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Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by CanadaOrBust: 9:38am On Oct 29, 2019
Logan95:

She started by saying she's had two abortions for her ex, that she slept with many guys for money which she eventually spent on her ex. I was dumbfounded and I'm in a dilemma now. She just said I should forgive her that I don't deserve her.

Just her way of trynna break up with u without hurting your feelings
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Nobody: 9:38am On Oct 29, 2019
ericsmith:




what is this one saying sef, where are the gud gurls or you mean d ones that pretend, act all gud whereas they are sumtinelse.
its so rare to see a gurl that will tell u her dirt past... don't u read what most these gurls claim here.

you dont have standards, so you can accept any girl into your life, prostitutes and hoes just because they told you their past lives and pity stories, just because she told him her past doesnt mean she is a good girl who wont Bleep up his life, instead of being emotional read through the lines and see the big picture.it is not rare to see girls telling their past, you ask questions and it will be given to you,.

at 20 years of age, 2 abortion and lot of sleeping with guys for money and you think you can have a good relationship with her...men! you must be joking.

most of you are talking based on pity and that pity will surely destroy you.

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Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Branduche: 9:38am On Oct 29, 2019
She values you and the relationship
You need to hold her to high esteem for that courage to be open and fair
You also need to tell her yours too for balance

There is No woman/man without a history

Logan95:
Good day house.

I meet my girlfriend recently in school, she's an undergraduate student while I'm a post graduate student.

She is a very beautiful girl and well endowed. For the few months we've dated she's one of a kind. She has a good heart, buys me stuffs even though I'm not poor, cleans my house and relates well with my sister to mention a few.

However she told me about her ex, she loved him and supported him financially because he was a student and broke.

We have been going smooth until this night she decided to tell me her past without me asking. She said I am too special but I have to know who she truly is.

She started by saying she's had two abortions for her ex, that she slept with many guys for money which she eventually spent on her ex. I was dumbfounded and I'm in a dilemma now. She just said I should forgive her that I don't deserve her.

I don't know how to tackle this majorly because she confessed without me asking and she did all these before I meet her.

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Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by DaddyMorenike: 9:38am On Oct 29, 2019
Bros I have been in this exact ish. See ehn, continue staying with her, you both continue your own quota. But know she's not your wife.

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Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Powersurge: 9:38am On Oct 29, 2019
Logan95:
Good day house.

I meet my girlfriend recently in school, she's an undergraduate student while I'm a post graduate student.

She is a very beautiful girl and well endowed. For the few months we've dated she's one of a kind. She has a good heart, buys me stuffs even though I'm not poor, cleans my house and relates well with my sister to mention a few.

However she told me about her ex, she loved him and supported him financially because he was a student and broke.

We have been going smooth until this night she decided to tell me her past without me asking. She said I am too special but I have to know who she truly is.

She started by saying she's had two abortions for her ex, that she slept with many guys for money which she eventually spent on her ex. I was dumbfounded and I'm in a dilemma now. She just said I should forgive her that I don't deserve her.

I don't know how to tackle this majorly because she confessed without me asking and she did all these before I meet her.

I wouldn't think twice before marrying a girl like that.

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Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by eyinola: 9:38am On Oct 29, 2019
Logan95:
Good day house.

I meet my girlfriend recently in school, she's an undergraduate student while I'm a post graduate student.

She is a very beautiful girl and well endowed. For the few months we've dated she's one of a kind. She has a good heart, buys me stuffs even though I'm not poor, cleans my house and relates well with my sister to mention a few.

However she told me about her ex, she loved him and supported him financially because he was a student and broke.

We have been going smooth until this night she decided to tell me her past without me asking. She said I am too special but I have to know who she truly is.

She started by saying she's had two abortions for her ex, that she slept with many guys for money which she eventually spent on her ex. I was dumbfounded and I'm in a dilemma now. She just said I should forgive her that I don't deserve her.

I don't know how to tackle this majorly because she confessed without me asking and she did all these before I meet her.
she loves u and that's y she open up to u so that u won't find out later..we all hv our past too

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Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Justinba1997(m): 9:39am On Oct 29, 2019
Dats her past bro so go on with present,so leave buygone for buygone....

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Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by chuksjuve(m): 9:40am On Oct 29, 2019
Some of the things most young people do in the name of love at their tender age end up coming to cost/ hunt them at the later future:

One who can commit abortion in the name of love is likely capable of committing murder if the love goes sour.

For me, I will cut off that relationship ASAP!

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Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by lessonsoflife: 9:40am On Oct 29, 2019
nuelsam:
always remember okafors law....always.........once a hoe, always hoe.....I think what played down there was a game and if u aint red pilled....u can never understand, never!

