₦airaland Forum

DonroxyII:
She is a medical Doctor fah.... and comes from a family of one .... Aswear if she be Muslim and from Kwara south or Kwara Central , I will plug into her DM and within 2 years , There would be another marriage on Nairaland between me and her

A female Medical Doctor definitely has a worth and I will never advise such to marry nor date less ....

Senatorial district even dey my own criteria self ... e easy though because I be man and I know what I represent with God's Will (no Akpabio though) !!

healthserve:
Yeah right hypocrite, let's start with you, when we're done with you, you can turn the spotlight on her.


Tell us about your last $100 you picked at Westey, the last one your mate sent to you and the pathetic life you lead offline that makes you feel people live miserable in real existence offline dufos

Harlequeen:
Wow! Real mature! Oya, clap for yourself.

lilwetdick:
when i picked the $100, i shoved it into your ass. that is where the money went to.

dont divert my attention. go and sleep, nothing you write down can hinder me.

Harlequeen:
Yes i am. I am feminine, soft, good company, intelligent, just starting out my career, well read and so much more. The man who i end up with will be truly blessed.

healthserve:
$200 yahoo boy abeg leave the babe.

niaralandtopuser:
her real moniker is funminastics. they claim to not care about men but always create alternate to seek advice. marry all these nairaland so-called feminist at your own peril

DonroxyII:
Me no dey fear feminists oooo .... Even Poco.hantas wey be their Oga...... As far as say such person ain't a Saddist wey fit chook me knife or turn me into a beast .... We go covert am comot feminist (Easy things) .... Dey there dey allow their online banters dey get you, Most of them are as easier as butter on a bread in real life ...... But U gatz carried Higher IQ to bell dem sha and that ain't a problem here !!

Feminist gini, Are their feminists in Nigeria .... ..... me no see one ..... if u mean people fighting for woman's right and Emancipation , I won't define them as Feminists , IMHO !!

lilwetdick:
o boy na you registered me for nairaland..abeg free me make i do my investigative job

healthserve:
By the way where are these ladies oh:

Ladylite:
Aunti
Aunty

Calm down, go and enjoy your life.

You may not believe in religion now but I bet you when you are 35 you will know life is spiritual.


All this you explained here are normal for teenagers and under 25 girls.

Lady to Lady I tell you that you know even if you meet a mature guy with all that standard, he may not be interested in you and you are too proud to chase or beg.


See, you are not ready so move on and have fun with your life and other areas of your life.

IN your 30s try again by then the standards you spent so much time explaining now will not seem important to you.

Ciao

Yewandequeen:

niaralandtopuser:
I have seen many men open thread of Lamentations after getting involved with all these nairaland hoes.

healthserve:
Free the girl do abi you want make Ogun strike ya phone blind

lilwetdick:
na wetin i want.

healthserve:
Receive it..

healthserve:
See. There's a lot I won't say because of the enemity between the two of us... . While our enemity remains intact for sure, allow me drop some things I feel you considered lightly


1. Take vacations more - this time not to classy places but to open places like Shoprites and co.


2. Drop your car for some time. By taking public cars, you could see men climbing up the ladder


3. Spend your Saturdays outdoors. Attend conferences, seminars


4. Above all, see a prophet, this issue like other issues emanates from the spiritual.


5. You've been a victim of wrong/substandard environment for the men you sought in the past, now wake up and make the most of your work environment


6. Try to replace all online shopping with going to the grocery/super market stores yourself


7. Try new profiles with pictures on sites like Facebook/instagram


8. Start using public transportation and increase your use of this system. I.e BRT. Don't do boat rides o. You know you ladies have your spiritual husbands close.. Water draws you closer to being kept in check by your Spirit husband..

My belle o. Am I this mean?


Cc: LifeisGuhd

Ladylite:
Aunti
Aunty

Calm down, go and enjoy your life.

You may not believe in religion now but I bet you when you are 35 you will know life is spiritual.


All this you explained here are normal for teenagers and under 25 girls.

Lady to Lady I tell you that you know even if you meet a mature guy with all that standard, he may not be interested in you and you are too proud to chase or beg.


See, you are not ready so move on and have fun with your life and other areas of your life.

IN your 30s try again by then the standards you spent so much time explaining now will not seem important to you.

Ciao

LifeIsGuhd:
Lmao @BRT, I don't support that biko...

You're not mean anymore... lol

Harlequeen:
he didn't try every humanly possible thing. He only thought she was good enough for him when he was broke and homeless. How.about coming to get her when he made it. Acrimony is the sad ending that wait for any person who plays the role of come up woman.

Beverlyjean:
With ur understanding of acrimony ...it simply shows ur personality and I so pity any man that falls for u ... U are a certain feminist and a red flag for men.... U seem like the entitled unforgiven type .... U are the type that they men say they should fear

healthserve:
See you babes. Bus from Berger to Island come see guys and babes mingling on a daily?

Ladies don't know using rides isolates them from the uncertainty factor of meeting a very cool person out there. Even small buses self.

See babe, ibqualify above public transport by a legion, but I use it. Take this as a case study

LifeIsGuhd:
Take public transport to meet someone cool? Nahhh. That is a serious No, No.

I take public transport sometimes and it is strictly for entertainment (quarrels, arguments, gist) or when I notice I've spent alot on uber. Not to meet a man... ahn ahn... that one nor join at all.

healthserve:
Allow me add one comment before I bail. Can you see one of the benefits of having a female-male pastor mentorship? Many ladies know this and cash in on this. I swear it on my fathers grave that like you know me offline, there are men I'll snap my fingers and say, take this girl go marry her, no dating, nothing. Just like that, its out of 10-15-20years of being in that place of honour in their lives. This is what a social circle does.

Hence, the importance of a spiritual oversight I.e Pastor. The average pastor has ten good men that fits your taste 100%, that forming a relationship with them opens those resuroces reservoir up for use..

I hope this makes sense

Cc Toks2008

Toks2008:
Seems you still don't get it.

These ladies don't want a good husband perse...what they want is their preconceived idea of a husband meaning a mind made husband.

This is why I will be the last person to pity any lady that gets heart broken or terribly treated in her marriage or romantic affair.

They know a good man but they will always gravitate towards a crazy guy(in most cases) and at the end they will start crying like a jinxed banchi.

healthserve:
Elder, allow me raise my clap, place it on my table, stand up and clap. I like the strong coherent points on your comments.


Its the idea of what they want a husband to be they fall in love with, one to put in their own ideology of what they think, feel and want him to be.

But then, 27 is too early to begin to cry wouldn't you agree?


By the way, you need to start writing again your old usual ways o. Not the short. Straightforward write-ups of recent.


How's the lady?

healthserve:
What a matured womanly-insight, do you mind telling us more. Let we men learn from your woman-experience madam. There's an insight on these you seem to have I'm willing to learn from.

Can you expand on your comment overall on these kind of ladies asper your perception and understanding of them assuming the Op and pther ladies we come across falls into the category you believe she/the Op is?