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donaldtruman:
Not at all....I ve had 3 previous serious relationship.
Is just that I don't know how I ve come to love this girl that I can't say no to her for anything and do all I can,even go hungry to make her happy.

Besides,I had it in mind to marry her but it is obvious that I ve been stupid based on d reactions coming in here.

But d question I keep asking myself is how do other single girls who do not even have a job afford their classy lifestyle? Like some of her friends who also ve boyfriends and just bought phones for #400k?

If it is not their boyfriends that bought it for them,is it that all these other single girls in Nig are all prostitutes.

Why am asking this question is b:cos d reactions here shows that I seem to be d only man in this country who has spent so much on a woman or did what no man has ever done.

For you to open a thread about it means that you are not comfortable with the spending.
Anyway, I don't know if this story is true sha. But that your job that is paying you that huge amount that you can spend lavishly on someone else. Biko, can you link me to the job?
I promise I won't spend stupidly on a man. I too want to be able to be giving my mother 15k weekly for hair, 25k weekly for eating out. and I want to be able to buy her IPhone.

If this story is true, leave that girl . Do it this very moment. If not you will end up in face me and face you house, drinking garri

MrBrownJay1:
Bro, when is part 2 of this Nollywood super story is coming out....?!

U can say this again!!

sedutrice:
For you to open a thread about it means that you are not comfortable with the spending.
Anyway, I don't know if this story is true sha. But that your job that is paying you that huge amount that you can spend lavishly on someone else. Biko, can you link me to the job?
I promise I won't spend stupidly on a man. I too want to be able to be giving my mother 15k weekly for hair, 25k weekly for eating out. And I don't like seeing that techno phone with her, I want to be able to buy her IPhone.

If this story is true, leave that girl . Do it this very moment. If not you will end up in face me and face you house, drinking garri

Hmm

See broda wey mumu

You forming big boy she will drain your life
all the money you giving her she is giving it to
the guy that beats, maltreat her and doesn't show
her love you love a girl too much is a BIG problem.
When she is finish with u she jump to the next guy

donaldtruman:
Not at all....I ve had 3 previous serious relationship.
Is just that I don't know how I ve come to love this girl that I can't say no to her for anything and do all I can,even go hungry to make her happy.

Besides,I had it in mind to marry her but it is obvious that I ve been stupid based on d reactions coming in here.

But d question I keep asking myself is how do other single girls who do not even have a job afford their classy lifestyle? Like some of her friends who also ve boyfriends and just bought phones for #400k?

If it is not their boyfriends that bought it for them,is it that all these other single girls in Nig are all prostitutes.

Why am asking this question is b:cos d reactions here shows that I seem to be d only man in this country who has spent so much on a woman or did what no man has ever done.

To answer your question, most young dudes don't spend crazily on a lady. It's more common with older men who have only money to offer. People can get money from different sources but other jobless ladies using expensive gadgets shouldn't be your excuse for what's going on in your life. Fact is I've noticed that dudes with more money spend relatively less on ladies than their less bouyant counterparts as ladies tend to stick if they see you're loaded and have a clear plan for life even if you don't spend much on them

From what you said, the girl is milking you.Her utterances show she wouldn't be with you if your cash sources dwindle and she's likely sleeping around given the company she keeps too.

I've once seen someone do something similar but on a much smaller scale and the end result was devastating for him. The girl simply saw him as weak. Once a lady begins to see you as weak, you'd loose any respect she has for you.

Don't be fooled by her beauty. There are more beautiful ladies out there. Call of the relationship, cut your losses and move on!

BTW, don't you think your expenditure seems over the top moreso given your job role which may not have long-term security? I make over double of what you earn but haven't and don't see myself spending anything remotely close to that on someone I'm dating. You have to invest for your future.


P.S I'm still trying to wrap my head around your story and wondering if It's really true

Just another fool who thinks he's in love, until she tells him she's pregnant.

can you post a screenshot of at least a bank transfer history on your phone and blur the names part of it

donaldtruman:
I am a 31 year old guy.

