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| Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by zeenaman: 3:13pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
I will go straight to the point. In the past, I have had a few unpleasant experiences with girls, ranging from cheating to gold digging habit, for that reason, my heart got hardened and I barely treat girls with any seriousness. Lately I met this lady, she reignited the love in me. I fell in love with her as if she's the first lady I will be meeting in life. I desire to settle down with her. But the challenge I'm having with her is that, she was previously married with two little kids. She lost her husband two years ago. Please good people, I will like to know the dangers, if any, that come with marrying such ladies. I so love her. I will like to hear from experienced people. Thanks. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by Nobody: 3:16pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
first of all find out what killed the widows husband else what happened to the widows husband might happen again. pls carry out thorough investigation.  190 Likes 3 Shares
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| Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by Nobody: 3:19pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
You know her and its your choice, if you feel she okay for you then go for her but if otherwise withdraw. And dont forget to ask her what killed her husband. BTW hope you can foot the bills of the young children cause you are about to be a step dad. Kwangratlasion in adbance 56 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by zeenaman: 3:19pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
chenzen:He had an accident 6 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by Nobody: 3:25pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
zeenaman:Oops! maybe the accident was caused by her village people. 23 Likes |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by madridguy(m): 3:28pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
Islamic view: Very good and you also get big reward for doing so. Street wise: You won't have the fear of her going behind to see her ex like single mother. The koko be say you must be sure she's really in love with you make he no be say she just dey look for who she go take train her kids...don't get me wrong, there's reward training and helping orphans too but no one will be happy to know say person dey hold him for work. Have you also discussed this with your parents? 168 Likes 6 Shares |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by Nobody: 3:40pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
zeenaman:Godforbid, them swear for you? of all the women to marry na widow with 2 children na you wan go marry? spit. 22 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by Nobody: 3:52pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
This life shar!!! Same blood runs in our veins but how it operates differently and individually still beats my imagination. Those of you castigating the OP, I don’t see anything wrong in marrying a widow. Nothing wrong at all. If you know you have the money to feed extra mouth, why not? People out there adopt kids. So....... I see nothing wrong in marrying someone you love and taking care of her kids as your own Let’s all assume she made a mistake by having those two kids(got pregnant by mistake or married the wrong person and divorced) She now have to pay for it by not getting a man coz she’s had two kids?? OP, marry her if you love her and don’t listen to what any motherfvcker says.  Someone should tell me where I can catch that chenzen guy. I want to tell him something 158 Likes 6 Shares |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by Nobody: 3:53pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
stupidity: 9 Likes
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| Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:42pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
find ANY beautiful woman who is good, caring, respectful, trustworthy, faithful, down to earth, fun to be around... and marry her. what happened in her past is irrelevant so long as it stays in her past. 81 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by tstx(m): 5:12pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
Hmm |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by ijewejones: 5:13pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
For me "No" because fresh single ladies still full town...what do i know  Here to learn more.. 3 Likes
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| Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by Nobody: 5:13pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
As long as you feel you can handle the extra responsibilities, sure, why not? But you should do a comprehensible background check though. 12 Likes |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by pocohantas(f): 5:13pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
stupidity: Hmmm 1 Like |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by Promismike(m): 5:13pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
If you both love yourselves and their is interior motive to it. But do a proper investigation of her background to knw if she has a problem that leads to the death of her husband. 1 Like |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by BigGuyMan: 5:14pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
No its not advisable to marry all these expired old newspapers. Go for young under 26 fresh laps all these old newspapers should go to Congo or Venezuela to look for their husband's. Don't ever marry any lady above 27. They are all expired and useless 14 Likes |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by Hoodbilonia: 5:14pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
Of all ppl. Low self esteem 2 Likes |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by happney65: 5:14pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
chenzen: Ahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa... |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by LollipopCandy(f): 5:14pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
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| Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by ainas247: 5:14pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
| what made me laughed is this I have had a few unpleasant experiences with girls, ranging from cheating to gold digging habit, for that reason, my heart got hardened and I barely treat girls with any seriousness. To go back to the koko... Please, I take God to beg you. Do your homework before you commit yourself. 1 Like |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by femmy2010(m): 5:14pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
You can if you are okay with her. It is your choice and your decision. 3 Likes |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by Pulsenaija: 5:14pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
lol yes |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by Nobody: 5:14pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
Their punna dey sweet Them dey value man because they had one and he died. The next one na serious pamper. BTW ask how the husband die. Make you no dey next in line. Jokes apart I no send as woman be o, widow o, single o, fat o, thing o, divorced o, I no send. As long as she values me Issa goal. Oh and she must be Jackie Chan on bed 32 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by careytommy37(m): 5:15pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
Yes, if you are a ladies man in your own right. If not, your mama and papa go say she don give you vegetable chop. |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by Nobody: 5:15pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
Dump her and date the ones that will turn your heart to dust. Mumu question. You finally found a good woman and the next thing you did was to open a thread with your nagging. Las las na mannequin you go end up with. 37 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by mechanics(m): 5:15pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
There is no problem with that, if you love her and it's the leading of God not your own intuition. 6 Likes |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by Criticaltemp: 5:15pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
Yes.. I heard they're the most caring... Sweetest n even most Hot set of women. 4 Likes 2 Shares
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| Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by AuwalYusuf812(m): 5:16pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
is your choice, but jus be careful with ur move. |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by felixedoro: 5:16pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
Yes but not as a second wife. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by Onlinealaba(m): 5:16pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
Is a personal choice and decision |
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