favoryte33:
May be she feels she owes no one any responsibility now because you aren't married yet. Do not be surprised if she turns a new leaf especially when you start bearing children.

user283:
There's this lady I've been dating for two years now. We happen to be members of the same church and I ought to have taken the relationship to the next level by getting my parents to her place for our introduction last month but I had a rethink and postponed the introduction due to an issue that might cause problem in the future

I noticed my girlfriend is the stingy type. When I mean stingy, it's on the high side. Assuming she's just averagely stingy I wouldn't really be bothered but this is gross.

I work as a bank teller (contract staff) and my salary isn't really much while she works in Shoprite. Even from the little I earn, tipping my girlfriend whenever she's stranded or not has never been a load on my neck since I love her but how can I explain being with a lady for two solid years and I've never for once received any gift no matter how little it is?

Initially, I didn't see this as a big deal probably because I grew up with the mentality that it's a taboo for a man to expect gifts or little support from his girlfriend when he's in dire need
but I've now grown to see "give and take" as one of the key elements of a good relationship

Even if I get stranded or go into debt, my girlfriend act nonchalant and she'll be the
last person that will ever render a little financial assistance to help my situation. You might say I should sit her down and about it. Yes I've already done that and I made her understand that I postponed our introduction no other reason but because I'm still indecisive if I would want to end up with a selfish woman but her response shows it's her nature.

I even used logic to whine her younger brother recently and he told me her sister is stingy. I believe her brother should know her better.

You might want to talk about sex but my belief is that sex is just a mutual pleasure and does not define what a woman gives to you in a relationship. 

What's getting me worried is that we've come a long way but I don't want to end up with a selfish woman because it's written all over her that she cares so much about herself alone

Please advice your fellow brother. Do I have a reason to be worried? I've been jumping a lagoon for a woman who can't jump a gutter for me especially when it comes to giving

Should I tolerate this level of stinginess from a woman simply because I'm a man? Can you consider a marrying someone as stingy as this just because she has other good traits?

Please pardon my typos. I wrote this in a hurry

favoryte33:
May be she feels she owes no one any responsibility now because you aren't married yet. Do not be surprised if she turns a new leaf especially when you start bearing children.

user283:
There's this lady I've been dating for two years now. We happen to be members of the same church and I ought to have taken the relationship to the next level by getting my parents to her place for our introduction last month but I had a rethink and postponed the introduction due to an issue that might cause problem in the future

I noticed my girlfriend is the stingy type. When I mean stingy, it's on the high side. Assuming she's just averagely stingy I wouldn't really be bothered but this is gross.

I work as a bank teller (contract staff) and my salary isn't really much while she works in Shoprite. Even from the little I earn, tipping my girlfriend whenever she's stranded or not has never been a load on my neck since I love her but how can I explain being with a lady for two solid years and I've never for once received any gift no matter how little it is?

Initially, I didn't see this as a big deal probably because I grew up with the mentality that it's a taboo for a man to expect gifts or little support from his girlfriend when he's in dire need
but I've now grown to see "give and take" as one of the key elements of a good relationship

Even if I get stranded or go into debt, my girlfriend act nonchalant and she'll be the
last person that will ever render a little financial assistance to help my situation. You might say I should sit her down and about it. Yes I've already done that and I made her understand that I postponed our introduction no other reason but because I'm still indecisive if I would want to end up with a selfish woman but her response shows it's her nature.

I even used logic to whine her younger brother recently and he told me her sister is stingy. I believe her brother should know her better.

You might want to talk about sex but my belief is that sex is just a mutual pleasure and does not define what a woman gives to you in a relationship. 

What's getting me worried is that we've come a long way but I don't want to end up with a selfish woman because it's written all over her that she cares so much about herself alone

Please advice your fellow brother. Do I have a reason to be worried? I've been jumping a lagoon for a woman who can't jump a gutter for me especially when it comes to giving

Should I tolerate this level of stinginess from a woman simply because I'm a man? Can you consider a marrying someone as stingy as this just because she has other good traits?