I met this babe,now 25 in 2017 while she was in her final year in the University.

We started going out and I developed so much love for her.

Though I observed that she was the kind of babe who loves material things d very month we met but felt that all women love good things and comfort and nothing wrong in taking care of my woman.

Three weeks after we met,she demanded for an iPhone and I bought a brand new iPhone 6+ for her @ #180k then.

Two weeks later,she demanded for #70k to celebrate her birthday.

That she needed it for photoshoot and sit out with her friends which I gave her.

Subsequently I had spent so much on various demands ranging from school expenses, dressing, grooming and others,running into hundreds of thousands at different times.

Obviously, she is someone who loves social media so much and loves to flaunt her beauty and style as she is no doubt very pretty.

There is no day she does not take pictures to upload on facebook,Instagram and her WhatsApp status.Competing in social media stunts with her friends and others.

She is also very used to eating outside as she did not think of going to d market to say she wanted to cook for herself,let alone me.

She was always eating at fast food restaurants and I spent about 20-25k weekly on patronising fast food for her.

Sometimes,she even asked me to buy for her friends and siblings.

I also gave her 15k every weekend to make her hair and nails and #50k monthly as pocket money.

At d end of last year,she demanded for an iphone x which I bought for her at d rate of #380k.

Despite all these,I was still tolerating her until she graduated and wanted to go for NYSC.She insisted on serving in Abuja and requested that I worked her posting with #100k which I gave her and another #200k to get all her materials for camping and pocket money.

When she left camp,she insisted that she didn't want to share room with anybody, that I shld rent a self contain for her @ #700k which I did by withdrawing part of my long term savings to do and another #400k to furnish d house.

Since she resumed in her primary place of assignment she uses Taxify @ #2k daily and instead of cooking,she orders food online to be delivered to her at home.Most times,#1,500 per meal,which is at least a minimum of #3k daily.

I was giving her #70k monthly as feeding & transport but b'cos she eats out,had to demand for more pocket money and I increased it to #100k monthly which excludeds now #20k for her hair and nails weekly.

She also sends her clothes to d dry cleaners as she does not wash her clothes herself.

In the last 6 months she has demanded for a total of #120k in total to buy clothes and I send data of about 4gb to her weekly which she exhaust in no time b'cos she spends most part of her life on social media.

Always talking about d babes who drive Benz in Abuja,how they dress and how she wants to be famous on d social media.She even talks about her friends who sleep with politicians and earn #200k and above.

I just bought human hair of #40k for her last month.

Hmmm

I was already getting tired when she told me on my visit to Abuja two days ago that she wants an iPhone xs max.That she is tired of using her iPhone x that I just bought for her November last year.

She said two of her friends just bought their at #410k

That was her welcome demand from me.

Right now,am so exhausted with her and still love her so much which makes me feel that is d reason she is taking advantage of my love and generosity.

And why I ve been sacrificing all I can to satisfy her needs is b'cos I don't want her to lack anything or go get them from another man outside but it seems she can never be satisfied regardless of what I do.

Moreover,since I arrived Abuja she has refused to pick some calls in my presence and d excuse she gives me is that she does not want anybody to disturb her.That d calls are from her female friends but no names,just d numbers appear.

I spend bulk of all my earnings as a consultant with a construction firm on her and even tampering with my fixed deposits I ve been rolling over in d last five years just for her,to make her happy.

I now feel she is just with me for the benefits.

This is a girl I ve made up my mind that I want to marry b'cos I love her so so much but am beginning to ve a second thought,while I don't want to loose her to another man b'cos I ve sacrificed a lot of my time,emotions and finances on her.

I am still here in Abuja but so unhappy. No peace at all.

I am just tired,confused and need ur advice pls.

donaldtruman:
I am a 31 year old guy.

I met this babe,now 25 in 2017 while she was in her final year in the University.

We started going out and I developed so much love for her.

