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Re: She Dumped Me While On A Date, Did I Really Offend Her By Doing This?! by Martinez39(m): 7:22pm On Oct 21, 2019 |
When will boys man up and learn to assess and handle simple relationship issues by themselves instead of coming to nairaland to ask for help? If this is how most boys are, then they can't be leaders and heads of their home. Read my topic about setting standards in a relationship. As a man, you must not hesitate to call your girlfriend to order and give her stern warning about her foul attitude. If she refuses to listen and sit up, you can always show her the exit door. Remember that no girl is special, irreplaceable, indispensable, or the best thing to happen since slice bread. As far as relationship is concerned, all girls can be replaced and dumped. It is sad that you are willing to swallow and put up with her bullshit. When she is behaving, you don't placate her instead you call her to order. Man up jare. Omar09 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Dumped Me While On A Date, Did I Really Offend Her By Doing This?! by Nobody: 7:24pm On Oct 21, 2019 |
Ardar:sweetheart. She was petty and rude not only to the guy but the driver. Little things matter, but a mature lady would have kept calm and talked with the guy. Thats wisdom. She acted like a kid. Even i wouldnt do such. As a lady you learn to carry yourself with a good amount of pride. Not complain an entire day for such a trivial issue. My bf once forgot our anniversary, rather than throw a tantrum, i took him aside and drew his attention to it. Simple! 11 Likes |
Re: She Dumped Me While On A Date, Did I Really Offend Her By Doing This?! by midnighter(f): 7:28pm On Oct 21, 2019 |
Lol...crazy yarn.. Well personally I wouldnt find it offensive but if it bothered her she could have explained it to you later. That is not something worth spoiling an entire evening over You are dating a baby my brother! 6 Likes |
Re: She Dumped Me While On A Date, Did I Really Offend Her By Doing This?! by midnighter(f): 7:31pm On Oct 21, 2019 |
Ariza: I wish I could share this comment on Channels TV i absolutely despise people who talk down on low-income workers Its the biggest sign of inferiority complex and bad character... so disgusting to me 17 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: She Dumped Me While On A Date, Did I Really Offend Her By Doing This?! by chigoizie7(m): 7:34pm On Oct 21, 2019 |
Starz825: Unfortunately, ladies are ladies and can’t act like a man that they are not. |
Re: She Dumped Me While On A Date, Did I Really Offend Her By Doing This?! by midnighter(f): 7:36pm On Oct 21, 2019 |
Ardar: She was selfish and childish in the way she handled it...she could have held her peace and explained her feelings to him when they arrived. Taking her feelings out on the taxi driver was so uncalled for Just look at all those embarrassing comments she was barking out from the back...who the hell does she think she is? Kai! Very stupid story! 5 Likes |
Re: She Dumped Me While On A Date, Did I Really Offend Her By Doing This?! by Amumaigwe: 7:40pm On Oct 21, 2019 |
chigoizie7: Nonetheless, she does not have an atom of self restraint nor respect for the guy. I will feel embarrassed abd ashamed at such a conduct. This is the type that packs out of her matrimonial home over a slight musunderstanding and eagerly wait (usually forever) to be begged to come back home. Disaster waiting to happen. 9 Likes |
Re: She Dumped Me While On A Date, Did I Really Offend Her By Doing This?! by chigoizie7(m): 7:44pm On Oct 21, 2019 |
Amumaigwe: Shebi I still talk am say, she is rude and lacks manners. Perhaps, na op I Dey try advice on his own part. Maybe when I have the chance to advice the girl, I would also tell her , her own flaws. |
Re: She Dumped Me While On A Date, Did I Really Offend Her By Doing This?! by Omar09(m): 7:53pm On Oct 21, 2019 |
Martinez39: What's the worse that could happen? She leaving me and me starting all over. Mehn this bitches ain't worth my stress. Even me go tell the banny if you walk out on me then don't ever return. If she continues, it's good bye. |
