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Re: I Don't Know The Right Time To Tell My Husband About My Genotype by Nobody: 9:52pm On Nov 15, 2019
Mariangeles:

You are a bitter, unpleasant and unhappy fellow that I am sure of.
When you begin to spread happiness and comfort, then it'll return to you. Otherwise, forget it!
You can't have what you can't give.
What you sow, you reap.
I'm "goody two shoes" abi ? I'm glad you acknowledge that.

You think you have everything about life and health figured out ? YOU'RE IN FOR A SHOCKER!
How do you expect her to be sweet, pleasant and happy when her family has been thrown into turmoil because of this same issue. If you are in her shoes you will say more. Its not easy taking care of one person, talkless of two sicklers. @abelswife, i pray God grant your brother the grace to persevere. And the cash to take care of them.
OP, please don't build your home on a faulty foundation.

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Re: I Don't Know The Right Time To Tell My Husband About My Genotype by Mariangeles(f): 10:10pm On Nov 15, 2019
ladecrown:

How do you expect her to be sweet, pleasant and happy when her family has been thrown into turmoil because of this same issue. If you are in her shoes you will say more. Its not easy taking care of one person, talkless of two sicklers. @abelswife, i pray God grant your brother the grace to persevere. And the cash to take care of them.
OP, please don't build your home on a faulty foundation.
Do you know that a little word of kindness and encouragement can save someone's life ? It doesn't cost anything.
Nobody supported what the lady was going to do, but there are ways to go about it .
If you've noticed, the op deactivated. Do you know what that may mean ? She might depressed at the moment
Re: I Don't Know The Right Time To Tell My Husband About My Genotype by shilz(f): 10:16pm On Nov 15, 2019
Rosarie:
Tell him,if he loves you he will stand by you after all he is AS
this isn't about love...
Re: I Don't Know The Right Time To Tell My Husband About My Genotype by Thegamingorca(m): 10:17pm On Nov 15, 2019
Mariangeles:

You are a bitter, unpleasant and unhappy fellow that I am sure of.
When you begin to spread happiness and comfort, then it'll return to you. Otherwise, forget it!
You can't have what you can't give.
What you sow, you reap.
I'm "goody two shoes" abi ? I'm glad you acknowledge that.

You think you have everything about life and health figured out ? YOU'RE IN FOR A SHOCKER!


Dey probably hate the guy's wife for taking their hardworking son away from them.
Resentment against daughter in-laws for any flimsy reason abound in most states in southern parts of nigeria
Re: I Don't Know The Right Time To Tell My Husband About My Genotype by Thegamingorca(m): 10:20pm On Nov 15, 2019
Mariangeles:

Do you know that a little word of kindness and encouragement can save someone's life ? It doesn't cost anything.
Nobody supported what the lady was going to do, but there are ways to go about it .
If you've noticed, the op deactivated. Do you know what that may mean ? She might depressed at the moment


She probably finally agreed to toil the "a vow of silence" path

I don't pity husbands that aren't thorough
Re: I Don't Know The Right Time To Tell My Husband About My Genotype by abelswife(f): 8:05am On Nov 16, 2019
ladecrown:

How do you expect her to be sweet, pleasant and happy when her family has been thrown into turmoil because of this same issue. If you are in her shoes you will say more. Its not easy taking care of one person, talkless of two sicklers. @abelswife, i pray God grant your brother the grace to persevere. And the cash to take care of them.
OP, please don't build your home on a faulty foundation.

Amen. Thank you, we are with him all the way, family is still family. We always encourage and support him, it's not easy at all but God is faithful. Funny enough, I'm still expecting a miracle for both mother and child. I'm really sad my SIL is always depressed, even on days she's not sick she's unhappy. I don't know if it's fear or what. I've told her to always wear a cheerful countenance, because na who write im own for Face na im people go see. It is well.



@Poster Sorry I was harsh,
I pray for more strength for you and wisdom to do the right thing. May God show up for you on days you need him. It is well with you.

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Re: I Don't Know The Right Time To Tell My Husband About My Genotype by nellyelitz(m): 1:04pm On Nov 16, 2019
Desperate and wicked brat. For real some women are very wicked, they can use any means to trap down a man. With this, na me go follow 'my would be' carry out the Genotype text. no time and chance for nonesense. phu!
Re: I Don't Know The Right Time To Tell My Husband About My Genotype by nellyelitz(m): 1:09pm On Nov 16, 2019
Mood11:
Na wa ohh.


So your friends know and over a million nairalanders are also getting to Know what your husband to be doesn't know.