Though I observed that she was the kind of babe who loves material things d very month we met but felt that all women love good things and comfort and nothing wrong in taking care of my woman.

Three weeks after we met,she demanded for an iPhone and I bought a brand new iPhone 6+ for her @ #180k then.

Two weeks later,she demanded for #70k to celebrate her birthday.

That she needed it for photoshoot and sit out with her friends which I gave her.

Subsequently I had spent so much on various demands ranging from school expenses, dressing, grooming and others,running into hundreds of thousands at different times.

Obviously, she is someone who loves social media so much and loves to flaunt her beauty and style as she is no doubt very pretty.

There is no day she does not take pictures to upload on facebook,Instagram and her WhatsApp status.Competing in social media stunts with her friends and others.

She is also very used to eating outside as she did not think of going to d market to say she wanted to cook for herself,let alone me.

She was always eating at fast food restaurants and I spent about 20-25k weekly on patronising fast food for her.

Sometimes,she even asked me to buy for her friends and siblings.

I also gave her 15k every weekend to make her hair and nails and #50k monthly as pocket money.

At d end of last year,she demanded for an iphone x which I bought for her at d rate of #380k.

Despite all these,I was still tolerating her until she graduated and wanted to go for NYSC.She insisted on serving in Abuja and requested that I worked her posting with #100k which I gave her and another #200k to get all her materials for camping and pocket money.

When she left camp,she insisted that she didn't want to share room with anybody, that I shld rent a self contain for her @ #700k which I did by withdrawing part of my long term savings to do and another #400k to furnish d house.

Since she resumed in her primary place of assignment she uses Taxify @ #2k daily and instead of cooking,she orders food online to be delivered to her at home.Most times,#1,500 per meal,which is at least a minimum of #3k daily.

I was giving her #70k monthly as feeding & transport but b'cos she eats out,had to demand for more pocket money and I increased it to #100k monthly which excludeds now #20k for her hair and nails weekly.

She also sends her clothes to d dry cleaners as she does not wash her clothes herself.

In the last 6 months she has demanded for a total of #120k in total to buy clothes and I send data of about 4gb to her weekly which she exhaust in no time b'cos she spends most part of her life on social media.

Always talking about d babes who drive Benz in Abuja,how they dress and how she wants to be famous on d social media.She even talks about her friends who sleep with politicians and earn #200k and above.

I just bought human hair of #40k for her last month.

Hmmm

I was already getting tired when she told me on my visit to Abuja two days ago that she wants an iPhone xs max.That she is tired of using her iPhone x that I just bought for her November last year.

She said two of her friends just bought their at #410k

That was her welcome demand from me.

Right now,am so exhausted with her and still love her so much which makes me feel that is d reason she is taking advantage of my love and generosity.

And why I ve been sacrificing all I can to satisfy her needs is b'cos I don't want her to lack anything or go get them from another man outside but it seems she can never be satisfied regardless of what I do.

Moreover,since I arrived Abuja she has refused to pick some calls in my presence and d excuse she gives me is that she does not want anybody to disturb her.That d calls are from her female friends but no names,just d numbers appear.

I spend bulk of all my earnings as a consultant with a construction firm on her and even tampering with my fixed deposits I ve been rolling over in d last five years just for her,to make her happy.

I now feel she is just with me for the benefits.

This is a girl I ve made up my mind that I want to marry b'cos I love her so so much but am beginning to ve a second thought,while I don't want to loose her to another man b'cos I ve sacrificed a lot of my time,emotions and finances on her.

I am still here in Abuja but so unhappy. No peace at all.

I am just tired,confused and need ur advice pls.

Wow! C'mon man, nothing could be clearer than all the signs she has shown. Mhen, you are exactly what most girls pray, fast, fantasize and day dream about, yet you are being treated like a garbage bag by some girl who has been brainwashed by wayward companies

My advice for you bro, kindly go out more with friends to cool places (not clubs o) , but places you are likely to meet elegant and refined ladies who aren't desperate like this lady.

