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Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by Joiceee(f): 8:12am On Dec 07, 2019
Toks2008:
I have read several comments here and there seem to be a common denominator.

The problem is not really the students but it is the men who are kinda too expectant.

When you spend for a student just do it from your heart without expecting any form of reward in terms of romantic commitment...just be happy whilst it lasts..if she turns out to be a loyal babe, fine and if not just smile and move on.

And btw, not all of them are like that...i know some real decent and well trained female undergraduates.
you make sense especially in the last paragraph.

Imagine a guy who will never call you when you are in school, but will want to hang out with you during holidays and bring marriage talks. And once holiday is over, communication ends. A guy who will chat you up once in a blue moon and only concerned about when you will be done with school.

It doesn't just make any sense

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Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by DonMekino(m): 8:14am On Dec 07, 2019
ceeroh:
Most female students are in their 'Hoeing Phase'.

Waste of time and emotions.
oh my God.... Hoeing phase?? am still laughing up till now
Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by udemzyudex(m): 8:25am On Dec 07, 2019
Joiceee:
you make sense especially in the last paragraph.

Imagine a guy who will never call you when you are in school, but will want to hang out with you during holidays and bring marriage talks. And once holiday is over, communication ends. A guy who will chat you up once in a blue moon and only concerned about when you will be done with school.

It doesn't just make any sense

So all the ones you've been reading from page 1 to here still doesn't make sense to you?

For a guy to be sending money, paying school fees etc,you think he doesn't communicate with her?

Even the ones that plan to marry her immediately after school?

Madam you no get talk.

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Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by Godiloveu(f): 8:28am On Dec 07, 2019
DanDeeBoss:
Maybe Na born again sister you be....They'll be giving levels anyhow . cheesycheesy

Don't know about "born again" but I was religious. But glad I got the best guy as my husband.
Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by Godiloveu(f): 8:29am On Dec 07, 2019
tejiri4:


Were you book focused? grin or not sexy wantu check sth
A

Naaaa, I stay average grin

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Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by Nobody: 8:33am On Dec 07, 2019
Pedrotina11:


This mumu say broke...the guy and the gal who is really broke Sch gals DAT cannot pay for their own hair making...how many times do a guy as a gal money to barb hair It Neva happens so Mumu tell me who is truly broke If u don't know wat to say just stfu.

You are an idiot , I said a man cannot date a student because she is broke a liability. Learn to inquire before attacking. Fvck boy oshi

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Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by saintTim(m): 8:35am On Dec 07, 2019
BanevsJoker:

"Dourlin' I'm sorry. I don't know what came over me".



Underrated post ooo ��
Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by AbleGod7555: 8:40am On Dec 07, 2019
dave4rella:
grin

I have dumped her in my mind since

Today babe is in ph, tomorrow owerri

Next tomorrow asaba, ask her and she will tell me that she went to see her girlfriend

I can't stop laughing
I just send Her money once in a while without even requesting to see her

Called her yesterday to formally breakup with her
I was surprised she's wasn't in town too
I have decided to ghost her until everything fades away.
But I wanted to do it for the sake of my fiancee
So that someone will not storm my wedding tomorrow.
Of course my guys that know them will mount strategic positions that day!

Guy you're a bad guy, I gbadu your way.
Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by Slimdada(m): 8:45am On Dec 07, 2019
BILLING PHOBIA

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Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by dhavan: 8:55am On Dec 07, 2019
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Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by saintTim(m): 8:57am On Dec 07, 2019
Vida04:
Ah my brother it’s not like that ooo
Enjoy yourself cus this world HAVE CHANGE
because u no do am no mean say dem no go do am to you wetin concern ur sister wish with ur doingz
If your sister wishes to follow agbaya upandan u can’t stop it cause u didn’t follow other ppl sisters and when u find out na that one pain pass


Some boiz no dey hear word ooo everybody can not be what u want them to be him go surprise say him sis no be the real sis him know
Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by folake4u(f): 9:01am On Dec 07, 2019
Funny thing is even men who can't even approach girls on the street will still be commenting. Lol. Ra Ra oh! cheesy

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Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by AntiMCU: 9:02am On Dec 07, 2019
GreenArrow1:



As you are going for a woman with a job, go with sense o to avoid wetin I dey inside now.
Went for a lady with a job. After 3 months, boom! Lady quit her job and became a total liability. According to her colleagues, her reason for quitting was to have time to concentrate on our relationship. Time? Me wey no get time at all. Last last, lady is gonna get dumped officially by February.
Find out first why she is working o. Some of them are only doing that cos they don't have people paying their bills for now. Their liability mode is just on pause.

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Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by Pedrotina11: 9:02am On Dec 07, 2019
pcguru1:


You are an idiot , I said a man cannot date a student because she is broke a liability. Learn to inquire before attacking. Fvck boy oshi

Lol donkey that was not wat u said..ewu....changing mouth up and down like diaper...anupama...
Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by Nobody: 9:04am On Dec 07, 2019
Pedrotina11:


Lol donkey that was not wat u said..ewu....changing mouth up and down like diaper...anupama...

Which man that is working and knows the value of money dates a student who is a liability, you are a truly a Dullard if you believe that's my stance. Anyone on this forum knows how much I stress dating non broke girls.

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Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by Pinkyposh(f): 9:06am On Dec 07, 2019
GreenArrow1:



As you are going for a woman with a job, go with sense o to avoid wetin I dey inside now.
Went for a lady with a job. After 3 months, boom! Lady quit her job and became a total liability. According to her colleagues, her reason for quitting was to have time to concentrate on our relationship. Time? Me wey no get time at all. Last last, lady is gonna get dumped officially by February.
Find out first why she is working o. Some of them are only doing that cos they don't have people paying their bills for now. Their liability mode is just on pause.

