You are slut, that's all. This cock and bull story doesn't add up to me. You went to Bleep,got bleeped up and looking for a way to escape.

The best you can do, is to worry less about the video.
Assume he has already released it online.
Prepare your mind, be strong.

Remember you are you, and not what people say you are.....
It is your life.

pamelaayomide:
Nairalanders I am actually typing this with fear of what to come.

I am an active member of this forum but change moniker by registering and creating a new one here to hide my identity.

Origin...

I met my boyfriend in school actually we were in the same department at funnab. We did things together. We were in love and had sex when we feel like it. We planned to get married after school.

Mistake...

I went to a birthday party of one of my close friends, I had three friends and we are like clique.
During the party I got drunk and the guy that took us to the party in his car took advantage of my drunken state and had sex with me and make it look like it is consensual. During the act I know what was happening but was too weak and blurred. I didn't know there was a video recording of the act. When I woke up the guy was no where to be found so I kept it to myself.

Blackmail...

When my guy found out that I cheated on him, he was furious. I denied it initially but when he showed me the sex clip I admitted it but defended myself on the ground that it was rape and not consensual. I summon courage and asked him how did he come up with the sex tape but that he would not answer to. He left that moment and I start feeling that he knows something about the tape and wants to blackmail.

Threat...

He showed up one day at my hostel and threaten to leak the tape online. I begged him profusely not to do that but he said my plea and tears are waste of time. That he will let everyone know the kind of loose lady I am for betraying and cheating on him. That I will regret the day I met him. That I doesn't deserve his love.

Currently...

He is yet to release the clip but may actually do that with what is happening to the Babcock ex student.

What should I do to stop him before he destroys me.

so let's imagine he didn't have the sex tape that's how you would have denied ever cheating on him abi? moreover you should be more concerned about the guy you bleeped at the party not your bf....menh so many hoes in this generation....

Report this to the Police now!!!

Let there be a record that you report this to law enforcement agencies.

pamelaayomide:
Nairalanders I am actually typing this with fear of what to come.

I am an active member of this forum but change moniker by registering and creating a new one here to hide my identity.

Origin...

I met my boyfriend in school actually we were in the same department at funnab. We did things together. We were in love and had sex when we feel like it. We planned to get married after school.

Mistake...

I went to a birthday party of one of my close friends, I had three friends and we are like clique.
During the party I got drunk and the guy that took us to the party in his car took advantage of my drunken state and had sex with me and make it look like it is consensual. During the act I know what was happening but was too weak and blurred. I didn't know there was a video recording of the act. When I woke up the guy was no where to be found so I kept it to myself.

Blackmail...

When my guy found out that I cheated on him, he was furious. I denied it initially but when he showed me the sex clip I admitted it but defended myself on the ground that it was rape and not consensual. I summon courage and asked him how did he come up with the sex tape but that he would not answer to. He left that moment and I start feeling that he knows something about the tape and wants to blackmail.

Threat...

He showed up one day at my hostel and threaten to leak the tape online. I begged him profusely not to do that but he said my plea and tears are waste of time. That he will let everyone know the kind of loose lady I am for betraying and cheating on him. That I will regret the day I met him. That I doesn't deserve his love.

Currently...

He is yet to release the clip but may actually do that with what is happening to the Babcock ex student.

What should I do to stop him before he destroys me.

Sorry,but u don't pity u at all
U got urself un thus mess and should find a way out urself

Pamelaayomide contact omojuwa on twitter. You can start from there.

AfroKnight:
He took advantage of you while you were unable to give consent? That’s rape. Your boyfriend wants to leak the tape? Your lawyer is going to kill two birds with one stone.



I have a question though. Somewhat Unrelated to the thread.
A man and a woman are both drunk. They have sex. Who took advantage of whom? These days, consent is defined by the woman. Why?

You are wise sir. God bless you!