PS: Please leave her before she drains you of your sanity

richard870:
Wow! C'mon man, nothing could be clearer than all the signs she has shown. Mhen, you are exactly what most girls pray, fast, fantasize and day dream about, yet you are being treated like a garbage bag by some girl who has been brainwashed by wayward companies

My advice for you bro, kindly go out more with friends to cool places (not clubs o) , but places you are likely to meet elegant and refined ladies who aren't desperate like this lady.

PS: Please leave her before she drains you of your sanity

Noted..Thanks Bro

Bros you be proper fool for love. Who even tell you say the girl get love for you? You no get mama abi sisters? How much you dey give ur mama? I no believe say 9ja guy go still fall mugu like this unless Juju join am.

donaldtruman:
Noted..Thanks Bro

My pleasure!

lordU3:
Bros you be proper fool for love. Who even tell you say the girl get love for you? You no get mama abi sisters? How much you dey give ur mama? I no believe say 9ja guy go still fall mugu like this unless Juju join am.

Hmm

jedisco:
To answer your question, most young dudes don't spend crazily on a lady. It's more common with older men who have only money to offer. People can get money from different sources but other jobless ladies using expensive gadgets shouldn't be your excuse for what's going on in your life. Fact is I've noticed that dudes with more money spend relatively less on ladies than their less bouyant counterparts as ladies tend to stick if they see you're loaded and have a clear plan for life even if you don't spend much on them

From what you said, the girl is milking you.Her utterances show she wouldn't be with you if your cash sources dwindle and she's likely sleeping around given the company she keeps too.

I've once seen someone do something similar but on a much smaller scale and the end result was devastating for him. The girl simply saw him as weak. Once a lady begins to see you as weak, you'd loose any respect she has for you.

Don't be fooled by her beauty. There are more beautiful ladies out there. Call of the relationship, cut your losses and move on!

BTW, don't you think your expenditure seems over the top moreso given your job role which may not have long-term security? I make over double of what you earn but haven't and don't see myself spending anything remotely close to that on someone I'm dating. You have to invest for your future.


P.S I'm still trying to wrap my head around your story and wondering if It's really true

Appreciated

This gotta be some kinda of joke.

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donaldtruman:
I earn at least #550k montly.

A fool and his money, are soon parted... Thomas Tusser

can this story be true? You should have given a little hint about her family background and her upbringing. Anyways, how come you did not buy her a washing machine? Or she will not accept to wash with it? How about her learning to cook? Teach her how to cook or you get a cook to teach her. If she refuses to use washing machine for laundry and also refuses to learn how to cook, then marrying her is risky.

This guy is waiting for wedding time to display

Bad guy

donaldtruman:
I am a 31 year old guy.

I met this babe,now 25 in 2017 while she was in her final year in the University.

We started going out and I developed so much love for her.

Though I observed that she was the kind of babe who loves material things d very month we met but felt that all women love good things and comfort and nothing wrong in taking care of my woman.

Three weeks after we met,she demanded for an iPhone and I bought a brand new iPhone 6+ for her @ #180k then.

Two weeks later,she demanded for #70k to celebrate her birthday.

That she needed it for photoshoot and sit out with her friends which I gave her.

Subsequently I had spent so much on various demands ranging from school expenses, dressing, grooming and others,running into hundreds of thousands at different times.

Obviously, she is someone who loves social media so much and loves to flaunt her beauty and style as she is no doubt very pretty.

There is no day she does not take pictures to upload on facebook,Instagram and her WhatsApp status.Competing in social media stunts with her friends and others.

She is also very used to eating outside as she did not think of going to d market to say she wanted to cook for herself,let alone me.

She was always eating at fast food restaurants and I spent about 20-25k weekly on patronising fast food for her.

Sometimes,she even asked me to buy for her friends and siblings.

I also gave her 15k every weekend to make her hair and nails and #50k monthly as pocket money.

