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Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by TheGoodJoe(m): 6:18pm On Dec 24, 2019
Viking007:
Your post really got me I had to quote it twice.

90% of Nigerians just want a simple life. A life they can provide for their average family - food, shelter, good health, very average education, that's all. Nothing extravagant. They don't need 30 million naira.

A good percentage of Nigerians won't see 5 million naira before they die. According to a recent CBN statistics, only about 10-20% of Nigerians have above N100,000 in their bank accounts.

Yet the 10% own it all and are starving the rest. The other starving ones need to wake up and fight. If not, they will get sucked up waiting for Karma to strike. While Karma is lounging off the proceeds of evil.

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Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by millionboi2: 6:19pm On Dec 24, 2019
robertmugabe:


Lol...they will rather tell you to go and hustle than giving you their illegally hard earned cash....
Hahahaha


Thy will say tinzs like "Guy wake up"
Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by AfroKnight: 6:22pm On Dec 24, 2019
EFCC looking at the OP like

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Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by Martinez39(m): 6:28pm On Dec 24, 2019
My mum's house was recently completed, though it was supposed to be a family house but it's structured to be four apartments so that she could rent it out to tenants. One of the apartment has about four to six boys (three stay there regularly, while the rest come from time to time). These boys just graduated last year and since their undergraduate days till now, they have been earning cool cash, leaving fly, and paying their rent. They also keep changing girls anyhow. grin

My mum and I reasoned their case and pondered if they were yahoo boys or not. These guys just recently bought a new car. It seems being righteous in this country and making it is like using a canoe to go from Nigeria to America while being rugged and willing to take the illegal path if need be is like using an airplane instead. This life, this country.

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Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by millionboi2: 6:42pm On Dec 24, 2019
AfroKnight:
EFCC looking at the OP like
Hahahah

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Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by Martinez39(m): 6:50pm On Dec 24, 2019
Daviddson:
I hope you're also aware that EFCC has arrested thousands of them this year alone? And have been convicted and are currently serving jail terms? And some have died in the fraud and are in hell? Etc etc.
There is nothing like hell fire. Once you die, you cease existing.

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Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by Nobody: 6:58pm On Dec 24, 2019
So your friends are into Business Email Compromise...... Well unfortunately yahoo boys have a very big network in Nigeria once you are in you are marked as one of them for life,even when you repent has start going legit,someone might still snitch on you. Just learn some skill from your friends, especially there resilience and marketing skills. I would advice you stay out of the network.

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Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by Martinez39(m): 7:03pm On Dec 24, 2019
iLegendd:
Sorry.
grin No time to even console the brother.

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Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by CosmicJames(m): 7:12pm On Dec 24, 2019
robertmugabe:


I only disagree with u where u said all sins are equal bf d maker. Equating all sins to the same severity, in your own little human wisdom how fair do you think this is ?
It is very simple to understand the concept of crime.
Look at it this way.
Someone who steals a 1 million Naira and someone who steals 10 Naira have committed the same offence of stealing.
Both of them are thief! And are both condemn before the maker.

The one who can't steal 10 Naira cannot steal 1 million Naira even if he has the opportunity to do so.

Putting other crimes in the light of this simple explanation, you will understand how nature judges us and the principle of Karma

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Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by Designerdollars: 7:43pm On Dec 24, 2019
don't mind that fool. Hell fire kor,hell fire ni undecided
Martinez39:
There is nothing like hell fire. Once you die, you cease existing.

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Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by Ihategirls(m): 7:44pm On Dec 24, 2019
Bro, don't do it. I repeat, do not do it.
Believe that your time will come. Every man's timing is not the same and can never be.

For a minute, put yourself in Invictus Obi's shoe. Guy made money, appeared on Forbes list....Where is he today?

I know a bro who was broke at 35. He was deported penniless. Mom sent this guy 10K from time to time just to survive. Three years later, guy is earning a 6 digit salary and is balling.

I think you should figure a way to improve yourself and make yourself marketable. You should also consider skills as nothing beats skills. Do not just live hoping for something good to come your way, improve and arm yourself to attract what you truly deserve!


A wise man said, "the best time to have planted a tree was 10 years ago, another time to plant one is now."

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Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by iLegendd(m): 7:59pm On Dec 24, 2019
Martinez39:
grin No time to even console the brother.

2020 is a year of less talk, mind your business, and more focus, so I'm getting ready for it.