Fear women mbok shocked
akpaniko!
Re: I Don't Know The Right Time To Tell My Husband About My Genotype by Nobody: 1:10pm On Nov 16, 2019
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Re: I Don't Know The Right Time To Tell My Husband About My Genotype by nellyelitz(m): 1:13pm On Nov 16, 2019
Rosarie:
Tell him,if he loves you he will stand by you after all he is AS
what a useless and insane love, after being deceived into marriage with life threatening issue? Pls quit that selfish sense of entitlement.

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Re: I Don't Know The Right Time To Tell My Husband About My Genotype by abelswife(f): 1:49pm On Nov 16, 2019
Breaststroke:


You need to stop apologizing for narrating your brother's story and your own experience as a whole.

I didn't see anything wrong with your first comment on this thread, which has caused some drama.

The OP and your sister in law, knew the right thing to do but deliberately chose not to do it. Your sister in law even went as far as falsifying documents - that is too cold & calculative for my liking and I am not even family, yet your family is expected to be sympathetic, kind and sweet in the face of such deliberate deceit.

Hian, you don't tell people how they should react or respond, on top of your bad behaviour again nah!

Okay dear.

It's just that, when I remember that people living with sickle cell go through alot, I don't have the strength to be angry about the situation again.
Re: I Don't Know The Right Time To Tell My Husband About My Genotype by Amhappy(f): 7:31pm On Nov 16, 2019
I know a couple. Five years down the line with two children they are now divorced. I thought he was just trying to paint the ex wife black when he said he got to know after their wedding when the wife was pregnant with their first child. I couldn't believe someone will lie about some thing like that in this modern world and i made some useless comments. Right now I just discovered that i owe someone an apology thanks to OP.
Re: I Don't Know The Right Time To Tell My Husband About My Genotype by armyofone(m): 6:37am On Nov 17, 2019
Don't mind her...it is her kind that goes about stressing the poor woman and making her sick the more...
Op, if you are reading, please tell him.
Learn to love your life because marriage is not the end of the world!

Mariangeles:

This your comment is very insensitive.
What is the guarantee that you'll live longer than her, or your brother's wife ?
Nonsense!

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Re: I Don't Know The Right Time To Tell My Husband About My Genotype by Gloriagee(f): 7:09am On Nov 17, 2019
I agree with you. Being manipulative is my ish...
abelswife:



Aunty, get of my mentions please. F. Off abeg go and cry elsewhere I don't have time for goody two shoes like you. Just f.off. Having a sickness is not a crime, but being manipulative about it is. Just fokoff and stop following me around.
Re: I Don't Know The Right Time To Tell My Husband About My Genotype by Gloriagee(f): 7:12am On Nov 17, 2019
What exactly is she sowing that she will reap. Shes stating facts and the way I see marriage, being open is paramount. Once the guy finds out, shes gonna be top toeing all thru marriage.

Mariangeles:

You are a bitter, unpleasant and unhappy fellow that I am sure of.
When you begin to spread happiness and comfort, then it'll return to you. Otherwise, forget it!
You can't have what you can't give.
What you sow, you reap.
I'm "goody two shoes" abi ? I'm glad you acknowledge that.

You think you have everything about life and health figured out ? YOU'RE IN FOR A SHOCKER!

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Re: I Don't Know The Right Time To Tell My Husband About My Genotype by ctleurocollege: 10:01am On Nov 17, 2019
Let us consider some SS folks that will read our comments. You don't need to be mentioning death here. I will be angry if I'm being lied to like this. OP, be truthful
Re: I Don't Know The Right Time To Tell My Husband About My Genotype by dkidd: 6:57am On Aug 30, 2023
abelswife:
See them. That was how my brother's wife lied. My brother is AS. Because she wanted to marry by force she said she's AA. They went for tests it showed SS and AS for her and my brother. She said their machine is bad and went to another hospital where they have an insider. There they gave them AA for her and AS for my brother. My parents said he shouldn't go ahead with the marriage but they insisted. Now they've have finally gotten married abi? What now happened?

They gave birth to SS
Everyday her and the child are both in and out of the hospital. No savings, no happiness, no Joy. Everyday siki siki. She's siking the baby is siking. My brother is longing mouth and squeezing face

One time both of them had crises at the same time, my mum now used the opportunity to confirm their genotype because she didn't understand why everyday they are always sick. Lo and behold, mother SS. Child SS. We confronted her she was still denying and we showed her the results she started crying.

We are looking.


See ehn. God will not forgive you if your bring another SS child into this world. God will not forgive you if your end up dying on the road and making your husband a widower halfway because you lied.

In fact for even thinking about lying you're a terrible person.

Bye

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