At d end of last year,she demanded for an iphone x which I bought for her at d rate of #380k.

Despite all these,I was still tolerating her until she graduated and wanted to go for NYSC.She insisted on serving in Abuja and requested that I worked her posting with #100k which I gave her and another #200k to get all her materials for camping and pocket money.

When she left camp,she insisted that she didn't want to share room with anybody, that I shld rent a self contain for her @ #700k which I did by withdrawing part of my long term savings to do and another #400k to furnish d house.

Since she resumed in her primary place of assignment she uses Taxify @ #2k daily and instead of cooking,she orders food online to be delivered to her at home.Most times,#1,500 per meal,which is at least a minimum of #3k daily.

I was giving her #70k monthly as feeding & transport but b'cos she eats out,had to demand for more pocket money and I increased it to #100k monthly which excludeds now #20k for her hair and nails weekly.

She also sends her clothes to d dry cleaners as she does not wash her clothes herself.

In the last 6 months she has demanded for a total of #120k in total to buy clothes and I send data of about 4gb to her weekly which she exhaust in no time b'cos she spends most part of her life on social media.

Always talking about d babes who drive Benz in Abuja,how they dress and how she wants to be famous on d social media.She even talks about her friends who sleep with politicians and earn #200k and above.

I just bought human hair of #40k for her last month.

Hmmm

I was already getting tired when she told me on my visit to Abuja two days ago that she wants an iPhone xs max.That she is tired of using her iPhone x that I just bought for her November last year.

She said two of her friends just bought their at #410k

That was her welcome demand from me.

Right now,am so exhausted with her and still love her so much which makes me feel that is d reason she is taking advantage of my love and generosity.

And why I ve been sacrificing all I can to satisfy her needs is b'cos I don't want her to lack anything or go get them from another man outside but it seems she can never be satisfied regardless of what I do.

Moreover,since I arrived Abuja she has refused to pick some calls in my presence and d excuse she gives me is that she does not want anybody to disturb her.That d calls are from her female friends but no names,just d numbers appear.

I spend bulk of all my earnings as a consultant with a construction firm on her and even tampering with my fixed deposits I ve been rolling over in d last five years just for her,to make her happy.

I now feel she is just with me for the benefits.

This is a girl I ve made up my mind that I want to marry b'cos I love her so so much but am beginning to ve a second thought,while I don't want to loose her to another man b'cos I ve sacrificed a lot of my time,emotions and finances on her.

I am still here in Abuja but so unhappy. No peace at all.

I am just tired,confused and need ur advice pls.

it's very hard to believe this even if you were jazzed. This is too extreme

jedisco:
To answer your question, most young dudes don't spend crazily on a lady. It's more common with older men who have only money to offer. People can get money from different sources but other jobless ladies using expensive gadgets shouldn't be your excuse for what's going on in your life. Fact is I've noticed that dudes with more money spend relatively less on ladies than their less bouyant counterparts as ladies tend to stick if they see you're loaded and have a clear plan for life even if you don't spend much on them

From what you said, the girl is milking you.Her utterances show she wouldn't be with you if your cash sources dwindle and she's likely sleeping around given the company she keeps too.

I've once seen someone do something similar but on a much smaller scale and the end result was devastating for him. The girl simply saw him as weak. Once a lady begins to see you as weak, you'd loose any respect she has for you.

Don't be fooled by her beauty. There are more beautiful ladies out there. Call of the relationship, cut your losses and move on!

BTW, don't you think your expenditure seems over the top moreso given your job role which may not have long-term security? I make over double of what you earn but haven't and don't see myself spending anything remotely close to that on someone I'm dating. You have to invest for your future.


P.S I'm still trying to wrap my head around your story and wondering if It's really true

I'm telling you bro. I still can't believe this even if he was jazzed

[advice pls.[/quote]If all this things u said is through, it means she is a run girls coded ashawooo.i will advice u quite her . Try to go for holidays in Ghana or Cameroon . Which just 300k you will find true love there and marriage . Nigerian girls are scammers

I stopped reading when I saw where the poster said he gives her 20-25k weekly for her feeding.


