oluwatobi75:
when a woman loves a man ehn.... shout out to all genuine women out there. I celebrate you

lilwetdick:


ok.. but she also bought for you

anyway up to you, as they said the nice guys always get the bad girl when she wanna settle down

age is not in her side, she wants to settle down thus all these open up stories, so that you will pity her and carry her along

anyway, every man for himself, if i was in your shoe i wouldnt accept her, i have standards and i cant be comfortable with a woman with lot of body count and abortion reason is many women with lot of body count have issues, issues you cant solve, issues of bonding with their future partner, also potential std and sti. that is just my opinion

it is up to you.

Logan95:

She's quite a young girl at 20. I don't know why she made these mistakes

Zita55:
Ohh because she told you about her past ? All of a sudden, you are now in dilemma?? Ara na agba gi!!! Mtcheww!



You want to tell me that you don't have horrible past as well? I Kno say you wan dump her..stop looking for excuse biko!! Mr dilemma

Logan95:

Exactly what I taught, but she has been begging me not to leave because of her past. We are just few months in and she let out this. I'm surprised at the level of sincerity because I can't boast of it myself.

chuksjuve:
Some of you saying let bye gones be bye gones, I don't really think you understand what abortion really is, if you do, you wouldn't advise OP to continue .

Abortion is sequel to murder!!!
MURDER !!!

Logan95:

I don't know what she sees in me because honestly I'm not a good person but I have a calm personality.

She told me initially when she started developing feelings for me that she's had one abortion for her ex, I guess she was testing waters before the bombshell. I forgave her instantly because I did not ask and I am also guilty of endorsing abortion with my previous relationships.

She surprisingly volunteers information willingly which I never seen in a girl.

In my head, I know her body count is small compared to mine but I don't know why I'm still pained.

I've asked her if she regrets it and is willing to change with or without me and she replied in affirmation. However, I'll give it time and watch things unfold.

chuksjuve:
Some of you saying let bye gones be bye gones, I don't really think you understand what abortion really is, if you do, you wouldn't advise OP to continue .

Abortion is sequel to murder!!!
MURDER !!!

Korllami007:


This Crack me up. You think her main objective is to provide for her ex.
All these olosho on coded runs, in message, na most of them get boyfriend and some of them are spending money on their boyfriends but thinking that their main goal of going into whoring is to provide for their boyfriends is what's funny to me. It's not a new thing.

A female student will be dating sugar zaddy and she'll be spending the money she gets from sugar zaddy on her boyfriend but the boyfriend will be thinking she's rich.
It's not a new a thing and I don see am wella.
But you saying is because of love is what crack me up. What if she has been whoring before she met her ex.

You're very funny.

rafkollinz:
Good blooda as she willingly told n confessed to u. If u no dt her past will not hurt u in future, it's very best well to consider n let her realise if she still can eat her vomit, if she nods out ie layilahi. Let her used Bible to swear if she ready to b wit u. My blooda, its very rare n scarce to mit a lady Wu can boldly step 4ward n told u her past within short period u not her..
The ball is in ur court, may Almighty Allah gif u wisdom to make right n suitable decision 4 yasef

Prince4945:
Youre more like her Retirement Plan ,like I mean after shes through experiencing all the "flexing" there is to life with her body (I'm in no way judging her actions of sleeping for money) she then finally decides well there's nothing more new to experience let me tie one "good boy" down.

Well , I feel , her not telling you about her past from inception of the relationship, and decides to tell you no what that you've invested your love is more like Emotional Blackmail

And she's also going further to play Reverse Psychology on you with the "you don't deserve me" line. .

Well at the end of the day Its your call bro , to stay with her and start afresh? Or otherwise..

Use your HEAD to decide

AwkaetitiBabe:
Lolz.... Smooth breakup tactics so you wouldn't seem like d villian... You don't deserve me, you deserve better

We done use this line wella that year.

Emily22:


U sure op never kpansh her raw....u know after begging and pleading in relationship,sex follows to calm the atmosphere......

DenreleDave:


How do we believe the babe?

Is it true that she did that to help her broke ex or she is just trying to paint a good girl picture for him?

No be woman, they can make everything sweet and you will be like u have found the best woman but deeply, na pretender and liar all join

haywhy66:


This may or may not be true. Truth is 80 to 90% of the time a situation like this happens, it has a pinch of manipulation in it, however there are few times when it would be indeed meant from the heart.

My wife had a not so different story from your girl and today I can boldly and proudly say marrying her remains the best decision I've ever made and believe me I have alot going well for me in other areas of my life.

There're two facts you can draw from this situation regardless of the possibility of any kinda manipulation involved. First is that she likes you and considers you a keeper, atleast at the moment. Second is that she has alot of courage.

In the end, you're gonna be the one to decide buh always remember that we have all done things we are not so proud of at given periods of our lives and the past does not matter as long as you're sure such behaviours are truly in the past and hasn't left a life-long scar that might be too hard to bear for you.