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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by LINTUNE(m): 3:22pm On Nov 19, 2019 |
Riele:i really dont know how to explain |
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by donMIG(m): 3:23pm On Nov 19, 2019 |
Orgasms Money Happiness Love Complements Protection Respect! |
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Riele(f): 3:23pm On Nov 19, 2019 |
iLegendd: Lmao . I pity them too . |
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Riele(f): 3:25pm On Nov 19, 2019 |
LINTUNE:That's because there's nothing to explain . |
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Riele(f): 3:26pm On Nov 19, 2019 |
donMIG:A woman can offer most of the listed . 3 Likes |
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by iLegendd(m): 3:33pm On Nov 19, 2019 |
Riele: I got you on your left ball — if you have any. #YouWon'tUndertand. |
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Riele(f): 3:36pm On Nov 19, 2019 |
iLegendd:You're right . I don't understand . |
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by iLegendd(m): 3:42pm On Nov 19, 2019 |
Riele: It's good to be confused at times — it's what led Bobrisky to switch gender. I noticed you like sweet trouble. Come to my shop let's discuss — I sell it in wholesale. Before I go, have you considered swapping gender? Or you love the p**** you have? 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Riele(f): 3:45pm On Nov 19, 2019 |
iLegendd: Lol . I'm a female . 1 Like |
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Nobody: 3:50pm On Nov 19, 2019 |
Sanitary pads, toiletries, cream , panties |
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by iLegendd(m): 3:53pm On Nov 19, 2019 |
Riele: I know. But why is your "period" always "shifted" from your word? Is there anything you're hiding from me? If no, then I have a surprise package for you. Though, I don't know if you can handle it. Talk to you later. 4 Likes |
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Riele(f): 3:56pm On Nov 19, 2019 |
iLegendd: Can handle anything . |
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Riele(f): 3:58pm On Nov 19, 2019 |
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by oxiide22(m): 4:45pm On Nov 19, 2019 |
iLegendd:I swear he's a guy 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Nobody: 4:50pm On Nov 19, 2019 |
oxiide22:we really don't know what "it" is unless shown proof |
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by oxiide22(m): 4:53pm On Nov 19, 2019 |
Nigg3369:you're not a real nigga 1 Like |
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by AstroG: 4:55pm On Nov 19, 2019 |
pansophist: 15 Likes 1 Share
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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Nobody: 4:55pm On Nov 19, 2019 |
oxiide22:that is very true |
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by oxiide22(m): 4:57pm On Nov 19, 2019 |
Nigg3369:u c 1 Like |
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by donMIG(m): 10:01pm On Nov 19, 2019 |
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Riele(f): 10:06pm On Nov 19, 2019 |
donMIG:Do you want her to offer you protection ? 1 Like |
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Originalsly: 10:23pm On Nov 19, 2019 |
Riele: Leaving out money or anything related to money. Security.... a woman is wired to feel secure when a man is around. E.g... man and woman sleeping in the same house.. different rooms... blackout.. 2 a.m... a strange scratching and growling sound in the backyard... is she going to investigate?... or dash over to the man's room and disturb him? Companionship.... doesn't matter what a woman's mouth be saying.... at the end of the day they be dying to be wrapped up in a man's arms.... man doesn't have to say a word. Women are wired that way.Attention and compliments... from men.... it is a must. Lack of it leads to frustration and low self esteem. Is any of these related to money? Do you not crave for any of these...all of these? 32 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Riele(f): 10:30pm On Nov 19, 2019 |
Originalsly: So a woman can't provide attention , compliment and companionship in a relationship ? They ain't related to sex either . 5 Likes |
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by NiCurious: 10:47pm On Nov 19, 2019 |
pansophist: Excellent. Both men and women should have higher expectations of each other, than a lot of what I've been seeing. That said...if a woman is on her own feet financially, we return to the question...what does a man provide her in marriage? Could it be companionship? Intellectual stimulation? Complementary skills? A listening ear? (Aside that whole parenting thing--talking about what the woman herself gains from marriage.) Can she not get these things without marrying? Is she guaranteed these things if she marries? Only if she chooses well. 8 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Originalsly: 11:21pm On Nov 19, 2019 |
