do you even realised you are a nigerian in Nigeria where everything work against you? dont do illegal oo , cos some corrupt fellow will take you shine even jail you after collecting riba from you may God help us in this nigeria.

Williamsesco:
My brother life is a chance. Am 35years compl to ur age 29years.. No girlfriend no baby but i feel free in everything i do

Go and marry sir

TonyeBarcanista:
What you need is a job or a trade not a girlfriend.

Having a girlfriend comes with its own financial burden, and should you not be able to meet due to financial state, you will be disrespected and treated like thrash by the said GF. It is not worth your worry!

Hustle, get on your feet! Get something to give you regular income, plan your future and then you can start thinking of GF.

truth is bitter but you nailed it

SirLiquidGold:
I will go straight to the point. I'm 29years old and I have no girlfriend to call mine. Although when I was in school and during my NYSC some girls do give me attention but the moment we all did POP it was like the world changed for us all. I realized maybe I was too busy getting worried about the future than I should have had more time for women.

All along, my intention was to graduate, have a good job, then go into a serious relationship and get married but reality can be often disappointing.
It's rather unfortunate that no job is forthcoming since I finished service in December, 2017.

I'm very sure you would not believe it if tell you that I'm a virgin because I've never tasted sex all my live. Though i intend getting married at 30 and I've no job yet, I really feel like having a girl in my life now. I feel really lonely waking up alone everyday and hugging my pillow. It's as if nature is craving for what I ought to have had by now.

I need somebody that I can share my thought with, somebody I would be there for and also would be there for me. Guys I know you are wiser than I am, please advise me!!! Just yesterday night I came across a post on front page about "if money was delaying one from getting married and I am really worried

Bro let me tell you this... Pay attention very well. The best time to get a good woman is when you're broke. Because at this point she's going to be with you because she wants to build with you, support and love you genuinely. According to popular belief, it's money before love but that's not true. It is actually love before money. Men who wait all their lives to get money before looking for love have the mindset that it is money that attracts women. But guess what? It's not true. A woman whom you attract with money, will have to be maintained, preserved and sustained with money. But a woman whom you attract with your vision and plans will stay with you through thick and thin because she truly believes in you. Please keep looking for good means of income but make sure you go learn how to genuinely attract a woman. It will help you very much. All the best.

MrBrownJay1:


- how can you plan marriage soon when you have nobody in your life? are you gonna marry yourself or what?
- your desperation to settle down is unhealthy and will only lead to heartache
- your job/money problem has absolutely NOTHING to do with the fact that you have no woman in your life
- if you cant attract anyone in your present state then you will equally be unattractive to these same women when you make money...... they will just use your for your money while not giving a damn about you (as a person)
- there is nothing wrong with being a virgin at 29.... some lose it at 12 others later...stop comparing yourself with others. when the right time will come, then you will get jiggy
- if sex is such a big deal for you then go to some olosho joint and be done with it... these women wont be any different than the women you hope to attract in the future when you finally get a job/money.

Please and please, OP, this guy's post is just spot on.

Believe me, never make the mistake of thinking money would solve your love issues. It's a fat lie.

If, when you eventually get the money and it's time to settle down, you will be so confused because you would wonder why the ladies are now more submissive and responsive. You would think they are coming after your money, not you -- and in actual truth, many of them are!

Why do you think the likes of wizkid, timayah with all their money still have selection headaches when it comes to women? Their public undertones of emotions is borne out of complete distress which is why you recall wizkid calling his baby mamas 'money hungry hoes'. Do not in your mind even underestimate that problem because even when you get the money, you will feel you are not appreciated but your money instead, and for every girl you meet, your mind would keep asking 'what if I was never rich or had money? Will this girl still be with me?' The only part-solution to the quagmire is to marry someone richer.

So your condition is the perfect test for true love. Also be wary of women in their 30s (a.k.a newspapers according to nlers). These ones can do anything just to get married. You would soon meet one, believe me. And would you really call that love? Why didn't they meet you when they were in their 20's? When their options are running thin, all of a sudden, they meet you. Now is that fair? Especially considering the fact that any woman you likely meet would have had her vagina pummeled and pounded an unquantifiable number of times.

See bro, you should find a girl / woman and sleep with once in a while but focus more on money to win respect. Dont ever think love is real -- it's only a game of interests! Only very few people enjoy true love and marital bliss in this world. These ones are so lucky. Finances okay. Trust, sealed. Infidelity nonexistent. Cooperation , respect, they both share.

But you see others? Life just wears out the romance and dawn they initially once had. Its all bitterness and they just pretend and smile that all is fine. Abi you no dey see the number of marital / romance issues wey dey flood this place on a daily?

Just make money and downplay love. Have no high hopes. That's it.

Geminita1:
gbam

you wicked ehn

SirLiquidGold:
I will go straight to the point. I'm 29years old and I have no girlfriend to call mine. Although when I was in school and during my NYSC some girls do give me attention but the moment we all did POP it was like the world changed for us all. I realized maybe I was too busy getting worried about the future than I should have had more time for women.

