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bro there's no good girl any where, all these girls have small small brain touch. my girl friend once fought me for not holding her hand in public. just find one and manage her forever ..

Meanwhile , you fuckup, don't petty uber drivers , some of them own the cars. they are doing fine. Enjoy the service you paid for , the back seat is more confortable.

Kingsdave:
They think the world revolves around boobs and pussy... The guy didn't do anything wrong... Not sitting with her isn't wrong... Everyone has a choice... His choice was to sit at the front

U are correct bt u need to take into consideration if she was feeling sm type of way that day And needed his attention at the moment or it was just her typical attitude. However It still doesn’t make her right bt explains it better.

This is his fiancée not sm random gf. She needs to know she can have his attention when she needs it atleast Most of the times.

Smtmes we guys want our gals attention and she caught up in her own things and we get pissed or don’t we? Lolz

delishpot:
Yes you messed up by not sitting with her since you say na romantic outing. But she is also a big disaster waiting to happen. She is rude and obnoxious. Has no class basically.
Na one chance she be. Shine your eyes before you take it a step further. Make sure she has the character you can live with.

You sum up my thoughts.

RedCreme21:
op im a lady. Leave that girl as fast as you can. She's a spoilt brat. Whats an hours drive for christ sake. She wanted things done her way and was nasty when you didnt oblige.
If i were you, as i got home, i'll jejely send breakup text. You pray for a girl with good character. Never settle for less.

Look at that, straight forward, no bias, frank and a matter of fact judgement.


Damn! You're good! I like You.


Like your straight forward person.Can you be my friend? Can I dm you?

Israelpolite:
The guy bleeped up big time. Some guys are not just romantic. How do u explain that u rented a taxi to take both of u to the cinema and u sat in the front seat and left ur girl to be all by herself at the back seat. Common sense would have told u is wrong. Some ladies even when crossing the road with their guys and the guy did not hold their hands it's even an issue let alone the one u just mentioned. For the girl to have corrected u to come join her at the back is a plus to her and u would have taken correction from ur mistake immediately. But rather u chose to be egoistic and bossy. U don't do boss for ur woman. Wisdom is profitable to direct.

For real?
I'm sure you're a third grader. No independent Adult (male) would type this nonsense.
Nna, there are many ways to be romantic to a lady and not sitting beside her in a car shouldn't be an issue.
Guys like you are the reason why these girls cheat on their boyfriend or call them lowlife and you'll still be begging for her attention or take to suicide if she call off the relationship.

Spits * out of thread *

Avast:
Oga stop calling her. I hate guys disturbing themselves on girls matter.

God bless you bro. That thing can be annoying.

jaxxy:
U are correct bt u need to take into consideration if she was feeling sm type of way that day And needed his attention at the moment or it was just her typical attitude. However It still doesn’t make her right bt explains it better.

This is his fiancée not sm random gf. She needs to know she can have his attention when she needs it atleast Most of the times.

Smtmes we guys want our gals attention and she caught up in her own things and we get pissed or don’t we? Lolz

Most of the times not all the time... She is a fiancée and still acting like that... If na ur br o.. Wan marry that kind girl that showed such attitude to someone older ... Would you still advice him to marry her.. She is disrespectful... Its inborn in her.. A respectful won't act like that...
. if he prayed to God to give him a sign about their Union... This is a sign.... Cos this kind of a girl won't like you to be in communication with your family self... She always wanna stay in control...

phintohlar:
The babe even try follow you reach there cos if na me ehn, as you go sit down for front so i go just go back inside. The driver na ur uncle wey u go sit down with, no be money hin go collect? All this yeye guys dey here they call the girl names, wey be say una own girls dey slap una mama eye for house. Let he who is without a sin be the first to cast the stone abeg.

will you shut up? Reverse the roles and you will be the first one asking if he confronted her about it

phintohlar:
The babe even try follow you reach there cos if na me ehn, as you go sit down for front so i go just go back inside. The driver na ur uncle wey u go sit down with, no be money hin go collect? All this yeye guys dey here they call the girl names, wey be say una own girls dey slap una mama eye for house. Let he who is without a sin be the first to cast the stone abeg.