What's this red pill.
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by CaptainMitch: 9:41am On Oct 29, 2019
My friend marry her, one less olosho off the street, who you want make e marry olosho before

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Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Beat123(f): 9:41am On Oct 29, 2019
Logan95:
Good day house.

I meet my girlfriend recently in school, she's an undergraduate student while I'm a post graduate student.

She is a very beautiful girl and well endowed. For the few months we've dated she's one of a kind. She has a good heart, buys me stuffs even though I'm not poor, cleans my house and relates well with my sister to mention a few.

However she told me about her ex, she loved him and supported him financially because he was a student and broke.

We have been going smooth until this night she decided to tell me her past without me asking. She said I am too special but I have to know who she truly is.

She started by saying she's had two abortions for her ex, that she slept with many guys for money which she eventually spent on her ex. I was dumbfounded and I'm in a dilemma now. She just said I should forgive her that I don't deserve her.

I don't know how to tackle this majorly because she confessed without me asking and she did all these before I meet her.
you sure your doing PhD? Because it’s like you have kindergarten brain

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Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by aspirebig: 9:41am On Oct 29, 2019
What if she was forming holy holy and never told you,

Just forgive her and go ahead if you really love her, many babes outside U20 have done like 5 different abortions for different men, still they keep straight and innocent face.Even, some are still claiming 'virgin's....
Men dey see something sha ooo.

Them many o like that, if you leave her, do you know the profile of your 'next', it could be worse.

Las las, the choice is yours.

I want to add here that, as human, generally speaking, we are very unpredictable in nature.People can change from good to bad and vice versa depending on many circumstances. Many good girls have turned to bad, and return to good, while many bad girls have turned to good and return to bad or even remain good. It all depends.

Relationship and life generally have no manual. As no two situations are the same.

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Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by CaptainMitch: 9:42am On Oct 29, 2019
cheesy
edimolu3:
You mean your gf is a hôe with a good heart?, like she's a bonafide member on instamessage and codedruns?

I'm sure many comrades in the beer parlour must have done quite a number on her.

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Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by karnafiu03(m): 9:42am On Oct 29, 2019
Logan95:

She's quite a young girl at 20. I don't know why she made these mistakes

Oohh shit!!
This girl is just too young for this.....
@op pls choose wisely, if u still love her, date her for some time at least 6monts, study her well, if she sticks to you then u can wife her.....but pls dont add to her problem....limit having sex with her

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Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Sampam911: 9:42am On Oct 29, 2019
My brother run for ur life.... Dis is pure deliverance to u.....
lessonsoflife:


What's this red pill.
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by naijadrivablog: 9:42am On Oct 29, 2019
lilwetdick:


ok.. but she also bought for you

anyway up to you, as they said the nice guys always get the bad girl when she wanna settle down

age is not in her side, she wants to settle down thus all these open up stories, so that you will pity her and carry her along

anyway, every man for himself, if i was in your shoe i wouldnt accept her, i have standards and i cant be comfortable with a woman with lot of body count and abortion reason is many women with lot of body count have issues, issues you cant solve, issues of bonding with their future partner, also potential std and sti. that is just my opinion

it is up to you.




Forget,las las, your wife was someone's ex. Give and take, I like bad gals that have DECIDED to change and get married. How do you know? redpill won't teach you that.
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Lamanii22(f): 9:42am On Oct 29, 2019
No matter the advises given to you... The choice is yours to make... I'd like it if you forgive her though... Since you said she's got a good heart...

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Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by DTeekay(m): 9:42am On Oct 29, 2019
It depends on u, if you want to Marry her or just bleep n run.

If u want to Marry her, monitor her for a while if she changes then go ahead.

If na bleep n run, no cause for alarm bleep am well pass am to the next nigga.

If u want tips on how to monitor WhatsApp me. Zero seven zero five four three seven zero four zero three

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Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by chuksjuve(m): 9:43am On Oct 29, 2019
Some of you saying let bye gones be bye gones, I don't really think you understand what abortion really is, if you do, you wouldn't advise OP to continue .

Abortion is sequel to murder!!!
MURDER !!!

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Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Asiaerrandboy: 9:43am On Oct 29, 2019
Logan95:

She's quite a young girl at 20. I don't know why she made these mistakes

What mistake? Are you alright at all?
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by CaptainMitch: 9:43am On Oct 29, 2019
Na pocohontas and ibkayee I wan hear their point of view
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by chigoizie7(m): 9:44am On Oct 29, 2019
Logan95:
Good day house.

