Kcee14:
I am a girl of 26 years from Delta state. I have a guy I have been dating for close to 3years now and he is from mbaise. My guy told me that he is coming for introduction and I told my parents about it and they said over their dead body will they allow me marry from mbaise. Please,is anything wrong with Mbaise? Are there ladies here that are married to mbaise men and living happily. Please, I am really sad now. I need advice and answers

Kcee14:
I am a girl of 26 years from Delta state. I have a guy I have been dating for close to 3years now and he is from mbaise. My guy told me that he is coming for introduction and I told my parents about it and they said over their dead body will they allow me marry from mbaise. Please,is anything wrong with Mbaise? Are there ladies here that are married to mbaise men and living happily. Please, I am really sad now. I need advice and answers

MondayOsunbor:


It is said if mbsise man and a viper enter your house at the same time you are safer killing the mbaise man first.!

Nova15:


[s]Of all the advice in the world, this is the worst[/s]

keepingmum:
The famous proverb " if you see a snake and an mbaise person, kill the mbaise person first as they are more dangerous ".

The mbaise tribe is like what the ijebus are to yorubas or the igbirra's to Kogi.

Very wicked, deceptive, desperately love money, do not treat other tribes well, manipulative and evil.

franchasng:
Don't listen to your parents in this situation because they are old and out of touch with life, they are still holding on to some past traditional beliefs and myths that Mbaise people are cunning, that ancient Mbaise people use to eat human beings, that Mbaise people killed a white missionary and hung his bicycle on a tree to avoid the bicycle from running back to whiteman's land to inform the whitemen....


And there is a popular phrase that says: if you see an Mbaise man and a snake, that you should kill Mbaise man first before the snake, and that phrase was culled from a hate or let me say revenge song sang by an aggrieved member Dansach of Owerri based highlife music band: Oriental Brothers when the main singer and founder of the highlife band, Dr. Sir Warrior cheated him by sidelining him in money sharing which is common among musicians and their managers all over the world.

You know songs travel farther than any other thing, so that song traveled so far and made people became so conscious of Mbaise people and whatever they do...such that any little crime or bad behavior an Mbaise person commits, people tend to overblow and magnify it because they are already on censor.

Just like Ijebu, Ibadan, Ilesa, Ngwa, Fulani, etc people....these are all stereotypes based on past myths and believes of the past.


Judge people individually based on their actions, their attitudes towards you, and how they treat you, not based on what people say or what you hear.

Have your own experience....there are bad people in all communities, tribes and races.....don't let fallacies of hasty generalization based on mythological beliefs and unfounded scares to scare you away from people.


That your parents had a bad encounter with an Mbaise person is not enough reason for them to refuse you marrying an Mbaise man that loves and treats you right, open your eyes, this is 21st century.....I am sure you are not financially independent, you still depend a lot on your parents to allow their unfounded reasons to deter you from being with someone who treats you right.


Besides majority of people all over the world now no longer carry the traits of their tribe or community because most people now spend most of their lives in other cities and communities, hence, they will exhibit more of the traits of people around where they reside or live......so tell your parents you aren't marrying the man to go and live in the village with him to be farming and be dragging issues with the community people.

Or are you telling me that an Mbaise man who has lived in Canada for 20 years and gave birth in Canada, that his children born and raised in Canada will be exhibiting the over-generalized Mbaise people character

Please enlighten your parents and make them understand why they should stop reasoning like people of 1935

Trezagezz:


I will just tell you a simple story that connotes the story....
A man from my kindred married an Mbaise is woman at early 80's and this woman made the husband not to look after her biological mum and siblings nor come home.. she successfully made the husband to avoid home,village meeting with our people in town nor associate with his kinsmen... This man built Manson for the wife's family and train up the wife's siblings.. he will cross my town and went to the wife's side to spend some popular festive season..
Lol and behold,he got sick (stroke) and this foolish woman abandoned him and move with the two girls she has with the man.. then wealthy man was brought home in shame and was burried in a compound without good building cause the family is doing in Poverty.....
Till today that Mbaise woman has not crossef my village neither the family which the man race and made what they are....


Another one is when I was in 200L,I dated one girl from same Mbaise,she always threaten me with death and always deadly with evil violent whenever I had issue with her not untill o unleash my anger and made her go her separate way by force.....

So your parents might have their own reason ...
But that doesn't mean that all are bad...


***DON'T NEGLECT THE ADVISE OF REASONABLE ELDERS***""

PheelzAlmighty:
Bring another suitor my child.

Pubichairs:


and u think I gave her such advice..without facts or do u think I made that out of ignorance.wise up

Egbesu1:
Your father is a wise man, he has seen the future , those guys are bad, their is [b][s]a proverb in Igbo that says if a snake enters your house and an mbaise man enter, its say leave the snake n kill the mbaise man first[[/s]/b]. Thank your dad later. The guy don Bleep you like mad , your sense follow wind go

Bofoy4:
may DAT happen to ur sister in jesus name Amen

hamid6249:
I can allow my children to marry from any tribe or community as long as the suitor is not from IBADAN

I have my reasons ,my eyes don see wem for thier hands ..useless bunch of people

ngwababe:
Does your boyfriend give you money willingly? Does he really take care of you the way you want?

spiritedtete:
If i hear mbaise... i go run too oo. It is not funny at all... i am sorry if anyone is offended by my "primitive statement" sha.

I go still run ....

Kcee14:
I am a girl of 26 years from Delta state. I have a guy I have been dating for close to 3years now and he is from mbaise. My guy told me that he is coming for introduction and I told my parents about it and they said over their dead body will they allow me marry from mbaise. Please,is anything wrong with Mbaise? Are there ladies here that are married to mbaise men and living happily. Please, I am really sad now. I need advice and answers

arodavoo:
I think it better to ask your parent the reason.. Than coming here to ask, your parent must have had a reason for saying so.. I believe you should only come here when you've known the reason for rejecting people from that side



Do well to check my profile to learn importation from Turkey, USA, UK Malaysia and china

Exwizaard:
imagine you leave your parents that Bared you from getting married as a result of thier stereotypes and come they disturb our peace for here.

Bofoy4:
may DAT happen to ur sister in jesus name Amen

Okoroawusa:
Find another suitor nah!

Abi na matter of life and death?