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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by nkemjacob2(m): 2:20pm On Nov 20, 2019
Maybe she asked 2 no how relevant a man is 2 d relatioship. Yea Men offer most dan women. If i tel u my own scenerio there wil b no enough space 2 type. let d ladies in this forum talk and compare them wit guys
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Riele(f): 2:37pm On Nov 20, 2019
makeherscream:
I don't blame you I blame the guys who wasted their precious time answering senseless question the fact that you are insulting me now is because they gave you the attention you wanted bitch senseless being asking senseless question scaliwa

You're frustrated .
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Riele(f): 2:38pm On Nov 20, 2019
J2381:
are you really 16 years old?
Yea . Any problem ?
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by snowed(m): 2:43pm On Nov 20, 2019
Riele:


Protect her in what way?
Buying stuff for = money .
A man offers nothing but money .

If a man offers nothing but money and a woman offers nothing but sex, this means men pay women for sex.

Isn't that what prostitutes do? Just thinking.

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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Riele(f): 2:45pm On Nov 20, 2019
snowed:


If a man offers nothing but money and a woman offers nothing but sex, this means men pay women for sex.

Isn't that what prostitutes do? Just thinking.

And isn't what womanizers do? . Just thinking .
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Riele(f): 2:48pm On Nov 20, 2019
singledude:
Keep lying to yourself.

I have paid house rents,furnished flats,helped 1 get a great job and bought countless things that I can't start to list here.Let's not even start talking about cash my dear.

If I may ask,what have you ever offered anyone that you dated? it's not an attack,just be honest.


Never dated .
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by valiju: 2:49pm On Nov 20, 2019
Everything
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by xynerise: 2:52pm On Nov 20, 2019
The Op must be laughing while typing this rhetorical question. grin

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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by snowed(m): 2:52pm On Nov 20, 2019
Riele:


And isn't what womanizers do? . Just thinking .

So according to your theory, men are womanizers while women are prostitutes....
Clap for yourself grin grin

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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Nobody: 3:03pm On Nov 20, 2019
pocohantas:


Nah, we are reserved for a special breed. Men who see value beyond SEX, BEAUTY and MONEY. smiley



Even these one sef wan marry special breed ... i jus pity her future hubby .. ordinary gimme bj fit turn to 10hrs sexist argument ..se ogun l'aye nii

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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by pocohantas(f): 3:04pm On Nov 20, 2019
ericsmith:




Even these one sef wan marry special breed ... i jus pity her future hubby .. ordinary gimme bj fit turn to 10hrs sexist argument ..se ogun l'aye nii

Why should I give you BJ? Are you a virgin? BJ for community prick? You should be smacked on the head with a baseball bat! !

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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Ifebazz(m): 3:17pm On Nov 20, 2019
Yet, she'll say you were the one who 'used' her.

Thankless job of being a man sef.
chinchonglee:
I ll speak for myself using myost recent EX as a case study grin grin

I offered money
I offered job (made her a nice CV and helped her through the online apt test).
Made a great website for her business and help her in importing all her female products from china..
Etc i cant start writing all...

She offered ntn aside sex grin grin
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Nobody: 3:23pm On Nov 20, 2019
pocohantas:


Why should I give you BJ?
Are you a virgin? BJ for community prick? You should be smacked on the head with a baton!



ahh !! see as questions cast konji wey dey worry me into swine no vex ma' cos i knw 10hrs no go reach us

Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by pocohantas(f): 3:27pm On Nov 20, 2019
ericsmith:




ahh !! see as questions cast konji wey dey worry me into swine no vex ma' cos i knw 10hrs no go reach us

No go fck your wife materials, be here hustling for man-hating-feminist toto.

