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Re: "Men Are Gold Diggers Too" Woman Shares Her Experience by Nobody: 4:40pm On Sep 19, 2019
healthserve:
You just confirmed the reality now. Me I know this one tey tey naw cool
I could be good, kindhearted, caring, loving tongue... That's English language for ya
Re: "Men Are Gold Diggers Too" Woman Shares Her Experience by victorian(f): 4:41pm On Sep 19, 2019
Baller93:
Can't stop laughing...
Yes naw? sad


How they go just label me feminist out of nowhere.

It's not nice nah.


I'm not o! For the records! angry
Re: "Men Are Gold Diggers Too" Woman Shares Her Experience by healthserve(m): 4:41pm On Sep 19, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
I could be good, kindhearted, caring, loving tongue... That's English language for ya
Every woman says this. Even the woman who Killed my guy Samson also made this claim. Its just a selling point. Can you prove your qualities?
Re: "Men Are Gold Diggers Too" Woman Shares Her Experience by Nobody: 4:44pm On Sep 19, 2019
healthserve:
Every woman says this. Even the woman who Killed my guy Samson also made this claim. Its just a selling point. Can you prove your qualities?
We deviating from the topic at hand biko
Re: "Men Are Gold Diggers Too" Woman Shares Her Experience by Baller93(m): 4:45pm On Sep 19, 2019
grin grin grin grin grin The should know that you are not a feminist like the others nahhh.
victorian:
Yes naw? sad


How they go just label me feminist out of nowhere.

It's not nice nah.


I'm not o! For the records! angry
Re: "Men Are Gold Diggers Too" Woman Shares Her Experience by cassyrooy(m): 4:48pm On Sep 19, 2019
MissJoy29 please come o.

At the topic, see, it really disgust me too. I have lived in Abuja since I was born and I really hate the way people package their being broke and leech and live lives of indebtedness. They are well to do people who live within their means and don't golddig. But the numbers are really scaling up, see those boys with tattoos, some of them belong there.

You're adjudged the broke one if you don't play along, they knock at your door very early/late in the night to beg their guys for monies. They run generators on fuels bought from borrowed monies and all.

She's right, ladies in Abuja are really trying to have a stable lifestyle but gigolos will trace her and destroy her.

Abuja has one of the most pathetic, yet unrepenting people in Nigeria.
I'm leaving that City for good.

You don't fix your financial issues by cutting or drawing up alternative solutions but through transfer of debt
Re: "Men Are Gold Diggers Too" Woman Shares Her Experience by fuckpro: 4:48pm On Sep 19, 2019
victorian:
Hmmmmmm.



Ok
... But congrats on your two gladiators may the best man win
Re: "Men Are Gold Diggers Too" Woman Shares Her Experience by Nat404: 5:06pm On Sep 19, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
grin I'm cool
Alright then.
Re: "Men Are Gold Diggers Too" Woman Shares Her Experience by umuna(m): 5:36pm On Sep 19, 2019
sharpwriter:
Are your herbs available in ibadan? wink
we can send them to you and to any part of the world cheesy
Re: "Men Are Gold Diggers Too" Woman Shares Her Experience by sharpwriter(m): 6:06pm On Sep 19, 2019
umuna:
we can send them to you and to any part of the world cheesy
Cool grin... I will need a trial sample wink ... Meanwhile can you PM me or how I go reach una for Whatsapp... I dey serious... I wan ask some questions...

Meanwhile, why you dey laf on top my comment smiley
Re: "Men Are Gold Diggers Too" Woman Shares Her Experience by MiddleDimension: 6:08pm On Sep 19, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
Come close lemme whisper d answer into your ears tongue
marriage crazy
Re: "Men Are Gold Diggers Too" Woman Shares Her Experience by umuna(m): 6:08pm On Sep 19, 2019
sharpwriter:
Cool grin... I will need a trial sample wink ... Meanwhile can you PM me or how I go reach una for Whatsapp... I dey serious... I wan ask some questions...

Meanwhile, why you dey laf on top my comment smiley
No vex sire! I send you a msg now. WhatsApp 08090610026
Re: "Men Are Gold Diggers Too" Woman Shares Her Experience by Nobody: 6:19pm On Sep 19, 2019
MiddleDimension:
marriage crazy
k
Re: "Men Are Gold Diggers Too" Woman Shares Her Experience by Nobody: 6:20pm On Sep 19, 2019
umuna:
we can send them to you and to any part of the world cheesy
Any part of the world? Hope they are packaged well?
Re: "Men Are Gold Diggers Too" Woman Shares Her Experience by sharpwriter(m): 6:20pm On Sep 19, 2019
umuna:
No vex sire! I send you a msg now. WhatsApp 08090610026
Ok... Thanks.
Re: "Men Are Gold Diggers Too" Woman Shares Her Experience by umuna(m): 6:27pm On Sep 19, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
Any part of the world? Hope they are packaged well?
You can bet na!
Re: "Men Are Gold Diggers Too" Woman Shares Her Experience by victorian(f): 6:31pm On Sep 19, 2019
fuckpro:
... But congrats on your two gladiators may the best man win
Lol @ gladiators