Nice one dear. People just love to pass blames around. So far so good she's done nothing wrong. And she was f rude at the taxi man just so you can get to know she's angry and not okay with yiu ignoring her. You neglected all the signs and try to blame her for it. People are just too dumb at times. If the guy can't man up, he shouldn't expect her to do same. Uncle should go and beg hanty

Kingsdave:
Most of the times not all the time... She is a fiancée and still acting like that... If na ur br o.. Wan marry that kind girl that showed such attitude to someone older ... Would you still advice him to marry her.. She is disrespectful... Its inborn in her.. A respectful won't act like that...
. if he prayed to God to give him a sign about their Union... This is a sign.... Cos this kind of a girl won't like you to be in communication with your family self... She always wanna stay in control...

U are totally right bro bt like I said it’s basically 2 things was it a one off due to a mood or type of feeling dat day or is it a regular actual rude and controlling character. That is what I want to find out or determine here.

WowSweetGuy:
Please Help Me Judge. Did I Really Offend Her By Doing This?!

Excuse my grammatical blunders. I just feel like sharing this experience i had with my fiancee to be....

Yesterday being sunday, I decided to fix a movie and fun outing with my girl. I ordered a taxi from my base to her base to pick her up. She came looking fine and sweet to enjoy the sunday with...To cut the long story short to the main reason i'm posting this....

I came out of the taxi from the FRONT SEAT gave her a hug and opened the back door for her then closed the door to go back to my normal position, She gave me a bad look from nowhere, i asked her what's wrong, she told me to come to the back, the driver could hear us clearly, i playfully told her baby don't worry we have all day together u are even gonna spend the night at my crib, i sat at d front and told the taxi to go to the cinema. During the trip to the cinema i had a little conversation with the taxi guy, from nowhere again my lady told the taxi guy in a rude voice 'please oga face your driving and stop shaking me driving into potholes anyhow abeg'...later on again she told the taxi man to totally put off the low radio station that was playing in the car, the last time he had a call and received it on Bluetooth o,she shouted then very rude telling the man please just drop that call. That's when i cautioned her to take it easy na.

We arrived at the cinema, she told me i should give her transport to go back home that she doesn't feel like staying out again...I tried to pet her,she just abandoned me took a taxi and went home. She has refused picking my calls since yesterday. Im busy at work weekdays,i dont really have time to go to her house.

Ladies/Gentlemen please where did i really go wrong

There is what I always tell people. You can not create artificial uniformities in every relationship. That which works here may not work there. To me just tell her that u were sorry for not sitting with her unless if she has another reason for the show of attitude. Meanwhile I think u should respect the relationship.

dapo456:
bro there's no good girl any where, all these girls have small small brain touch. my girl friend once fought me for not holding her hand in public. just find one and manage her forever ..

Meanwhile , you fuckup, don't petty uber drivers , some of them own the cars. they are doing fine. Enjoy the service you paid for , the back seat is more confortable.

See how you dey reason?
Just because he drives his own car makes him less of a man?
Oga, i took to driving uber and taxify when we had issues at work and let me tell you something, those old money ikoyi folks are the ones who would sit by you and have good conversations during the ride, they'll even tip you at the end of the trip.
So because you're paying 700 naira for a luxury mean you should allow your girlfriend be little a fellowman like you.
Na people like you dem dey tell make dem get down from their car on the bridge.
Which kind nonsense you dey yarn. Na small small pikin full Nairaland nowadays stealing their parents money to buy airtime for their girlfriend who go still use that airtime call one mature guy wey she dey fear somewhere.

Ardar:
Why didn't you sit at the back with her despite her asking you to do so?

You were busy chit chatting with the taxi man leaving your girl alone.

I don't support her acting out like you claimed but you fvck up abeg.

You see little things like this no matter how inconsequential or negligible you think they are, are very much important to some people.

Just allow her time to cool off am sure she'll come around.

In any relationship, both parties will surely have a lot of disagreements from time to time. If this is how she react after every provocation then she clearly has anger issues and is not marriage worthy. Refused picking calls! Left angrily and refused picking calls cos he didn't sit at the back and was having a discussion with the driver! How big of a deal can that be? Imagine how she rudely addressed the driver too! Op, don't bother with that girl please. Her bad character will find her out.