Re: She Dumped Me While On A Date, Did I Really Offend Her By Doing This?! by Trimque2k1(m): 8:20pm On Oct 21, 2019 |
WowSweetGuy:Romantic scene has pre and post,you lack the former for not joining her at the back,me that will always want my babe to be alone with me at back seats...Just wait a little she will come around to either breakup officially or amend her own part.but keep sending her text sha 3 Likes |
Re: She Dumped Me While On A Date, Did I Really Offend Her By Doing This?! by PHOTSEE(m): 8:24pm On Oct 21, 2019 |
GUY YOU ARE ROMANTIC , SHE SEE CAR ENTER SEF DEY FORM ON TOP, WEY KEKE FULL GROUND, BESIDE SHE KNOW BEG YOU CARRY AM COMMOT, LOCAL TIN SELF. NA CANTIN DEM THEY CARRY THIS CAN ONE GO. SAVE YOUR MONEY NEXT TIME. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Dumped Me While On A Date, Did I Really Offend Her By Doing This?! by jelel6: 9:09pm On Oct 21, 2019 |
My two cents... OP, as a fellow guy, I understand why you'd want to seat at the front of a cab. But this case is different. You're with a lady. Even more, she's your girlfriend. You should have sat at the back seat with her. Now, some ladies would just let it go and not ask you to come seat beside her. But seeing that you guys are out on a date, she naturally felt you both should walk hand in hand on this special night. Hence, she felt the need to urge you to come to the back with her. She said it aloud and the driver heard too. You Should have joined her this time. I understand how it'd look but you can't allow issues play out in public like this. I'd expect you to just say "Okay" and join her. The driver is a stranger to you both I guess so no level there I not too concerned about her leaving you at the cinema afterwards. Besides, I don't know if you enjoy tit-for-tat stuffs in your relationships. However, However, I'd never overlook her behavior to the cab driver afterwards. Never! Personally, that's enough to end the relationship for me. Last bullet..... Bros, I hope you know you can't beg for love? Stop feeling like you need to appease her. Instead, let her know you'd like to discuss events that day and see if you guys could move forward. Make it clear you err by not setting with her. Let her know leaving you at the cinema afterwards was a needless tit for tat and an overreaction. Then, unmistakably, her behavior towards the driver is unacceptable under ANY CIRCUMSTANCES. Let her know that and insist she admits her wrongdoing. Good people abound every where in the world. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: She Dumped Me While On A Date, Did I Really Offend Her By Doing This?! by solmusdesigns: 9:13pm On Oct 21, 2019 |
what a pussy nigga.. i dont care if its my grandma or the president, if you fvcking work out on me i am not calling you first where is your fvcking self respect man.. no woman loves a pushover so people shouldnt blame her 3 Likes |
Re: She Dumped Me While On A Date, Did I Really Offend Her By Doing This?! by Pharaoh4rin(m): 9:18pm On Oct 21, 2019 |
RedCreme21: Redcreme21, are u a Nigerian girls? Because this is d first time I see where a Nigerian lady in ds forum not supporting a wrong attitude by a fellow. Nice one joor 3 Likes |
Re: She Dumped Me While On A Date, Did I Really Offend Her By Doing This?! by palmshots: 9:23pm On Oct 21, 2019 |
Even if it's ur friend driving, this kinda lady wud av still wanted you to come share a sit with them at the back ...This are the little things that you need to start to notice not until it becomes a whole...well she's Ur girl and you know her well But if you are considering her for marriage..My advice wud be RUN!!! 4 Likes |
Re: She Dumped Me While On A Date, Did I Really Offend Her By Doing This?! by Nobody: 9:30pm On Oct 21, 2019 |
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Re: She Dumped Me While On A Date, Did I Really Offend Her By Doing This?! by Fountainofyouth(f): 9:34pm On Oct 21, 2019 |
