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Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by Slimsly100(f): 1:58pm On Dec 17, 2019

I would have said something but no need as you didn't heed the first advice, is it this one you'll heed huh

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Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by Nobody: 2:01pm On Dec 17, 2019

DenreleDave:
Yes a way of life to thousands but a way of death to billions..

Suicide bombers, isis, AL queda... Islam leaders..Bleep 99 Virgins in hell, with which prick abeg?

there are evidences, those groups kills more Muslims than Christians. You are free to hate us, but we shall all see the truth on the day of judgement

Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by Nobody: 2:04pm On Dec 17, 2019

Viicfuntop:
Man all I ma saying is that every religion preaches against premarital sex. Why would it “pain me”, exactly? No offense but your comment made no sense

It made no sense because I made mention of Islam. You are free to post what your religion preaches, and I don't see any negative effect of my post.

Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by igbsam(m): 2:11pm On Dec 17, 2019

you still dey find advise after the first one we gave you, you refused to listen..

Guy, we no get advise to waste on u again o!

Go and carry your cross.

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Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by Munzy14(m): 2:13pm On Dec 17, 2019

Freethought:
I know a lot of you are going to blaim me buh please let your message to me come with an advise. We are in a state of real dilemma

Few months ago, i opened a thread on how we both found out we were both of AS genotype and how we couldn't stop having sex. Well as against some advices here, we didn't stop having sex until this past weekend wen we found out that she's pregnant.

I remember the month after we found out about the genotype, she told me she told her parents that she's gon get married to me no matter what, they practically begged her not to, telling her different stories of SS children they know

We haven't told anybody about the pregnancy yet . We are scared every single one of them will blame us and think we did it intentionally just to get married.

I love her and I'm sure she loves me too buh this pregnancy, the tot of it alone being SS is scaring the shit out of us.

We don't know what to do

No big deal...
You only plan yourselves.
And erase mindset of having too many children. 1 or 2 will do.

So u can get AA and AS.
Third or fourth will be risky... If u are a fan of too many kids, u either adopt or find a way.
This is modern age, all this aren't issues anymore.

Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by Greyman11(m): 2:13pm On Dec 17, 2019

Donald95:
There is nothing bad marrying an AS woman when you are AS. Love is a very strong feeling which one cannot just wake up one day and throw into bin and then move on like nothing happened. No it doesn't work like that.

I will give you advice based on what my uncle did. Check the baby's Genotype, if it is Sickle, Abort it. My grandfather AS married AS too. Had 13 children, They only had one Sickler which means you two could be AS but yet produce AA and AS children only

You must surely be from the devil, I pray this your advice doesn't come back to you.
How will you advice people that the devil have so possessed that they cannot stop having sex, cannot obey parental instruction to now commit murder, may God have mercy on you.
These guys need deliverance, this is pure demonic oppressions, next thing now we will hear that one cannot take it and drinks sniper, get to the nearest Bible believing church and needs to all instructions for effective deliverance, avoid fornication it is totally from the devil, shikina

Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by Vikkiboi(m): 2:25pm On Dec 17, 2019

deed has been done already, both of you are goats that are in love so i won't blame you too much.

Kindly go for a test and abort the pregnancy if the baby is SS

Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by DBossNG(m): 2:27pm On Dec 17, 2019

Freethought:
I know a lot of you are going to blaim me buh please let your message to me come with an advise. We are in a state of real dilemma

Few months ago, i opened a thread on how we both found out we were both of AS genotype and how we couldn't stop having sex. Well as against some advices here, we didn't stop having sex until this past weekend wen we found out that she's pregnant.

I remember the month after we found out about the genotype, she told me she told her parents that she's gon get married to me no matter what, they practically begged her not to, telling her different stories of SS children they know

We haven't told anybody about the pregnancy yet . We are scared every single one of them will blame us and think we did it intentionally just to get married.

I love her and I'm sure she loves me too buh this pregnancy, the tot of it alone being SS is scaring the shit out of us.

We don't know what to do

To be honest, you are sick and myopic. Go and abort the pregnancy if it's within 4 weeks. That's my advice because I doubt if you can afford amniocentesis and chorionic villus sampling (CVS).

Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by galaxy2020(m): 2:40pm On Dec 17, 2019

My dear that is your wife, you two can bear any consequence that comes out of ur actions and nobody will raise an eyebrow, but where u two are not married and for fact that they are both AS, precaution must be applied for the good of everyone.

Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by Kirinwa: 2:43pm On Dec 17, 2019

chigoziri2403:
Against advises, you didnt stop having sex?
Now you are here for further advises.?
Just pray the child beats the SS genotype,
Then come back to naira land for another advise.
I don't think you've seen a child in crises

Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by ebullient19(f): 2:43pm On Dec 17, 2019

At this point, it will not be wrong to tell your girl to ABORT the baby because of the future of the child knowing well that he or she might not mass age 21

Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by jeff1607(m): 2:48pm On Dec 17, 2019

Snowale:
when we say no sex before marriage, they will abuse Islam, when we say marry young if you love each other and you have the means, they will say Islam preaches rubbish, some will say sex is different from marriage, now they will have to give birth to an SS child out of wedlock, still get married and the sin would be on their head forever. when the children finds out, they will hate their parents for it. Meanwhile, it is a 1/4 probability, I have an uncle like that, gave birth to just 2, luckily the two are AS.

how does this relate to Islam alone? bros u had better add Christianity, Buddhism etc in the mix or else

Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by lovethchioma(f): 3:00pm On Dec 17, 2019

Freethought:
I know a lot of you are going to blaim me buh please let your message to me come with an advise. We are in a state of real dilemma

Few months ago, i opened a thread on how we both found out we were both of AS genotype and how we couldn't stop having sex. Well as against some advices here, we didn't stop having sex until this past weekend wen we found out that she's pregnant.

I remember the month after we found out about the genotype, she told me she told her parents that she's gon get married to me no matter what, they practically begged her not to, telling her different stories of SS children they know

We haven't told anybody about the pregnancy yet . We are scared every single one of them will blame us and think we did it intentionally just to get married.

I love her and I'm sure she loves me too buh this pregnancy, the tot of it alone being SS is scaring the shit out of us.

We don't know what to do

Go and check the genotype of the baby.. you should know what next to do depending on the result you get

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Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by henribj(m): 3:13pm On Dec 17, 2019

Freethought:
I know a lot of you are going to blaim me buh please let your message to me come with an advise. We are in a state of real dilemma

Few months ago, i opened a thread on how we both found out we were both of AS genotype and how we couldn't stop having sex. Well as against some advices here, we didn't stop having sex until this past weekend wen we found out that she's pregnant.

I remember the month after we found out about the genotype, she told me she told her parents that she's gon get married to me no matter what, they practically begged her not to, telling her different stories of SS children they know

We haven't told anybody about the pregnancy yet . We are scared every single one of them will blame us and think we did it intentionally just to get married.

I love her and I'm sure she loves me too buh this pregnancy, the tot of it alone being SS is scaring the shit out of us.

We don't know what to do

All I want to say is you both are heartless.. You both know your AS and yet you want to bring a child into this world knowing the risk he might be SS. If she born that child and it turns out to be SS that child should curse you guys.

Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by mattsvibes: 3:26pm On Dec 17, 2019

fucking love does not exist when am hurting another person when am his or her predicament source

Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by patoh86: 3:29pm On Dec 17, 2019

Congratulations

Freethought:
I know a lot of you are going to blaim me buh please let your message to me come with an advise. We are in a state of real dilemma

Few months ago, i opened a thread on how we both found out we were both of AS genotype and how we couldn't stop having sex. Well as against some advices here, we didn't stop having sex until this past weekend wen we found out that she's pregnant.

I remember the month after we found out about the genotype, she told me she told her parents that she's gon get married to me no matter what, they practically begged her not to, telling her different stories of SS children they know

We haven't told anybody about the pregnancy yet . We are scared every single one of them will blame us and think we did it intentionally just to get married.

I love her and I'm sure she loves me too buh this pregnancy, the tot of it alone being SS is scaring the shit out of us.

We don't know what to do

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Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by Nobody: 3:30pm On Dec 17, 2019

jeff1607:
how does this relate to Islam alone? bros u had better add Christianity, Buddhism etc in the mix or else

You are free to add yours, I said mine that I'm sure of, and people don't like hearing our law

Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by edunaragold(f): 3:35pm On Dec 17, 2019

HEY CALM DOWN,FIRST KIDS ARENT ALWAY SS now,if the baby is not,then u scale true ,don't have a second one.or u will pay for it.

Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by Obito555(m): 3:37pm On Dec 17, 2019

All the blame is on u, considering abortion is another greatest burden just pray the child is not SS which ever the case, both should take care of the child. parting ways may affect both of u therefore if u want to marry do so and go to motherless home if u want more children

Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by chinchum(m): 3:41pm On Dec 17, 2019

Freethought:
I know a lot of you are going to blaim me buh please let your message to me come with an advise. We are in a state of real dilemma

Few months ago, i opened a thread on how we both found out we were both of AS genotype and how we couldn't stop having sex. Well as against some advices here, we didn't stop having sex until this past weekend wen we found out that she's pregnant.

I remember the month after we found out about the genotype, she told me she told her parents that she's gon get married to me no matter what, they practically begged her not to, telling her different stories of SS children they know

We haven't told anybody about the pregnancy yet . We are scared every single one of them will blame us and think we did it intentionally just to get married.

I love her and I'm sure she loves me too buh this pregnancy, the tot of it alone being SS is scaring the shit out of us.