This is a nice advice too

Macon1212:


Find a little money go to Police station and arrest him, let him sign the agreement that if he leak the video, he should be arrested and charge to Court for threat and blackmail

pamelaayomide:
To him,the tape is with him.
I may involve the school security or a dreaded cult guy.
Maybe if the former didn't work,the latter will.

this shows you have actually been spreading legs everywhere, just that you were caught on tape. If not you would have denied to high heavens. But the guy had evidence

pamelaayomide:
Nairalanders I am actually typing this with fear of what to come.

I am an active member of this forum but change moniker by registering and creating a new one here to hide my identity.

Origin...

I met my boyfriend in school actually we were in the same department at funnab. We did things together. We were in love and had sex when we feel like it. We planned to get married after school.

Mistake...

I went to a birthday party of one of my close friends, I had three friends and we are like clique.
During the party I got drunk and the guy that took us to the party in his car took advantage of my drunken state and had sex with me and make it look like it is consensual. During the act I know what was happening but was too weak and blurred. I didn't know there was a video recording of the act. When I woke up the guy was no where to be found so I kept it to myself.

Blackmail...

When my guy found out that I cheated on him, he was furious. I denied it initially but when he showed me the sex clip I admitted it but defended myself on the ground that it was rape and not consensual. I summon courage and asked him how did he come up with the sex tape but that he would not answer to. He left that moment and I start feeling that he knows something about the tape and wants to blackmail.

Threat...

He showed up one day at my hostel and threaten to leak the tape online. I begged him profusely not to do that but he said my plea and tears are waste of time. That he will let everyone know the kind of loose lady I am for betraying and cheating on him. That I will regret the day I met him. That I doesn't deserve his love.

Currently...

He is yet to release the clip but may actually do that with what is happening to the Babcock ex student.

What should I do to stop him before he destroys me.

As long as you were not moaning yes baby give it to me harder, harder and you probably tried to push the guy off. You can tag it as rape and report to the school authorities and even rope ur guy in as part of the whole mess. Better him than you.

Unless you love him too much to rope him in, in which case I consider that stupid if he is so willing to throw ur tear tear pant all over the net because you cheated on him.

Can he swear that he has not cheated on you. We men are polygamous in nature. Most of us Sha.

You need to sharp with this anyway. The best defense is a good offense.

A demon came from roaming the earth for a meeting with fellow demons in hell fire. This demon expressed concern how he had disobeyed God and that God had issued a sentence against him.
Demons in hell fire sprang up in unison, "nothing de happen, we de your back kanpe"....
Only time will tell...

Go to a police station with an elder (your mom preferably), report the case and narrate the entire story, they'll arrest their arses; the case can continue from there.

As I dey so, I dey find who go record me illegally during sex, make I use am make serious money

Walk into any police station and ask for human rights department.you don't have to pay any money...and if you can't still get help then send a mail to (patrickpeters654@gmail.com)you need to be careful next time who you go out with

pamelaayomide:
pls don't be this harsh.
I need all the help I can get to stop this guy before he finish me off.

Is he really okay?

pamelaayomide:
Nairalanders I am actually typing this with fear of what to come.

I am an active member of this forum but change moniker by registering and creating a new one here to hide my identity.

Origin...

I met my boyfriend in school actually we were in the same department at funnab. We did things together. We were in love and had sex when we feel like it. We planned to get married after school.

Mistake...

I went to a birthday party of one of my close friends, I had three friends and we are like clique.
During the party I got drunk and the guy that took us to the party in his car took advantage of my drunken state and had sex with me and make it look like it is consensual. During the act I know what was happening but was too weak and blurred. I didn't know there was a video recording of the act. When I woke up the guy was no where to be found so I kept it to myself.

Blackmail...

When my guy found out that I cheated on him, he was furious. I denied it initially but when he showed me the sex clip I admitted it but defended myself on the ground that it was rape and not consensual. I summon courage and asked him how did he come up with the sex tape but that he would not answer to. He left that moment and I start feeling that he knows something about the tape and wants to blackmail.