Men and bad girls ehn... 5 and 6 grin

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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Riele(f): 3:32pm On Nov 20, 2019
snowed:

So according to your theory, men are womanizers while women are prostitutes.... Clap for yourself grin grin
Was Just thinking the way you do .
Now , clap for yourself .
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by tck2000(m): 3:45pm On Nov 20, 2019
iLegendd:


You're right. Smart men offer nothing — until she's officially a wife, then he offers her everything. Stupid men try to offer everything during courtship in exchange for sex. I just pity these stupid men — I really do.

Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by tck2000(m): 3:45pm On Nov 20, 2019
iLegendd:


You're right. Smart men offer nothing — until she's officially a wife, then he offers her everything. Stupid men try to offer everything during courtship in exchange for sex. I just pity these stupid men — I really do.

I like this.

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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Slimsly100(f): 4:13pm On Nov 20, 2019
Juell:
1. Protection
2. Money
3. Emotional support
4. Family support
5. Intellectual support
6. Buying gifts
7. Taking them out........
The list is endless jarey.
And even the sex sef.... Who enjoys it more? The women


Omo!!
See analysis shocked
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by evesdon4u: 4:19pm On Nov 20, 2019
On a general note, when it comes to what a man or woman can offer in a relationship, couples need to understand each other and be able to identify their needs. These needs may be emotional, physical, material etc or a combination of all at the same time...
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Nobody: 4:57pm On Nov 20, 2019
pocohantas:


No go fck your wife materials, be here hustling for man-hating-feminist toto.

Men and bad girls ehn... 5 and 6 grin




naa eric u wan play d switch game on ..u wish grin n pls note pvssy is an entity different frm ur personality ... nex time u wanna advice ur toto start wit d price not d name grin

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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by pocohantas(f): 5:08pm On Nov 20, 2019
ericsmith:

naa eric u wan play d switch game on ..u wish grin n pls note pvssy is an entity different frm ur personality ... nex time u wanna advice ur toto start wit d price not d name grin

Every time personality- stop trying to force me into caring what you think. I don't cheesy. As for price, I resemble una begging gfs? Toor!!

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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by J2381: 5:31pm On Nov 20, 2019
Riele:


Yea . Any problem ?
nope.

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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Nobody: 5:55pm On Nov 20, 2019
eTECTIV:
Every woman wants a man who will foot her bills and take care of her but still yet u ask what a man offers? Even d sex women offer is clickbait for financial enumeration

They offer emotional blackmailing, financial extortion and serial cheating...
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Nobody: 6:13pm On Nov 20, 2019
pocohantas:


Every time personality- stop trying to force me into caring what you think. I don't cheesy. As for price, I resemble una begging gfs? Toor!!


force is that wat u call correction, even u care do i look i care... una no go dey use me masturbate .. also price is equivalent to valuables not beggers ... u can neva resemble my gf cos she s nt a lunatic

Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by pocohantas(f): 6:14pm On Nov 20, 2019
ericsmith:



force is that wat u call correction, even u care do i look i care... una no go dey use me masturbate .. also price is equivalent to valuables not beggers ... u can neva resemble my gf cos she s nt a lunatic

Then spend more time with her and stop sniffing my posts like a dog.
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by LilMissFavvy(f): 6:15pm On Nov 20, 2019
Hmmmm .........you have been wasting your comedy talents/gift on NL grin......I'm serious.
pocohantas:


No go fck your wife materials, be here hustling for man-hating-feminist toto.

Men and bad girls ehn... 5 and 6 grin
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by LilMissFavvy(f): 6:17pm On Nov 20, 2019
Looks like an interesting thread, yet feeling so lazy to read through shocked
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by pocohantas(f): 6:38pm On Nov 20, 2019
LilMissFavvy:
Hmmmm .........you have been wasting your comedy talents/gift on NL grin......I'm serious.

Anything for alfa males. Their good gfs not feisty enough to keep them away from me grin grin

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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by SwagPower: 6:54pm On Nov 20, 2019
pansophist:


Women have a higher perception of danger. Where a man feels perfectly safe, a woman may not feel safe, the presence of a man is sufficient to create a balance and make her feel safe. If a woman wants a kid, it is only a man that can impregnate her, and potentially provide for her and her kids if he is responsible.

