Elder0001:
Ladies on twitter kick against them and their kids taking up their husband's name in marriage.

Nigerians always abuse civilization even the European and American women don't name the kids they give birth to the name of their father, were are Nigerian ladies learning this one from now?

That's why we have Hilary Rodham CLINTON.

Who wanna put off the name of a US president?!

How many remembers the Kardashian patriarch? Before the Kim fame,the wife bore her own name but after the fame,she tried in vain to be known as a Kardashian,she even wept bitterly!!!!! All in vain

Bird brains sef



Btw,the foolish French under17 coach should be sacked and guillotined.

How can you be 2-0 up and play complete defensive game in 1st half!!!! What a big idiot!!

This belief that women own babies because they carry and give birth to them is yet another African world destroying idea born of white narcissism. Reality is, Men and women are custodians of babies not owners. As for what surname a child ought to have, human societies decide this. In matriarchal societies, children may bare surnames related to mothers’ side of family, while in Patriarchal societies such as Nigeria children bare surnames on fathers’ side of family. As these are societal traditions not god-given, it may be that as gender cultures in societies evolve, we may arrive at the equitable position whereby female children adopt mothers’ surnames and male children adopt fathers surname. When children attain ages where they are able to leave the care of their parents, society allows them to adopt whichever surnames they chose. After all, equality and emancipation belongs to men, women and young people.

Omar09:


This is not fair. Would they be able to say this when they get married to prominent men?
No, because the man is famous and they would want a pass for their kids.
The bitches running their mouth anyhow are not married to Rochild family. Or Trump family. Or even Chris Brown.
Why are they going into war when we the men are not in for any war.
Is sex the problem? No they even enjoy sex more than us, they are very much more Hot than us. Why all the fuss?

They are the embodiment of double standards and hypocrisy. They love to hype themselves and talk arrogantly but once shit hit the fan, they do a complete 180°. Even at that, they maintain their entitlement and hubris.

Yes most men mess up I know. Like the fact where before a woman gets a job here in Nigeria the boss has to sleep with her. But do you know what baffles me, they would never report such person to the authorities rather they will take up the opportunity and when things go sour they run their mouth claiming he slept with me before giving me a job and all of a sudden, they loose their sense of shame. They wouldn't remember they gave in for the sex and it takes two to tango.

Well I have given up on humanity.

I usually suspect that gynocentrism will get stronger, more brutal, and more oppressive due to the rising number of weak men and fathers with each passing generation. Sometimes I wonder if Ubunja, iLegend, and other red pill men are wasting their time fanning out red pill messages but when I remember that I was able to save one from a toxic girlfriend, I keep hope alive. It's depressing.

Already in Islam, one is addressed with his or her father's surname... therefore a Muslim doesn't have any problem with his wife using her father's surname

I hate making a big issue when there shouldn't be any. We women like wahala where there is none. The surname I have was given to me by my father so my kids will bear the papa's name.
That's why I avoid too much ladies talks.
When you start now by dragging irrelevant things with your hubby, you will never be happy.

pocohantas:
Lol. Almost slipped entering this thread.
Like some crying fest...

Elder jerks off topics like this, I wonder if you go about looking for such posts to start a gender war.

People saying bride price, blabla bla. That is some retardèd shît. This has nothing to do with who pays, Indian women pay and I have never heard of the men taking up the woman's name.

I don't know where those ladies are from, but Nigeria is a patrilineal society. So, bride price or not- people are traced from their fathers side. As such, his name is supreme. Any woman in Nigeria that wants to tow this line has to be deluded. Even Linda Ikeji named her son after the sperm donor.

These ladies will have to find a matrilineal society, maybe form one...that way their kids can take their names.

The one of retaining her father's name, that one no be issue again. Lots of women do not even change names these days.

poco poco... I salute oOo.

When issues like this that are trivial crops up, it makes me wonder less why marriages are failing everyday.

Anyway, how are you and yours jare?

kikelomojessy:
I hate making a big issue when there shouldn't be any. We women like wahala where there is none. The surname I have was given to me by my father so my kids will bear the papa's name.
That's why I avoid too much ladies talks.
When you start now by dragging irrelevant things with your hubby, you will never be happy.

Thank you sis.

Feminists, feminists, feminists, what exactly do they want? Nobody has successfully explained to me so far.

@ Hon. Chief Cyn- When men play God, they end up in misery.

Yea, IF she ever gets married, Which is Never going to happen.. Not with the Atitude.

[quote author=Geminita1 post=84078906]They have a point but personally i can't wait to drop my surname and adopt my partner's.

Every time i tell people my surname, they just laugh at me. [/quotes]what the saw name

That's wrong of them, since their husbands paid their bride price, they must take up his name.