Threat...

He showed up one day at my hostel and threaten to leak the tape online. I begged him profusely not to do that but he said my plea and tears are waste of time. That he will let everyone know the kind of loose lady I am for betraying and cheating on him. That I will regret the day I met him. That I doesn't deserve his love.

Currently...

He is yet to release the clip but may actually do that with what is happening to the Babcock ex student.

What should I do to stop him before he destroys me.

A demon came from roaming the earth for a meeting with fellow demons in hell fire. This demon expressed concern how he had disobeyed God and that God had issued a sentence against him.
Demons in hell fire sprang up in unison, "nothing de happen, we de your back kampe"....
Only time will tell...

pamelaayomide:
Nairala
.

Pamela, you made a big mistake. Yes. But, stay positive. Pls don't do any thing nasty to yourself nor the guy. Seek for a way to talk to him....plead.

Avoid murder.

healthserve:
Get a lawyer first and pull the first bullet

You see thats why y'all should have elders like us.

I won't talk again. This na small matter. I once used to like buying trouble but have vowed not to make positive contributions to aid any Nairalander again


Good luck with this.

Coza rape case comes to my mind

pamelaayomide:
He will know I only said that because of the threat.
I will involve the security or the dreaded students in the campus.

If you know what is good for you, don't involve a cult guy. The case will have a twist. After dealing with your boyfriend, he will want to get down with you since you can't pay and if you refuse, prepare for the part 2 of the black mail. Tell your brother if you have any.

pamelaayomide:
Nairalanders I am actually typing this with fear of what to come.

I am an active member of this forum but change moniker by registering and creating a new one here to hide my identity.

Origin...

I met my boyfriend in school actually we were in the same department at funnab. We did things together. We were in love and had sex when we feel like it. We planned to get married after school.

Mistake...

I went to a birthday party of one of my close friends, I had three friends and we are like clique.
During the party I got drunk and the guy that took us to the party in his car took advantage of my drunken state and had sex with me and make it look like it is consensual. During the act I know what was happening but was too weak and blurred. I didn't know there was a video recording of the act. When I woke up the guy was no where to be found so I kept it to myself.

Blackmail...

When my guy found out that I cheated on him, he was furious. I denied it initially but when he showed me the sex clip I admitted it but defended myself on the ground that it was rape and not consensual. I summon courage and asked him how did he come up with the sex tape but that he would not answer to. He left that moment and I start feeling that he knows something about the tape and wants to blackmail.

Threat...

He showed up one day at my hostel and threaten to leak the tape online. I begged him profusely not to do that but he said my plea and tears are waste of time. That he will let everyone know the kind of loose lady I am for betraying and cheating on him. That I will regret the day I met him. That I doesn't deserve his love.

Currently...

He is yet to release the clip but may actually do that with what is happening to the Babcock ex student.

What should I do to stop him before he destroys me.

Are you still a funnabite?

I’m an Ex funnabite....There’s something you can do if you’re still a funnabite! Trust me they will get the videos from him and sanction him, if necessary!

pamelaayomide:
Nairalanders I am actually typing this with fear of what to come.

I am an active member of this forum but change moniker by registering and creating a new one here to hide my identity.

Origin...

I met my boyfriend in school actually we were in the same department at funnab. We did things together. We were in love and had sex when we feel like it. We planned to get married after school.

Mistake...

I went to a birthday party of one of my close friends, I had three friends and we are like clique.
During the party I got drunk and the guy that took us to the party in his car took advantage of my drunken state and had sex with me and make it look like it is consensual. During the act I know what was happening but was too weak and blurred. I didn't know there was a video recording of the act. When I woke up the guy was no where to be found so I kept it to myself.

Blackmail...

