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sweetonugbu:
thank you my sister, my annoyance is that the girl is 21, and they have been together for 5 years, remove 5 from 21=16

It's 4 years, not 5. So he started when she was 17, not 16

Innobee99:
I met this lady in 2015 though she was very young and still young. She's 21 while am 28.

The problem is it seems she's not ready for marriage at all or maybe because she's still young and want to fulfill her youthful desires. Always want to be a slay Queen, contesting for beauty pageants

My babe is only interested in u flexing with her like taking her out to eateries, lodging her in a hotel for fun, buying her gifts without spending her own kobo on u (I can swear to that). Last year, I spent alot on her birthday but wen it was my birthday, the total of what she got for me was N700. N200 perfume and N500 Nivea Roll on. But that's not my business sha.

For example, this new babe requested me to give her 2k to make her hair for an event in Church which I bluntly ignored her just to test her, not that I don't have the money. Can u believe that this babe have even forgotten she asked me the money? And she talks to me perfectly on phone. She was like babe, if u don't have money don't stress urself ooooo, I'll repackage my hair and still look good to Church. If u don't send my babe money before the due time, she'll stop calling u.

The new babe is not after money or material things. Though I'll send her a reasonable amount today. Unlike my babe, who will bring down hell if u don't send her money before the deadline. Can u believe that in August, she had already brought her christmas list to me to check?

To cut all these short, I need mature mind on what to do on this cuz am confused. U can pour ur insults cuz I don't even bother abt that as far as I get the advise I want.

Stay blessed my beautiful NL family.

Na this kain story dey annoy Happney65. I juss dey laugh.

shawnmendes:
lmao. You're a pig. Leave children alone pedophile.

must an animal open its mouth all the time.

BitmapStudios:
Na this kain story dey annoy Happney65. I juss dey laugh.

"My babe is only interested in u flexing with her like taking her out to eateries, lodging her in a hotel for fun, buying her gifts without spending her own kobo on u (I can swear to that). Last year, I spent alot on her birthday but wen it was my birthday, the total of what she got for me was N700. N200 perfume and N500 Nivea Roll on. But that's not my business sha."

"Unlike my babe, who will bring down hell if u don't send her money before the deadline. Can u believe that in August, she had already brought her christmas list to me to check?"

When I read it yesterday I just dey vex..I really dont know where people see these type of girls..Nowadays,these girls believe the moment you are dating them,you should be held responsible for all their welfare.Girl that you are not married to o....I remember one girl wey I never even press breasts that brought me a bill of 85K when she wanted to resume in school..I just look am laugh..

I dont blame the girls sha,na the guy I blame..Na him I blame

Nonesense and Buhari..

You don't need No Advice
because you Already Know what to Do(Go for the new babe).
Please MAN UP!!!

anyway we would be here waiting to see a thread from you on how the 21year old Confused Bee Stabbed you for Dumping her.

Bro,
Straight to the Point.
It is very unfair to pressure a young 21 yr old into marriage.
She is currently doing what nature intended her age group to do and act. She is not yet matured and no one can blame her.
If per chance you succeed in convincing her to get marriage and her youthful experiences are not satisfied you will DEfinitely pay for it later . Again all akin to the Laws of Nature. SO give her a break.

Your New Babe.
She is new and for now will be well behaved. Not saying she is not for real.
But spend some more time with her to know better. She may not be all you think she is.

sweetonugbu:
thank you my sister, my annoyance is that the girl is 21, and they have been together for 5 years, remove 5 from 21=16

5- 21 =16
5-28= 23
= 23/16

Well if you understand the calculation I don’t think it so bad if a guy of 23 is dating a girl of 16. ��‍♂️

Innobee99:
I met this lady in 2015 though she was very young and still young. She's 21 while am 28. I love and cherish her so much and despite her flaws she's the one I find comfortable to spend my days with. We have been having a lot of relationship issues which we do settle.

There are many issues she puts on which I won't want to mention here cuz I overlook her flaws and focus on her good side.

The problem is it seems she's not ready for marriage at all or maybe because she's still young and want to fulfill her youthful desires. Always want to be a slay Queen, contesting for beauty pageants even without my knowledge.

I have talked to her severally about my desire to marry her but only nod her head in affirmation but I think she's really not ready.

