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Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by Hunter34: 9:13pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth:no be lie o 1 Like |
Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by Dinho20(m): 9:14pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
"FOOD FOR THOUGHT 2 Likes
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Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by Mart1994(m): 9:16pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
[s][/s][s] stevmatt: Shatap |
Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by Nobody: 9:17pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
Mart1994: Shatdawn 1 Like |
Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by themaestro08(m): 9:20pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
vincentjk:no problem at all, if you guys are compatible then yes. But is there any warning sign or red flag that you have seen? 2 Likes |
Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by Nobody: 9:25pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
yazga: E be like na small children full this Nairaland sef. See as them dey call 33, 35 older men....little wonder I get the kind of response I get here sometimes and begin to think what's up... Abeg make I go look for where dem my mates dey before one indomie boy begin dey disturb me here. Chinekeeee 4 Likes |
Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by Czartega(m): 9:28pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
She don't want to marry a baby that's why . On Monday I read a post asking women if they could marry a 29yr old man earning 60k a month which translates to 720k a year. Whether the ladies were pretending with their replies or not, The responses were really interesting to read. Its nice to see that there are still reasonable women here who don't dance around in fantasyland and are keen on working together while looking ahead. A woman who knows how to take a little and make it work is priceless. A trait I thought was lost with the generation of our mothers. Apparently I was wrong and such women who are great at managing limited resources still exist What caught my attention however, was the fact that more than half the women said the salary was ok but they couldn't marry any man under 33. I snooped around to try and see if anybody gave a logical reason for this conclusion but couldn't find any So I want to ask officially. What's wrong with a man under 33? If he makes you happy, and he is ready to spend the rest of his life with you what's the problem with his age that would be a hindrance? Or could it be that you are older so like the typical Nigerian woman you can't marry a younger man? Is it possible that a man can tick all the right boxes on your list of an ideal man but you turn him down cuz of age? Please ladies share your thoughts on this with us. We want to know oh [/quote] 2 Likes |
Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by colestephan86: 9:33pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
yazga:What I observed is , in life you can multitask just like your computer and cell phones. You don't have to have all the millions in this world to get married , while you strive to get better , you can as well get married and still do several other things. I got married at 30 and sincerely I don't regret it. But please make sure she gat something doing and from my observation a 30 year old man and a 35 are bothering in same age bracket. Even some younger guys are more matures than the older ones 1 Like |
Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by folks4luv(f): 9:45pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
vincentjk:I think your bestie is stylishly telling you not to mind her age just incase you want to shoot your shot 3 Likes |
Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by Excel70: 9:48pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
vincentjk:That is why she dropped that i can marry a younger guy talk She is expecting you to propose You have to consider it carefully don't be fooled by bestfriend stuff. She already planned it out. She is more experienced than you 1 Like |
Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by MrgudK(m): 9:49pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
Such a mature and well written comment This must be some informed wisdom pocohantas: 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by Nickymichy(m): 9:49pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
Well to my own view....most Nigeria men are not emotionally, financially, sexually matured and responsible not until when dey are in der 30s..mostly mid 30s...frankly 1 Like |
Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by MusaDanladi1: 9:56pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
vincentjk:You don't need to directly ask her out. It's a simple sturvs. Spend more time with her as in outings, go to exciting places or road trips and in between drop little gifts that matter, I am not advising you to go bankrupt whilst doing all this, trust me she will wait for you no matter what suitor is giving her vibes. All this is if she's a really appreciating person and her head dey there . 1 Like |
Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by webngnews: 9:56pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
Immature kid daddy boy |
Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by Grupo(m): 10:01pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
Alexaonfleek: I hear about this maturity talk from you ladies a lot lately. Please, can you list what it means for a man to be mature? I want to assess myself and know if I'm mature or not. 2 Likes |
Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by cassyrooy(m): 10:12pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
pocohantas:Very true. Uburu jurugi isi. Jisie ike! |
Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by Nobody: 10:13pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
Grupo: Do you have money or not? That is what girls mean but mature. |
Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by Gerrard59(m): 10:16pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
Craig24: Why did he give birth to FIVE children? People should please make informed decisions. You cannot be a civil servant/military personnel who started having children from the age of 50 yet gave birth to FIVE children. How is that anyone's fault? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by mvem(m): 10:17pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
