cococandy:
Argh we’ve finally gotten to the heart of the matter.

The sexism and misogyny masked as something else.
Women being held more responsible even though they are not the supposed leaders of the home.

Lay on the bed y’all have made.

Pavore9:


I know what I read in the morning before I posted, the OP went back to edit the post and added more information.

Destined2win:
Not every woman is like you who opens her leg for every man while married, and not every man is like the men you have known all your life who go about impregnating people's wives.

So I'll advice you shut up and seek psychological assistance.

GrabHisBalls:
All men are not the same sha. Just saying.

Pavore9:
The wife should also do her own DNA test to rule out baby switching before paternity fraud can be fully established.

Pavore9:
The wife should also do her own DNA test to rule out baby switching before paternity fraud can be fully established.

Rosarie:
Women love to deliver in one hospital,If the hospital is good .so the woman should do a DNA in case there was a switch,if she cheated then shame on her.its better to walk away than to cheat.two good kids ,too bad.....
But men u don't need DNA to know
The signs are there.
If u have three kids , two must look alike esp during baby stage,some characters will of two will play out,they do things alike,it's just there.i have seen these even still seeing one with 3girls and non look alike,
As a man have sixth sense .. before DNA, the signs are always there.

cococandy:
Lmao: una never start.

The polygamous nature at work.

Jayslicky:
According to recent stats the percentage of bastard children in Nigeria is at 33%, so if you have three children, there is a high possibility of having a bastard in your home.

Men save up to do DNA so as to not save up for heart attack in the future.

yeyeosoronga:
Even many people shouting here are not aware that the man they've always called dad is not their biological father.
It's not today men have been polygamous in nature (including quaffing other people's wives) and women have been bringing home bastards from these rendezvous. It is what our society has grown.
Majority of men who cheat on their girlfriends and wives are cheating with other people's wives and girlfriends o.
So I'm surprised at the fake righteous indignation on this thread.
The man should just decide on the way forward, and consider the next step he wants to take. Forgive his wife and continue to look after the kids as one happy family or divorce her. The ball is in his court.
I used to be very vocal about divorcing cheating spouses, but now I think I'm beginning to change my stance towards the path of reconciliation.

cococandy:
We are at the point of turning off our brains and just going rubbish eh?

Mstick:
The polygamous nature of men strikes again. Eyah take heart sir penîs is no respecter of marriage vow.

iLegendd:
Weak men everywhere.

pocohantas:
Lol. See hypertension...

jnrbayano:


Whoa!

Do you know this man?

TruthProphet:


You definitely have issues, like it was suggested, quickly see a psychologist, you need help.

Also, try and tell your husband which kids are not his so he doesn’t have a heart attack.

GGirll:


You sound like d wife pls if you are,kindly return his daughter to him n ask for forgiveness ok....anything can happen as life is so short. Forgive me if you are not.

Dizzyrascal:
I think this cococandy can go and rest in peace. RIP cococandy!!

GhostWisperer:
all your life you have been a nuisance in nairaland for nearly a decade.

See how bitter and empty you are. Not even your marriage can bring you little peace of mind or take a break from nairaland.

Pity be on you.

Kcreal2:
This Cococandy sounds like the man's wife

Excuzeme:


Stop worrying yourself over that *thing*, those that know her in reallife know she is worthless, even for a harlot.

D1zion:
kai may God bless you for me.this person is an ass hole.some people think with their anus.

Rubbiish:

U are very f00lish for making this comment
Is it now the man's fault the woman is a wh0re?
I wonder how your husband cope with u, he must be so much of a weakling to live with u...animal!

jnrbayano:


All these just to make your point?

...if you intended on calling her to order, why bring her personal life into it? Do you know her outside Nairaland? Its not

cococandy:
Y’alls pain is sooooo sweet

PoliticalWitch:


I agree with you and gave you a like, but before I tell you why....please let's be honest...there are badt ladies who decieve good men into marriage....and play tricks like that on them.

Having said that....I still agree with you. I suspect the guy was a player...and in his playing he met a girl who was a player too. Like calleth to like. One cannot expect to catch fish in the desert. The guy is reaping the fruits of not looking carefully.

Also, the babe did not become bad overnight. I am very sure that was how she was...and the guy did not want to marry her...but she trapped him with a pregnancy.

I will also add that one reason why I am against people sleeping around before marriage (and after) is because accidents like this happen. Woman has child, not sure where child came from. Guy does not know his children. And when problem starts...