Amen.
Re: "Men Are Gold Diggers Too" Woman Shares Her Experience by Nobody: 7:00pm On Sep 19, 2019
umuna:
All I need is to give her a nice banging with some of my herbs and every other thing will fall into place tongue
shocked grin shocked
Re: "Men Are Gold Diggers Too" Woman Shares Her Experience by showafrica(m): 9:17pm On Sep 19, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
Great. So don't give off the impression that most ladies desert guys who are broke. If she likes you genuinely, she won't mind ur broke state.
Hard to find...
Re: "Men Are Gold Diggers Too" Woman Shares Her Experience by dochenaj: 9:30pm On Sep 19, 2019
pocohantas:
Lmao. Anyone that thinks women are manipulative has never met some men in action. They will present it like the logical thing to do at that point- for you guys FUTURE.

1.They always have the marriage card somewhere in their script.

2. Unlike women, they are never BROKE, like BROKE over irrelevancies. What they always need is money to help their business-working capital and shii like that.

3. When you don't want to give. They will claim they were testing you (as Dragnet abi Workforce that they are) or try guilt trip you with talks of how guys do same and more.

They will soon be here to prove me right.
grin
Your writeup appears to stem from wide range of experiences.

The marriage card is as old as man, previously it was the password to guiltless premarital sex. But with the lax morality in our society now, I guess the password is now being used for other areas. Lol
Re: "Men Are Gold Diggers Too" Woman Shares Her Experience by cooooooks(m): 9:02am On Sep 20, 2019
I think he's advocating for people to see the glass as half full.

Everyone is on edge in his country. So he felt that if his babe even thought that he was almost broke, she would have mocked him. (He probably jumped to conclusions).

He's essentially saying that if the guy becomes broke or is broke, try to work with him to solve that issue, without giving him money. If it works out fine but if he doesn't put in the effort, then he's a scam.

generationz:
Seems you read the post backwards.
The man isn't interested in any job all he wants is to leech off any rich babe he can find.
Re: "Men Are Gold Diggers Too" Woman Shares Her Experience by cooooooks(m): 9:16am On Sep 20, 2019
I don't understand guys who say a lady is too proud.

Leave Victorian alone.

If she's too proud, move on to someone you consider less proud.

By the way, not being loud and proud does not mean you don't have inner pride.


Toro2015:
You are too proud... I watch your replies closely..
Re: "Men Are Gold Diggers Too" Woman Shares Her Experience by profilemessages: 9:22am On Sep 20, 2019
Women are nothing but a bunch of hoes and farm tools, even if your wife is the world richest person in the world, she will still ask you: darling do you have N5 ? I don't have change!!!! grin
Re: "Men Are Gold Diggers Too" Woman Shares Her Experience by generationz(f): 9:47am On Sep 20, 2019
cooooooks:
I think he's advocating for people to see the glass as half full.

Everyone is on edge in his country. So he felt that if his babe even thought that he was almost broke, she would have mocked him. (He probably jumped to conclusions).

He's essentially saying that if the guy becomes broke or is broke, try to work with him to solve that issue, without giving him money. If it works out fine but if he doesn't put in the effort, then he's a scam.
Yeah, but that's a non issue. It is a known thing that a Lady in love will support her man with everything when he goes broke. Isn't that why they get scammed in the first place?

Isn't that what this whole topic is about.
You men just love to shift the blame to women even
when even a topic clearly centres around guys.

If a man cheats, his wife must be frigid and smelling.

If a girl is raped, she must have dressed seductively or she's a hoe.

If a guy scams his girlfriend, it is good for her. After all, she saw better guys and went for that one. She was probably attracted by his money.

If a man cheats the side chick is a hoe the wife must be boring as hell.

It's like all men are saints especially on nairaland.

You people should stop o. You will one day have daughters and not want anything bad to happen and people blame her even she's the victim.
Re: "Men Are Gold Diggers Too" Woman Shares Her Experience by Tashacobbs(f): 9:52am On Sep 20, 2019
[quote author=AwkaetitiBabe post=82349208]First question most of them ask is, who you living with? Tell them you live with family and watch them escape. [/quote
lmao babe u know
Re: "Men Are Gold Diggers Too" Woman Shares Her Experience by Tyche(m): 9:56am On Sep 20, 2019
victorian:
Sighs OK, I will try not to give new toasters attention.