I meet my girlfriend recently in school, she's an undergraduate student while I'm a post graduate student.

She is a very beautiful girl and well endowed. For the few months we've dated she's one of a kind. She has a good heart, buys me stuffs even though I'm not poor, cleans my house and relates well with my sister to mention a few.

However she told me about her ex, she loved him and supported him financially because he was a student and broke.

We have been going smooth until this night she decided to tell me her past without me asking. She said I am too special but I have to know who she truly is.

She started by saying she's had two abortions for her ex, that she slept with many guys for money which she eventually spent on her ex. I was dumbfounded and I'm in a dilemma now. She just said I should forgive her that I don't deserve her.

I don't know how to tackle this majorly because she confessed without me asking and she did all these before I meet her.

Then if your heart is pure, forgive her.
She came clean with you. Whatever she did is a normal thing for any other Nigerian girl. She only realized that what she was doing was wrong and had to change , thus talking about it.

You that is OP, haven’t you given woman belle before?


What makes you think that the next girl you might leave her for hasn’t done worst than this very girl did.

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Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by dapolaw(m): 9:44am On Oct 29, 2019
be a man bro, she told you her past because she loves you... Please dont take it against her, inasmuch as she is not doing it anymore.

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Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Coldie(m): 9:44am On Oct 29, 2019
Oboy she's your gf you have nothing to fear, u can tag along, if u like her keep her but if u see someone better I advice u to move on
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by DameB(f): 9:45am On Oct 29, 2019
What surprises me is that some guys will see a girl from an average home using expensive gadgets, buying you expensive gifts, using expensive human hair and expensive clothes, not working/doing biz, probably still in school... and are shocked she's slept with guys for money
How do you think she maintains such a lifestyle if her family isn't supporting her financially...

Just be forming plausible deniability



Guys when you ask a woman to open up to you, can you handle whatever pops out

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Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Lamanii22(f): 9:45am On Oct 29, 2019
FCBboy:
Bro abeg God no go spoil your own, discard that public Dog immediately.

She's not for you, you deserves better.


C'mon don't be mean... "Public dog" is extreme man... What if she had kept quiet nko...

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Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by spencekat(m): 9:45am On Oct 29, 2019
BatleFox:



I had one like yours. An accountant and fashion designer I wanted to marry. Met her in Port Harcourt. Her story was like your babe's but just only one abortion, hence her big hips. She sounded more like my bank account wasmore special to her than me so I walked. She was extremly lovely and well endowed.

The thing to understand is you girl has seen a future with you and knows that if she keeps quiet about her past and you later find out it may ruin things. What you have there si a loyal babe that has placed herself at your feet. Feel free to dump her and go and marry a virgin that will tear your life wide open.


Eh, RedCreme21, how far? You dey see my level so? And you never even enter universty.


So you didn't marry her again?
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by koolaid87: 9:46am On Oct 29, 2019
I salute her courage cos she's strong.

Personally for me, I won't bail on her because of her confession. I'd rather pressed to know if she's ready for a faithful and upright relationship.

Pls don't listen to punks that'll say once a cheat...blah blah blah..Everyone deserves a second chance and by the way, she confessed without you coercing her.

Plus, put a baby in her belly before signing for marriage FC, to avoid any story that touch.

If you ghost because of her confession, do you know the baggage contents of the next lady?

God help you

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Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by chigoizie7(m): 9:46am On Oct 29, 2019
nuelsam:
always remember okafors law....always.........once a hoe, always hoe.....I think what played down there was a game and if u aint red pilled....u can never understand, never!

And who is not a LovePeddler?
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Nobody: 9:46am On Oct 29, 2019
"She slept with guys to support her bf"
A reasonable no of higher institution girls do have Magas who they fxk to get money.

"Shes had two abortion" if it's true,then her own even good You will be shocked to hear babes who don duwam uncountable times and yet got married to good rich men.

The question is
1.Can u live with this reality she had told and won't be suspecting her after the marriage? as in other words,r u 100% sure she won't be an infidel?

For me this is a tough one as I will keep remembering such bad acts she's done more so that the Quran says "The Adultrer marries not but the adultress"

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Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Branduche: 9:46am On Oct 29, 2019
most comment I read here, I am sure some of you don’t know the reproductive status of ur wife’s or girlfriends. And you be thinking she is clean until you find out you are a big fool to think she is clean.

Many girls are messed up by boys in their teenage years and living in bondage to tell the story

Respect a woman who comes out to tell you virtually everything about her without you asking. It gives you some level of comfort before the relationship goes to the next level. But trust me, for her to openly tell you without asking, that means she regrets her past and won’t even replay the acts into the present

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