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Re: Help, My Husband Is Causing Me Pain by Nobody: 12:24am On Dec 18, 2019 |
healthserve:In my place we don't offer our wife like cola nut to visitors |
Re: Help, My Husband Is Causing Me Pain by NaijaRoyalty(m): 12:25am On Dec 18, 2019 |
SBL28: Go get your head examined , you've lost it completely . You must be a very bitter woman , single and frustrated . You obviously wants to destroy the young woman's marriage with your useless advice but God no go gree for you. Nonsense 1 Like |
Re: Help, My Husband Is Causing Me Pain by healthserve(m): 12:25am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Hizzy: All our daughters married their first or second sutior and none had another lover. By the way our daughters handle big money projects, contracts positions in churches etc and even men in the community look up to them as a moral Compass..its not just about woman but the quality we breed |
Re: Help, My Husband Is Causing Me Pain by Conceptman: 12:27am On Dec 18, 2019 |
imam07:imam sa la ma le ku, exactly my thoughts the parents know their daughter and if she lose her mum, this kind parent will not welcome her in their house. |
Re: Help, My Husband Is Causing Me Pain by healthserve(m): 12:27am On Dec 18, 2019 |
irynterri: 1 Like |
Re: Help, My Husband Is Causing Me Pain by Forward77(m): 12:27am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth: Smart people make contributions, while empty brained dumbos seek unnecessary attention and make loud noise. Look closely and you’ll find yourself in either of those categories. Have a great night. 1 Like
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Re: Help, My Husband Is Causing Me Pain by Desric(m): 12:28am On Dec 18, 2019 |
djon78:Your choice must not be another man's choice, that's the reality of life and that's why we have options as humans, it's your right to choose the option that best fits your ambition. |
Re: Help, My Husband Is Causing Me Pain by midnighter(f): 12:28am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Hizzy: Im sorry to insult you like this but you must be crazy. So her husband has the right to age her like wine? He wants to waste her and mess her up in the house until he thinks nobody will come near her before he allows her to get a life or what? 5 Likes |
Re: Help, My Husband Is Causing Me Pain by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 12:29am On Dec 18, 2019 |
TonyeBarcanista: 2 Likes |
Re: Help, My Husband Is Causing Me Pain by Lexusgs430: 12:30am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Damilolacoker: Why would a man in 2019, not want to allow his wife take up paid employment? Answer = He is a bully and a control freak. He thinks he owns you, and can control you..... The battle is yours to fight............ 10 Likes |
Re: Help, My Husband Is Causing Me Pain by TonyeBarcanista(m): 12:31am On Dec 18, 2019 |
midnighter:You sound funny Honestly! World over, INCLUDING developed countries, 18-21 year olds do get married. Nigeria of course is no different. I don't even know the generation crap you are saying but it doesn't make sense honestly. Anyway, my point is, 22 year old is not too young for marriage. 1 Like |
Re: Help, My Husband Is Causing Me Pain by Forward77(m): 12:31am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Chi59: Yet you have no solution to her problem. Smart people make contributions, while empty brained dumbos seek unnecessary attention and make loud noise. Look closely and you’ll find yourself in either of those categories. Have a great life. |
Re: Help, My Husband Is Causing Me Pain by Nobody: 12:31am On Dec 18, 2019 |
healthserve:Read I'm reading every minute but Those that said that they are educated are the problems we have in this world especially Nigeria Too much book de confuse brain Now look at where the educated one kept Nigeria Who and who is handling our Economy a professor in actually sense he suppose show us his educational quality through his policies but things are hard Look most of this Agbero boys will do better than PHD holders. Dem no de study wisdom for school |
Re: Help, My Husband Is Causing Me Pain by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 12:34am On Dec 18, 2019 |
BravoDe: What do you mean she married too early? Is there a particular age for getting married? |
Re: Help, My Husband Is Causing Me Pain by healthserve(m): 12:34am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Hizzy: Educated. Embarked on over 300 person Al projects. At the moment working on my startup. Company 20 workers. Commander in chief of an entire clan where even married men take notes when I talk. Education isn't attending a school but of the development of the mind, soul, character by values and experiences learnt through the process. Education without refinement amounts to waste of opportunity. Education isn't schooling. Many go to school, few come out educated. Top 2.5% my entire educational career. Worked across 23 fields of life. Education has done me good. Even my peers see me, come down from their cars and take a bow 1 Like |
Re: Help, My Husband Is Causing Me Pain by TonyeBarcanista(m): 12:34am On Dec 18, 2019 |
UyaiIncomparabl:When you get married we can discuss further 1 Like |
Re: Help, My Husband Is Causing Me Pain by demarc001: 12:35am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Forward77: God bless you, you practically pointed out the causes of problems in marriages today. When most women gets settled in relationships they become to self centered and loose submisiveness. What they won't argue with their child or outsiders they start arguing with the husband Respect they give outsiders they won't give their man yet they want to be treated like queens. How is that attainable Rule of marriage: Man love your wife, woman submit to your husband If any party is not accepting this then he/she is destroying the union Love births submission and submission fuels the love a man has for the wife. A man approaching a lady must show love for her to accept him, she submits to him that is why he could take his money to go *pay* her bride price (who pays to get trouble if she didn't show submissiveness) Now the problem starts when after marriage one of them ignores his/her function in the rule 1 Like |