All along, my intention was to graduate, have a good job, then go into a serious relationship and get married but reality can be often disappointing.
It's rather unfortunate that no job is forthcoming since I finished service in December, 2017.

I'm very sure you would not believe it if tell you that I'm a virgin because I've never tasted sex all my live. Though i intend getting married at 30 and I've no job yet, I really feel like having a girl in my life now. I feel really lonely waking up alone everyday and hugging my pillow. It's as if nature is craving for what I ought to have had by now.

I need somebody that I can share my thought with, somebody I would be there for and also would be there for me. Guys I know you are wiser than I am, please advise me!!! Just yesterday night I came across a post on front page about "if money was delaying one from getting married and I am really worried

Baba focus on Money leave girls...
If u need sex, u can pay for it...

Nairalander's are quick to respond to relationship matters, the thread becomes long till infinity. But when someone comes asking for opportunities, or to aid his/her creatives or ideas, everybody will be mute and reticent. Devils are dwelling in the hearts of Africans.

SirLiquidGold:
I will go straight to the point. I'm 29years old and I have no girlfriend to call mine. Although when I was in school and during my NYSC some girls do give me attention but the moment we all did POP it was like the world changed for us all. I realized maybe I was too busy getting worried about the future than I should have had more time for women.

All along, my intention was to graduate, have a good job, then go into a serious relationship and get married but reality can be often disappointing.
It's rather unfortunate that no job is forthcoming since I finished service in December, 2017.

I'm very sure you would not believe it if tell you that I'm a virgin because I've never tasted sex all my live. Though i intend getting married at 30 and I've no job yet, I really feel like having a girl in my life now. I feel really lonely waking up alone everyday and hugging my pillow. It's as if nature is craving for what I ought to have had by now.

I need somebody that I can share my thought with, somebody I would be there for and also would be there for me. Guys I know you are wiser than I am, please advise me!!! Just yesterday night I came across a post on front page about "if money was delaying one from getting married and I am really worried

Become a professional blogger now bro and earn 150k monthly, contact me On Whatsapp, let's change your life for good.

SirLiquidGold:
I will go straight to the point. I'm 29years old and I have no girlfriend to call mine. Although when I was in school and during my NYSC some girls do give me attention but the moment we all did POP it was like the world changed for us all. I realized maybe I was too busy getting worried about the future than I should have had more time for women.

All along, my intention was to graduate, have a good job, then go into a serious relationship and get married but reality can be often disappointing.
It's rather unfortunate that no job is forthcoming since I finished service in December, 2017.

I'm very sure you would not believe it if tell you that I'm a virgin because I've never tasted sex all my live. Though i intend getting married at 30 and I've no job yet, I really feel like having a girl in my life now. I feel really lonely waking up alone everyday and hugging my pillow. It's as if nature is craving for what I ought to have had by now.

I need somebody that I can share my thought with, somebody I would be there for and also would be there for me. Guys I know you are wiser than I am, please advise me!!! Just yesterday night I came across a post on front page about "if money was delaying one from getting married and I am really worried

Since you intend getting married at 30yrs,

Pls go into relationship and experience what it is especially as you said you are a virgin

You need to know the nitty gritty of a relationship before marriage

SirLiquidGold:
I will go straight to the point. I'm 29years old and I have no girlfriend to call mine. Although when I was in school and during my NYSC some girls do give me attention but the moment we all did POP it was like the world changed for us all. I realized maybe I was too busy getting worried about the future than I should have had more time for women.

All along, my intention was to graduate, have a good job, then go into a serious relationship and get married but reality can be often disappointing.
It's rather unfortunate that no job is forthcoming since I finished service in December, 2017.

I'm very sure you would not believe it if tell you that I'm a virgin because I've never tasted sex all my live. Though i intend getting married at 30 and I've no job yet, I really feel like having a girl in my life now. I feel really lonely waking up alone everyday and hugging my pillow. It's as if nature is craving for what I ought to have had by now.

I need somebody that I can share my thought with, somebody I would be there for and also would be there for me. Guys I know you are wiser than I am, please advise me!!! Just yesterday night I came across a post on front page about "if money was delaying one from getting married and I am really worried

you don't need one it will drain you more emotionally financially and physically

Misplaced priority.

Instead of thinking about how to sweat to make money, the old boy is focusing on how to sweat untop somebody's daughter. Smh

Blyzz:
Nairalander's are quick to respond to relationship matters, the thread becomes long till infinity. But when someone comes asking for opportunities, or to aid his/her creatives or ideas, everybody will be mute and reticent. Devils are dwelling in the hearts of Africans.

Abeg no kill person with laff here.

Op better soup na money kill am o

Gods got you. Hold on to Him and pray never to get posessed by the same demon that has possessed Ubunja.

SirLiquidGold:
I will go straight to the point. I'm 29years old and I have no girlfriend to call mine. Although when I was in school and during my NYSC some girls do give me attention but the moment we all did POP it was like the world changed for us all. I realized maybe I was too busy getting worried about the future than I should have had more time for women.

All along, my intention was to graduate, have a good job, then go into a serious relationship and get married but reality can be often disappointing.
It's rather unfortunate that no job is forthcoming since I finished service in December, 2017.