WowSweetGuy:
Please Help Me Judge. Did I Really Offend Her By Doing This?!

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During the trip to the cinema i had a little conversation with the taxi guy, from nowhere again my lady told the taxi guy in a rude voice 'please oga face your driving and stop shaking me driving into potholes anyhow abeg'...later on again she told the taxi man to totally put off the low radio station that was playing in the car, the last time he had a call and received it on Bluetooth o,she shouted then very rude telling the man please just drop that call. That's when i cautioned her to take it easy na.
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Ever considered the possibility that the driver could have been her ex?

It was meant to be a date, it wouldn't have cost you anything to sit with her at the back and as if that wasn't enough, you engaged the driver in a conversation, ignoring her. I am not justifying her reaction ( because that only shows how uncouth and unruly she is), but you messed up. The little things that you do in a relationship are the things that would matter.

Freshprince91:
For real?
I'm sure you're a third grader. No independent Adult (male) would type this nonsense.
Nna, there are many ways to be romantic to a lady and not sitting beside her in a car shouldn't be an issue.
Guys like you are the reason why these girls cheat on their boyfriend or call them lowlife and you'll still be begging for her attention or take to suicide if she call off the relationship.

Spits * out of thread *

On the contrary I don't subscribe to this. There can be a thousands ways, but what u enjoy in a relationship and what I value will be different from yours. What works for many might not work for others.

Trust be told, the guy is a kid. I would have tried to control the situation knowing she's over-stepping it.

Do you even know what mood swing is? Do you know what it takes to pet a lady? Why will you call another guy a third grader? Should I pass comments fully on this, you probably will be force to insult me too

Laslas, it's people like you who would wash ordinary gf pants and tell other guys it's shit

Just please grow up.

chigoizie7:
You fucccked up nah, what do you expect her to do?

See all these people saying that she was rude. Yes, she was. But it would have been avoided too.

You made it clear that the date was for the both of you. You should have started her day great by joining her at the back seat.

See, me, when ever I am using a cab, I sit on the front , but this case is different, you should have sat with her, had some little chats with her while the driver minds his wheels. You even abandoned her to chat with the driver. Baba, you neglected her that little time she needed your attention.


Some will say that she is still a kid. But bros it takes a mature mind to date a mature lady.it is only mature people that see the needs to compromise at all times.


If you think she is a kid to act they way she did, it made the both of you kids, because you shouldn’t have acted the way you did. Relationships are not for kids bro.

God bless you!

jaxxy:
U are totally right bro bt like I said it’s basically 2 things was it a one off due to an mood or type of feeling dat day or is it a regular actual rude and controlling character. That is what I want to find out or determine here.

I don't believe it is a one off something ... The guy have been tolerating such things at home before she made it public... Just like they say... Becareful what you tolerate... You are teaching people how to treat you... Set standards in your relationship.... If the OP was a no nonsense guy would she do such No ... Him calling first after that shows you the kind of man he is..

Is that the kinda person u wanna spend ur life wit
This could b the Lord opening ur eyes to shis!
U for calm down oo
She never even catch u dei look another bumbum she dei do all dis nonesense

WowSweetGuy:
Please Help Me Judge. Did I Really Offend Her By Doing This?!

Excuse my grammatical blunders. I just feel like sharing this experience i had with my fiancee to be....

Yesterday being sunday, I decided to fix a movie and fun outing with my girl. I ordered a taxi from my base to her base to pick her up. She came looking fine and sweet to enjoy the sunday with...To cut the long story short to the main reason i'm posting this....

I came out of the taxi from the FRONT SEAT gave her a hug and opened the back door for her then closed the door to go back to my normal position, She gave me a bad look from nowhere, i asked her what's wrong, she told me to come to the back, the driver could hear us clearly, i playfully told her baby don't worry we have all day together u are even gonna spend the night at my crib, i sat at d front and told the taxi to go to the cinema. During the trip to the cinema i had a little conversation with the taxi guy, from nowhere again my lady told the taxi guy in a rude voice 'please oga face your driving and stop shaking me driving into potholes anyhow abeg'...later on again she told the taxi man to totally put off the low radio station that was playing in the car, the last time he had a call and received it on Bluetooth o,she shouted then very rude telling the man please just drop that call. That's when i cautioned her to take it easy na.