She was wrongly informed. Have you tried to discuss with her about it?
I can't feel comfortable dating someone when I'm not even working, not to talk of being a house wife. A man can't give you everything
Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by hardon1(m): 9:13am On Dec 07, 2019
she will carry your money and be giving it to her school boyfriend who she also giving free fvck. if you are dating a female student and you think she doesnt have a school boyfriend. then you are the most gullible person on earth cheesy cheesy

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Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by Nobody: 9:15am On Dec 07, 2019
Pinkyposh:


She was wrongly informed. Have you tried to discuss with her about it?
I can't feel comfortable dating someone when I'm not even working, not to talk of being a house wife. A man can't give you everything

Some women haven't gone through reality check it's why they do that. They dont understand that pain knowing you are a total liability to someone. Me I get pride. I dont depend on people it's a very terrible feeling.

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Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by dave4rella(m): 9:17am On Dec 07, 2019
Teespice:


I have one question to ask.

You have a woman you are about getting married to and you are seeing another woman behind her back and at the same time complaining of the same thing she is doing which you are also guilty of.

In this life ehn, when you point one finger at someone, remember that four others are pointing back at you.

Okay oooo. I don talk my own finish.

sad
She was supposed to be my fiancee now
But her bad character demoted her to a side chick
I met her before my now fiancee
Disconnecting with her soonest

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Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by Mobree: 9:18am On Dec 07, 2019
Babaken:
Is He the one that send her to school.

Well, no. But he will be expected to pay anyway lol

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Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by dave4rella(m): 9:18am On Dec 07, 2019
angelusbrut:


Do asap and disconnect yourself with her, women are funny ooo,that your thoughts may turn out to be real,very possible,not just that she will fight your woman with everything,very deadly undecided



Sure man, doing that ASAP
Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by dave4rella(m): 9:19am On Dec 07, 2019
stanliwise:
I think I understand your logic. But by doing this, most girl will think of you as a weak and dummy guy.
It's not a bad to help people who has helped you, but it is bad to send people the wrong message.
STOP sending her money, buy her gift instead especially on a memorable day. If not just make her know You DON'T GIVE MUCH Bleep.
Hoes Ego are broken when they know you don't.

Yeah, I get you

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Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by GeneralPula: 9:20am On Dec 07, 2019
JERRY1925:


Were they not once school girls?
Wo, woman na woman Jor.
Let's just enjoy our life and stop attaching feelings to everything.
I prefer students o.
Their demands are so predictable.
Have gen, have food, have TV..have ac..boom it have finish..but don't spoil her with money..make her know u Okay financially ...but don't give her much.

You sabi play the game! Wagbayiii! cool
Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by Nobody: 9:23am On Dec 07, 2019
JERRY1925:


Were they not once school girls?
Wo, woman na woman Jor.
Let's just enjoy our life and stop attaching feelings to everything.
I prefer students o.
Their demands are so predictable.
Have gen, have food, have TV..have ac..boom it have finish..but don't spoil her with money..make her know u Okay financially ...but don't give her much.

They said dating not hookup. grin
Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by nnaeyes6: 9:25am On Dec 07, 2019
I was dating my supposed fiance, when I sat fiance, I mean fiance because we gave gone a long way and I was determined to marry her owing that I even worked towards the admission with might.
Immediately she got her admission, I just hands off, because I was one's a student and know what is INSIDE LIFE!. To shorten it, she didn't prove me wrong. She is in he finals now anyway.
Dating a student means u hack off ur emotions and plat the game.

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Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by GeneralPula: 9:29am On Dec 07, 2019
Lawalemi:

My brother. You might want to pour acid but one need to drop bitterness and move on. I always pray that karma will catch on such girl that used and dump a man


Taaah bro!

Karma ko, Kamaru ni.

Instead of always saying that prayer, just pray for your own prosperity and move on!

USING & DUMPING IS PART OF HUMAN CHARACTERISTICS! You gotta be strong so they don’t get you used! Humans are dangerous, highly dangerous!
Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by Pinkyposh(f): 9:36am On Dec 07, 2019
pcguru1:


Some women haven't gone through reality check it's why they do that. They dont understand that pain knowing you are a total liability to someone. Me I get pride. I dont depend on people it's a very terrible feeling.

Noo, it's not a terrible feeling, it's who you're, you were trained that way
I don't borrow money from anyone no matter what, or even ask for money, it's a difficult thing for me, because I wasn't trained that way

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Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by Nobody: 9:37am On Dec 07, 2019
Pinkyposh:


Noo, it's not a terrible feeling, it's who you're, you were trained that way
I don't borrow money from anyone no matter what, or even ask for money, it's a difficult thing for me, because I wasn't trained that way
Chop knuckle that's the way
Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by okpalaAnambra: 9:40am On Dec 07, 2019
Stewart883:


Can u contact me 08036267796. I like girls like u and I'm serious. I'm in my early 30s if u don't mind.
Looking for a tight pvssy to Bleep. cheesy cheesy cheesy grin

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Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by lexy2014: 9:42am On Dec 07, 2019
dave4rella:


I got a life changing connection through her

So that's the only way of paying her back

But in ur initial comment, u sounded as if u were doing her a favour by sending her money. Now u saying she was d one who actually did u d favour. U even had a fiance and u were dating someone u call a hoe
Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by pocohantas(f): 9:43am On Dec 07, 2019
LadyGCrueDKilaB:
Nne odikwa egwu
Very confused Bunch
Maybe they want little girls and adolescents, those are the only group of Nigerian females they're yet to bash
And it's really not surprising with the torrent of r@pe and pedophilia news we usually read on front page everyday
I'm beginning to fear this group known as "Naija men"

Looks like they are just conditioned to bash. No one should take some of them serious.

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