In Emmanuella's voice 'hunku u can lai ooo'

Nobody spends this foolishly, not especially a young hustling man. Who spends 15k on hair and nails every week? I will only believe this story if you said you were a politician.

Its ur fault. What u have started u most finish cos u saw the red flags but u ignored all. Let me pray for u....THE MONEY WEY U GETTI OO NO GO FINISH O Amen. U re a made man I envy u but if u carry on like this na u sabi. Something most kill a man anyway.

donaldtruman:
We ve not been 2getger since she moved to Abuja.I ve visited her about three times.
Besides,even when we were 2gether in Akure,we didn't ve sex to d extreme but occasionally as I was not after sex but sincerely love her.Not sex.Otherwise, I would ve dumped her long time ago

Where in akure, did you guys live?

This kind of lady are only physically beautiful with nothing upstairs! You will be surprised she can't even take care of a home talkless of building one with you!

@Op, in all sincerity, when last did you buy wears or change phones for your mother or sisters? Or even take them out?

Come to think of it? How many houses have you built? And how many landed properties have you acquired?

Ok, let's just assume you are not cut-out to stuffs like houses and landed properties, how many other investments do you have?

Let me tell you something Op, you see this downward journey you have launched yourself in, ehen? Don't you ever mention your village people when you begin to face the repercussions. How can you be so extravagant to a woman that's not even your wife? A woman you can see has obviously converted you to her ATM?

You think Love can be purchased, abi? If you marry that lady, READ MY LIPS, she will lead you to rob or engage in money rituals when there's a little shake-up in your finance.

You even have the mind to terminate your fixed deposit in order to meet her insatiable needs? Who does that? GOD FORBIDS abeg!

Everything done in excess is bad. You better retrace your steps and make haste while the sun shines to avoid future regret. Any woman that genuinely loves you will never milk you dry and she'll never keep comparing herself to her other wayward friends.

"To be forewarned, is to be forearmed. A stitch in time, they say, saves nine".

BE WISE!

Escabado:
[advice pls.

If all this things u said is through, it means she is a run girls coded ashawooo.i will advice u quite her . Try to go for holidays in Ghana or Cameroon . Which just 300k you will find true love there and marriage . Nigerian girls are scammers

You are using this medium to advertise your country women, abi?

You have dated all Nigerian girls to arrive at that conclusion? Oga, respect yourself.

donaldtruman:
I earn at least #550k montly.

Can you just set aside N400 every month as your savings and report back after 12 months, to tell us how much that is?

Even you will be shocked at how much you have already lavished/ wasted on that lady.

This is the best time to save for your future children, Oga. Stop been wasteful.

Give to your girlfriend, but don't make yourself a burden bearer to her.

You are too relaxed on your job. Remember things change either way. Be visionary, be prudent and be careful. Cut down on your expenses.

donaldtruman:
Hmm....Noted

pretend like you are broke to your babe and see how reactions, you will see the answers to your question

Pharmtj:
pretend like you are broke to your babe and see how reactions, you will see the answers to your question

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donaldtruman:
I am a 31 year old guy.

I met this babe,now 25 in 2017 while she was in her final year in the University.

We started going out and I developed so much love for her.

Though I observed that she was the kind of babe who loves material things d very month we met but felt that all women love good things and comfort and nothing wrong in taking care of my woman.

Three weeks after we met,she demanded for an iPhone and I bought a brand new iPhone 6+ for her @ #180k then.

Two weeks later,she demanded for #70k to celebrate her birthday.

That she needed it for photoshoot and sit out with her friends which I gave her.

Subsequently I had spent so much on various demands ranging from school expenses, dressing, grooming and others,running into hundreds of thousands at different times.

Obviously, she is someone who loves social media so much and loves to flaunt her beauty and style as she is no doubt very pretty.