Please pardon my typos. I wrote this in a hurry

majormofor:


You man, your dating yourself o... If a girl truly loves you she would buy something without telling you.
Best advice---"buy something for urself and let her know it's New and tell her, it's one of your female friends that bought it and you love it soooooo much..
Let see how we go from there. Her reaction should speak more

majormofor:


You man, your dating yourself o... If a girl truly loves you she would buy something without telling you.
Best advice---"buy something for urself and let her know it's New and tell her, it's one of your female friends that bought it and you love it soooooo much..
Let see how we go from there. Her reaction should speak more

favoryte33:
May be she feels she owes no one any responsibility now because you aren't married yet. Do not be surprised if she turns a new leaf especially when you start bearing children.

user283:
I've done that before but it doesn't change anything bro

user283:
There's this lady I've been dating for two years now. We happen to be members of the same church and I ought to have taken the relationship to the next level by getting my parents to her place for our introduction last month but I had a rethink and postponed the introduction due to an issue that might cause problem in the future

I noticed my girlfriend is the stingy type. When I mean stingy, it's on the high side. Assuming she's just averagely stingy I wouldn't really be bothered but this is gross.

I work as a bank teller (contract staff) and my salary isn't really much while she works in Shoprite. Even from the little I earn, tipping my girlfriend whenever she's stranded or not has never been a load on my neck since I love her but how can I explain being with a lady for two solid years and I've never for once received any gift no matter how little it is?

Initially, I didn't see this as a big deal probably because I grew up with the mentality that it's a taboo for a man to expect gifts or little support from his girlfriend when he's in dire need
but I've now grown to see "give and take" as one of the key elements of a good relationship

Even if I get stranded or go into debt, my girlfriend act nonchalant and she'll be the
last person that will ever render a little financial assistance to help my situation. You might say I should sit her down and discuss about it. Yes I've already done that and I made her understand that I actually postponed our introduction for no other reason but because I'm still indecisive if I want to spend the rest of my life with a selfish woman but her response shows she's not willing to change.

I even used logic to whine her younger brother recently and he told me her sister is stingy. I decided to carry out my findings on her brother because I believe he should know her better.

You might want to talk about sex but my belief is that sex is just a mutual pleasure and does not define what a woman gives to you in a relationship. 

What's getting me worried is that we've come a long way but I don't want to end up with a selfish woman because it's written all over her that she cares so much about herself alone

Please advice your fellow brother. Do I have a reason to be worried? I've been jumping a lagoon for a woman who can't jump a gutter for me especially when it comes to giving

Should I tolerate this level of stinginess from a woman simply because I'm a man? Can you consider a marrying someone as stingy as this just because she has other good traits?

Please pardon my typos. I wrote this in a hurry

user283:
Why don't I think I owe her no responsibility too since I'm not yet married to her? Does it mean I'm being foolishness?

But remember her younger brother told me she's that way when I whined him

user283:
Why don't I think I owe her no responsibility too since I'm not yet married to her? Does it mean I'm being foolishness?

But remember her younger brother told me she's that way when I whined him

Eyeness:
the reason you wrote this is because you don't have much. if she is a good person despite this, then marry her. Actually, you are the provider in the family. How come i never see rich men complain of stingy women?

Eyeness:
the reason you wrote this is because you don't have much. if she is a good person despite this, then marry her. Actually, you are the provider in the family. How come i never see rich men complain of stingy women?

Dimples0303:
She's submissive though... Right?

lereinter:
When I saw the topic, I thought your gf were to be working with CBN or their likes

But how can you write that someone working in ShopRite is stingy

She has not got enough to spare with you

Well

If you don't give her does she complain heavily

Eyeness:
the reason you wrote this is because you don't have much. if she is a good person despite this, then marry her. Actually, you are the provider in the family. How come i never see rich men complain of stingy women?

lereinter:
When I saw the topic, I thought your gf were to be working with CBN or their likes

But how can you write that someone working in ShopRite is stingy

She has not got enough to spare with you

Well

If you don't give her does she complain heavily