In my area it's called collecting your share use condoms or else you collect HIV share too

Jaynom:

It is not "SEDUCTIVE SPIRIT" don't let SPIRITUAL MYTH derail you from the fact of the matter. How you dress MATTERS! What you ADVERTISE MATTERS!!. How you present yourself MATTERS O! You are not telling us the complete gist. I have female friends that complain about the same thing, "guys only want to sleep with us & nothing more" they say. If u see the types of suggestive photos they take eh? The types of clothes they wear. Most evenings they come out with T-shirts or nighties with No Bra! you think guys are BLIND or something? How you present yourself MATTERS!

True!

Vondata:
This is simply because u are either not attractive enough, very boring/empty upstairs or u have bad manners.

They are 4 major things that can get a girl into a relationship though.
1. Beauty
2. Character
3. Sex
4. Wealth

Sometimes girls ignore those ones that want them.

You don talk well.

girls with huge asset are related to this....
example are girls with a very big breast ....they fall victim of this

lomprico:
not true, most times she does not give attention to the one that really wants to date her.

GBAM

Not everything has to be spiritual
White ladies too have such problems
Its everywhere

hooha:
Dealing with seductive spirit is good for a lady suffering from the crisis of people eager to sleep with her, but never wanting to date her. Some ladies go through this issue, and it could be heartbreaking at the later stage of their life; when they are set to marry, and all what guys want from them is sex.

I don't even mean sex while dating, which is wrong, but I mean people wanting to sleep with you alone and never wishing or wanting to date you. So no matter how you cook, dress, even dress decently, behave nicely, and so on, every guy or most guys see you as someone that will be sweet in bed. It is indeed terrible!!.

I will advise such ladies to pray and fast against the spirit of seduction in them. This kind of fasting may be for 7 days, with reading of the Bible and much prayers.

Well me I'll pray against such o cos most of them come and the next thing they start talking about testing but because me I already made up my mind to be chaste until the true fellow finds me, I just call it off there and then.
I can count how many have come without really asking for sex like say 2 out of the numerous men that have come my way. Which is the pastor guy and one of my long time friend. And to think I dress modestly most times.

So before I go to my closet, here and now, "By the authority in the name of Jesus I cast out every spirit of seduction in my life and sentence them to everlasting bondage now by the power in Jesus name!. AMEN!
I receive my deliverance now in Jesus name. Amen.."

Thank you OP for this revelation. At least for the second time on Nairaland I'm getting a life-changing revelation. I'm blessed.

more like the perfect product nobody wants to buy

hooha:
Dealing with seductive spirit is good for a lady suffering from the crisis of people eager to sleep with her, but never wanting to date her. Some ladies go through this issue, and it could be heartbreaking at the later stage of their life; when they are set to marry, and all what guys want from them is sex.

I don't even mean sex while dating, which is wrong, but I mean people wanting to sleep with you alone and never wishing or wanting to date you. So no matter how you cook, dress, even dress decently, behave nicely, and so on, every guy or most guys see you as someone that will be sweet in bed. It is indeed terrible!!.

I will advise such ladies to pray and fast against the spirit of seduction in them. This kind of fasting may be for 7 days, with reading of the Bible and much prayers.

Mimi Orjiekwe, Nina, Caroline Danjuma, Juliet Ibrahim, Omotola, Ebube, Iyabo Ojo et al comes to mind. Babes are sex symbol. Infact all yellow babes, make una nor vex o

Bubblybee:
and does the man who only wanna sleep with her and not actually date her have a good character?

You will be surprised that such guys will be willing to settle down, date and marry the moment they see a woman with good character.

DanDeeBoss:
I won't date you and won't sleep with you

mmmmm

Its the order of the day�

Sex is viral. d moment a guy notices u'r a free giver, they will definitely come for you...
th4, it's influenced by your character

Classyuniquebae:
Seriously guys, I'm one of those who does not believe in all these spiritual ish but about what the OP posted, I have a friend who experiences this and I have no goddamn explaination for it because to me , she has it all.... From a hot body shaped like an hour glass to being descent to being calm, collected , intelligent , madly talented but just can't keep a man .



In-between , she was my Coursemate and at a point in time , I had to house her when she had an accommodation problem for a period of one year .


