Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / New
Stats: 3,153,707 members, 7,820,475 topics. Date: Tuesday, 07 May 2024 at 03:34 PM

My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! - Romance (4) - Nairaland

Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! (80624 Views)

She Is Threatening To Leak His Nudes / "My Dad Is A Pastor!" - Lady Begs Guy Threatening To Leak Her Nudes For 15k(Pic) / Lady Begs Her Ex Who Wants To Leak Her Nudes For Cheating With 2 Of His Friends (2) (3) (4)

(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) ... (23) (Reply) (Go Down)

Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by Nobody: 9:35pm On Nov 23, 2019
franchasng:

1 Share

Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by RTSC: 9:42pm On Nov 23, 2019
Pikin wey dem send go school was busy having sex and getting drunk and making sex tape.

I pity your poor parents when it leaks.

11 Likes

Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by dayorh0(m): 9:52pm On Nov 23, 2019
Connect with me, I can help you make his life miserable. Dare him to release it.

1 Like

Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by Nobody: 10:01pm On Nov 23, 2019
pamelaayomide:
Nairalanders I am actually typing this with fear of what to come.
I am an active member of this forum but change moniker by registering and creating a new one here to hide my identity.

Origin...
I met my boyfriend in school actually we were in the same department at funnab.
We did things together.
We were in love and had sex when we feel like it.
We planned to get married after school.

Mistake...
I went to a birthday party of one of my close friends,I had three friends and we are like clique.
During the party I got drunk and the guy that took us to the party in his car took advantage of my drunken state and had sex with me and make it look like it is consensual.
During the act I know what was happening but was too weak and blurred.
I didn't know their was a video recording of the act.
When I woke up the guy was no where to be found so I kept it to myself.

Blackmail...
When my guy find out that I cheated on him he was furious.
I denied it initially but when he show me the sex clip I admit it but defend myself on the ground that it was rape and not consensual.
I summon courage and asked him how did he come up with the sex tape but that he would not answer to.
He left that moment and I start feeling that he knows something about the tape and wants to blackmail.

Threat...
He show up one day at my hostel and threaten to leak the tape online.
I beg him profusely not to do that but he said my plea and tears are waste of time.
That he will let everyone know the kind of loose lady I am for betraying and cheating on him.
That I will regret the day I met him.
That I doesn't deserve his love.

Currently...
He is yet to release the clip but may actually do that with what is happening to the Babcock ex student.
What should I do to stop him before he destroys me.

3 Likes

Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by Nobody: 10:02pm On Nov 23, 2019
Dimples0303:







Are you throwing holy water on the thread ?
Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by Nobody: 10:06pm On Nov 23, 2019
RonaldoVido:


Are you throwing holy water on the thread ?

And performed an exorcism cry
Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by CsRockefeller(m): 10:31pm On Nov 23, 2019
In all these, Lord please give me a sexually pure wife.

Dear Lord, I have never fondled with a girl, please, don't give me what has been used, over used and re used.

Dear Lord, from the deepest part of.my heart I plead.

22 Likes 5 Shares

Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by Nobody: 10:42pm On Nov 23, 2019
I want to say thank you to those good people that DM me via email to help.
I need it and will be willing to give out info on how best to stop this misogynist.
He is involved in this blackmail and now is threatening me.
I thank you guys.

And pls I need love and support not the blame game I am reading here.

And stop calling me a slut,I am not one.
I was raped and been blackmail, this is too much for me pls.
To you guys don't see we ladies as cheap gold diggers.
We are humans too.
Is just that the society see us as sex object which we are not.
I am not a slut nor a drunkard.
Reason with me on my travail and trial

17 Likes

Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by Harvest601(m): 11:30pm On Nov 23, 2019
We'll be on the lookout grin
Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by TemmyT002(m): 11:39pm On Nov 23, 2019
Oh boy, you don fall into the wrong guy's 'hands'
Get a 30 thousand Naira a year lawyer and let them come up with big words to threaten his life. They should let him know the consequences of his actions legally.

