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paix:
This is not about age o. There are some married men that are shy to look their wife in the face after sex.

emddi:
haha,we don't even have the energy to sight the bush

Rubbiish:
Age is a contributing factor in all we do in life
As u grow older u experience more things which gives u a broader view of life. I find it hard to believe the bold

mrpoul:
is there any book you can suggest for me?

bobojoshua:
Drop your email address.

mrpoul:
why do u say, I should avoid sex?

mrpoul:
I'm Confused, I Don't Want To Lose Her

There is this girl that I met in lecture theater, we sat down together, we chatted but it was concerning the lecture.

After the lecture, I disappeared because I'm this kind of very shy person, I didn't know what to talk to her aside the lecture.

So I saw her on Facebook, I added her and chatted her, up. It happen that evening I wanted to go eat in a restaurant, I told her she can join me jokingly. Surprisingly, she came, we talked but it was mostly about me and herself. After, we finished eating, I told her to come and know my place, but when she came I was nervous and she did not stay up to 5 mins. I told her we need to go, that her roomie maybe worried about her. The next day when she saw me in school, she was excited to see me.

After then our communication sucks, I will call her and be asking all this boring questions, before I know it, sometimes she will see my chat and will not reply. Now I'm confuse, I don't know what to do again. I don't wanna lose her.

What do you suggest I do from here? pardon my grammatical blunder.

mrpoul:
I'm Confused, I Don't Want To Lose Her

There is this girl that I met in lecture theater, we sat down together, we chatted but it was concerning the lecture.

After the lecture, I disappeared because I'm this kind of very shy person, I didn't know what to talk to her aside the lecture.

So I saw her on Facebook, I added her and chatted her, up. It happen that evening I wanted to go eat in a restaurant, I told her she can join me jokingly. Surprisingly, she came, we talked but it was mostly about me and herself. After, we finished eating, I told her to come and know my place, but when she came I was nervous and she did not stay up to 5 mins. I told her we need to go, that her roomie maybe worried about her. The next day when she saw me in school, she was excited to see me.

After then our communication sucks, I will call her and be asking all this boring questions, before I know it, sometimes she will see my chat and will not reply. Now I'm confuse, I don't know what to do again. I don't wanna lose her.

What do you suggest I do from here? pardon my grammatical blunder.

Seventy7kings:
Harlequeen baby, anytime I see your handwriting on this forum, my body go just dey shake somehow and na so my heart go just dey beat fast, my dada go come dey plait. I dey trip for you o Harlequeen baby.

Ariza:
And I wonder why it is the guy that must work on his conversation skills and keep the communication on.Is friendship/ relationship a one sided thing? Or communication a gender thing? .

NoGender:
Your Grammar sef dislocate my neck.

Girl wey you dey cry for has probably gone fucking in another niggas crib.

You swallow lizard for mouth? What was stopping you from making your intentions known from the first day, just tell her one big talk;

"I can't seem to understand my self since I left you the previous time, I'm losing it and have got no coherent way to put this. Do I like that I've got nothing to say when we see? Not inherently, but please understand that I may be meandering and trying to lull but I've got you and your thoughts full to the brim in my heart"

Two seconds she go..!!

MusaDanladi1:
this guy you dey craze I swear. This your lines got me laughing hard..

mrpoul:
I'm Confused, I Don't Want To Lose Her

There is this girl that I met in lecture theater, we sat down together, we chatted but it was concerning the lecture.

After the lecture, I disappeared because I'm this kind of very shy person, I didn't know what to talk to her aside the lecture.

So I saw her on Facebook, I added her and chatted her, up. It happen that evening I wanted to go eat in a restaurant, I told her she can join me jokingly. Surprisingly, she came, we talked but it was mostly about me and herself. After, we finished eating, I told her to come and know my place, but when she came I was nervous and she did not stay up to 5 mins. I told her we need to go, that her roomie maybe worried about her. The next day when she saw me in school, she was excited to see me.

After then our communication sucks, I will call her and be asking all this boring questions, before I know it, sometimes she will see my chat and will not reply. Now I'm confuse, I don't know what to do again. I don't wanna lose her.

What do you suggest I do from here? pardon my grammatical blunder.

Strica:
you're not shy, you've just run out of things to talk about for now. take her to a movie and allow her pick the movie. you can discuss the plot, characters and alternative endings over ice cream and fries or Pepsi and popcorn. then schedule another date for the following week.

if she's up for it, you can go foodstuff shopping together and make the meal together. you'll bond without breaking the bank.

these are just a couple of suggestions and please keep sex off the table, at least for now. there's a high chance it'll ruin your chances at something lasting. also ensure you're clean and well groomed too.

and remember, you're a student first. having good grades is another way to stay attractive.

mrpoul:
I'm Confused, I Don't Want To Lose Her

There is this girl that I met in lecture theater, we sat down together, we chatted but it was concerning the lecture.

After the lecture, I disappeared because I'm this kind of very shy person, I didn't know what to talk to her aside the lecture.