Your only fault is not sitting with her, but that doesn't validate her condescending attitude towards the driver, she is a very rude person, how can someone be rude and look down on a complete stranger, no matter who the person is? She has a bad character, let her be. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Dumped Me While On A Date, Did I Really Offend Her By Doing This?! by Nobody: 9:34pm On Oct 21, 2019 |
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Re: She Dumped Me While On A Date, Did I Really Offend Her By Doing This?! by kushercain: 9:35pm On Oct 21, 2019 |
phintohlar: Is this suppose to make sense? 2 Likes |
Re: She Dumped Me While On A Date, Did I Really Offend Her By Doing This?! by midnighter(f): 9:39pm On Oct 21, 2019 |
Inthemoment: Is that why she included the innocent driver in her stupidity? Abeg He offended her by being insensitive but she handled it in completely the wrong way. If she's tired of him she should just say so instead of making a spectacle of herself Some people think that they are God's gift to the world 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Dumped Me While On A Date, Did I Really Offend Her By Doing This?! by Nobody: 9:52pm On Oct 21, 2019 |
Pharaoh4rin:i grew up here in Nigeria. Im a female but i wont be a hypocrite. The lady in question reacted nastily regarding a matter she could have handled with a little more dignity. The guy did wrong, but she messed up hands down. 10 Likes |
Re: She Dumped Me While On A Date, Did I Really Offend Her By Doing This?! by Nobody: 10:12pm On Oct 21, 2019 |
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Re: She Dumped Me While On A Date, Did I Really Offend Her By Doing This?! by Nobody: 10:18pm On Oct 21, 2019 |
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Re: She Dumped Me While On A Date, Did I Really Offend Her By Doing This?! by Nobody: 10:21pm On Oct 21, 2019 |
Re: She Dumped Me While On A Date, Did I Really Offend Her By Doing This?! by AfroKnight: 10:24pm On Oct 21, 2019 |
This babe overreacted. She had no right to be so disrespectful to the driver. She will embarrass you one day. Spectacular embarrassment. Continue condoning shît. 5 Likes |
Re: She Dumped Me While On A Date, Did I Really Offend Her By Doing This?! by iRepNaija1: 10:25pm On Oct 21, 2019 |
OladimejiRufai: You don't need to apologize lol. I was just curious. |
Re: She Dumped Me While On A Date, Did I Really Offend Her By Doing This?! by Nobody: 10:25pm On Oct 21, 2019 |
Re: She Dumped Me While On A Date, Did I Really Offend Her By Doing This?! by Nobody: 10:31pm On Oct 21, 2019 |
midnighter:I can't even imagine what made her think she could pass her aggression on the taxi driver, was he the cause of her boyfriend's "misconduct"? The man self try, he suppose park and drop the boyfriend and him lunatic girlfriend for roadside there make the two of them find them square root. Nonsense! 5 Likes |
Re: She Dumped Me While On A Date, Did I Really Offend Her By Doing This?! by midnighter(f): 10:36pm On Oct 21, 2019 |
Ariza: Lol exactly. So embarrassing. Everybody should bow down to her and her bad character, as her Royal Highness. Rubbish 1 Like |
Re: She Dumped Me While On A Date, Did I Really Offend Her By Doing This?! by Jokerman(m): 10:41pm On Oct 21, 2019 |
What if the girl did the same to the guy, by sitting at the front gisting with the driver even when her guy says she should come join him at the back?? 6 Likes |
Re: She Dumped Me While On A Date, Did I Really Offend Her By Doing This?! by CyberWolf: 10:45pm On Oct 21, 2019 |
Both of you are wrong. You did wrong by staying at the front while she stayed at the back. You should’ve have joined her at the back seat.. Be a ( good- bad guy), women love them so much. She was also wrong by yelling and abandoning you at the cinema, shows that she isn’t emotionally mature. You too stop calling like a mumu, what am I even saying? You’re both emotionally not mature hence, kids. My verdict: Both of you should grow up. 7 Likes |
Re: She Dumped Me While On A Date, Did I Really Offend Her By Doing This?! by Nobody: 10:45pm On Oct 21, 2019 |
Jokerman:If the guy did such, and he acted has she did. Sulking, shouting at the driver, be honest you too would feel disgusted. Place your self in his shoes. 2 Likes |
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