lilwetdick:I think women not men that are marriage desperate. Most men are not marriage desperate compared to women which have obvious reasons |
Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by Grupo(m): 10:18pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
truthsayer009: Lol. You might be right. I still want to hear from the horse's mouth. |
Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by midnighter(f): 10:29pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
mvem: They do get desperate and they rush a lot. They may have more potential spouses to choose from and more time, but they still have a propensity for moving fast for the wrong reasons. And even if not marriage, for some kind of female partner when some of them would be better off pursuing other things. |
Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by midnighter(f): 10:33pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
Craig24: If he had only had those first 2 children (bearing in mind that he was a civil servant) he would have been fine. His age was not the problem but not planning for his future. Older parents are sometimes stigmatised, I agree but as far as his family goes, that problem is of his own making. |
Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by Joystark(f): 10:48pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
How can anyone say they cannot be with someone less that 33? OP I dunno where you got your stats from o. It's great to be with someone you can call odé and not feel like you just insulted your uncle. Anyway sha, older man, younger man... If he makes you smile, that should do. Ps... With older guys you learn more, with this constant need to be better. With younger guys, you just are a bit less tensed. 1 Like |
Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by Naruto87(m): 10:54pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
lilwetdick:Nice write, I completely agree 1 Like |
Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by Advancedman(m): 11:05pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
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Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by Jhamzy(m): 11:23pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
midnighter:Give me your reasons ma |
Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by faithfull18(f): 11:41pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
They are mostly immature. |
Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by midnighter(f): 11:42pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
Jhamzy: Hmm I already stated my reasons, scroll down and keep reading.. |
Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by Nobody: 11:57pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
Dimples0303:Go and tell this to the people living in Niger sokoto and zamfara.. Everybody's now automatically a life coach.. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by Aboguede(m): 12:02am On Nov 23, 2019 |
This is exactly what this post is all about It is clear you are under 33 And if this is the case, can you please Go find ur mates For the fact that you can insult people here does not make you wise but rather makes you more stupid or simply more childish By the way Age is very important for marriage. Taking Nigeria as a case study, 90% of marriages with problems in Nigeria cement this fact. Yes there are exceptions but that is usually rear. Secondly I also think it is advisable for a man of 33 and up who is looking for a life partner to also consider the lady's age too cox women of 26 and up are better too for marriage as they are already thinking of settling and to build their own family unlike ladies of 25 down who still have to hustle to help their families. So, my point is that the most contribution of problems in marriages in Nigeria is FAMILY cox it is almost like a culture now in Nigeria for families to subject their children into one form of pressure or another and this is both to the males and females alike But I also observed that many people get matured with age and then can be able to ignore that family pressures or learn the best way to handle them. So, to me, marriage is best for 30 and up for men and 26 and up for women When I was under 30 I thought it would be hard to marry ur choice lady after 33 but now am near 33, I saw that women get more attracted to guys of 31 up. Even little girls below 20 will easily fall for this age bracket of men and two, money is better managed by a man of this age too. Not necessarily having too much but knowing better. This does not mean that couples of this age bracket do not cheat but it is Better done and better managed unlike couples of 20s Another thing to note here that money as people of 20s usually think is the key to stable marriage is actually not true cox no body on earth has gotten enough when it comes to money including bill gate but rather money management is the key. There are things that a man in his 20s will usually spend money for while a man in his 30s will ignore it and save that same money and even for the same purpose he will still get value in that despite avoiding the expenses. Now you know what they mean by the popular saying " A FOOL AT 40 IS A FOOL FOR EVER" lilwetdick: |
Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by Odisi92: 12:19am On Nov 23, 2019 |
Let me just drop my own 2 cents... Was talking to someone d Oda day on Dix same issue and d reply she gave was somewhat surprising but true. 1. No one z ever truly mature or ready for marriage, as we grow in it. 2. U want to still be strong to instill or guide ur children wen dey start coming and Dix takes both time, resources and energy. U don't want to do dat as a retireee. Dese were the only two points dat she kept resounding. As a civil or public servant, no need trying to play d ostrich ur no. of years are already planned out coupled with d fact dat it's a stable job @ least u should settle down and 28, 29, 30 >> z ok. Dix SOMEONE has a former HOS, 2 PS's, a medical director, and a principal amongst er children so she's like an elder to me and we words.... Once again my 2 cents. |
Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by Nobody: 12:47am On Nov 23, 2019 |
midnighter:I was responding to the lady I mentioned. |
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