We didn't for one day have a single misunderstanding as ladies ...( you know how girls can get when they live together ) She has an amazing character for real and hardly gets angry . Her maturity trips me but yet all men that come across her wants her for just her body and cuz of that she is still single till date !

They don't even wana get to know her !!! Each time we trekk to school , you see cars pulling up to talk to her ... Every day guys yet ....



So I think OP has a point .... It could be spiritual .

Some even go to the extent of asking her how much she wants for school and stuffs ...just to come spend a night in their place....

Some ladies have these problem!
Before going spiritual, since you have certified her character,look and personality.
I will like to ask you this few questions
Is she proud?
Does she select men she talk with?
Does she look for high taste in men?
How does she relate with men?
Does she dress properly?
Don't forget even though you are a pastor, people assess you first by your dressing and if a pastor dress like a prostitute she will attract men that needs only a prostitute.
Answering these questions properly will help to diagnose the real causes of her problem

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hooha:
Dealing with seductive spirit is good for a lady suffering from the crisis of people eager to sleep with her, but never wanting to date her. Some ladies go through this issue, and it could be heartbreaking at the later stage of their life; when they are set to marry, and all what guys want from them is sex.

I don't even mean sex while dating, which is wrong, but I mean people wanting to sleep with you alone and never wishing or wanting to date you. So no matter how you cook, dress, even dress decently, behave nicely, and so on, every guy or most guys see you as someone that will be sweet in bed. It is indeed terrible!!.

I will advise such ladies to pray and fast against the spirit of seduction in them. This kind of fasting may be for 7 days, with reading of the Bible and much prayers.

Damaged goods.


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Sammy011:


Some ladies have these problem!
Before going spiritual, since you have certified her character,look and personality.
I will like to ask you this few questions
Is she proud?
Does she select men she talk with?
Does she look for high taste in men?
How does she relate with men?
Does she dress properly?
Don't forget even though you are a pastor, people assess you first by your dressing and if a pastor dress like a prostitute she will attract men that needs only a prostitute.
Answering these questions properly will help to diagnose the real causes of her problem

Firstly she is not proud and dresses decently as well . As for the high taste ish, she really does but not like looking for a rich or financially stable guy. She said one of her problems is that she can't find a man with a vision . That even most rich guys simply do not have any plans or visions for their lives . They just want to make money and talk of how sexy she is and all of that .

I literally forced her to give this rich guy a chance and for like 2 months it was going well . According to her , the guy seems to be intellectually ok for her as their conversations were very engaging and they both share mind blowing ideas until she asked the guy about his future plans , visions and passion .


The guy lost it . He was like " what kinda stupid question is that ? That why does he really need to start making plans for his future when he is thinking of how to make money ? Lol


She came home crying ,saying she can't deal with these men . Like "where did I go wrong ? I'm about graduating but I've plans for my life. Why is it so difficult to get a sensible man ? "


So you see what I mean by she has a high taste but not on the negative side.

So are you saying ladies that still dress normal and guys are wanting to sleep with them have seduction spirit? And not all ladies that dress normal attracts guys to them, the case of seduction spirit is minute and not common.

what is the difference btw dating and sleeping with pls? Check it again not assuming you know it

Lcf69:
Character matters.

some girls are just sexually attractive!! Whenever u see them, u just want to bleep

justifyme:
some girls are just sexually attractive!! Whenever u see them, u just want to bleep

hmmmmm, then the guys themselves must surely have problems, is not that common.

MedicH:
Marriage is not for everybody.

But you will like to marry right? You can't be serious. Arrant Non sense!

odisman:

But you will like to marry right? You can't be serious. Arrant Non sense!

Marriage is not for everybody oga.

Op don smoke that thing again today.

hooha:
Dealing with seductive spirit is good for a lady suffering from the crisis of people eager to sleep with her, but never wanting to date her. Some ladies go through this issue, and it could be heartbreaking at the later stage of their life; when they are set to marry, and all what guys want from them is sex.

I don't even mean sex while dating, which is wrong, but I mean people wanting to sleep with you alone and never wishing or wanting to date you. So no matter how you cook, dress, even dress decently, behave nicely, and so on, every guy or most guys see you as someone that will be sweet in bed. It is indeed terrible!!.

