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Re: My Girlfriend Is Extremely Stingy. Should I Be Worried? by Chamakh93: 11:49am On Nov 25, 2019 |
op , abeg no mind all these pple wey Dy make uno marry am o, although, no be I say I Dy support dat kind character , but u can't just leave a relationship because of something as trivial as dat. pple go kon Dy ask u why u quit d relationship , u go kon say na because of stinginess, u sef no go fit talk am. so think again. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Extremely Stingy. Should I Be Worried? by Depressed101: 11:49am On Nov 25, 2019 |
user283:chei op that woman is an obiakpo. Which means her mind too strong... You can never grow with that kind of wife, because all the family responsibility will be upon your head alone 3 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Extremely Stingy. Should I Be Worried? by wallezee: 11:50am On Nov 25, 2019 |
user283:The worse part is, she might be seeing another guy who doesn’t have a job and she’s not stingy to him. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Extremely Stingy. Should I Be Worried? by philcz(m): 11:52am On Nov 25, 2019 |
Rajman45:This comment reeks of senselessness 4 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Extremely Stingy. Should I Be Worried? by Lexusgs430: 11:52am On Nov 25, 2019 |
user283: Once you get married, be prepared to carry all your family expenses for head, like óṣukà......... Rent, school fees, feeding bills etc etc......... A person that cannot give you N10, from N100...... Would never drop 10K, from 100K........ You have seen the signs, she would never turn generous at the altar........... 4 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Extremely Stingy. Should I Be Worried? by ibechris(m): 11:53am On Nov 25, 2019 |
U have just found a problem that is capable of destroying a marriage...then why should u go ahead to consummate it? Watch ur back brother. If she is stingy, let her marry herself cos the consequence is not good for any man. 5 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Extremely Stingy. Should I Be Worried? by olatunji390(m): 11:53am On Nov 25, 2019 |
I can't marry someone that can't take care of the home when am not around. Imagine u travel to somewhere, and wife is calling to say money no de again when she is also working. Mbanu 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Extremely Stingy. Should I Be Worried? by tweakdude1: 11:54am On Nov 25, 2019 |
Guy my advise is stop spending on her and see her reactions then conclude? |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Extremely Stingy. Should I Be Worried? by Germi9: 11:54am On Nov 25, 2019 |
Stop giving her gifts or money,be stingy too...then watch out for her reaction. |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Extremely Stingy. Should I Be Worried? by badmotherfucker: 11:54am On Nov 25, 2019 |
What's getting me worried is that we've come a long way but I don't want to end up with a selfish woman you've already advised yourself, stop looking for approval. |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Extremely Stingy. Should I Be Worried? by Nobody: 11:54am On Nov 25, 2019 |
Why don't you people learn to pray and follow the will of God? All these issues won't be there if you follow God's will. Most people are just driven by fleshly lusts and forget that God knows better. Right now you're confused. I've gone through the comments and I'm certain, making a decision from them won't be easy cos they have too many smart but different views. Put God first. I'm sure God will arrange a "perfect" wife for you. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Extremely Stingy. Should I Be Worried? by Sam2310(m): 11:55am On Nov 25, 2019 |
user283:so whatelse are u waiting for? My brother i know is not easy to walk away from2year relationship. with the way things are now., no walk away, run for your life instead. |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Extremely Stingy. Should I Be Worried? by Acidosis(m): 11:58am On Nov 25, 2019 |
Try and borrow some money from her (e.g. a quarter or half her monthly salary/spare money). Deliberately refuse to pay back as promised and watch her reaction. If she sees you as a TRUE partner, she wouldn't come asking on the due date. Whenever she comes asking, take note of her use of words. Is she interested in getting back her money by force, or the challenges as to why you haven't been able to pay? You need to do this to draw a firm conclusion on your spouse's disposition to money matters. Btw, I would also be surprised to know you have no idea how much she earns monthly, her savings/investments, etc. after 2 years of courting/dating. Discussions of this nature are very very important if you're thinking marriage. Know what she does with her money. Women aren't all that difficult to groom. In what ways have you influenced her spending habit, savings culture, and risk appetite towards investments? Look, a woman will naturally trust you with money and everything else when you exhibit an excellent leadership. There's something she does with her money you need to find out. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Extremely Stingy. Should I Be Worried? by bigpicture001: 11:59am On Nov 25, 2019 |
Eyeness: You are wrong my guy....having much money nd not getting stufs from ur gal is a bad sign dt sh wouldnt b of assist to u wen d chips are down...know one has it all figured out..life is ups nd downs..... When children would hv divided her love for u nd live challenges takes toll on her...sh will evn b more stingy..my advice; dump her nd go ur way.. |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Extremely Stingy. Should I Be Worried? by surrogatesng: 12:00pm On Nov 25, 2019 |
There is no problem here.Get married to her,get her pregnant then leave all the antenatal bills for her to pay.That way you will get even with her. |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Extremely Stingy. Should I Be Worried? by MilkANDpepper: 12:01pm On Nov 25, 2019 |
majormofor: Trying to use a lie to solve an issue as serious as this is a no no. Dear poster, please o, if you can't help it WALK AWAY. If you are ready to gamble with this it's up to you. Goodluck. |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Extremely Stingy. Should I Be Worried? by Nobody: 12:02pm On Nov 25, 2019 |