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Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by yemifez: 8:19pm On Dec 24, 2019
MZrapper:


Whatever makes you sleep at night is welcomed.
I think you should be more concerned with what takes you away from Jannat. Such statement should not come out of a MUSLIMA's mouth

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Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by MZrapper(f): 8:23pm On Dec 24, 2019
yemifez:

I think you should be more concerned with what takes you away from Jannat. Such statement should not come out of a MUSLIMA's mouth

Since you are Allah's mouth piece, keep judging.
Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by yemifez: 8:28pm On Dec 24, 2019
MZrapper:


Since you are Allah's mouth piece, keep judging.
Alright, sorry ehn
Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by Martinez39(m): 8:34pm On Dec 24, 2019
iLegendd:


2020 is a year of less talk, mind your business, and more focus, so I'm getting ready for it.
GBAM. For wise ones like us, self-improvement and better decisions are not options.

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Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by natsuDragneel: 8:43pm On Dec 24, 2019
Lol
Niggas don't believe in hell but believe there's one baba somewhere that can give them something or do something for them to step up their online frauding

Whether hell exists or not is not the problem, but you can't sell your soul to the devil or collect something from him and think He won't collect

You think you'll just chill all your life and then merely cease existing when you die??
Oh you dunno what's coming

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Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by natsuDragneel: 8:52pm On Dec 24, 2019
Clothes, Shelter and Food are the most important things in life
A wife or even children are not a must
Work hard enough to be able to easily get these 3 basic things for yourself and you will be okay
God will bless the work of your hands

If however you decide to take shortcuts to get more, it's only fair you might as well be prepared for the consequences

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Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by geletor: 9:10pm On Dec 24, 2019
MZrapper:

Whatever makes you sleep at night is welcomed.
Thriving Muslimah indeed!... I wonder the kinda thriving you are into!
Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by austino677(m): 9:10pm On Dec 24, 2019
Viking007:
Your post really got me I had to quote it twice.

90% of Nigerians just want a simple life. A life they can provide for their average family - food, shelter, good health, very average education, that's all. Nothing extravagant. They don't need 30 million naira.

A good percentage of Nigerians won't see 5 million naira before they die. According to a recent CBN statistics, only about 10-20% of Nigerians have above N100,000 in their bank accounts.
shocked... I don't think so ooo grin

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Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by Nobody: 9:12pm On Dec 24, 2019
MZrapper:
PLEASE make money regardless of how it comes.
No one cares how you make money, just be rich.


FULL STOP

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Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by Came4amod: 10:26pm On Dec 24, 2019
robertmugabe:
Pls permit me to post this piece here as it seems not to be compatible with all the sessions available...

I will be brief as much as possible...

I am typing in disdain and gross depression. I am 32 years old. I finished from a university in the year 2012. As it is always of any person living in the glory and self-simulated value of finishing with good grade and from one of the leading universities in Nigeria, one would, of course, erroneously expected to retire from the academic environment, to a cushy labour market environment. Far from what I confidently pictured while in school, it is 6 years now and still counting, of active service in the labor market in search of deserving job. From the beginning of post-university time, many of my friends picked up YAHOO instead of wasting their time in d tensed labor market while some newly opted for it along the line of their hopelessness in the labor market. I was invited but I took my uncompromising stance. So far, I have tried to upgrade my self sha with professional exams but yet not materialising.

Behold, my friends are now juicily successful in their fraudline path. Even if I get good work today, it may take me 15 years of conservative savings before matching their lofty height of success. Almost all of them are now married, have an obviously paying businesses and of course, possess what it takes to earn Daddy status in their respective environment. While me no even get an apartment of my own... Ah still they live with my brother who is already married.

I am aware of how they make their money through compromising gmail, but I was hellbent even though the cross breeds of alerts on their respective phones is always intimidating. Even, sometimes, they did engage my service of writing an official and professionally worded statements meant to be furnished to their clients.

Funniest thing and not unexpected anyway, some of them are now stylishly cutting me off. Because I am presently far below their current social status and probably because I seems to them not to be a serious type or seems to them to be a coward.

For days now, I have been contemplating compromise and it's appearing to me that it is getting too late to be an upright man.

Dear Nairalanders, pls have you ever been in this situation and how did you overcome the thought of such compromise ?