Riele: Yes she can.... but a man doesn't need attention... a woman does. Give a man too much attention.... he would believe you too possessive. Give him too much compliments he begins feel uneasy....begins to suspect you. Companionship... yes...during his down time... when he is recharging.... and when fully charged.... honey you know it feels sooo good being alone with you...but I got to go do something....I'll be right back. When he comes back... is to recharge again. Shared companionship....men are naturally very sharing and distributors of the needs of women...none related to money. Don't you know guys like this? 19 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Riele(f): 11:29pm On Nov 19, 2019 |
Originalsly: Lol A man doesn't need attention? And you think women don't feel uneasy with too much compliments? 6 Likes |
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Originalsly: 11:51pm On Nov 19, 2019 |
Riele: Yes ..men do... almost always when they are sick... but when healthy... men don't need attention to make them feel good nor would they dive into depression. There is no such thing as showering a woman with too much compliments and making her feel uneasy. Any such woman I would strongly suspect is a ehmmm... transgendered woman.Do you know of any such woman? 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by pansophist(m): 12:55am On Nov 20, 2019 |
NiCurious: Women have a higher perception of danger. Where a man feels perfectly safe, a woman may not feel safe, the presence of a man is sufficient to create a balance and make her feel safe. If a woman wants a kid, it is only a man that can impregnate her, and potentially provide for her and her kids if he is responsible. Men by nature have a soft spot for women and women know this first hand. Men generally will sacrifice himself to make a woman feel comfortable, eg giving her his jacket when she feels cold, or even taking a bullet for her. A single google search will reveal thousands of men have been taking bullets and losing their lives for the women they love, so far, I have not seen the opposite. Humans evolved to be social beings, no matter the material riches, popularity and social class, companionship triumph above all, we can see it with our female celebrities for example. Humans need each other, and more so for women, who need men for emotional safety and in some cases, balance out the chaotic nature of the feminine with rationality and order. Women want to feel loved, desired and chosen, and if one can see the value of a man past his wallet, it won't be difficult to find out the importance of a man in a woman's life, and what he brings into the relationship. Need I say more? 34 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by pocohantas(f): 1:03am On Nov 20, 2019 |
A very simple question... So much struggle and deflections. 3 Likes |
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by maak400: 1:26am On Nov 20, 2019 |
Riele:It goes to show that you are just a self entitled attention seeking prostitut.e with a lose mouth and borehole pvssy like your mama. Stupid girl without home training. 9 Likes |
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by NiCurious: 1:33am On Nov 20, 2019 |
pansophist: Thank you for your well-considered reply. We are both talking in generalizations, of course--not all women are chaotic in nature, and not all men will take a bullet for a woman--but heaven forbid that we put that to the test in the first place. Other than not coming home to an empty house, can we agree that a man might serve as a flywheel to stabilize the energies in a woman's life? But the same may well be said in reverse. |
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by pansophist(m): 1:49am On Nov 20, 2019 |
NiCurious: The same can be said in reverse, of course, both genders need each other, and a successful relationship is a kind where they both complement themselves seamlessly and effortlessly. Women, on the other hand, are a source of ''manning up'' for men, it is the need for men to procreate and have a chance with women that unleash their adrenaline to compete in the real world and grow through life. Women are the mirror that makes men question themselves and put men back on track. There is a reason why most important positions dealing with the public requires the man to be married, as it signifies his worthiness, responsibility, and ability to lead. Women are a source of pleasure to men, from sex, and ego massage, as people generally will accord a man social respect depending on how beautiful and desirable his woman is. The life of a typical man is of a routine, spartan, rugged, etc, the military that is all-male is an example of this male lifestyle, and it is women that bring in their softness, tenderness, nurture, and water-down the dreary lifestyle of men. Women are a source of motivation for men, and the reason why men will keep pushing forward, making humanity progress, as it has been since the beginning of time. 18 Likes 2 Shares |
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