2 Likes

Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by ZAWs: 11:55pm On Nov 23, 2019
Babe this your tales by moonlight isn't adding up.
Probably you saw the bkok sex tape and you remember that yours is hanging elsewhere and might be leaked as well

If still your story is ever true, dont involved any cult whatever.
Your boyfriend may form alliance and come hunting for you soon than you think.
Please approach the security outfits

4 Likes

Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by Sambaby7640: 12:37am On Nov 24, 2019
pamelaayomide:
He will know I only said that because of the threat.
I will involve the security or the dreaded students in the campus.
involve the police on the rape case and your bf won't even dare leak it. No one was to be detained you know
Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by SleekyP(m): 1:15am On Nov 24, 2019
pamelaayomide:
He said so that is why we always had sex.
I gave him my body but he decided to toy with the same body.
I regret ever knowing him,he is a scum and a misogynist.
What kind of nonesense is this? You want to use a Cultist to harrass him? And if he got killed in the process what will you tell his parents? You chatead and get caught so face your shit...

And to the guys supporting her....this is just a one sided story haba!!!

4 Likes

Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by SleekyP(m): 1:18am On Nov 24, 2019
ZAWs:
Babe this your tales by moonlight isn't adding up.
Probably you saw the bkok sex tape and you remember that yours is hanging elsewhere and might be leaked as well

If still your story is ever true, dont involved any cult whatever.
Your boyfriend may form alliance and come hunting for you soon than you think.
Please approach the security outfits

Don't mind the girl....there is more to her story.....shameless b!

5 Likes

Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by OlaitanAkanbi(m): 1:36am On Nov 24, 2019
My sister sex tape or not you will surly see your own guy and you have to be strong right now
And report the guy to the nearest police station so they can arrest him and get the evidence on is phone

I bet you he will never mess with you again

2 Likes

Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by shege45: 3:06am On Nov 24, 2019
pamelaayomide:
It is not too late to help me pls.
I don't have money to hire a lawyer, I am still a student.
call police first to arrest him

2 Likes

Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by amamahdaniel(m): 3:23am On Nov 24, 2019
Nairaland please vote for me as The Best AHOC OF THE YEAR.
My name is AMAMAH. FOLLOW THE LINK AND VOTE FOR ME. GOD will do something GREAT in ur life before this year end. AMEN.

https://headply.com/wd2ba/
Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by MrMcJay(m): 3:34am On Nov 24, 2019
pamelaayomide:
I want to say thank you to those good people that DM me via email to help.
I need it and will be willing to give out info on how best to stop this misogynist.
He is involved in this blackmail and now is threatening me.
I thank you guys.

And pls I need love and support not the blame game I am reading here.

And stop calling me a slut,I am not one.
I was raped and been blackmail, this is too much for me pls.
To you guys don't see we ladies as cheap gold diggers.
We are humans too.
Is just that the society see us as sex object which we are not.
I am not a slut nor a drunkard.
Reason with me on my travail and trial

Check your DM. I've sent you a private message.
Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by Billionsclub: 3:36am On Nov 24, 2019
I totally feel sorry for you, no one truly understand what you are going through. I really want to talk with you in person. dm me.
Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by Neduh(m): 3:43am On Nov 24, 2019
De deed has been done... Just wait for it.. If he leaks it... De whole senerio will fade as tym goes on..
Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by Nicklaus619(m): 4:42am On Nov 24, 2019
pamelaayomide:
Nairalanders I am actually typing this with fear of what to come.
I am an active member of this forum but change moniker by registering and creating a new one here to hide my identity.

Origin...
I met my boyfriend in school actually we were in the same department at funnab.
We did things together.
We were in love and had sex when we feel like it.
We planned to get married after school.

Mistake...
I went to a birthday party of one of my close friends,I had three friends and we are like clique.
During the party I got drunk and the guy that took us to the party in his car took advantage of my drunken state and had sex with me and make it look like it is consensual.
During the act I know what was happening but was too weak and blurred.
I didn't know their was a video recording of the act.
When I woke up the guy was no where to be found so I kept it to myself.

Blackmail...
When my guy find out that I cheated on him he was furious.
I denied it initially but when he show me the sex clip I admit it but defend myself on the ground that it was rape and not consensual.
I summon courage and asked him how did he come up with the sex tape but that he would not answer to.
He left that moment and I start feeling that he knows something about the tape and wants to blackmail.

Threat...
He show up one day at my hostel and threaten to leak the tape online.
I beg him profusely not to do that but he said my plea and tears are waste of time.
That he will let everyone know the kind of loose lady I am for betraying and cheating on him.
That I will regret the day I met him.
That I doesn't deserve his love.

Currently...
He is yet to release the clip but may actually do that with what is happening to the Babcock ex student.
What should I do to stop him before he destroys me.

