AwkaetitiBabe:
No. When it comes to matters of the heart, I'm still vulnerable.

LMAO so speaketh the "STONY HEART"

If the op is referring to Nigerian men, yes they do that.

They present an attractive facade and sweep ladies off their feet with spending, etc.

Then later, they go broke and the ladies wonder what happened.

It's not new and I'm not sure it's gold digging, maybe just the usual womanizing stuff the men indulge in.


Not saying there are no gold diggers.

truthsayer009:


It's normal and that is the mantra. They invested a lot in such lifestyle because it still takes a lot to actually look rich.

1. They drive a good car, Benz preferably.
2. They live in a good rented apartment in urban areas.
3. They use the latest iPhone.
4. They dress quite well.

So when they meet you, you are already gassed and fall in love. They they hit you with my business needs some loans etc

By then, you are already in love, so...

That's for those who get carried away o. I have to know the depth of the relationship and how genuine you are before giving out any shishi. When they say Dem broke, I say the proverbial church rat is even better than me ryt now, atleast he has church Bible and books to chew on. Personally I'm sure I'd give my kidney to a guy I love and who loves me in return.

truthsayer009:


LMAO so speaketh the "STONY HEART"

Even the strongest and fiercest get soft when it comes to love.

healthserve:



Really. How so. Many time while I chide you, you're always on point. I'm merely seeking for your trouble


Does it have to do with weakness for the one you love?

Well, there's something about loving someone that throws commonsense out d window. Ask Samson the strongest man in the world

nairalandposter:
If the op is referring to Nigerian men, yes they do that.

They present an attractive facade and sweep ladies off their feet with spending, etc.

Then later, they go broke and the ladies wonder what happened.

It's not new and I'm not sure it's gold digging, maybe just the usual womanizing stuff the men indulge in.


Not saying there are no gold diggers.

Baba don't sugarcoat it. It's digging for gold. This people don't care if u have just 100k,they'll stylishly take it from you.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Well, there's something about loving someone that throws commonsense out d window. Ask Samson the strongest man in the world

Samson is dead. I'm alive. You tell me. Cause me don't see flesh on your heart o. Judging from your comments especially about men


As for me, may I never love anyone to throw away caution. Love takes abeg. I will caution in check.

AwkaetitiBabe:
They crawling all over Abuja. Very fake human beings... Driving cars and still tell u Dem broke. Meet and next thing they downloading broke stories.

That's what you women deserve.

I could remember last time I told a girl I was living in a public yard, she stopped picking up my calls.

But honestly, I live in a good house and the breeze in my house is so nice that I hardly turn on the AC.

Nat404:
That's what you women deserve.

I could remember last time I told a girl I was living in a public yard, she stopped picking up my calls.

But honestly, I live in a good house and the breeze in my house is so nice that I hardly turn on the AC.

This same shit happened to me. Bro nothing like a disguise of being broke. Its the loyal woman we want and we must keep subjecting them thru the brokenness test.


The loyalty of a woman after all is her preservanve during trying times of a man

Nat404:
That's what you women deserve.

I could remember last time I told a girl I was living in a public yard, she stopped picking up my calls.

But honestly, I live in a good house and the breeze in my house is so nice that I hardly turn on the AC.

Public yard? Was it supposed to be a private yard?

Lalasticlala how far?

healthserve:




This same shit happened to me. Bro nothing like a disguise of being broke. Its the loyal woman we want and we must keep subjecting them thru the brokenness test.


The loyalty of a woman after all is her preservanve during trying times of a man

Yeah that's right. Well, I will keep on doing that to find a lady who will accept me like that, so I could surprise her and make her happy for life.

Nat404:
Yeah that's right. Well, I will keep on doing that to find a lady who will accept me like that, so I could surprise her and make her happy for life.

Don't change.


I did the same for a damn pretty goddess whom I was intent on marrying recently. She failed as expected, even her mum failed the test.

Just throw them away, these ladies aren't loyal, and are only looking out for wallet to be submissive to, which perpetually throws them into the arms of the wrong persons.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Public yard? Was it supposed to be a private yard?

Lalasticlala how far?

Public yard means face me I face you in every girl's mind.

healthserve:




Samson is dead. I'm alive. You tell me. Cause me don't see flesh on your heart o. Judging from your comments especially about men


As for me, may I never love anyone to throw away caution. Love takes abeg. I will caution in check.

Lol. I don't tolerate intimidation so when guys try to do so, I push back

AwkaetitiBabe:
Lol. I don't tolerate intimidation so when guys try to do so, I push back

Perhaps it's the guys you meet or the relationship hasnt fully developed before it got tested. Why would I want to inmidate my woman? I mean it's not normal

pocohantas:


Lmao. Anyone that thinks women are manipulative has never met some men in action. They will present it like the logical thing to do at that point- for you guys FUTURE.

