other single girls who do not even have a job afford their classy lifestyle? Like some of her friends who also ve boyfriends and just bought phones for #400k?

If it is not their boyfriends that bought it for them,is it that all these other single girls in Nig are all prostitutes.

Why am asking this question is b:cos d reactions here shows that I seem to be d only man in this country who has spent so much on a woman or did what no man has ever done.
Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by TYglobal: 6:05pm On Sep 08, 2019
donaldtruman:
Not at all....I ve had 3 previous serious relationship.
Is just that I don't know how I ve come to love this girl that I can't say no to her for anything and do all I can,even go hungry to make her happy.

Besides,I had it in mind to marry her but it is obvious that I ve been stupid based on d reactions coming in here.

But d question I keep asking myself is how do other single girls who do not even have a job afford their classy lifestyle? Like some of her friends who just bought phones for #400k?

If it is not their boyfriends that bought it for them,is it that all these other single girls in Nig are all prostitutes.

Why am asking this question is b:cos d reactions here shows that I seem to be d only man in this country who has spent so much on a woman or did what no man has ever done.
Don't be fooled oga, any girl that is not working and spends a lot is a classified olosho even your so-called girlfriend that's if this your story is even real. And to your question, no you're not the only man doing so, there are other men that have the money and spend it on their woman but like this is unreasonable, money that could open a big business or something better.
Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by donaldtruman(op): 6:10pm On Sep 08, 2019
TYglobal:
Don't be fooled oga, any girl that is not working and spends a lot is a classified olosho even your so-called girlfriend that's if this your story is even real. And to your question, no you're not the only man doing so, there are other men that have the money and spend it on their woman but like this is unreasonable, money that could open a big business or something better.
Am glad u acknowledge d fact that am not d only man who does such.

Besides,I can't coerce u to believe my plight but all I ve said here is d fact.

D only difference here is that I didn't mention names.
Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by saintsylve(m): 6:17pm On Sep 08, 2019
donaldtruman:
Hmm....Noted
I like your responses and how you are able to control your emotions on the insults so far.

Just let the lady go, find a responsible lady. Also, don't love the physical appearance alone but characters .
Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by hify9935(f): 6:19pm On Sep 08, 2019
Fountainofyouth:
Blaaaaaaaaaa, no lady makes hair every weekend no matter how rich she is, so this fiction is horseshiit, but let's say we believe you, means you spent close to 2 million Naira on a girlfriend, not bad, for a guy on nairaland.
lol @for a guy on nairaland. After all the awareness! Hmmmn.
Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by donaldtruman(op): 6:27pm On Sep 08, 2019
saintsylve:
I like your responses and how you are able to control your emotions on the insults so far.

Just let the lady go, find a responsible lady. Also, don't love the physical appearance alone but characters .
Thanks bro..
D insults and criticisms so far have been helpful though.

I am developing a tough skin now to deal with d situation.
Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by duduade(m): 6:38pm On Sep 08, 2019
donaldtruman:
I am a 31 year old guy.

I met this babe,now 25 in 2017 while she was in her final year in the University.

We started going out and I developed so much love for her.

Though I observed that she was the kind of babe who loves material things d very month we met but felt that all women love good things and comfort and nothing wrong in taking care of my woman.

Three weeks after we met,she demanded for an iPhone and I bought a brand new iPhone 6+ for her @ #180k then.

Two weeks later,she demanded for #70k to celebrate her birthday.

That she needed it for photoshoot and sit out with her friends which I gave her.

Subsequently I had spent so much on various demands ranging from school expenses, dressing, grooming and others,running into hundreds of thousands at different times.

Obviously, she is someone who loves social media so much and loves to flaunt her beauty and style as she is no doubt very pretty.

There is no day she does not take pictures to upload on facebook,Instagram and her WhatsApp status.Competing in social media stunts with her friends and others.

She is also very used to eating outside as she did not think of going to d market to say she wanted to cook for herself,let alone me.

She was always eating at fast food restaurants and I spent about 20-25k weekly on patronising fast food for her.

Sometimes,she even asked me to buy for her friends and siblings.