There is no day she does not take pictures to upload on facebook,Instagram and her WhatsApp status.Competing in social media stunts with her friends and others.

She is also very used to eating outside as she did not think of going to d market to say she wanted to cook for herself,let alone me.

She was always eating at fast food restaurants and I spent about 20-25k weekly on patronising fast food for her.

Sometimes,she even asked me to buy for her friends and siblings.

I also gave her 15k every weekend to make her hair and nails and #50k monthly as pocket money.

At d end of last year,she demanded for an iphone x which I bought for her at d rate of #380k.

Despite all these,I was still tolerating her until she graduated and wanted to go for NYSC.She insisted on serving in Abuja and requested that I worked her posting with #100k which I gave her and another #200k to get all her materials for camping and pocket money.

When she left camp,she insisted that she didn't want to share room with anybody, that I shld rent a self contain for her @ #700k which I did by withdrawing part of my long term savings to do and another #400k to furnish d house.

Since she resumed in her primary place of assignment she uses Taxify @ #2k daily and instead of cooking,she orders food online to be delivered to her at home.Most times,#1,500 per meal,which is at least a minimum of #3k daily.

I was giving her #70k monthly as feeding & transport but b'cos she eats out,had to demand for more pocket money and I increased it to #100k monthly which excludeds now #20k for her hair and nails weekly.

She also sends her clothes to d dry cleaners as she does not wash her clothes herself.

In the last 6 months she has demanded for a total of #120k in total to buy clothes and I send data of about 4gb to her weekly which she exhaust in no time b'cos she spends most part of her life on social media.

Always talking about d babes who drive Benz in Abuja,how they dress and how she wants to be famous on d social media.She even talks about her friends who sleep with politicians and earn #200k and above.

I just bought human hair of #40k for her last month.

Hmmm

I was already getting tired when she told me on my visit to Abuja two days ago that she wants an iPhone xs max.That she is tired of using her iPhone x that I just bought for her November last year.

She said two of her friends just bought their at #410k

That was her welcome demand from me.

Right now,am so exhausted with her and still love her so much which makes me feel that is d reason she is taking advantage of my love and generosity.

And why I ve been sacrificing all I can to satisfy her needs is b'cos I don't want her to lack anything or go get them from another man outside but it seems she can never be satisfied regardless of what I do.

Moreover,since I arrived Abuja she has refused to pick some calls in my presence and d excuse she gives me is that she does not want anybody to disturb her.That d calls are from her female friends but no names,just d numbers appear.

I spend bulk of all my earnings as a consultant with a construction firm on her and even tampering with my fixed deposits I ve been rolling over in d last five years just for her,to make her happy.

I now feel she is just with me for the benefits.

This is a girl I ve made up my mind that I want to marry b'cos I love her so so much but am beginning to ve a second thought,while I don't want to loose her to another man b'cos I ve sacrificed a lot of my time,emotions and finances on her.

I am still here in Abuja but so unhappy. No peace at all.

I am just tired,confused and need ur advice pls.

this is not good..... I warn you bro, please leave her, stay away from such a woman, she will ruin your life in the future if you marry her........ am sure she has eyes on other men since she can't be content, moreover, for her to be talking about her friends sleeping with other men to get cash shows that she wouldn't mind taking that evil path.......

My candid advice is this -- leave her, God will bring a better person that will care about you , not just a materialistic lady, someone that will even assist you to get to greater heights..... all this happening is a red light...,...

Bro , run o, run fast, forget the love cash etc you have spent on her......oh yeah!! you love her, bro DE-LOVE or UN-LOVE her, she doesn't deserve you.. ,you can't get over it......it's no big deal.

Furthermore, see the cash and stuffs u have lavished on her as a gesture of sowing into someone's life of which ONLY God almighty can reward you of, it's going to be hard, but this is the best advice......stay away from such a lady, God bless you
Happy Sunday


PS - This is why most marriages never last, so think bro, think we'll.