Is this an advice or what? Why should any woman worry because of a cheating husband? Even if the man is taking care of the kids/wife, cheating should not be condoned by black women. As far as am concerned, it is better to divorce such a man, and live as a single mother.

Like I mentioned before, culture/other vices is what stops the black woman from making such bold steps. However, many African women are gradually waking up.i have always held the opinion that children are the main gains women should look out for if they marry African men, except she sees nothing wrong with his cheating nature, or she's the type that wants to cheat back.

unbitchable:

You want to kill yourself because some woman wants to lick from the soup you enjoy. Y'all are a bunch of very pathetic selfish beings. Face your kids and be humble as long as the man is taking care of you. You dig?

I disagree with you. You are aware that the reason many women cheat, is to pay back their cheating partners. So if a man is faithful, there is a greater chance for his partner to respect him, and stick to him alone.

MNDY:


Women always playing the victim. You've been wired that way naturally. Not only husbands cheat. Wives also still want that spark they had before marriage and want to be desired by men as it was, leading them to even cheat more.

crackhaus:

This was funny to read because it is something I have personally had to discuss with some of my closest friends regarding the silliness of men who want to move heaven & earth to satisfy a woman in bed
We usually sit and make fun of a certain friend of ours constantly, because sex to him is like a do or die affair. Old boy wey no gree get sense.

Like I always tell any G who cares to listen - do what you can and go to sleep, that shit is not your calling in life. If one round is all your strength can manage, bros go sleep. You can't kill a woman with sex o, instead you will die well on top of her. People wey dey bleed every month and can bring out a baby with head the size of a FIFA ball from down there na you wan kill? With what dîck?
Fvcking a woman multiple rounds and making her squirt multiple times is NOT what stops women from cheating.

You sef be honest, which woman will see a man who makes her puccy wet & throb with excitement and she will start thinking of the last good sex she had where she was vibrating and squirting uncontrollably?
All she will be thinking then and there is the feeling of this untested man inside her, nothing else. It does not matter whether her husband at home is the tornado.

We are at the moment of truth so we are spilling it out truthfully
U know, our men love to brag too much.
They brag with everything including sex. How they are tigers in bed, 50 mins, 2 rounds plus mouth action, all join
They start off with a fake pace, couldn't maintain as time goes on.
Woman will brag to her friends that her guy is machine abi engine. U gat to save face na. Also forgeting that our lifestyle has its toll on men's sexual prowess so instead of your woman telling you face to face( some actually do) that u dont satisfy them again with the pace u set,they look elsewhere.
Also, if not for the money which men use to hold majority of the women down, some would have gone without looking back.
Some of u have the scariest looking prikks. Some are bend south west and south east
Some are so small, pls don't let me start.
U see,our women knew all these things and have been managing yet u guys are shoving it on their faces everyday that u are men and can do as you want.
Woman wey dey manage small prikk or bent one or 2 seconds prikks?
That's why I said women too know how to chop and clean mouth.
Your attitudes made women to start using plan b. If not for some cultural and religious reasons, most of these women would have exposed your sorry ass

That's why I sometime laugh when these small boys start bragging up and down.

When a woman chose a man, she is ready to take in the good and the bad about the man. But after giving birth to your child with torn and stitched pusssy, the thank u she get is that Olympus has fallen or pusssy is too wide.
And cheating. I mean, common, so heartless.
So women has learnt to perch without flying bro

They will grow to understand what? Besides don't you think it's immature to hold the opinion that it is right for African men to cheat on their partners?

The western world is riddled with what? Your inputs are funny, so you think the black woman is happier in her her marriage with a cheating husband, than her foreign counterparts, who is a free single mother? You need to think again.

Don't you think intimacy gadgets are no different from a husband with a public diiick? To me the former is even better, because there wouldn't be any emotional problems to stress a single mother.

How many divorced women have regrets or have died after divorce? They are still alive and life goes on, especially if she was able get her kids along with her.