We arrived at the cinema, she told me i should give her transport to go back home that she doesn't feel like staying out again...I tried to pet her,she just abandoned me took a taxi and went home. She has refused picking my calls since yesterday. Im busy at work weekdays,i dont really have time to go to her house.

Ladies/Gentlemen please where did i really go wrong

I think you dodged a bullet there.Let her be if you fancy your peace of mind.

delishpot:
Yes you messed up by not sitting with her since you say na romantic outing. But she is also a big disaster waiting to happen. She is rude and obnoxious. Has no class basically.
Na one chance she be. Shine your eyes before you take it a step further. Make sure she has the character you can live with.

So just from this one incident you can predict her past and future. She's rude blah blah blah.


Nigga stfu

Ardar:
I see nothing wrong in asking your guy to sit with you.

Infact when you enter a cab or a taxi, the Passengers sit at the back living the front sit empty. Besides the guy is not coming down to "perch" beside her, it's just the two of them in the taxi.

Maybe she was a little rude to the taxi driver but selfish and childish she was not.

I agree perfectly.

uuzba:
If you own the car, of course the lady sits in front beside you.
If you took a cab/taxi/uber... etc, you sit in the back seat with her.

thank you....!!
tell the idiiot....!!

he didnt understood....!!

Run for your life boy.
This is not wife material.
She is a disaster waiting to happen.

WowSweetGuy:
Please Help Me Judge. Did I Really Offend Her By Doing This?!

Excuse my grammatical blunders. I just feel like sharing this experience i had with my fiancee to be....

Yesterday being sunday, I decided to fix a movie and fun outing with my girl. I ordered a taxi from my base to her base to pick her up. She came looking fine and sweet to enjoy the sunday with...To cut the long story short to the main reason i'm posting this....

I came out of the taxi from the FRONT SEAT gave her a hug and opened the back door for her then closed the door to go back to my normal position, She gave me a bad look from nowhere, i asked her what's wrong, she told me to come to the back, the driver could hear us clearly, i playfully told her baby don't worry we have all day together u are even gonna spend the night at my crib, i sat at d front and told the taxi to go to the cinema. During the trip to the cinema i had a little conversation with the taxi guy, from nowhere again my lady told the taxi guy in a rude voice 'please oga face your driving and stop shaking me driving into potholes anyhow abeg'...later on again she told the taxi man to totally put off the low radio station that was playing in the car, the last time he had a call and received it on Bluetooth o,she shouted then very rude telling the man please just drop that call. That's when i cautioned her to take it easy na.

We arrived at the cinema, she told me i should give her transport to go back home that she doesn't feel like staying out again...I tried to pet her,she just abandoned me took a taxi and went home. She has refused picking my calls since yesterday. Im busy at work weekdays,i dont really have time to go to her house.

Ladies/Gentlemen please where did i really go wrong

WowSweetGuy:
Please Help Me Judge. Did I Really Offend Her By Doing This?!

Excuse my grammatical blunders. I just feel like sharing this experience i had with my fiancee to be....

Yesterday being sunday, I decided to fix a movie and fun outing with my girl. I ordered a taxi from my base to her base to pick her up. She came looking fine and sweet to enjoy the sunday with...To cut the long story short to the main reason i'm posting this....

I came out of the taxi from the FRONT SEAT gave her a hug and opened the back door for her then closed the door to go back to my normal position, She gave me a bad look from nowhere, i asked her what's wrong, she told me to come to the back, the driver could hear us clearly, i playfully told her baby don't worry we have all day together u are even gonna spend the night at my crib, i sat at d front and told the taxi to go to the cinema. During the trip to the cinema i had a little conversation with the taxi guy, from nowhere again my lady told the taxi guy in a rude voice 'please oga face your driving and stop shaking me driving into potholes anyhow abeg'...later on again she told the taxi man to totally put off the low radio station that was playing in the car, the last time he had a call and received it on Bluetooth o,she shouted then very rude telling the man please just drop that call. That's when i cautioned her to take it easy na.