I'm very sure you would not believe it if tell you that I'm a virgin because I've never tasted sex all my live. Though i intend getting married at 30 and I've no job yet, I really feel like having a girl in my life now. I feel really lonely waking up alone everyday and hugging my pillow. It's as if nature is craving for what I ought to have had by now.

I need somebody that I can share my thought with, somebody I would be there for and also would be there for me. Guys I know you are wiser than I am, please advise me!!! Just yesterday night I came across a post on front page about "if money was delaying one from getting married and I am really worried

You're not alone brother.

BabaRamota1980:


Hey dude, at 35, a man should already have two wives and with kids if everything went well. I understand things are not well in this Nigeria now, in fact things have never been well in Nigeria. Never! A man is blessed with certain elemental energies that is lacking in women. One of those is labour productivity and skill proficiency.

Unlike women, money is always within reach of a man but he has to employ his skill so the door can unlock for that money to drop into his hand.

Our psyche about social progress and our awareness of self has been greatly damaged by a society which places academic excellence next to God and positions self below book knowledge. Man must stand next to God. No other way. A man that puts book knowledge between himself and God will end becoming a great and knowledgeable person in the book but his self-knowledge is adversely diminished and utterly destroyed.

I will give you example. In USA, more than 80% of university graduates also have a handjob or artisan skill on the side. A barber, a mechanic, an electrician, construction worker, plumber, machinist, mason, painter, roofer, cook, baker, event planner....name it, they have it! The self is not ignored while learning book.

In our society we ignore everything and hug book. At the end of the day we forget to live. This is your case. While in camp girls were coming to you and showing interest, yet you remained a virgin. You neglected self.

When i did my NYSC girls ran away from me and the few ones I managed to bed came with great effort and convincing....but I left my mark!

My advice to you is rebirth yourself. Get a camera, learn photography and find a studio. Learn painting, plumbing, whatever you love to do...beside books. Leave books alone. Move yourself next to God immediately and books come after you. By this im not talking about prayer devotional worship or sleeping in Church, far from it. I meant be selfish with everything and everyone except God and yourself.

Get pussy. Good pussy! You are not too old for an 18yr old. Get good sweet pussy from an 18yr old. It will help reinvent your inner fire and pump up your manliness for self rediscovery. Dont get her pregnant, you dont need drama at moment.

Marriage will come later after your trade is well grounded and income is regular and steady.

When i was your age i was already 3yrs married and first baby on the way. I have added a second wife, and im not too far ahead from you in age. Matrimony is a school on its own, and women are the teachers. Any man that marries and hopes to teach his woman a lesson is kidding himself, after much confrontation he will end up dead or surrenders and become her student. God gave them that secret power, no man can take it from them.

I wish you luck bro....but please, break that virginity and start your journey to discovery. Live life, dont allow books to dim your divine power.

the best post I read here learn new things... photography I wan learn only say e expensive I ll like to delve into travel or sports journalism... but mehn e no easy... ur post is apt we need a productive populace a functional one not a bookish one... infact a well grounded secondary education is ok for a successful living without university education... secondary education should be free with govt equipping it well private schools should follow standards or close down... university can be high with those interested going thru

Go to a brothel, pay and have sex first, that’s a start as virgins are known to have an irrational way of thinking.

[color=#990000][/color] you should be grateful you have never tasted any women and their craze. No woman can make you happy, go and make money oda wise if you go and marry they will collect your wife if you no get money. It's Konji that doing hold) pillow but find someone to be rolling with but don't take things too personal with her. You sounded like they planted a lot of this in mind since u were little, marriage doesn't mean u happy. My bro has three wife and still not happy. Took him marrying to know that women equals to trouble with no meaning

I don't think joblessness can stop one from having a girlfriend, there are so many girls out there who still believe in your hustle and future, don't let joblessness blindfold u to move on to another stage in life, who told u that u cannot be jobless during marriage, you can even be in marriage for years with no job as fate could have it, so don't limit your self bro

Ok

My 50 cent I preceived you only have desire to have s*x not desire to have woman friend and also desire to have job not to make money .

Nothing bad being single at 29 just search around and make a friend a woman friends and chose someone who is not materialistic just someone you can pour out your mind with and she will respond with good and positive advice not a s*x partner who eventually be a burden and still walk away because you have nothing to give financially ..be focus and think what you can do to give you cash in return before you get a kinda job you desire ..Don't be idle Bro, as you are searching in both way apply your wisdom and have a vision ,work toward it and see to it that you get it done ..moreso be prayerful so that you will be able to recognise opportunity when present itself to you...good luck
God will turn your situation around

Then get a good job nah. Shebi u already know the problem.

U r 29 n so? My dear forget urself and forget about a girl for now...once ur made dey will rush u and even give u free tutorials till u accidentally meet the one u love ok?

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ikechukwu21:

Abeg no kill person with laff here.

but na the truth na. Everybody get their own story, na because person they hide he own. Make I con tell Nairalander's say my exhibition was accepted in somewhere in this world make them con dey sympathize u or kill ones moral. Abeg jor, this life wathing one be go be. One has to pray and keep doing the best he or she can do