For all that her fantasy to come Alive, She have to get married first, Get pregnant and give birth to the kids. Which may never happen.




I am guessing she forgot such process.

You might as well carry drink to the man's house to pay his dowry, and also em-pregnant
YOU MIGHT AS WELL CARRY DRINK TO IS PARENTS HOUSE TO PAY HIS DOWRY, AND ALSO EM-PREGNANT HIM.
VERY SOON YOU WILL TELL GOD TO STEP DOWN FROM BEING GOD SO THAT YOU CAN TAKE OVER.
NA SO THE MALE VERSION OF BOBRISKY DEY START.

Olalan:
All dem yeye silly dumb girls claiming feminist would recoil to their shell once financial obligations pops up

Lol

All the laws we subject women to are man made, if they don't obey it, it won't kill them. The only problem women have is singleness of purpose that's why we make wicked laws then bully them to obey

dfrost:


poco poco... I salute oOo.

When issues like this that are trivial crops up, it makes me wonder less why marriages are failing everyday.

Anyway, how are you and yours jare?

We are fine. People now expend energy on too much nonsense. Person just sleep, wakeup, start to drag which name pikin go bear.

Anyway, nothing concern me and man (and woman) wey no get sense. This one no be my real life problem. We keep our egos at the doormat

Geminita1:
They have a point but personally i can't wait to drop my surname and adopt my partner's.

Every time i tell people my surname, they just laugh at me.

Laf Back At Them Nah . Ur Surname The Sound Funny ?

[quote author=payman post=84078859]nonsense...if person buy new gadget no be im name go dey d receipt?wen d ladies start paying dowry we will adopt their names.[/quote

Yes, most especially Igbo bride price.

Geminita1:
They have a point but personally i can't wait to drop my surname and adopt my partner's.

Every time i tell people my surname, they just laugh at me.

Lol, its good to be a woman So what of your father and brothers who are stuck with the funny name for life and beyond

Born2Breed:
You don't want your kids to take your husbands name as surname but you took your fathers name as surname.

E get feminist fight wey make sense,this one nor join.

. Mehn , This Is The Most Funny Post Of The Year. Bur 90% Percent Of Their Fight No Make Sense

pocohantas:


We are fine. People now expend energy on too much nonsense. Person just sleep, wakeup, start to drag which name pikin go bear.

Anyway, nothing concern me and man (and woman) wey no get sense. This one no be my real life problem. We keep our egos at the doormat

Na so oOo my sister. I went to check the twitter handle of the said female that started this rubbish. Lo! and behold she is a bisexual according to her bio. And according to her posts, she doesn't mind licking her fellow woman's .

This world have finish pata pata

No feminist is HAPPY

Ladyhippolyta88:

. What place are you talking about
You have low self esteem threatened by feminism. You are not serious

My sugar, this brand of feminism must be crushed. It is too toxic and it appears like a battle of the sexes.

Basically women who come out to utter such nonsense are those that have been ill-treated by men. No woman whom her husband has bestowed much love on can utter things like this... But then again you can never please a woman. If they accept this one now, they go still come up with another thing for future.

Olalan:
All dem yeye silly dumb girls claiming feminist would recoil to their shell once financial obligations pops up

this this is is is bruuuutaaaaall

I can't even marry a lady who uses social media. My babe is not on any social media platforms. And most importantly she's a virgin so I don't think I have anything to do with this shits. Pwehehehe

You shouldn't have ranted that you birthed them. You should have said that you paid your husband dowry and as well pregnant yourself. Attention seekers

dfrost:


Bride price you mean?

Yea mehn

IamPlato:
One Thing I Like About We Guys Is That, Guys Fvck Rubbish Out Of These Fools And Dump Them and Marry Loyal Women while These Fools Will Be Slowly turning To Soared Milk. Watch What They Will Say When They Hit 40.



In The End They Are Nothing But Attention Seeking Dirty Pussiies

You valid

ctleurocollege:
All the laws we subject women to are man made, if they don't obey it, it won't kill them. The only problem women have is singleness of purpose that's why we make wicked laws then bully them to obey

Which wicked laws?

If you want to know how men became so powerful and how patriarchy came about, then you may want to look at nature. Nature made the average man larger than the average woman due to the level of testosterone. So, women had to seek protection and superior stock (children) from these men. The children ordinarily bore their fathers' names. And the women were proud to have their kids bear the name of the man. Then, agriculture was discovered, and it further worsens the case for women as men (due to their physical strength) also dominated during that period. Men became wealthier than women and they had so much money that they could even buy women if they wanted, and they married as many women as possible.

How is this man's fault