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Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by sonnie10: 5:17pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
Marriage is void in death of a partner |
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by mirexxx(f): 5:17pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
Well, go ahead. If u both love each other, its all good. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by Zeinymira(f): 5:17pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
WorWorBoy2: And what exactly is wrong with marrying a widow with two children?? @OP, marry her if she loves you equally and has gotten over the trauma of her loss. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by scrapNG: 5:17pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
LOL |
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by EASY112: 5:18pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
Bro look for single ladies, is better u remain single.Dont start what u can finish. 4 Likes |
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by Marvieduke(f): 5:18pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
Bro it is your choice, all you need to do is go on your knees and pray very well to God to show signs that you can marry her because only him can show you the way. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by beanswyter: 5:18pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
is better to marry a widows than a single mother 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by YorubaPrince: 5:19pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
Zeenaman, the problem is... you're from a 3rd world nation where ignorance is celebrated, gullibility & illiteracy are rampant while superstitions & taboo are worshipped. If you've done your homework (according to your faith) about her and, indeed love this chic... go for it! Let me even reveal the very bitter truth perhaps, an Realistically and statistically, Of all the people getting married at any given point in time, some would end up as widows and widowers in the near future! It's not a curse but, a known fact. Of all the fools on here condemning widows and stuff, few or several of them have either lost one of their parents or both? So, were their parents cursed or are the living better than them? OK... of all the deaths that occur on a daily basis in Nigeria, how many couples are rendered widows and widowers? 12 Likes |
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by NiggaArea: 5:19pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
Nothing wrong with it |
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by fruqy(m): 5:20pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
chenzen: Wehrey |
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by Pinkie2018(f): 5:21pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
chenzen:lwkmd |
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by HacheNoire: 5:21pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
Your happiness is the priority here irrespective of what anybody tells you. If you have the financial stength and happy with her, go ahead please. 4 Likes |
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by Pidginwhisper: 5:22pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by mickykhe(m): 5:22pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
No lady is fresh and single, the have all been devour by men and some have murdered the guys. Ur life ur choice. |
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by felixedoro: 5:22pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
You can marry her bit not as a second wifr... |
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by Nobody: 5:23pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by Colonelswitz101(m): 5:25pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
Single Nigerian ladies wey already be like Nigerian drive cars na him u get mind wan go carry the one wey be like taxi wey them dey use carry firewood.... Okay enjoy fixing the worn out bow joints,tyres and faulty battery.... Also be ready for new gearbox...u dey crase |
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by OlawaleBammie: 5:25pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
chenzen: Mtcheew, humanbeans why are u like dis na? 1 Like
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Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by Truthbites: 5:25pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
WorWorBoy2: U had to spit? Gosh! U are evi! 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by fruqy(m): 5:25pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
BigGuyMan: And when your wife's over 27 you should divorce her and marry someone else and continue like that. I see where your sense dey � 4 Likes
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Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by shestrong(f): 5:25pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by Nobody: 5:26pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
Sure, as long and you love each other. And Of course, like every relationship, pray about it. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by Awoleesu(m): 5:26pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
The challenge utmostly lies with you! 1. Can you be mature enough to accept her kids as your own? If you can, then trust me, you're almost very likely to win her loyalty 100%. 2. Can you do a thorough background check on her? If you won't let 'love' blind you... Get to know whom she is spiritually, emotionally, psychologically etc... We're talking about a lifelong commitment here! 3. Are you mature enough to dust off side talks, jeering and societal jabs that come with such relationships as yours? Trust me sir, as it is on Nairaland, so it is in the real world! You will meet resistance from your family members, disapproval of friends and peers, even doomsday tellers will predict very scary and unpleasant things about the relationship... BUT Your blind love + your maturity will work out the miracle here! So, in my opinion, if you can positively answer these questions then BY ALL MEANS, PLEASE GO AHEAD! 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by Nobody: 5:26pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
OlawaleBammie:lol |
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by b0rn2fuck(m): 5:27pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
Better to marry a windows than single mother, a widow faith have been known but single mother can still go back and receive dick from his baby daddy 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by shestrong(f): 5:27pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
WorWorBoy2: which kind advise be dis, so widow no deserve love or wetin u dey try talk? 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by Nobody: 5:27pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
The only real objection will probably be from your folks who want their own grandchildren. If you are ready to have kids with her, no biggie then. Men are far kinder to stepchildren than women. This is Nigeria, so there may not be that weird resentment oyibo kids have towards stepdads The most you can have is one more kid, imho. Two should really be where you stop, unless you are paid. What does the woman do? Is she capable of taking care of the kids herself? Just asking. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by OlawaleBammie: 5:28pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
zeenaman: Oga if she like u and u equally find ur happiness in her, why not taking her as wife?? her type are way better Dan all those elese sorosoro outside there oo. the major sacrifice is dat if u re willing to giv birth to 4 children befire den u hav to reduce it to two or three at most |
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by IamPlato(m): 5:28pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
chenzen:Without Further Prove You Are A Fool Bro 4 Likes |
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by OlawaleBammie: 5:29pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
shestrong:dont mind Dat guy, who knows, he might not even knw Wat marriage entails 1 Like |
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 5:29pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
EASY112:So who will marry widows and widowers since you reason like this. If you were the one and a lady says something like this to you how will you feel. If you were a widow you nor go marry again |
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Widow? Advice Needed by Koolman1234(m): 5:29pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
Just you to examine certain things 1. what's the age gap between u and lady? 2. what killed her husband? 3. do u have the financial muscle even to support the children edu? BTW can u treat them equally as urs when ur biological children come? 4. of course u're one marrying but u need ur family and trusted friend(s) support. what's their opinion? Personally, as a guy planning to settle down I wouldn't want to marry a widow and especially with children. I can support her financially even sponsor the children edu but to marry - to start life, an individual who had never married before... no. But the decision is entirely urs, na the person wey wear the shoe know where e dey pain am. And they say love is a beautiful thing and conquer all. 1 Like |
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