Don't kill yourself with depression, you made mistake by getting drunk in the absent of your boyfriend and having sex with someone else and getting em videoed without your knowledge and mutual agreement , but again he is only your boyfriend and not your husband yet, this is what you should do, I know you can't afford a lawyer hence your a student, tomorrow morning Go straight to the school management and report that your boyfriend got you drunk and brought someone to rape you and blackmailing you with it just because u told him you don't want the relationship no more that you wanna concentrate on your studies, and go straight to the police station and report a rape case against him, they will drill him until he writes an undertaking that if the video leaked that he will be convicted and jailed, now play that mind game by throwing the first punch at him and thank me later, cool your boyfriend is a clown, he should have ended the relationship than this cheap stunt he is trying to pull

5 Likes

Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by smartleo(m): 6:00am On Nov 24, 2019
pamelaayomide:
He will know I only said that because of the threat.
I will involve the security or the dreaded students in the campus.

I graduated from Unaab some years back 2012 and I how religious our school is ,reporting to the school authority will end your career faster than you think and come to think of it ,you spoke about a dreaded cult group ,it all boils down that you have not learnt your lesson still. My advice is that you either talk to Rev .Richard Ige ,Pastor Wale and any of these person Dr.Lasode or Engineer Banjo (former director of works and physical planning) .These people are father and mother figure who understand deep matters like this and I can assure you from experience you will get a solution and overcome this challenge with smile .If need any further help you can talk to me on 08060365556. Thanks

3 Likes

Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by itsme01: 6:08am On Nov 24, 2019
pamelaayomide:
Nairalanders I am actually typing this with fear of what to come.
I am an active member of this forum but change moniker by registering and creating a new one here to hide my identity.

Origin...
I met my boyfriend in school actually we were in the same department at funnab.
We did things together.
We were in love and had sex when we feel like it.
We planned to get married after school.

Mistake...
I went to a birthday party of one of my close friends,I had three friends and we are like clique.
During the party I got drunk and the guy that took us to the party in his car took advantage of my drunken state and had sex with me and make it look like it is consensual.
During the act I know what was happening but was too weak and blurred.
I didn't know their was a video recording of the act.
When I woke up the guy was no where to be found so I kept it to myself.

Blackmail...
When my guy find out that I cheated on him he was furious.
I denied it initially but when he show me the sex clip I admit it but defend myself on the ground that it was rape and not consensual.
I summon courage and asked him how did he come up with the sex tape but that he would not answer to.
He left that moment and I start feeling that he knows something about the tape and wants to blackmail.

Threat...
He show up one day at my hostel and threaten to leak the tape online.
I beg him profusely not to do that but he said my plea and tears are waste of time.
That he will let everyone know the kind of loose lady I am for betraying and cheating on him.
That I will regret the day I met him.
That I doesn't deserve his love.

Currently...
He is yet to release the clip but may actually do that with what is happening to the Babcock ex student.
What should I do to stop him before he destroys me.


go to state secetariat oke mosan, and head to the justice department.. tell them you need free legal representation and explain your case to them they might collect like 1500 administrative fees from you but they would surely help you or refer you to lawyers offering pro bono arround

the sooner you go the better, never get bullied into silence

1 Like

Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by Bobrisky1: 6:29am On Nov 24, 2019
[s]
itsme01:



go to state secetariat oke mosan, and head to the justice department.. tell them you need free legal representation and explain your case to them they might collect like 1500 administrative fees from you but they would surely help you or refer you to lawyers offering pro bono arround

the sooner you go the better
[/s]
Akanji how far
Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by Liposure: 6:32am On Nov 24, 2019
Involve the police 2 get him arrested 4 trying 2 infringe on your fundamental human right
Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by Progress62(m): 6:48am On Nov 24, 2019
pamelaayomide:
Nairalanders I am actually typing this with fear of what to come.
I am an active member of this forum but change moniker by registering and creating a new one here to hide my identity.

Origin...
I met my boyfriend in school actually we were in the same department at funnab.
We did things together.
We were in love and had sex when we feel like it.
We planned to get married after school.

Mistake...
I went to a birthday party of one of my close friends,I had three friends and we are like clique.
During the party I got drunk and the guy that took us to the party in his car took advantage of my drunken state and had sex with me and make it look like it is consensual.
During the act I know what was happening but was too weak and blurred.
I didn't know their was a video recording of the act.
When I woke up the guy was no where to be found so I kept it to myself.