So I saw her on Facebook, I added her and chatted her, up. It happen that evening I wanted to go eat in a restaurant, I told her she can join me jokingly. Surprisingly, she came, we talked but it was mostly about me and herself. After, we finished eating, I told her to come and know my place, but when she came I was nervous and she did not stay up to 5 mins. I told her we need to go, that her roomie maybe worried about her. The next day when she saw me in school, she was excited to see me.

After then our communication sucks, I will call her and be asking all this boring questions, before I know it, sometimes she will see my chat and will not reply. Now I'm confuse, I don't know what to do again. I don't wanna lose her.

What do you suggest I do from here? pardon my grammatical blunder.

inspirator1:
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first..within you there's something that boosts your morale, it might be something people would feel akward to. Invest in that thing with all civility you have; mine was perfume, funny enough i don't even have body odour but it makes me feel i have an edge over others...then i invested into it.
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secondly...try and be versatile.. Know something in every field dear, it builds confidence.
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thirdly...know some stuffs about ladies esp their body anatomy, when you tell them stuffs which they don't know about themselves that's true; they will value you.
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fourthly...be yourself and package well even if you are broke, learn to speak the class language you aspire for. Hope this suffices.

SillyeRabbit:
You been rolling with sluts if you fck girls on first visit.

LOGOBELT:
A shy guy for this 21st century? Guy send me her number, let me help you talk to her, she will say yes to me in no time......Oh sorry! She will say yes to you in no time.


Guy, work on yourself, your boldness matters alot. Apart from that Girl, you need boldness for your Seminar Defense, Project Defense and even Interview when you are done with your studies.

Your boldness will make most people believe you even when what you have to say is stupid.

Now when you have boldness, when you have accomplished it, then you will not look for what to say to THAT GIRL you said you dont want to LOSE, what to say WILL COME ITSELF

We Nairalanders won't help you, rather YOU GAT TO HELP YOURSELF. Thank You

Lala! I made it! FTC. I dedicate this to people thriving hard to survive in this country, may SUCCESS locate us all in all our endeavours.

mrpoul:
I'm Confused, I Don't Want To Lose Her

There is this girl that I met in lecture theater, we sat down together, we chatted but it was concerning the lecture.

After the lecture, I disappeared because I'm this kind of very shy person, I didn't know what to talk to her aside the lecture.

So I saw her on Facebook, I added her and chatted her, up. It happen that evening I wanted to go eat in a restaurant, I told her she can join me jokingly. Surprisingly, she came, we talked but it was mostly about me and herself. After, we finished eating, I told her to come and know my place, but when she came I was nervous and she did not stay up to 5 mins. I told her we need to go, that her roomie maybe worried about her. The next day when she saw me in school, she was excited to see me.

After then our communication sucks, I will call her and be asking all this boring questions, before I know it, sometimes she will see my chat and will not reply. Now I'm confuse, I don't know what to do again. I don't wanna lose her.

What do you suggest I do from here? pardon my grammatical blunder.

mrpoul:
I'm Confused, I Don't Want To Lose Her

There is this girl that I met in lecture theater, we sat down together, we chatted but it was concerning the lecture.

After the lecture, I disappeared because I'm this kind of very shy person, I didn't know what to talk to her aside the lecture.

So I saw her on Facebook, I added her and chatted her, up. It happen that evening I wanted to go eat in a restaurant, I told her she can join me jokingly. Surprisingly, she came, we talked but it was mostly about me and herself. After, we finished eating, I told her to come and know my place, but when she came I was nervous and she did not stay up to 5 mins. I told her we need to go, that her roomie maybe worried about her. The next day when she saw me in school, she was excited to see me.

After then our communication sucks, I will call her and be asking all this boring questions, before I know it, sometimes she will see my chat and will not reply. Now I'm confuse, I don't know what to do again. I don't wanna lose her.

What do you suggest I do from here? pardon my grammatical blunder.

frozen70:
If you don't gain your confidence and courage as a man to woe a lady, you are gone ❗❗❗

Tell her how you feel about her and its either she accepts or not

But if you are still a virgin, give yourself time and read books on how to win a ladies heart

Munzy14:
Tell him to read his book and leave woman for made men...

Meklex:
You started well, but ended badly. Don't make the mistake of asking her out, that will give her an edge over you.

The girl came to your place prolly because she was bored and instead of you to switch things up you were asking her to go because of her roommate, what nonsense.

You could have entertained her, made her feel comfortable, play games (games that gets you to know her more) with her, and prolly Bleep her.

I see some people saying, don't Bleep her. Here's the thing, if you want sex go for it, delaying it will make you do stupid things. Things you would later regret.

If a girl digs you, she'll want to have sex with you immediately.

Don't be an asshole with her, or try to be shady. Show her how cool you are (but not at your expense), if you are shy, let her know, do things together. Be open, but not too open (only say the things that will help your cause)

A girl recently came to my house, we played a lot of games such as sharing house chores and racing to see who would finish first (it was her first time coming to my house), and I bleeped her that same day. And I was able to do this because I got to know her and what she stands for and used it.

Always know your girl first, always know what you want, then go for it. She would either oblige you or not.

But first, always be a cool guy.

Munzy14:
Frozen when ur heart is not open......I. hope urs is open and aren't Madonna track?...

so people na read book to woo a woman?