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Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by BatleFox: 1:35pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
UnknownQueen: If this is true than you are very rare. Let me show you how rare... I will pay you 5k commission to help find me any well educated virgin between 23-30 who is ready marry a pastor to be (a pal of mine) age 39. I will pay you 10k if this virgin is well educated, good looking, light skinned, tall and well endowed. I will pay you 15k if this virgin is well educated, good looking, light skinned, tall, well endowed and Igbo Sorry this is what i can afford. Please accept the challange and quote me. Sighed BIGCOWHORN |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Rozaytee: 1:36pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
lilwetdick:lol...wat if u don't know her past at all...wat will happen. To ur standards...remember some people can keep secretes till enternity 1 Like |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Sanchez01: 1:36pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
Logan95:She owes you no apology. It's her past. If you want an angel, then move on but take this from me, a woman will tell you deep secrets and stuff because she treasures you. If you can't accept her because of what makes her past, you very well don't deserve her. 2 Likes |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Nobody: 1:40pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
lilwetdick: pity my ass !! we all deserveve a 2nd chance, there is no saint anywhere, n i maintain abortion is not sumtin gurls jus share or tell ... her confessin on her own will is rare ...she deserves redemption n not rejection. Guys like u lookin for holy chick are easy prey 4 ladies deception, they just tell u wat u want to hear, gudluck |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Judybash93(m): 1:48pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
It's her past, i think if she's ready to make things work by being with you, give it a shot... She sounds like a good person... She made mistakes and you aren't also perfect... So, give her a chance but y'all need to get your asses tested to know if y'all got some STIs and shit |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Nobody: 1:49pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
partnerbizn4: I am not advertising for virgins, don't get it twisted. I am just a believer and envoy of sexual chastity. It is ok if you aren't a virgin, there are metric tons of very good men who are fine with it. All I am saying is I am not one of those men. Ironically, I might not even be half as morally upright as those who are indifferent about people's body count, I am just saying my preference notwithstanding. As great as vanila Ice cream is, some people don't like it. Non-virgins are a no go area for me and that is as simple as that. Infact the moment I discover you are not a virgin, I tick off the possibility of marriage from whatever friendship we have. 5 Likes |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by BatleFox: 1:51pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
ireneidiva: Not to every woman. In that way you find some women with 5 kids who still have narrow hips so also do you find weomen with big hips and just one child or none at all. It all depends on the endowmnet of nature. For very well endowed women once their body senses pregnancy it expands signifantly. The breast milk will even run for a time after abortion. I've seen women begging men to help them suck their breasts during such times. From what I understood a full breat, unmilked, can be painful or bothersome. |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Emaprince: 1:54pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
pocohantas:Please dont believe that crappy story. She never slept around to sponsor the guy. NEVER!!! She only told the lie to make OP see her as a supportive woman. Forget story She probably was sleeping round for money to buy material stuffs..just like millions of girls do in this country. But the thing is, Naija girls like fine boys alot. And these fine boys are usually lazy to hustle. And they know girls dey rush them...so they use what the have to get what they want - Eat your pussy.y and still talk you into giving them money. The dont care how you got the money. You will see a small girl using gadgets worth hundreds of thousand, yet her known boyfriend is one small boy in his early 20s. We know say no be the boy dey buy those stuffs. These babes wants the best of both worlds. Enjoy reach men money...and also keep one fine boy on the side. Later, the fine boys who are usually play boys will move unto the next babe. She was promiscous and wanted to enjoy life. Saying she did it under the pretext of providing for a boyfriend is a barefaced lie. 3 Likes |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Evidenx(m): 1:59pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
lilwetdick:YOU MAY BE RIGHT I MAY BE WRONG, YOU MAY ALSO BE WRONG AND AM RIGHT. |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by tomdon(m): 2:02pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
rossovu: Did she offend him? There's nothing to forgive. She didn't sin against him. I wonder why the things a girl did in the past makes a difference. As long as she's not a virgin, and you're OK with it, you're not there so you can't even know whether what she tells you is true or not so why are you bothering your head and acting God talking about forgiving her |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Amarallllll(m): 2:04pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
Logan95: If ur brother told u this story and asked u for an advice. what is ur advice? |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by gideon286(m): 2:05pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
Logan95: Dude all these relationship stuffs is just overrated ... Ask her .. what she wants you guys to do (either breakup or continue), if she says she'll love you guys to continue, keep her and treat her well; but don't fall in too much love with her... Just watch out her character and verify if she is loyal and behaves like she wanna settle with you. And don't try to investigate out her flaws because sometimes what you'll find might not be pleasant. If she behaves like she has seen her man and does everything to make you happy, never let her go; marry her. Some girls change tremendously and decide to have a good family even when they've indulge in bad deeds before. THIS IS A WOMAN NATURE FOR YOU. |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by BatleFox: 2:05pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
spencekat: No, and she is not married now. She is 27. very lovely and I kid you not. |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by BatleFox: 2:10pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
DenreleDave: Fake pastor, where your understanding of forgiveness? Scammerrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!!!!! |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Arizonaguy(m): 2:10pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
Logan95:you seem to me to have figure out an answer to your dilemma but would rather us confirm your thought i say follow your mind |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Eazie351(m): 2:13pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