Personally I hate cheating, I would not wish to do it to my partner, bit I would hate a cheating husband with disgust.

Toks2008:


Bro please let this matter die. Don't waste your energy trying to talk sense into kids...they will grow to understand.

The western world they are talking about is riddled with single mothers who are frustrated and lonely with many having intimacy gadgets as husbands.

Having a faithful guy is not impossible but extremely difficult hence trying your lick to find one will be the most foolish thing any lady will ever imagine.

Laslas they will choose to either be a single mum and be intimacy gadget in the hands of ever willing Bleep boys, remain in solitude and take solace in sex gadgets or just remain miserable and lonely till their old age.

The irony is that many of these ladies clamouring for a faithful man are so sexually loosed and some of them can't even remember their body count.

Only a lady who got married as a virgin deserves a faithful man.

Bunch of silly immature ladies.

There's no why. Na so e just be. In the end we are who we are.

A man doesn't cheat becos the society makes it ok.
A man doesn't cheat becos he hates his wife
A man doesn't cheat becos he is irresponsible;
He does cos of his irrepressible and controllable desire
He does cos he doesn't fear God.

I am a man and there are lots of horrible things i could do if I disregard God, if I have no control. If I can't keep my desires in check.

LilMissFavvy:
I disagree with you. You are aware that the reason many women cheat, is to pay back their cheating partners. So if a man is faithful, there is a greater chance for his partner to respect him, and stick to him alone.

Stooooory

C me c Wahala who are the men cheating with? Kwat!!! It takes two to tangle. Men are foolish cheater easier to catch but women, can cheat on a man for ten years without a trace. I hail una oo

MrBrownJay1:


we all have to dedicate our lives to such important issues because cheating in marriage/dating has a deadly effect on families all over the world (thanks to the deadly diseases that are brought home as" take away" )... furthermore, if you have a daughter, sister, niece, aunt etc who is soon gonna enter the dating (and possibly marriage) world, you have to try to make such world a better place for their sake.

This right here
+1000

crackhaus:

You want me to stop?

You said everybody should cheat and let us rest... Will you rest when your lover cheats on you and brings you back diseases and children who aren't yours... Will you rest and find peace?

ifyalways:
The society is riddled with:
Lazy and jobless ladies who will accept and live with anything so long as their bills are paid and they are addressed as Mrs.

Failed Parents of the ladies above.

Retired guymen masquerading as Pastors/marriage counsellors who tell wives of cheating husbands to go on 21 days fasting .

@bold:

It would have been OK if it was jobless and lazy women who stayed.

You would be shocked that some of these wives feed the cheats and their runs.

@Topic: the more you look, the less you see.

The wives are fine with it, what should we do?

crackhaus:

Believe me, I'm with you on all this. No one actually believes cheating is okay, not even the people who partake in it.

So going by the crux of the topic, what do you suggest as a solution?

You would be shocked.

Someone has asked me if I went to hell and saw people there for adultery.

Well, I Para and mellowed.

1. He is an older relative with about 13yrs and I went to visit him

2. His wife was not supporting me.

I look critically at couples whose husbands cheat with impunity and

1. The wives are deep down convinced all men cheat and they did not look out for faithfulness as a quality

2. The husbands know that the wives would do nothing if they cheat and they carry go.

3. They met in very strange circumstances aka clubs, side chics upgraded to main etc. The couple above were on and off fvckmates and a gentleman close to the husband was dying for the babe for years and would have done all he could to make her happy.

4. They believe all men cheat and grooved wella in school. I know how many of my course mates 'pitied' me that I wasted my youth and stuck to my husband. To them, I ought to have grooved aka slept with different guys, partied etc. because after marriage was prison.

5. Some of the wives have stopped sleeping with their husbands (alpha bleeps, beta bucks) and are fine with them sorting themselves outside.