Re: Help, My Husband Is Causing Me Pain by Nobody: 12:35am On Dec 18, 2019 |
midnighter:Thanks but according to you he wants to mess her before allowing her to go get life Chai She should choose between getting life or having peaceful home Chikina If na now wah shen marry wah she wan enjoy she should do as it pleases her |
Re: Help, My Husband Is Causing Me Pain by djon78(m): 12:35am On Dec 18, 2019 |
healthserve: Like I said its barbaric men that behave like that. Work makes a woman into a better person. My mum retired as a top director in her profession. But we were raised up excellently. See women not married should shine there eyes when dating. Find out the kind of man you are tying yourself to. A lot are dream killers. Every human being created by God comes to this world with a dream. If you are a man, ensure your wife pursues her dream, support her, don't let it affect the home stead, learn how to balance it. And you will have a happy, fulfilled woman in your home Most men only think because they are young now, you will get old. And when you do, then you will know that your children will be more inclined to there mothers, and if you made her life miserable, pay back time is coming. Love your wife Make her happy and fulfilled And you will know that you are laying a good seed you will reap in the future. But most times we are now raising very wicked, mean and callous men, who think its only now forgetting the future. Look at one very powerful rich senator them from oguta in IMO state. I won't call his name. He never valued women. Today he is sick, a vegetable, can't move again. With all his money, no woman is with him, wife's, children all abandoned him. There is payback tomorrow, as long as there is God in heaven 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help, My Husband Is Causing Me Pain by CaptainMitch: 12:36am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Yes 13 years UyaiIncomparabl: |
Re: Help, My Husband Is Causing Me Pain by midnighter(f): 12:36am On Dec 18, 2019 |
TonyeBarcanista: Hahaha the generation crap I am saying ? You are the one who started that crap by mentioning our mothers so you must be confused I didnt say 18 year olds dont get married, cant you read? I said that an 18 year old getting married is a stupid idea when the expectations of and for an adult in todays society are totally different to those of previous generations. A 22 year old is probably too young for marriage, all things considered. That was my own point, before you start making things up again. 3 Likes |
Re: Help, My Husband Is Causing Me Pain by Nobody: 12:37am On Dec 18, 2019 |
healthserve:But you said I should go and read |
Re: Help, My Husband Is Causing Me Pain by healthserve(m): 12:37am On Dec 18, 2019 |
djon78: Marriage should Improve a woman not destroy her. The amount of dysfunctional males we have in the society is sickening. In a military era, I could have all these guys cuffed up and kept in a psyche ward for total mental overhaul. Damn it. No wonder the nation is stuck in average. The mere assumption that an educated woman is a slut or won't be submissive is sickening. The competition is against mediocrity and not women, their supporters and cheerleaders.ittle wonder one can hardly see a married woman wearing a happy face outside of church attendance and societal events attendance. Chai How I wish single ladies will read your comment a thousand times and more. These guys are serious destiny killers 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help, My Husband Is Causing Me Pain by Desric(m): 12:38am On Dec 18, 2019 |
healthserve:If you are all these, you won't be too quick dispel the man for not allowing his wife to work just yet, instead you'd have advised the wife to find out what the man's reasons are for not wanting her to work before you can give a sound advice on a way forward. 1 Like |
Re: Help, My Husband Is Causing Me Pain by midnighter(f): 12:39am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Hizzy: She shouldnt have to choose between those two. Your house shouldnt be a prison 1 Like |
Re: Help, My Husband Is Causing Me Pain by jimmyLd101: 12:39am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Damilolacoker:Whatever your case may be cost men drama. Nothing capture human interest like human tragedy |
Re: Help, My Husband Is Causing Me Pain by healthserve(m): 12:40am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Desric: I didn't dispel. I'm not the only one speaking. Weare speaking cause we have see. His kinds million times before now. A lot. I mean alot. I've had women close to me who died in their marriages sef. So I'm experienced a enough to all a bluff a bluff when I see it. It's his head and ego that needs the fixing not the woman. 2 Likes |
Re: Help, My Husband Is Causing Me Pain by Nobody: 12:43am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Nigerian men are so evil 3 Likes |
Re: Help, My Husband Is Causing Me Pain by Nobody: 12:43am On Dec 18, 2019 |
midnighter:Nagging is not good it destroys homes She's nagging And that's the problem |
Re: Help, My Husband Is Causing Me Pain by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 12:44am On Dec 18, 2019 |
I swear, I'm tired of this marriage bullocks! I fear for this thing called marriage seriously. Everywhere, rules and regulations just to keep these sets of overgrown urchins called 'men'. In the end, we're not favored. Ehn, be submissive, watch war room, don't let his food go stale, always be punctual to make a hot bath for him, I've been in marriage for 47 years and I served my husband all through. Wo! I don't like what I hate o! This attitude of insecurity, immaturity, insensitivity and a seeming need to be controlling from the male folks is seriously nauseating. Imagine that one who said men are big babies, and should be pampered. Chai, I no fit laugh. Thunder from above! 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help, My Husband Is Causing Me Pain by Josade4(m): 12:45am On Dec 18, 2019 |
You're a wise woman. I love u. SBL28: 2 Likes |
Re: Help, My Husband Is Causing Me Pain by Dannonye(f): 12:46am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Contact a marriage counsellor there may be more to this
Try not to ask total strangers abt personal issues oo |
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