1.They always have the marriage card somewhere in their script.

2. Unlike women, they are never BROKE, like BROKE over irrelevancies. What they always need is money to help their business-working capital and shii like that.

True, and it's only girls that sees marriage as a fulfillment or an escape from whatever they are running from, will fall for that marriage future BS,

One time I called a guy broke, he said "nah just that business has been at a standstill for months now" I said "it means the same thing, you're DEAD BROKE going on months now", he was so angry that had it been he is white, he would have turned red in the face and puke, lmao

healthserve:




Don't change.


I did the same for a damn pretty goddess whom I was intent on marrying recently. She failed as expected, even her mum failed the test.

Just throw them away, these ladies aren't loyal, and are only looking out for wallet to be submissive to, which perpetually throws them into the arms of the wrong persons.

I won't. Yes, these bittches aren't loyal. Lol.

Lol, that's it, most of them keep missing out on good guys cos of greed...

Nat404:
That's what you women deserve.

I could remember last time I told a girl I was living in a public yard, she stopped picking up my calls.

But honestly, I live in a good house and the breeze in my house is so nice that I hardly turn on the AC.

Fountainofyouth:



True, and it's only girls that sees marriage as a fulfillment or an escape from whatever they are running from, will fall for that marriage future BS,

One time I called a guy broke, he said "nah just that business has been at a standstill for months now" I said "it means the same thing, you're DEAD BROKE going on months now", he was so angry that had it been he is white, he would have turned red in the face and puke, lmao

Haqhaqhaq. I must say you really have first hand experience.

Nat404:
Public yard means face me I face you in every girl's mind.

I'm sure you'll find a lady who doesn't mind.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Baba don't sugarcoat it. It's digging for gold. This people don't care if u have just 100k,they'll stylishly take it from you.

It's the other side of reality.

After spending to impress, they go broke.

I wouldn't know if the behaviour has increased however, I think it's just the same.

@ bolded

Baller93:
Lol, that's it, most of them keep missing out on good guys cos of greed...

Yeah bro. I know the mentality of Nigerian girls. Money, money, money and nothing else. With cash in your hand, they are ready to do angle 360.

AwkaetitiBabe:
I'm sure you'll find a lady who doesn't mind.

Of course, I will. I'm a guy man.

healthserve:




Don't change.


I did the same for a damn pretty goddess whom I was intent on marrying recently. She failed as expected, even her mum failed the test.

Just throw them away, these ladies aren't loyal, and are only looking out for wallet to be submissive to, which perpetually throws them into the arms of the wrong persons.

Lol. There we go. What kinda test did you serve?

nairalandposter:




It's the other side of reality.

After spending to impress, they go broke.

I wouldn't know if the behaviour has increased however, I think it's just the same.

Another thing I do now is I don't touch women anymore. I think when you don't touch a woman, you'll have more power over her and she will respect you more.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Lol. There we go. What kinda test did you serve?

So you will pass when your bobo tests you right? I'm not talking. Your own test na dollar bills. I know that one

healthserve:




So you will pass when your bobo tests you right? I'm not talking. Your own test na dollar bills. I know that one

Failing a test doesn't necessarily means there's no love that's the mistake we make. Anyways, all d best

Nat404:
Another thing I do now is I don't touch women anymore. I think when you don't touch a woman, you'll have more power over her and she will respect you more.

You are wise

AwkaetitiBabe:
Failing a test doesn't necessarily means there's no love that's the mistake we make. Anyways, all d best

My dear ask Samson, him go tell you say in love, we must apply wisdom.


Although maturity has come, I don't focus on failing or passing a test. If I like a woman, I like her. We're also dying to find the lady who will win our hearts. But then, not without fighting for it.


Do you really think we don't hurt when we push away ladies who fail the test of love?

healthserve:



My dear ask Samson, him go tell you say in love, we must apply wisdom.


Although maturity has come, I don't focus on failing or passing a test. If I like a woman, I like her. We're also dying to find the lady who will win our hearts. But then, not without fighting for it.


Do you really think we don't hurt when we push away ladies who fail the test of love?

You looking for someone to fight for your heart? And you what will u be doing?

AwkaetitiBabe:
That's for those who get carried away o. I have to know the depth of the relationship and how genuine you are before giving out any shishi. When they say Dem broke, I say the proverbial church rat is even better than me ryt now, atleast he has church Bible and books to chew on. Personally I'm sure I'd give my kidney to a guy I love and who loves me in return.

LMAO you are on your own with this.