Blackmail...
When my guy find out that I cheated on him he was furious.
I denied it initially but when he show me the sex clip I admit it but defend myself on the ground that it was rape and not consensual.
I summon courage and asked him how did he come up with the sex tape but that he would not answer to.
He left that moment and I start feeling that he knows something about the tape and wants to blackmail.

Threat...
He show up one day at my hostel and threaten to leak the tape online.
I beg him profusely not to do that but he said my plea and tears are waste of time.
That he will let everyone know the kind of loose lady I am for betraying and cheating on him.
That I will regret the day I met him.
That I doesn't deserve his love.

Currently...
He is yet to release the clip but may actually do that with what is happening to the Babcock ex student.
What should I do to stop him before he destroys me.
Should I kill him? I am a sniper
Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by BilltheDON(m): 7:00am On Nov 24, 2019
pamelaayomide:
To him,the tape is with him.
I may involve the school security or a dreaded cult guy.
Maybe if the former didn't work,the latter will.

Use the school security... Never use cult... Be wise
Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by Xavi2019: 7:03am On Nov 24, 2019
So, let's get this straight....
1. You went out with a guy to a party, of which I'm sure your boyfriend wasn't aware of, and the guy took you home/hotel where you two had sex (because it's obvious it wasn't in the car).
2. You didn't take any actions against the guy that supposedly raped you, or inform anyone.
3. Your boyfriend finds out and rightly gets mad and confronts you, and you DENIED IT outrightly claiming no such thing happened.
4. Your boyfriend provides you with evidence and you suddenly backtracked and called it rape.
5. Now you're playing the victim...

My take on the issue.....
1. I don't think your boyfriend is actually trying to blackmail you per se, if it was a blackmail, he would be requesting for something in return, rather, the correct word to use is EXPOSE!
He wants to expose you.
2. You still have never made mention of confronting the guy that allegedly raped you to help talk to your boyfriend, or threaten to take action against him for raping you, so I strongly feel it's not rape.
3. I don't think he actually threatened to leak the tape, rather it's what your guilty conscience working up overtime.
4. Lastly, you truly don't deserve his love.

But if he truly threatened to leak it.....
1. You can actually threaten to get the school authorities and police involved. That's just the best course of action to take, not by using cultists or voodoo...
Or...
2. Dialogue with him, you know him better, I am just sure he's badly hurt, beg him, apologise, come clean with him, or ask what he wants, go with a recorder (incase he wants to really blackmail you so you have proof).

On the last note, I don't support the guy's actions, and I also don't feel pity for your plight.
Good morning.

28 Likes 1 Share

Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by Nobody: 7:10am On Nov 24, 2019
Op please answer a few questions to get my advice

In the tape, where you making any sound like aaaah, ooooh, ouuuuuch, yeeess?

were you hugging him or you were dead inresponsive?

4 Likes 2 Shares

Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by iamoyindamola(m): 7:46am On Nov 24, 2019
Report to the school authorities,let them know you were raped and about to be blackmail.
Tell your parents before it's too late, in short tell the whole world you were raped even if it was consensual. You have to lie since blackmail is involved
Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by Ade24682: 7:52am On Nov 24, 2019
healthserve:


Not interested. ODAs can help. Since people have resorted to foolishness, ive promised to make innocent others pay for their foolishness. Shikena
because they refuse to help you in the treasury bill thread?

1 Like

Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by ba7man(m): 7:53am On Nov 24, 2019
pamelaayomide:
It is not too late to help me pls.
I don't have money to hire a lawyer, I am still a student.
Get a friend studying law to link you up with a practising lawyer.

Get the lawyer to serve him a notice of impending lawsuit and arrest quoting the crime.

He'll back off and if he doesn't, a warrant for his arrest will be served and he'll surely sleep in jail till his bail is perfected and his trial can commence if you refuse to settle out of court.

These young boys don't know the trouble their youthful exuberance can get them into when dealing with an informed individual.

2 Likes

(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) ... (23) (Reply)

She Wakes Up At Night And Stares At ME!!!! / Missing 17-Year-Old Girl Found In A Hotel In Port Harcourt / When You Show A Girl Too Much Love, She Will Misbehave

(Go Up)

Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health
religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket

Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10)

Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 92
Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland.