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Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by Nobody: 10:07pm On Dec 17, 2019
Oboy, shun all these motivation. Find meaning to your life and hustle for money. As I see as man like me pack better Benz dey talk with Babe wey I suppose control, inspiration set in. Water full my eyes. Oboy, hustle forget wife.

You no get wahala. Who wahala naked follow no dey use English pray

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Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by hyperflex(m): 10:08pm On Dec 17, 2019
No money is even better. No babe. To marry you needn’t who to marry. And in this endless pool of omo wobe who use social media happening to judge you and life u can’t be too careful. Plus the last tries have been social media meetups that ended in confusions. So now I wanna sort myself. As a Man U have to have your confidence level up before u attract a woman. Women love confidence. Anyways I’m just saying your point is another level compared to some people’s situation

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Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by iamJ(m): 10:08pm On Dec 17, 2019
I dey laugh you


U go balance account go do you like film

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Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by GMbuharii: 10:10pm On Dec 17, 2019
Tiwalade:
That's very good! Many times when I think of marrying this my igbo babe(I'm yoruba) I sometimes wonder how much it'll cost me. This lady definitely worth every penny honestly but the way Nigeria is now doesn't give room for too much spending especially for upcoming men.

grin
Lzaa immhotep bastardmod adaibeku greenback

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Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by omotowo2: 10:10pm On Dec 17, 2019
U are now a motivational speaker abi

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Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by Akowemoon(m): 10:11pm On Dec 17, 2019
Godislove1234:
I am quite a young man in my late 20's. There's this lady whom I love so much. She's from one of these eastern states in Nigeria. She's very beautiful, very godly and still a virgin. We've been together for about two years now but no money for marriage. The reason is because it is quite expensive to get married in their state.

I told her to inquire from her parents how much I may need for the marital rites she called me back and said about 500k (na just to manage be that o). So I said ok. 500k is actually a small amount but when you try to get it and you cannot, then it will suddenly become like 500 million to you. So I started putting in more efforts to raise the money but na lie the money no wan show.

Guess what I did today? I called her up and after talking about other issues I finally told her that I can't keep waiting to raise that amount of money. I have been depressed about it for some time now but I couldn't tell her because I didn't want her to get bothered. So I told her to go tell her parents that what I can raise by God's grace is 200k. If they approve, I'll come but if not make she go look for another man marry. Before now she has been asking me to come with anything I have but I kept saying no and the reason is that you can't just show up at someone's house and tell them that you've come to pick up their daughter with the little amount you have. So guess what? Just like magic they agreed to what I said (even though I wasn't expecting it to go that way). She sent me the text confirming her parent's approval. For me its a big miracle. If I should tell you the state in question you won't believe it.

So here's my advise to you all who want to get married to the love of your life but no money... Make you and the Babe get strong head work together or else her village people go dey delay una marriage because they want something elaborate. It's good to be stubborn I tell people. Both of you should come up with a plan (not to get her pregnant o. I don't support that please). But the plan will be carried out by your woman. She should stubbornly insist incase the parents are the difficult type, that this is the man she wishes to marry and if they don't let her she will remain single for ever (parents especially mothers dey fear that kind talk) if it doesn't work think of something else.

Just keep trying or else two of una go dey there old. But above all please put God first. He can make even the most hardened of men become soft for your sake. He may not send you all the money you need to fulfil what's in the list but He can make her parents accept you the way you are. It is called favour. What you need is the approval and blessings from both parents nothing more.

Forget village people. They too like eating and drinking. Remember that if you spend all the money in your account just to get married you and your wife will starve after the wedding. And to those who are insisting on white wedding please stop being foolish. White wedding is just a mere celebration just to fulfil all righteousness. If you have the money for it, fine. If not, no kill yourself. Don't keep your woman or man waiting.

Take a bold step today and God will meet you guys halfway. But whatever you do PLEASE don't marry a lazy woman. With this is mind, its just a matter of time you guys will succeed. Two good head are better than one. All the best guys. One love.


Lolz.. I've been trying to gather money to do same.. The money no dey gree save at all.. Honestly we've picked date next year April.. Better money never dey akant as I'm typing. Na God go help we guys o!... Not easy

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Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by Jetfire: 10:12pm On Dec 17, 2019
WARNING!!

“DO NOT TRY THIS AT HOME”

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Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by Sheriman(m): 10:12pm On Dec 17, 2019
Cut your coat according to your Cloth

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Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by Ojukwubucket(m): 10:12pm On Dec 17, 2019
ikechukwu21:


My brother am Ibo and I know how my people can be. Just follow what the OP said. If you wan do half of wetin de their list your 500k don burn. Minus traditional marriage o.
What is Ibo?

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Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by LZAA: 10:12pm On Dec 17, 2019
GMbuharii:


grin
Lzaa immhotep bastardmod adaibeku greenback
Afamed wee not like this post

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Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by Patosky4U: 10:14pm On Dec 17, 2019
Abeg make una no bring any piking come suffer for this world oooooo. U can marry the marry but no suffer innocent child.