When my guy found out that I cheated on him, he was furious. I denied it initially but when he showed me the sex clip I admitted it but defended myself on the ground that it was rape and not consensual. I summon courage and asked him how did he come up with the sex tape but that he would not answer to. He left that moment and I start feeling that he knows something about the tape and wants to blackmail.

Threat...

He showed up one day at my hostel and threaten to leak the tape online. I begged him profusely not to do that but he said my plea and tears are waste of time. That he will let everyone know the kind of loose lady I am for betraying and cheating on him. That I will regret the day I met him. That I doesn't deserve his love.

Currently...

He is yet to release the clip but may actually do that with what is happening to the Babcock ex student.

What should I do to stop him before he destroys me.

Report him to the police authorities( SARS).
He will sing like a canary in jail. I hate guys like this.

sweetonugbu:
Leak it before him, he will be confused

Pervert. You want to watch free porn...

pamelaayomide:
Nairalanders I am actually typing this with fear of what to come.

I am an active member of this forum but change moniker by registering and creating a new one here to hide my identity.

Origin...

I met my boyfriend in school actually we were in the same department at funnab. We did things together. We were in love and had sex when we feel like it. We planned to get married after school.

Mistake...

I went to a birthday party of one of my close friends, I had three friends and we are like clique.
During the party I got drunk and the guy that took us to the party in his car took advantage of my drunken state and had sex with me and make it look like it is consensual. During the act I know what was happening but was too weak and blurred. I didn't know there was a video recording of the act. When I woke up the guy was no where to be found so I kept it to myself.

Blackmail...

When my guy found out that I cheated on him, he was furious. I denied it initially but when he showed me the sex clip I admitted it but defended myself on the ground that it was rape and not consensual. I summon courage and asked him how did he come up with the sex tape but that he would not answer to. He left that moment and I start feeling that he knows something about the tape and wants to blackmail.

Threat...

He showed up one day at my hostel and threaten to leak the tape online. I begged him profusely not to do that but he said my plea and tears are waste of time. That he will let everyone know the kind of loose lady I am for betraying and cheating on him. That I will regret the day I met him. That I doesn't deserve his love.

Currently...

He is yet to release the clip but may actually do that with what is happening to the Babcock ex student.

What should I do to stop him before he destroys me.

DM me, I can help you.

Johnnyhoo:
I'm in Funaab, I've sent a pm to you, reply the pm or drop your contact details. We can see d CSO, Harmony Police and Eleweeran free of charge.

and get your own share after

School marriage..
Rubbish

He won't release it. Just send him 'I am sorry' texts, he's human and will have a rethink.

Thats why we always warn ladies not to drink whenever they are amongst strange guys/girls but you people won't listen.

Sometimes, common sense can save us from lots of shit.

pamelaayomide:
Nairalanders I am actually typing this with fear of what to come.

I am an active member of this forum but change moniker by registering and creating a new one here to hide my identity.

Origin...

I met my boyfriend in school actually we were in the same department at funnab. We did things together. We were in love and had sex when we feel like it. We planned to get married after school.

Mistake...

I went to a birthday party of one of my close friends, I had three friends and we are like clique.
During the party I got drunk and the guy that took us to the party in his car took advantage of my drunken state and had sex with me and make it look like it is consensual. During the act I know what was happening but was too weak and blurred. I didn't know there was a video recording of the act. When I woke up the guy was no where to be found so I kept it to myself.

Blackmail...

When my guy found out that I cheated on him, he was furious. I denied it initially but when he showed me the sex clip I admitted it but defended myself on the ground that it was rape and not consensual. I summon courage and asked him how did he come up with the sex tape but that he would not answer to. He left that moment and I start feeling that he knows something about the tape and wants to blackmail.

Threat...

He showed up one day at my hostel and threaten to leak the tape online. I begged him profusely not to do that but he said my plea and tears are waste of time. That he will let everyone know the kind of loose lady I am for betraying and cheating on him. That I will regret the day I met him. That I doesn't deserve his love.