And do u know I'm not even looking at the white Honda thing sef. The wedding band? Yes!
Being called his wife? Yes!
Planning life together? Yes!
Building a happy godly home? Yes!

I look forward to all these but my concern is marrying who makes my heart beat, with great warmth and love. Seeing myself happy in his house, pampering him, taking good care of him and just loving ourselves and plan for our Present & future, then kids and growing success is everything I wish and desire.

I see it and I desire such and by God's grace I will have it. I'm praying to God, to chose between these two guys. They are great clean focused guys. Successful guys in their different field of career.

What else can I ask for again?


Well, thanks for the care. smiley


You try. smiley

Re: "Men Are Gold Diggers Too" Woman Shares Her Experience by cooooooks(m): 10:05am On Sep 20, 2019
You generalize way too much.

Frankly, just like him.

In my experience, (Nigerian) women who love, love HARD. It's the best love. I think he jumped to conclusions on his former babe. I think you're generalising men and fail to see anything from his point of view.

If you see my previous posts this week, you'll see that I HATE cheating and think all Nigerian cheaters are SCUM. I also am scared by the acceptance with with Nigerian women take cheating. It's scary.

Also, men who scam women are evil. You're generalising waaaay too much.

We are a country of 200 MILLION people not to talk if diaspora. We can't ask be bad.

generationz:
Yeah, but that's a non issue. It is a known thing that a Lady in love will support her man with everything when he goes broke. Isn't that why they get scammed in the first place?

Isn't that what this whole topic is about.
You men just love to shift the blame to women even
when even a topic clearly centres around guys.

If a man cheats, his wife must be frigid and smelling.

If a girl is raped, she must have dressed seductively or she's a hoe.

If a guy scams his girlfriend, it is good for her. After all, she saw better guys and went for that one. She was probably attracted by his money.

If a man cheats the side chick is a hoe the wife must be boring as hell.

It's like all men are saints especially on nairaland.

You people should stop o. You will one day have daughters and not want anything bad to happen and people blame her even she's the victim.
Re: "Men Are Gold Diggers Too" Woman Shares Her Experience by generationz(f): 10:10am On Sep 20, 2019
cooooooks:
You generalize way too much.

Frankly, just like him.

In my experience, (Nigerian) women who love, love HARD. It's the best love. I think he jumped to conclusions on his former babe. I think you're generalising men and fail to see anything from his point of view.

If you see my previous posts this week, I HATE cheating and think ask Nigerian cheaters are SCUM. I also am scared by the acceptance with with Nigerian women take cheating. It's scary.

Also, men who scam when are evil. You're generalising waaaay too much.

We are a country of 200 MILLION people not to talk if diaspora. We can't ask be bad.
Okay, you just made my day with this. Impressive coming from a man. cool
Re: "Men Are Gold Diggers Too" Woman Shares Her Experience by cooooooks(m): 10:32am On Sep 20, 2019
smiley. Happy to make someone smile.

For reals though, men have wrecked expectations too badly.

generationz:
Okay, you just made my day with this. Impressive coming from a man. cool
Re: "Men Are Gold Diggers Too" Woman Shares Her Experience by victorian(f): 1:59pm On Sep 20, 2019
cooooooks:
I don't understand guys who say a lady is too proud.

Leave Victorian alone.

If she's too proud, move on to someone you consider less proud.

By the way, not being loud and proud does not mean you don't have inner pride.
God bless you dear
You will live long.
You will live a prosperous life.
God will keep lifting you higher and higher in all areas of your life in Jesus name Amen.

And so shall it be amen

Sighs thanks for understanding me o.

kiss



This is one of the numerous people on nairaland who loves and support my kind of person smiley
Re: "Men Are Gold Diggers Too" Woman Shares Her Experience by generationz(f): 5:41pm On Sep 20, 2019
cooooooks:
smiley. Happy to make someone smile.

For reals though, men have wrecked expectations too badly.
Yeah.
Re: "Men Are Gold Diggers Too" Woman Shares Her Experience by healthserve(m): 6:24pm On Sep 20, 2019
generationz:
Yeah, but that's a non issue. It is a known thing that a Lady in love will support her man with everything when he goes broke. Isn't that why they get scammed in the first place?

Isn't that what this whole topic is about.
You men just love to shift the blame to women even
when even a topic clearly centres around guys.

If a man cheats, his wife must be frigid and smelling.

If a girl is raped, she must have dressed seductively or she's a hoe.

If a guy scams his girlfriend, it is good for her. After all, she saw better guys and went for that one. She was probably attracted by his money.

If a man cheats the side chick is a hoe the wife must be boring as hell.

It's like all men are saints especially on nairaland.

You people should stop o. You will one day have daughters and not want anything bad to happen and people blame her even she's the victim.
LMFAO frigid and smelling. My sister o grin grin grin cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
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