user283:I think u need her to teach u how to manage money On a more serious note, if its something u can cope with, u may go ahead. But always remember she's likely not gonna help u with any children school fees. If u won't like that, u betta japa now and find another girl. Unfortunately d new girl might just end up being a totally different kinda stuff - or prob. worse than d devilsbfirst daughter. Bros remember no woman is perfect... Everybody is SICK... In fact we are all fucking SICK... |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Extremely Stingy. Should I Be Worried? by pressplay411(m): 12:03pm On Nov 25, 2019 |
user283:It's a tricky one to judge. I'm glad you're both believers, meaning you both would submit to the Word of God as I believe you intend to make Christ the Head of your home. That said, one of the major things Christ does in a believer is make him or her a giver. It doesn't even matter if you're engaged or not. The love of God expressed in giving His only begotten Son, breaks the hardness of a heart and makes us givers of our time, service, finances and even life. No one is perfect but stinginess is quite a big deal regardless of gender. The most important thing I believe ypu need to look out for is that she submits to God's Word. If she doesn't yield to the Word and Spirit of God, then there's an issue. But if she yields, then there's hope cos we are all growing. She'll get there. |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Extremely Stingy. Should I Be Worried? by LINTUNE(m): 12:04pm On Nov 25, 2019 |
sadly this the mentality of naiaj babes, u just cant help it, she might really love u but in the aspect of giving , a typical naija gal will rather give her male friend instead of giving he r bf..they believe that, giving their pussy to their bf is enough..very terrible mentality though 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Extremely Stingy. Should I Be Worried? by Quorax: 12:04pm On Nov 25, 2019 |
user283: 89%of Nigerian girls are like that. It's a disease. |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Extremely Stingy. Should I Be Worried? by content208: 12:04pm On Nov 25, 2019 |
Rajman45: You are one of those brainwashed fellows that think women don't like sex, right? Will it interest you to know that many women will dump their boyfriend if he can't give them adequate sex? Wake up, Mr. |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Extremely Stingy. Should I Be Worried? by romenna: 12:05pm On Nov 25, 2019 |
Some days ago, me and my guys discussed extensively about this issue of greed and stinginess of our ladies. Parents are raising very stingy set of females this days. Personally, ive bn with notin less than 20 ladies for different reasons but one tin clearly stands out, they are all takers, receivers, collectors with a tiny few willing to give very little stuff to their man. Pls this attitude needs to change. The current babe I've decided to settle with, knew I had just spent over 300k to make my crib look good cos our plan is to wed next year, but I expected her to drop even if it's 50k to support me, but to my surprise, she offered prayers, she told me God will return all that I had spent. Though unlike OP's case, she sometimes buy little gift like perfs n creams and i do same for her. But I can never watch her spend 300k n not support with money but prayers. I think most women are greedy. 5 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Extremely Stingy. Should I Be Worried? by Slynation(m): 12:06pm On Nov 25, 2019 |
lereinter:I once had a girlfriend that usually support me from the money i do give to her without her been a working class and also buys me things as well....So ur point is baseless and inconsequential 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Extremely Stingy. Should I Be Worried? by osiamerica(m): 12:06pm On Nov 25, 2019 |
Free her at once bros cus she can never give what she doesn’t have.she’s selfish bro. |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Extremely Stingy. Should I Be Worried? by Reelmii: 12:08pm On Nov 25, 2019 |
user283:stop buying her things, stop giving her money, if she ask u why u stopped all this, tell her u are saving for the future,,, let her buy her toiletries and do any personal, spend ur money on urself but if she does not ask why u stopped giving her money, dont talk about |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Extremely Stingy. Should I Be Worried? by kunyeo(m): 12:09pm On Nov 25, 2019 |
Eyeness: I don't know your age, but if you are probably in your 40s or 50s you will realise that rich people do go broke at times. Just the way this life IS-INSIDE LIFE! 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Extremely Stingy. Should I Be Worried? by Saintjohn007(m): 12:09pm On Nov 25, 2019 |
Upload her pic let see if it true....so we can stay very far away from her ...anyway...you d one who wears d shoe and know where it pinches u d most.....but don't be decieved....if you can't change an inborn lifestyle or habit now that you courting her.....it gonna take a miracle to change her when married,u just gonna live with it for d rest of ya life n overlook it.....so make d right chioce now u still hot time man....remember you give to what you love n not what you hate. |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Extremely Stingy. Should I Be Worried? by lollybizzu(m): 12:09pm On Nov 25, 2019 |
Op even on your birthdays? 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Extremely Stingy. Should I Be Worried? by releastaso(m): 12:09pm On Nov 25, 2019 |
Eyeness: You're a dunce. Idiot. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Extremely Stingy. Should I Be Worried? by Rejoice5000(f): 12:10pm On Nov 25, 2019 |
Marriage comes with alot of sacrifice from ur explanation she does not have what it takes to run a home.2yrs plus not even a pen as a gift what happens to Valentine Day,Christmas celebration,Easter celebration not even a boxers gift from her hmmmmmm not just being stingy she is also Very wicked,very very wicked ur parents and sibling,close friends will be in trouble.cos as little as water they won't get from dat stingy woman of urs.women are the general managers of their home with dis her stingyness how can she handle dat.if dat part is wat u don't like in her flee biko.LOVE GIVES.YES LOVE GIVES. |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Extremely Stingy. Should I Be Worried? by user283: 12:12pm On Nov 25, 2019 |
lollybizzu:I've never received any gift from her before.. Not even a gift as cheap as N100 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Extremely Stingy. Should I Be Worried? by udemzyudex(m): 12:12pm On Nov 25, 2019 |
lereinter: Read and understand the post ,don't jump. Go back and read it again. |
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