If u know u know

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Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by KanuSE: 10:17pm On Dec 17, 2019
seunmohmoh:
Dem no dey telli person.

What year are you getting married?
Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by fk001(m): 10:17pm On Dec 17, 2019
Marriage doesn't work that way

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Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by MrHistorian: 10:19pm On Dec 17, 2019
Why should a human pay (bride) price for another human?

The logic that surrounds marriage is amazing.

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Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by Mutemenot(m): 10:19pm On Dec 17, 2019
ikechukwu21:


My brother am Ibo and I know how my people can be. Just follow what the OP said. If you wan do half of wetin de their list your 500k don burn. Minus traditional marriage o.

Oga, you are not an Igbo. What you said is not true..

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Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by seunmohmoh(f): 10:20pm On Dec 17, 2019
KanuSE:


What year are you getting married?
Are you interested in me?

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Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by adez33(m): 10:20pm On Dec 17, 2019
Good Evening All .�

*Pls if you know anybody who wants to sell his or her car, any model & any colour, with AC and you are sure it's in perfect working condition & valid papers, with price around 2.5 or 3 million, as long as the engine is not weak yet, please let the person sell it, it's not my business*��

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Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by Sirlins(m): 10:20pm On Dec 17, 2019
God will not allow an innocent gal to come suffer with me ..........I go blow first

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Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by lastempero: 10:22pm On Dec 17, 2019
This one na advice now abi embarassed there is no difference between you and Buhari. You are suppose to solve your problem first b4 taking another baggage.As long as you cant raise 500k my guy money is your problem.

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Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by Amanda4life: 10:22pm On Dec 17, 2019
MEGA4BILLION:
You should have wait to finished the entire marriage process before becoming a motivational speaker. When you are actually in the middle of it and you discover there are some inevitable bills you must settle, don't come here to open another thread about how you were used by your to be in-laws. You should have been excited if the marriage list the family gives you is in the region of what you have not the family telling you to come with what you have. Be guided, get the list first.


Let him not rejoice yet until he starts the process.

Parents are funny.

They may just collect that one from you and then tell you to go and bring more.


Can we bet?
Do you know how much pampers the your woman wore?

Not talk of cost of other care.


See even the religious parents they like better thing.

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Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by Hotzone(m): 10:22pm On Dec 17, 2019
You are not a man! Jess 200k!!!!

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Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by KanuSE: 10:23pm On Dec 17, 2019
seunmohmoh:
Are you interested in me?

I have only #3,500 in my acct.

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Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by Alvin212(m): 10:24pm On Dec 17, 2019
Another motivational speaker


Guy's hustle oooo
Eh. Hustle ooo


The only thing better than Money in this life is actually

More money.

Bleep marriage
Money pass all

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Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by bukkielee(m): 10:24pm On Dec 17, 2019
Your own even better na. Shebi you don wan marry.
My own 24 year old babe says she's not ready for marriage. Me at 30 is confused now. I don't even have the luxury of time to find a new relationship. I just tire for this marriage matter make I no lie you. Sometimes I think it is never gonna happen.

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Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by SarkinYarki: 10:24pm On Dec 17, 2019
Nonsense
Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by KanuSE: 10:25pm On Dec 17, 2019
bukkielee:
Your own even better na. Shebi you don wan marry.
My own 24 year old babe says she's not ready for marriage. Me at 30 is confused now. I don't even have the luxury of time to find a new relationship. I just tire for this marriage matter make I no lie you. Sometimes I think it is never gonna happen.

Lol cheesy she's still gyrating grin, let her be joor...

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Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by Godislove1234: 10:25pm On Dec 17, 2019
GeneralPula:
Just take a look at the money Op is struggling to get and he’s wanting to get married!

Make I just laugh in Spanish & wish them well!

Like someone said up there, them no Dey tell person!

lipsrsealed

If you're scared of succeeding I'm not. Thank you

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Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by bukkielee(m): 10:26pm On Dec 17, 2019
Alvin212:
Another motivational speaker


Guy's hustle oooo
Eh. Hustle ooo


The only thing better than Money in this life is actually

More money.

Bleep marriage
Money pass all
And when you have money finish, wetin you go dey do na?

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Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by BabaIbo: 10:26pm On Dec 17, 2019
Mutemenot:


Oga, you are not an Igbo. What you said is not true..


Don't mind him, even the way he typed ibo instead of igbo sef.

I have seen people do TM with less than what the OP said he has in that same state the op is talking about, I know the state even though he didn't mention it

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Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by Godislove1234: 10:27pm On Dec 17, 2019
Hotzone:
You are not a man! Jess 200k!!!!
You that's a man I believe you own your own airline and oil company. It's people like you that make others commit suicide. You're disgusting

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Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by sanemind2(m): 10:27pm On Dec 17, 2019
Looks like money is really delaying most of the young guys, we gats hustle

meanwhile


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