6. Some wives see their husbands as saving them from the clutches of eternal spinsterhood and so any price is fine.

I know a man who said his wife would take almost any shit from him including leave her job if he asks after initial gra gra. He then looked us in the eye and told us that if he cheated, he would be lucky to leave the marriage alive.

Cc: AmazonTopaz

Hmmm, insightful. Don't mind those men on this thread that are trying to force women into believing that men cheating is okay and that women must accept that silly reality. Some men cheat because they know they will get away with it if not they would think twice. You just expantiated that point. Thanks for your contribution.

bukatyne:


You would be shocked.

Someone has asked me if I went to hell and saw people there for adultery.

Well, I Para and mellowed.

1. He is an older relative with about 13yrs and I went to visit him

2. His wife was not supporting me.

I look critically at couples whose husbands cheat with impunity and

1. The wives are deep down convinced all men cheat and they did not look out for faithfulness as a quality

2. The husbands know that the wives would do nothing if they cheat and they carry go.

3. They met in very strange circumstances aka clubs, side chics upgraded to main etc. The couple above were on and off fvckmates and a gentleman close to the husband was dying for the babe for years and would have done all he could to make her happy.

4. They believe all men cheat and grooved wella in school. I know how many of my course mates 'pitied' me that I wasted my youth and stuck to my husband. To them, I ought to have grooved aka slept with different guys, partied etc. because after marriage was prison.

5. Some of the wives have stopped sleeping with their husbands (alpha bleeps, beta bucks) and are fine with them sorting themselves outside.

6. Some wives see their husbands as saving them from the clutches of eternal spinsterhood and so any price is fine.

I know a man who said his wife would take almost any shit from him including leave her job if he asks after initial gra gra. He then looked us in the eye and told us that if he cheated, he would be lucky to leave the marriage alive.

Cc: AmazonTopaz

MrBrownJay1:


we all have to dedicate our lives to such important issues because cheating in marriage/dating has a deadly effect on families all over the world (thanks to the deadly diseases that are brought home as" take away" )... furthermore, if you have a daughter, sister, niece, aunt etc who is soon gonna enter the dating (and possibly marriage) world, you have to try to make such world a better place for their sake.

when you are with your friends at the boozer, and one of them is bragging about a new shorty he got, while wifey is unknowingly at home thinking she has a good man, tell this man to shut the fukc up with his cheap aasss BS, and look him straight in his eyes and tell him that if he was indeed a "real man" he wouldnt crawl at the dead of night like a RAT, scared of his woman!

@1st paragraph.

I share your passion however, the value is lost on the very women you are trying to fight for.

There is someone still asking us how to fight for her man.

They are not married and he practically has another babe.

Acidosis:


What kind of philandering can be greater than the idea of marrying two or more wives? Muslims (over 40% of the total population) support this; core Yoruba tradition supports (over 10% of the total population).


Philandering will reduce when you abolish the notion that it is okay to live with two or more women.

Hahahaha

You people will not kill me!

Jaggz07:
Men and women are not equal,If u people like kill urself till tomorrow it's never going to change. All religions that I'm aware of rates d man ahead of the woman and not as equals. There was polygamy in d bible,Islam supports it so where una come dey get una defense from? That's why they don't stay in marriages anymore,if is to pay bills now they will be shouting are u not the man

Please leave the Bible out of it.

sassysure:

U know, this post made me laugh so hard

It seems u are still a teen.
Hormones are still strong and u feel on top of the world
Reality starts when in a few yrs( they no dey even reach 30yrs again), u that used too go second round will be struggling to finish round one with minimal time frame

When u see the look on your woman's face, u rush out to look for shekpe, buruntashi, alcohol, viagra,name them to save face
I am yet to read women not liking sex or taking drugs in naija because she has low sex energy. Here, there are so many complaint from boys, not men over their inability to sustain it, not to talk of satisfy their women.
Na u dey run up and down to satisfy her. All she has to do is spread her legs, she may be charting on her phone while u are sweating profusely to maintain your pride.
As she is, she can take 5 men in a day and that doesn't remove any sweat from her.