We don't know what to do

budget like 300k for amnioticentis, CVS , once your girl is about 13wks pregnant. Sickle cell centre in Lagos is highly recommended. The foetus can be checked. You have a 75% chance of not having SS. Use your knowledge to achieve a desirable result, the real failure is those who don't know their genotype, i won't be shocked if more than 40% of Nigerian couples having a child do not know their genotype, or assume they know their right genotype. In future pregnancy, you may use PGD to achieve that

Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by Nobody: 3:42pm On Dec 17, 2019

RiyadhGoddess:
Somebody shout Halleluyah!
Op is that what you want We should rejoice with you, clap for you or want.
You came here seeking advice and you were told to stop having sex but No the two of you refused and now she's pregnant, what advise do you want again from us when our opinion no dey count eh?
Wait how old are you
Even an illiterate knows that AS and AS is a No No, Wrong combination even the most anointed man of God ever liveth won't advice the two of you to marry.
Knowing fully well of your genotype, you still have the effrontery to nack her raw, una two well so
Tomorrow now, you will start going from one prayer house to another disturbing pastors for prayers something that you can avoid now.
See my own advice is, You cannot marry your girlfriend due to the genotype ish. Yes she's pregnant, let it stop there so that you will know that it's just one burden should in case the child is SS.
Trust me, you do not want bury any of your children. The heart ache is really something you do not want to experience.
That love that you are shouting now, by the time the painful reality starts to hit you, the love go clear sharperly. Then it will become a thing of regrets and blames.
See the pregnancy as your gain for the love between the two you and end it there.
But if you insist and allow the girl who is obviously loving you with her heart and not her head push you into marriage in the name of I love you, I can't love any other man, whatever your eye see eh, be prepared to take it ooo.
All these sickness dey favour rich man ooo and I hope you are very rich to spend money lavishly in the hospital. Na serious agbana you shook yourself into I swear.
Lastly if you think you are a man of faith and non of your kids will be SS, then you can proceed. We don't want another chronicles from you biko.
All the best Sir!

Olorun oni jeka rogun agbana ooo
May we not spend our time and money lavishly in the hospital...

Op see what you have caused o.. .
I have never seen RiyadhGoddess rant like this before shocked

You were forewarned.. Hope you are forearmed!!

Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by Agbodu2(m): 3:44pm On Dec 17, 2019

May God have mercy on you both...
at this point that’s all I can say.

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Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by Nobody: 3:47pm On Dec 17, 2019

Sandypearl:
Majority of you here critizing him, you have killed innocent children by aborting maybe from your girlfriends,even the females too,are you all better than him? His crime now cos he came to this platform to seek for advice,you are critizing him.
Hypocrites!!!

Okay.. Op abort the pregnancy ooo.. Listen to Sandy!!

Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by pek(m): 3:48pm On Dec 17, 2019

You don't need advise. You need your head to be examined. It is not an insult.

Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by pek(m): 3:50pm On Dec 17, 2019

Sandypearl:
Majority of you here critizing him, you have killed innocent children by aborting maybe from your girlfriends,even the females too,are you all better than him? His crime now cos he came to this platform to seek for advice,you are critizing him.
Hypocrites!!!

Is that the advise he seeks?

Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by jeff1607(m): 3:50pm On Dec 17, 2019

Snowale:
You are free to add yours, I said mine that I'm sure of, and people don't like hearing our law

noted

Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by Nobody: 3:52pm On Dec 17, 2019

monfizzy:
Go do a scan of the baby to determine their genotype and if SS terminate it and if not then keep it. I’m a healthcare practitioner and have met a couple who both are AS and have 2kids both AS. They were very much in love and didn’t allow genotype separate them. They had to terminate their second pregnancy when diagnosed to be SS. Don’t know if such genotype test of the foetus can be carried out in a Naija. I live in the UK

I don't know why i find this comment funny.. grin

Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by rexandyke(m): 3:53pm On Dec 17, 2019

Vivos:
so what about the baby?
Are you advising they abort the baby bcoz of their foolish decisions

Checking its genotype first and aborting it if it is SS. Guy, I no wan take eye or ear hear say person born SS pikin again. I don lose cousins tire to that IDIOT called SS

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Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by Nobody: 3:56pm On Dec 17, 2019

chinchum:
budget like 300k for amnioticentis, CVS , once your girl is about 13wks pregnant. Sickle cell centre in Lagos is highly recommended. The foetus can be checked. You have a 75% chance of not having SS. Use your knowledge to achieve a desirable result, the real failure is those who don't know their genotype, i won't be shocked if more than 40% of Nigerian couples having a child do not know their genotype, or assume they know their right genotype. In future pregnancy, you may use PGD to achieve that

75%

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Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by pek(m): 3:56pm On Dec 17, 2019

Snowale:
there are evidences, those groups kills more Muslims than Christians. You are free to hate us, but we shall all see the truth on the day of judgement

Are you for real? They kill more Muslims than Christians? Can you back up your claim? How many Muslims lost their lives in 911, Paris massacre or Dublin bombing?

Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by Prettyuche(f): 4:01pm On Dec 17, 2019

You guys are very wicked.Bringing a child to suffer.Love my foot!

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