We arrived at the cinema, she told me i should give her transport to go back home that she doesn't feel like staying out again...I tried to pet her,she just abandoned me took a taxi and went home. She has refused picking my calls since yesterday. Im busy at work weekdays,i dont really have time to go to her house.

Ladies/Gentlemen please where did i really go wrong

bros if u mistakenly marry this gjrl.. U will regret that sole decision for eva... She's just a toxic lady like ceec waiting to explode

Kingsdave:
I don't believe it is a one off something ... The guy have been tolerating such things at home before she made it public... Just like they say... Becareful what you tolerate... You are teaching people how to treat you... Set standards in your relationship.... If the OP was a no nonsense guy would she do such No ... Him calling first after that shows you the kind of man he is..

Not exactly. Anyone can overreact smtmes bt I also don’t expect him to tolerate trashy behavior. Like I said it’s not everytime his babe will ask him to sit next to her and since this was a cab guy and not his personal frnd it might be hard for her to explain the ish with her request.

I still want to leave the benefit of doubt to access her properly. I don’t expect him to call her again until she gets intouch to explain and apologize.

orimeo....look how this guy let wet toto dry....

chei....

we can't display our profile on nairaland, but be rest assured i can buy you air time for 500years... uber driving is a job, you have to be proud of what every you do for a living. there are successful cab driver, there are professional driver who drives presidents , they will feed your generation.

Freshprince91:
See how you dey reason?
Just because he drives his own car makes him less of a man?
Oga, i took to driving uber and taxify when we had issues at work and let me tell you something, those old money ikoyi folks are the ones who would sit by you and have good conversations during the ride, they'll even tip you at the end of the trip.
So because you're paying 700 naira for a luxury mean you should allow your girlfriend be little a fellowman like you.
Na people like you dem dey tell make dem get down from their car on the bridge.
Which kind nonsense you dey yarn. Na small small pikin full Nairaland nowadays stealing their parents money to buy airtime for their girlfriend who go still use that airtime call one mature guy wey she dey fear somewhere.

Its this kind of lady that will be dragging front seat with your mother when you finally have a car. Let me not talk too much.

lexxyrule:
On the contrary I don't subscribe to this. There can be a thousands ways, but what u enjoy in a relationship and what I value will be different from yours. What works for many might not work for others.

Trust be told, the guy is a kid. I would have tried to control the situation knowing she's over-stepping it.

Do you even know what mood swing is? Do you know what it takes to pet a lady? Why will you call another guy a third grader? Should I pass comments fully on this, you probably will be force to insult me too

Laslas, it's people like you who would wash ordinary gf pants and tell other guys it's shit

Just please grow up.

Bros, stop justifying nonsense.
I have cooked for a lady before, she was ill and had nothing to eat, i deemed it as my responsibility to do that because she has helped me several times, i could see the love in her eyes way before i did what i did.
While i was growing up, i was 15 or so and my Dad said he wanted to do something strange, it was on a Saturday morning, he asked my mom to gather her dirty clothes except panties and underwear and he asked me to join him and we did the laundry for the entire family that day, guess what ? My mother was marvelled and she couldn't believe it. She said my Dad had done so many things during their courtship but doing her laundry was unbelievable.
Irrespective of what he did, they still had their couple issues, but there was never a day my mother walked out of her matrimonial home.
What I am saying in essence is : I would go extra mile for someone who loves me, not a woman who walks out on me at the slightest provocation, not a woman who berates a driver and makes him feel less of a man because he drivers uber or refusing to pick my calls after apologizing as a bait.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Personally I get irritated when drivers pick calls while driving or don't concentrate. Anyways, you should have seated with her at d back. But her tone was rude and uncalled for.

women can get very pissed when you dont give them attention....
believe me,am still going through that till today....

its first a smile,when you dont react,they go crazy and battle ready....
like go turn dislike in seconds....

your gf is rude and ill-mannered