Una never see anything
Cry cry babies

You read things and one is amazed.

A research done some years back said Nigerian women in their 50s are the major customers of dildos.

Whatever makes anyone satisfied.

AmazonTopaz:
Hmmm, insightful. Don't mind those men on this thread that are trying to force women into believing that men cheating is okay and that women must accept that silly reality. Some men cheat because they know they will get away with it if not they would think twice. You just expantiated that point. Thanks for your contribution.

My dear,

NO man can force you to accept anything.

With all the campaigns and surulere stories, my sisters are still looking for the elusive rich men to marry.

If men can't influence their taste in wealth, why should they influence their test in faithfulness?

bukatyne:


You would be shocked.

Someone has asked me if I went to hell and saw people there for adultery.

Well, I Para and mellowed.

1. He is an older relative with about 13yrs and I went to visit him

2. His wife was not supporting me.

I look critically at couples whose husbands cheat with impunity and

1. The wives are deep down convinced all men cheat and they did not look out for faithfulness as a quality

2. The husbands know that the wives would do nothing if they cheat and they carry go.

3. They met in very strange circumstances aka clubs, side chics upgraded to main etc. The couple above were on and off fvckmates and a gentleman close to the husband was dying for the babe for years and would have done all he could to make her happy.

4. They believe all men cheat and grooved wella in school. I know how many of my course mates 'pitied' me that I wasted my youth and stuck to my husband. To them, I ought to have grooved aka slept with different guys, partied etc. because after marriage was prison.

5. Some of the wives have stopped sleeping with their husbands (alpha bleeps, beta bucks) and are fine with them sorting themselves outside.

6. Some wives see their husbands as saving them from the clutches of eternal spinsterhood and so any price is fine.

I know a man who said his wife would take almost any shit from him including leave her job if he asks after initial gra gra. He then looked us in the eye and told us that if he cheated, he would be lucky to leave the marriage alive.

Cc: AmazonTopaz

Reading your comments was one of the things I missed during my short time away

At least you agree the situation is at a deadlock when women themselves are willing participants in the game
Even most of your sisters on this thread raising dust have been (or will be) counted among the statistics of women that condone their cheating husbands, noise sampling is really just the modus operandi on this forum. No be Nigerian women again?

Like I said before, women should also start cheating too and brag about it as well. Let the game be fair, at least they will stop crying. Nigerian men are not ready to stop anytime soon when puccy as a commodity is readily available.

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sassysure:

We are at the moment of truth so we are spilling it out truthfully
U know, our men love to brag too much.
They brag with everything including sex. How they are tigers in bed, 50 mins, 2 rounds plus mouth action, all join
They start off with a fake pace, couldn't maintain as time goes on.
Woman will brag to her friends that her guy is machine abi engine. U gat to save face na. Also forgeting that our lifestyle has its toll on men's sexual prowess so instead of your woman telling you face to face( some actually do) that u dont satisfy them again with the pace u set,they look elsewhere.
Also, if not for the money which men use to hold majority of the women down, some would have gone without looking back.
Some of u have the scariest looking prikks. Some are bend south west and south east
Some are so small, pls don't let me start.
U see,our women knew all these things and have been managing yet u guys are shoving it on their faces everyday that u are men and can do as you want.
Woman wey dey manage small prikk or bent one or 2 seconds prikks?
That's why I said women too know how to chop and clean mouth.
Your attitudes made women to start using plan b. If not for some cultural and religious reasons, most of these women would have exposed your sorry ass

That's why I sometime laugh when these small boys start bragging up and down.