Men by nature have a soft spot for women and women know this first hand. Men generally will sacrifice himself to make a woman feel comfortable, eg giving her his jacket when she feels cold, or even taking a bullet for her. A single google search will reveal thousands of men have been taking bullets and losing their lives for the women they love, so far, I have not seen the opposite.

Humans evolved to be social beings, no matter the material riches, popularity and social class, companionship triumph above all, we can see it with our female celebrities for example. Humans need each other, and more so for women, who need men for emotional safety and in some cases, balance out the chaotic nature of the feminine with rationality and order.

Women want to feel loved, desired and chosen, and if one can see the value of a man past his wallet, it won't be difficult to find out the importance of a man in a woman's life, and what he brings into the relationship.

Need I say more?

Seriously Where are people like pansophist in the real world..When I look around, most people I see are shallow and can never hold an intelligent conversation..I'm awed by people who can articulate their thoughts like this guy does...
thumbs up man!

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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Nobody: 7:01pm On Nov 20, 2019
pocohantas:


Then spend more time with her and stop sniffing my posts like a dog.



poco slowdown ... b4 i get confuse who is ur problem is it Me or Her, someone is jealous o grin grin o je lo raa cucumber shoprite

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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by SwagPower: 7:07pm On Nov 20, 2019
franchasng:
As a lady, a sexy hot lady, let me be honest and shame the devil for once; we ladies offer nothing to men, i repeat, we ladies of nowadays offer nothing to men. Even the sex, we enjoy it most if we can be honest to ourselves, we are only selective with who we want to have sex with, but once we find the kind of guy we love to sex, we enjoy sex so much more than the guys.


During the so called sex, we ladies can cum more than 3 times if we are being dicked by our preferred man lipsrsealed lipsrsealed


But men offer:

1.) Money which happens to be the biggest or most important thing in the world today

2.) They offer job, career advice (lots of men help ladies secure jobs, how many ladies have helped a man who isn't their brother secure a job)

3.) Lots of Nigerian men for instance have helped thousands or millions of Nigerian ladies to travel abroad and even help them become citizens of top global nations through marrying them, but how many Nigerian ladies help guys travel abroad or help them become foreign citizens, very few ladies have done that, the rest will be saying they cannot do it so that the guy won't come over and dump them.

4.) Men buy cars for their ladies everyday, we all see it....how many ladies buy car for their man

5.) Men pay rent and build house for their women, how many women build or pay rent for their man

6.) Men date and marry brokeass ladies who have no job, no single dime except pussy, how many ladies date and marry broke men without a job, only their dick to offer Men de try oh no go there sis shocked shocked


My sister, men are wonderful, say the truth....maybe if you are not getting the right men, say it, maybe because you are too arrogant, prideful, pompous and always forming hard-to-get for guys, which makes the great guys abandon you, leaving you with brokeass quality-less guys who can chase a girl for one decade without shame, men of quality don't waste time begging a girl to accept them, they move on the minute you say no, so look inward and change some things and you will start attracting the best guys that will wow you shocked shocked
Wow..The sheer unadulterated honesty is confounding...
I'm in utter shock...
Was this really written by a girl or all those funny guys on here parading themselves as females for God knows why..
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Arsenate(m): 7:39pm On Nov 20, 2019
SwagPower:

Seriously Where are people like pansophist in the real world..When I look around, most people I see are shallow and can never hold an intelligent conversation..I'm awed by people who can articulate their thoughts like this guy does...
thumbs up man!
Pansophist is so so intelligent so much so that the ladies on here who pretend to be intelligent don't even bother quoting him grin
They literally do not stand a chance so they act like they do not see his comments.

I'm a huge fan of his.

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