Logan95:baba, forget!!! she's 20, she'll still explore. they won't stop until they're 24-27. The internet kuku doesn't forget... 1 Like |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Jamiuademola: 2:20pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
kay29000: Ṣeé how you are narrating as if you are there or later watched the recorded video of it, unless if you re the one 1 Like |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by adeyemi91(m): 2:21pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
AwkaetitiBabe:Why she's begging is that she wants to be with him. If she doesn't care about him, she won't beg. |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Greatfullheart: 2:23pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
[quote author=Logan95 post=83545746]Good day house. I meet my girlfriend recently in school, she's an undergraduate student while I'm a post graduate student. She is a very beautiful girl and well endowed. For the few months we've dated she's one of a kind. She has a good heart, buys me stuffs even though I'm not poor, cleans my house and relates well with my sister to mention a few. However she told me about her ex, she loved him and supported him financially because he was a student and broke. We have been going smooth until this night she decided to tell me her past without me asking. She said I am too special but I have to know who she truly is. She started by saying she's had two abortions for her ex, that she slept with many guys for money which she eventually spent on her ex. I was dumbfounded and I'm in a dilemma now. She just said I should forgive her that I don't deserve ha. I don't know how 2 tackle this majorly because she confessed without me asking n she did all these be hmm
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Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Eazie351(m): 2:28pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
Logan95:how many guys exactly, she didn't give a number? let's know what we're working with please. to sleep with *many* guys for money no be play o & and I trust our guys, they'd straff their money's worth outta her. one quick question please...are you sure you can satisfy this 20y/o sexually sef abi na form she dey form....eish! |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by toprealman: 2:30pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
Logan95:".....buys me stuff even though I am not broke...." |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Beatswim: 2:30pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
My wife phonewas stolen few days ago.. I called her from morning till evening only to discover on her to return that her phone was stolen in the morning... I guess if it were u.. Alot must have run through your mind.. Just decided if u can trust her again.. But as for me i cant 1 Like |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Esomchi800(m): 2:31pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
My guy if u don't want her again u can pass her to me |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by augustine: 2:31pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
Logan95:Last but one paragraph: ''She said I should forgive her that I don't deserve her'' I'm sure you meant ''...that she doesn't deserve me.'' |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Ogediluv(f): 2:55pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
[Can u just reason well bro.... Ur kind can kill a family, and once future. Your advice is so rude and bad... Oh my God,, i pitied ur woman.quote author=lilwetdick post=83546346] ok.. but she also bought for you anyway up to you, as they said the nice guys always get the bad girl when she wanna settle down she wants to settle down thus all these open up stories, so that you will pity her and carry her along anyway, every man for himself, if i was in your shoe i wouldnt accept her, i have standards and i cant be comfortable with a woman with lot of body count and abortion reason is many women with lot of body count have issues, issues you cant solve, issues of bonding with their future partner, also potential std and sti. that is just my opinion it is up to you. [/quote] |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Everrest9(m): 3:06pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
I would say you should just treat it very carefully and don't be quick to send her away or react because of it. One girl like that told me she had 5 abortions in the past but she has changed meanwhile she was testing my love for her but I thank God I thought outside the box and I handled her carefully. |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by partnerbizn4(m): 3:08pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
DanXplore: Yes, you are entitled to those. You aren't alone. There are still a handful that fancy that. In fact the greater majority of men fancy that. I am just bothered that virginity is no longer seen as a virtue, hence finding a virgin is like looking for a needle in a haystack. How then do you find them. Do you have a special tactics or means? |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Yahunemerem01(m): 3:13pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
Logan95: So many heart breaks from her. I don't personally believe her story ooo! I think it's all fabricated to test your reactions and actions. But if true, Bros she can be your gold. Just shine your eyes without prejudice. |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by jclassiq(m): 3:20pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
rossovu: Bleep that!! You dealing with a woman who thinks nothing of whoring herself out for money to take care of a supposedly loved one. Just imagine you catch your gf on bed with a man, and she starts to cry telling you that she did it to get money so she can spend it on you. How would you feel? And as for whether she changed or not, How can you tell brother?? Use ya head 2 Likes |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by UnknownQueen(f): 3:23pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
CsRockefeller: I dated two guys before him... And the worse we did was smooching, other guys I dated were friend zoned.... Sex pressure was managed via masturbation.... Lobatan |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by UnknownQueen(f): 3:26pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
BatleFox: LOL... So sorry I'm not a match maker OOO besides almost all my friends are married except for one who we both finished from school together, God fearing, educated, light skinned, yoruba, possibly a virgin but she limps |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Nobody: 3:27pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
That your girlfriend na small girl with real inferiority complex. She go regret why she open her mouth after she don watch telemundo. Even you that is talking, are you a virgin? Those you have slept with are they not humans like you? Where else you don put your d1ck? Even 1diots wey don rape animals out of brokenness and konji dey come here to open their rotten mouth. If I be that your girlfriend, shishi, I no go tell you. Make we dey code dey go like that since everybody won form saint. As this girl no use her sense, this una relationship no go work. If you no jam snake, na feminist you go jam next time. She on her own, she no go tell her next bobo shimgbai and nothing go happen. Abi no be naija we dey again? 1 Like |
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