When a woman chose a man, she is ready to take in the good and the bad about the man. But after giving birth to your child with torn and stitched pusssy, the thank u she get is that Olympus has fallen or pusssy is too wide.
And cheating. I mean, common, so heartless.
So women has learnt to perch without flying bro

So let everyone cheat and enyoy (in Akwa-Ibom tongue)

Guest007:


You said everybody should cheat and let us rest... Will you rest when your lover cheats on you and brings you back diseases and children who aren't yours... Will you rest and find peace?

Honeybee, this ain't something I ever worry myself about. It's certainly not a determinant of my rest and peace.

crackhaus:

So let everyone cheat and enyoy (in Akwa-Ibom tongue)

Gbam
Don't spit fire o

sassysure:

Gbam
Don't spit fire o

Lol... You have this unyielding resolve that it bothers me, I wonder why.

crackhaus:

Honeybee, this ain't something I ever worry myself about. It's certainly not a determinant of my rest and peace.

Then stop running your mouth and advocating it for others... If you don't want it then others don't need it...

crackhaus:

Lol... You have this unyielding resolve that it bothers me, I wonder why.

Cos u are a man
It's natural.

The way labour bothers women.

Deal

Hipsofagoddess:


Was there polygamy in the time of Jesus? Did Isaac marry two wives? Did Abraham marry two wives?

Israel married two by mistake and he paid the price as he could not control his children. They ended up killing people at will and even sold their brother to slavery.

David did it, and his son ended up sleeping with his wives on the rooftop. Solomon did polygamy, and gave birth to an idiot that began the destruction of his empire.

When God created Adam, he created only one woman for him which is Eve. If God made men to be polygamous, he would have given Adam two women. Jesus was so much against adultery that he made it the sole reason to approve divorce.

EDUCATE yourself on your holy book, so we dont have to do it for you:
there certainly wasnt polygamy openly allowed in biblical times but there was MANY instances of highly respected men of that holy book having countless of concubines, baby mamas and mistresses.... just to name a few: King Solomon, King David, Abraham.... the only one that was remotely viewed as a sinner was when one of them went for a "married" woman... but as for any of them openly bedding multiple women and having children with women that were NOT their wives, it was NEVER viewed as a sin by that same holy book.

Guest007:


Then stop running your mouth and advocating it for others... If you don't want it then others don't need it...

You're all over the place Layla and may just have to read that comment again to understand it

Where did I say I don't want it, and what am I advocating?

You girls don't like double standards regarding infidelity, and it is not stopping anytime soon. So saying you all should level up and play the game also, upsets you?
Shouldn't you be happy?

"What I don't worry myself about" in layman term means no woman is smart enough to pass another man's child as mine... you can take this to the bank.

sassysure:

Cos u are a man
It's natural.

The way labour bothers women.

Deal

It does not bother me, you have to believe me.
When you know exactly where you stand with the person you're with, surprises can't be sprung on you because you're always prepared. This is how I live.

MrBrownJay1:


EDUCATE yourself on your holy book, so we dont have to do it for you:
there certainly wasnt polygamy openly allowed in biblical times but there was MANY instances of highly respected men of that holy book having countless of concubines, baby mamas and mistresses.... just to name a few: King Solomon, King David, Abraham.... the only one that was remotely viewed as a sinner was when one of them went for a "married" woman... but as for any of them openly bedding multiple women and having children with women that were NOT their wives, it was NEVER viewed as a sin by that same holy book.

It was never viewed as a sin? You know, I like to give people my view on things. But you, I won't even waste my time because your brain is incapable of thinking. You're not a thinker, and you sound pathetic.

Hipsofagoddess:


It was never viewed as a sin? You know, I like to give people my views on things. But you, I won't even waste my time because your brain is incapable of thinking. You're not a thinker, and you sound pathetic.

yes you better be quiet, as your holy book is a mountain of contradicting BS... these respected men had countless of mistresses, baby mamas and concubines (some even to the number of 700) and were NEVER punished for it (or viewed as sinner) by that holy book, so long as the babes were unmarried.

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