OK, last year we had a serious issue which we broke up cuz it was a real family war. But we later came back to together again despite I was not at fault and cuz of the love I have for her, I went to her mum to apologize over the issue so we can be one again. I told this lady to also visit my mum and apologize too but she has been procrastinating for a year now. She has not visited my family house over the year. Whenever I confront her on why she don't want to reconcile with my family, she will give flimsy excuses of been busy. How can one be busy for a whole one year to say sorry even if it's on phone.

Now, I met a lady few months ago, and I love her so much and she's ready to settle down with me next year December. And I knw this my stubborn babe is a very jealous type and I don't knw how to handle the issue and let her go since I have seen someone who's ready to settle down with me.

My babe is only interested in u flexing with her like taking her out to eateries, lodging her in a hotel for fun, buying her gifts without spending her own kobo on u (I can swear to that). Last year, I spent alot on her birthday but wen it was my birthday, the total of what she got for me was N700. N200 perfume and N500 Nivea Roll on. But that's not my business sha.

For example, this new babe requested me to give her 2k to make her hair for an event in Church which I bluntly ignored her just to test her, not that I don't have the money. Can u believe that this babe have even forgotten she asked me the money? And she talks to me perfectly on phone. She was like babe, if u don't have money don't stress urself ooooo, I'll repackage my hair and still look good to Church. If u don't send my babe money before the due time, she'll stop calling u.

The new babe is not after money or material things. Though I'll send her a reasonable amount today. Unlike my babe, who will bring down hell if u don't send her money before the deadline. Can u believe that in August, she had already brought her christmas list to me to check?

To cut all these short, I need mature mind on what to do on this cuz am confused. U can pour ur insults cuz I don't even bother abt that as far as I get the advise I want.

Stay blessed my beautiful NL family.

When you meet a wife material, you will know, age is irrelevant. Stay with a girl that listens to you and celebrates you.

Awoo88:
My brother women are master manipulators. What is 2k compared to what she will be getting when she is finally in. There are good women but on a very basic level, they know what they want.

love (especially the romantic one) is not unconditional anywhere in the universe, so don't expect anyone to show you love for no reason. Even mothers (taken as the face of love) still find time and space in their hearts to hate other women's children.

You are already being manipulated if you believe the drama queen is definitely more sincere than the gentle lady. That belief would be because you have been raised to think that men are so undeserving of support that anytime a lady supports her man, she's pretending. You have been raised to think that as a man you should give and give and it's okay if you don't receive.

I don't see what is wrong in investing in someone. Men do it all the time, with hopes of returns on investment (sex, a chance at dating, marriage, etc). Why is it an evil thing when a woman invests in her man with hopes of getting returns on investment?

Just so you know, constant and unnecessary drama is a prominent manipulative strategy. A woman is not born a drama queen, she becomes one through nuture by her mother and friends because it works on the majority of men (who sadly, are too simple-minded to tell that they are being manipulated).

zexy2030:
When you meet a wife material, you will know, age is irrelevant. Stay with a girl that listens to you and celebrates you.

Beta talk jare






Not all these Hypocrites

Bahddo:
love (especially the romantic one) is not unconditional anywhere in the universe, so don't expect anyone to show you love for no reason. Even mothers (taken as the face of love) still find time and space in their hearts to hate other women's children.

You are already being manipulated if you believe the drama queen is definitely more sincere than the gentle lady. That belief would be because you have been raised to think that men are so undeserving of support that anytime a lady supports her man, she's pretending. You have been raised to think that as a man you should give and give and it's okay if you don't receive.

I don't see what is wrong in investing in someone. Men do it all the time, with hopes of returns on investment (sex, a chance at dating, marriage, etc). Why is it an evil thing when a woman invests in her man with hopes of getting returns on investment?

Just so you know, constant and unnecessary drama is a prominent manipulative strategy. A woman is not born a drama queen, she becomes one through nuture by her mother and friends because it works on the majority of men (who sadly, are too simple-minded to tell that they are being manipulated).