I will advise such ladies to pray and fast against the spirit of seduction in them. This kind of fasting may be for 7 days, with reading of the Bible and much prayers.

So everything is all about Prayer and Fasting Its funny as people misuse spiritual things and calling Gods' name in vain. Ideologies has to change, appearance and character has to change and if then after those changes, nothing works, then you can the Fasting and Prayers. Putting prayers 1st in this situation is like putting Cart before the Horse.

hooha:


I will advise such ladies to pray and fast against the spirit of seduction in them. This kind of fasting may be for 7 days, with reading of the Bible and much prayers.

Thank God that happens only in Christianity...(as implied by the quote above)






That's why it's hard to find a flirting Muslim girls on dating sites. Honestly you see people like Deborah, blessing, dupe, Felicia and so on...


This is not far fetched as Muslims are not enslaved to be with only one woman legally.


Take it or leave it, 99.9% of MEN are polygamous in nature


Muslims rejoice

Bubblybee:
and does the man who only wanna sleep with her and not actually date her have a good character?

Of course.

They probably have excellent character. They are only responding to stimuli. When I see cold water on a sunny day, I feel like drinking it without dating the seller.

Classyuniquebae:
Seriously guys, I'm one of those who does not believe in all these spiritual ish but about what the OP posted, I have a friend who experiences this and I have no goddamn explaination for it because to me , she has it all.... From a hot body shaped like an hour glass to being descent to being calm, collected , intelligent , madly talented but just can't keep a man .



In-between , she was my Coursemate and at a point in time , I had to house her when she had an accommodation problem for a period of one year .


We didn't for one day have a single misunderstanding as ladies ...( you know how girls can get when they live together ) She has an amazing character for real and hardly gets angry . Her maturity trips me but yet all men that come across her wants her for just her body and cuz of that she is still single till date !

They don't even wana get to know her !!! Each time we trekk to school , you see cars pulling up to talk to her ... Every day guys yet ....



So I think OP has a point .... It could be spiritual .

Some even go to the extent of asking her how much she wants for school and stuffs ...just to come spend a night in their place....

Introduce me to that your friend if she is igbo

Classyuniquebae:



Firstly she is not proud and dresses decently as well . As for the high taste ish, she really does but not like looking for a rich or financially stable guy. She said one of her problems is that she can't find a man with a vision . That even most rich guys simply do not have any plans or visions for their lives . They just want to make money and talk of how sexy she is and all of that .

I literally forced her to give this rich guy a chance and for like 2 months it was going well . According to her , the guy seems to be intellectually ok for her as their conversations were very engaging and they both share mind blowing ideas until she asked the guy about his future plans , visions and passion .


The guy lost it . He was like " what kinda stupid question is that ? That why does he really need to start making plans for his future when he is thinking of how to make money ? Lol


She came home crying ,saying she can't deal with these men . Like "where did I go wrong ? I'm about graduating but I've plans for my life. Why is it so difficult to get a sensible man ? "


So you see what I mean by she has a high taste but not on the negative side.

I understand your friend. I’m like her sometimes I pity myself. I think we’ve acquired too much knowledge and exposure more than our immediate environment that’s it’s hard to fit into our environment when they don’t see things the way we see it . I’ve never experienced love there was even a lady rich and okay character wise but I still feel something missing physically .

I’ve resulted to fate has I shouldn’t be expecting love or to be loved by someone I should just continue living be happy for myself and see where destiny takes me . I don’t have intentions of marrying as things continue going worse the type of women I met but I’ve just sworn to have kids and move on with life.

luminouz:
Girls with huge assets are sometimes prey to this...
They always look good enough to fuq but guys are scared of marrying them due to fear of competition from other males.

If you see wetin some girls dey pack, you wonder how their husbands won't get jealous of the lustful stares from other men

That's why rich guys marry averagely looking girls. I won't want to marry a LovePeddler all in the name of beauty. The attention she will get from men will confuse her brain so much that she will forget she is married.

lomprico:
not true, most times she does not give attention to the one that really wants to date her.

Most women are always falling inlove with d wrong guy