Currently...

He is yet to release the clip but may actually do that with what is happening to the Babcock ex student.

What should I do to stop him before he destroys me.

The only thing you can be afraid of is the Babcock treatment, as such, GO TO THE DEAN OF STUDENTS TO REGISTER YOUR COMPLAIN , of some students druging u during a birthday party and has been using it to collect money from u, that you are tired and have to open up to him , if u have one in your school, see the counselor, let her lead u to the dean of students, this is the best for you now since you don't have money to get a lawyer....please be fast in doing this , because once he release it , u cant do this again... If u can see this today pls go tomorrow, no amount of begging will save u , that guy is bent on releasing that video..

If truely in d video, ur mood during d act shows u did not conscent to d act and his face shows in d video den all u need to do is to report him to a GOOD, i repeat GOOD police officer and also take d matter to all dese organization dat fight for women against all treatment and rape.

pamelaayomide:
Nairalanders I am actually typing this with fear of what to come.

I am an active member of this forum but change moniker by registering and creating a new one here to hide my identity.

Origin...

I met my boyfriend in school actually we were in the same department at funnab. We did things together. We were in love and had sex when we feel like it. We planned to get married after school.

Mistake...

I went to a birthday party of one of my close friends, I had three friends and we are like clique.
During the party I got drunk and the guy that took us to the party in his car took advantage of my drunken state and had sex with me and make it look like it is consensual. During the act I know what was happening but was too weak and blurred. I didn't know there was a video recording of the act. When I woke up the guy was no where to be found so I kept it to myself.

Blackmail...

When my guy found out that I cheated on him, he was furious. I denied it initially but when he showed me the sex clip I admitted it but defended myself on the ground that it was rape and not consensual. I summon courage and asked him how did he come up with the sex tape but that he would not answer to. He left that moment and I start feeling that he knows something about the tape and wants to blackmail.

Threat...

He showed up one day at my hostel and threaten to leak the tape online. I begged him profusely not to do that but he said my plea and tears are waste of time. That he will let everyone know the kind of loose lady I am for betraying and cheating on him. That I will regret the day I met him. That I doesn't deserve his love.

Currently...

He is yet to release the clip but may actually do that with what is happening to the Babcock ex student.

What should I do to stop him before he destroys me.

1. Stop playing victim, the truth is you are a very loose and wayward girl with no class as evident in the class of friends you keep.There is a very high correlation between waywardness and drunkeness. You would not have been "raped" if you stayed away from alcoholism.

2. You padded the story. Alot of evidences show that you actually permitted the guy to have sex with you and you enjoyed it but is now playing victim because of a threat to release the video. Reason is that you were careful not to call the sexual act rape, meaning that deep within you, you know it was a consensual act. How you managed to go to the dude's car for the act suggests consensuallity. Why didn't you confront the guy that fvcked you earlier?

I really hope he does not destroy your dignity by releasing that tape but you must take responsibility for what ever the case may be. You are one of the reasons most guys these days are determined to marry only virgins. I am sure this padded story that is filled with lies is what you will tell your prospective husband.

sweetonugbu:
Leak it before him, he will be confused

exactly...this girl should A) own up to her mistake and B) understand that the only way to stop being blackmailed is to just leak it herself... and C) stop hanging around poisonous people.

i would have also said to go to the police station and press charges against this dude... but sadly, i dont believe this rape story (unless she was clearly saying NO/STOP while the dude was mounting her)

pamelaayomide:
To him,the tape is with him.
I may involve the school security or a dreaded cult guy.
Maybe if the former didn't work,the latter will.

Dreaded cult guy?... Don't worsen the situation... It's better you involve the police..

I am a lawyer. My NGO can help you.

More like...u went with ur friends (clique)..trip for the bobo ..unknowing to u ...the bobo knows ur clique(normal) ..tho'..he is stupid to have recorded!!...sharing gone wrong