I also gave her 15k every weekend to make her hair and nails and #50k monthly as pocket money.

At d end of last year,she demanded for an iphone x which I bought for her at d rate of #380k.

Despite all these,I was still tolerating her until she graduated and wanted to go for NYSC.She insisted on serving in Abuja and requested that I worked her posting with #100k which I gave her and another #200k to get all her materials for camping and pocket money.

When she left camp,she insisted that she didn't want to share room with anybody, that I shld rent a self contain for her @ #700k which I did by withdrawing part of my long term savings to do and another #400k to furnish d house.

Since she resumed in her primary place of assignment she uses Taxify @ #2k daily and instead of cooking,she orders food online to be delivered to her at home.Most times,#1,500 per meal,which is at least a minimum of #3k daily.

I was giving her #70k monthly as feeding & transport but b'cos she eats out,had to demand for more pocket money and I increased it to #100k monthly which excludeds now #20k for her hair and nails weekly.

She also sends her clothes to d dry cleaners as she does not wash her clothes herself.

In the last 6 months she has demanded for a total of #120k in total to buy clothes and I send data of about 4gb to her weekly which she exhaust in no time b'cos she spends most part of her life on social media.

Always talking about d babes who drive Benz in Abuja,how they dress and how she wants to be famous on d social media.She even talks about her friends who sleep with politicians and earn #200k and above.

I just bought human hair of #40k for her last month.

Hmmm

I was already getting tired when she told me on my visit to Abuja two days ago that she wants an iPhone xs max.That she is tired of using her iPhone x that I just bought for her November last year.

She said two of her friends just bought their at #410k

That was her welcome demand from me.

Right now,am so exhausted with her and still love her so much which makes me feel that is d reason she is taking advantage of my love and generosity.

And why I ve been sacrificing all I can to satisfy her needs is b'cos I don't want her to lack anything or go get them from another man outside but it seems she can never be satisfied regardless of what I do.

Moreover,since I arrived Abuja she has refused to pick some calls in my presence and d excuse she gives me is that she does not want anybody to disturb her.That d calls are from her female friends but no names,just d numbers appear.

I spend bulk of all my earnings as a consultant with a construction firm on her and even tampering with my fixed deposits I ve been rolling over in d last five years just for her,to make her happy.

I now feel she is just with me for the benefits.

This is a girl I ve made up my mind that I want to marry b'cos I love her so so much but am beginning to ve a second thought,while I don't want to loose her to another man b'cos I ve sacrificed a lot of my time,emotions and finances on her.

I am still here in Abuja but so unhappy. No peace at all.

I am just tired,confused and need ur advice pls.
Please move on..

IT might hurt.. Yes it will hurt..

TO get the desired peace you need you need to leave her.. They are responsible girls out there.. Many infact...
Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by SilverG33k(m): 6:50pm On Sep 08, 2019
If you think this story is true, then you're just as dumb as the OP

even if you have millions in your account, you were smart enough to have them, you should be smart enough to know how to spend them, if the figures you're punching on your keyboard is actually true, you won't even be dating a 25yr old tbh, you'd be married or preparing for marriage

I can bet this guy doesn't have shiit, MR OP, show a screenshot of your last debit alert, attention seeking scum
Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by SilverG33k(m): 6:54pm On Sep 08, 2019
Abi this OP is mad ni? This is the reason I don't come to nairaland again, I stay on twitter and I think I would be parking my loads soon, what kind of story is this, gawd I wish this was on twitter, you'd have received the yab of your life
Re: Nairalanders,is This A Wife Material??? by osinimegaciousi: 7:06pm On Sep 08, 2019
Mehn you sitting on a time bomb, Biko no use your hand dig your grave... Japaa!!!!! Else....odikwarisky
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 Reply

Nairalanders Is There Something Fishy??? Your OpinionNigerian Man Is Searching For This Kind Of 'wife Material' To Marry (photos)Use These 20 Tests To Know If She Is Wife Material - Joro Olumofin234

Look at the Rubbish I'm Cooking Because of No Money [Picture]My Friend Is Dating A Man From Nigeria And Considering Marrying Him.What Qualities Do Guys Expect From Their Partners?