My dear you are the one who is clearly being manipulated. Women are women slay Queen or otherwise. The slay Queen will a deeper life sister if that is what her target requires. No body likes being bullshit. If a lady is condoling your shit, she is working you up for something. Romantic or not

Awoo88:
My dear you are the one who is clearly being manipulated. Women are women slay Queen or otherwise. The slay Queen will a deeper life sister if that is what her target requires. No body likes being bullshit. If a lady is condoling your shit, she is working you up for something. Romantic or not

you've been so battered by your experience that your low self-esteem is glaring and sad.

Being a man makes you a bag of shit that is condoned such that if you don't face drama regularly something is wrong? I actually feel sorry for you. Anyway, believe what you wish.

You can keep choosing the lady who would stress out your life (and outlive you) simply because "if a lady is condoling your shit, she is working you up for something."

Innobee99:
Read a post well before u pour out trash. Who's stressing on d cash?

Did you not lament about how you spent thousands on her, and she spent little or nothing on you?

Did you not claim that you spent thousands on her birthday, but on your own birthday she got you cheap stuff less than 700 naira?

Abi, no be you talk am again?? Were you not lamenting right there?

Innobee99:
But she can take my own thousands abi....

Who is daft here biko?

Why are you denying it now, and saying it is not about the cash? Aren't you too old to start telling these lies?

CeterisXVII:
Did you not lament about how you spent thousands on her, and she spent little or nothing on you?

Did you not claim that you spent thousands on her birthday, but on your own birthday she got you cheap stuff less than 700 naira?

Abi, no be you talk am again?? Were you not lamenting right there?


Why are you denying it now, and saying it is not about the cash? Aren't you too old to start telling these lies?

Out of hundreds of word in my write up it's only N700 only u can stress on. Stop being myopic abt this issue jor. U must not comment. Just act like u didn't see the thread oga

Innobee99:
I met this lady in 2015 though she was very young and still young. She's 21 while am 28. I love and cherish her so much and despite her flaws she's the one I find comfortable to spend my days with. We have been having a lot of relationship issues which we do settle.

There are many issues she puts on which I won't want to mention here cuz I overlook her flaws and focus on her good side.

The problem is it seems she's not ready for marriage at all or maybe because she's still young and want to fulfill her youthful desires. Always want to be a slay Queen, contesting for beauty pageants even without my knowledge.

I have talked to her severally about my desire to marry her but only nod her head in affirmation but I think she's really not ready.

OK, last year we had a serious issue which we broke up cuz it was a real family war. But we later came back to together again despite I was not at fault and cuz of the love I have for her, I went to her mum to apologize over the issue so we can be one again. I told this lady to also visit my mum and apologize too but she has been procrastinating for a year now. She has not visited my family house over the year. Whenever I confront her on why she don't want to reconcile with my family, she will give flimsy excuses of been busy. How can one be busy for a whole one year to say sorry even if it's on phone.

Now, I met a lady few months ago, and I love her so much and she's ready to settle down with me next year December. And I knw this my stubborn babe is a very jealous type and I don't knw how to handle the issue and let her go since I have seen someone who's ready to settle down with me.

My babe is only interested in u flexing with her like taking her out to eateries, lodging her in a hotel for fun, buying her gifts without spending her own kobo on u (I can swear to that). Last year, I spent alot on her birthday but wen it was my birthday, the total of what she got for me was N700. N200 perfume and N500 Nivea Roll on. But that's not my business sha.

For example, this new babe requested me to give her 2k to make her hair for an event in Church which I bluntly ignored her just to test her, not that I don't have the money. Can u believe that this babe have even forgotten she asked me the money? And she talks to me perfectly on phone. She was like babe, if u don't have money don't stress urself ooooo, I'll repackage my hair and still look good to Church. If u don't send my babe money before the due time, she'll stop calling u.

The new babe is not after money or material things. Though I'll send her a reasonable amount today. Unlike my babe, who will bring down hell if u don't send her money before the deadline. Can u believe that in August, she had already brought her christmas list to me to check?

To cut all these short, I need mature mind on what to do on this cuz am confused. U can pour ur insults cuz I don't even bother abt that as far as I get the advise I want.

Stay blessed my beautiful NL family.

If am to judge from what you just said now,I think the second girl is the one for you... Your first girl is just playing you & she's just there for the money... Nothing else!

KellyGatzz:
If am to judge from what you just said now,I think the second girl is the one for you... Your first girl is just playing you & she's just there for the money... Nothing else!

Thanks alot