You have missed It even thinking like this ... even yahoo need years of practice .. And you have despised your friends and thinking book will bring money instead of working hard you were busy judging your fraudster friend .. Who are putting work even tho In the wrong line .. Work is work .. Laws of physics energy can neither be created or destroyed .. But converted from one form to another .. While they were gaining experience in fraud u folded your hands .. U can't never be on the same level because they put work in. .. This Is why its very good to mind ones business ..Thanks .. I am not glorifying fraud in this post .. Just telling u where u got it wrong thanks

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Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by Bobbyfreshh(m): 10:32pm On Dec 24, 2019
Paige001:
Pls don't join them oh, crime never pays, they might be successful now but would surely be caught someday

Not all criminals are caught
#say no to crime
Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by Depressed101: 11:07pm On Dec 24, 2019
robertmugabe:


Well, you may call them low life in your own narrow way of reasoning but in far broad societal expectations, they are far from what you call them until the time of consequences of their actions, if at all there will be. Baba it is not in my nature to compare my self but at some point of protracted hopelessness, you spontaneously find your self in d habit of putting your life in retrospective assessment and measure against the societal expectations and those things you see all arround...
you ooze of intelligence , may God see you through sir ,your situation is the result of my moniker. the way the society is now eh, it's very hard to make it legit, there's no single role model to look up to in Nigeria, naira Marley?.

I don't even know wether to advise you to join them or not, me i am at that crosd road too, if the devil picks me up before God does, then why not, afterall nobody is chasing danjuma/abacha family.

It is well
Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by MrStan11(m): 11:12pm On Dec 24, 2019
robertmugabe:
Pls permit me to post this piece here as it seems not to be compatible with all the sessions available...

I will be brief as much as possible...

I am typing in disdain and gross depression. I am 32 years old. I finished from a university in the year 2012. As it is always of any person living in the glory and self-simulated value of finishing with good grade and from one of the leading universities in Nigeria, one would, of course, erroneously expected to retire from the academic environment, to a cushy labour market environment. Far from what I confidently pictured while in school, it is 6 years now and still counting, of active service in the labor market in search of deserving job. From the beginning of post-university time, many of my friends picked up YAHOO instead of wasting their time in d tensed labor market while some newly opted for it along the line of their hopelessness in the labor market. I was invited but I took my uncompromising stance. So far, I have tried to upgrade my self sha with professional exams but yet not materialising.

Behold, my friends are now juicily successful in their fraudline path. Even if I get good work today, it may take me 15 years of conservative savings before matching their lofty height of success. Almost all of them are now married, have an obviously paying businesses and of course, possess what it takes to earn Daddy status in their respective environment. While me no even get an apartment of my own... Ah still they live with my brother who is already married.

I am aware of how they make their money through compromising gmail, but I was hellbent even though the cross breeds of alerts on their respective phones is always intimidating. Even, sometimes, they did engage my service of writing an official and professionally worded statements meant to be furnished to their clients.

Funniest thing and not unexpected anyway, some of them are now stylishly cutting me off. Because I am presently far below their current social status and probably because I seems to them not to be a serious type or seems to them to be a coward.

For days now, I have been contemplating compromise and it's appearing to me that it is getting too late to be an upright man.

Dear Nairalanders, pls have you ever been in this situation and how did you overcome the thought of such compromise ?

Bro
Don't listen to people who would invite you for work or ask you to send CV.
They are EFCC agents.
Once you do, you ll be arrested and asked to show them those your friends.




Out of Experience, the mouth speaketh.
Genuine help is rare in naija.

My advice to you is, Allow your CONSCIENCE to guide you. Some of us are at the pity of our conscience.

Secondly, be HAPPY, if se x hungry you, nack.
If beer hungry you, go club dance away your sorrow.

Learn a skill.


Don't allow REligion hold you hostage.
Don't listen to motivational speakers, they give pseudo hope.




I may add more..

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Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by Depressed101: 11:15pm On Dec 24, 2019
frugal:
Nonsense. So you can write and can't join fiverr?
hmm, and who will his first job?
Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by Depressed101: 11:16pm On Dec 24, 2019
Bogieman:
You need to change your friends. (B4 they change u)
exactly what I did..
Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by Depressed101: 11:25pm On Dec 24, 2019
NUJABEZ:

I have fourteen guys whom I regard as friends. Not only are we friends, but we were also born in the same street, we grew up in the same compound, we came of age together. Collectively, I’d say we have known each other since birth.


Out of these fourteen people, thirteen are into Yahoo. They’re quite successful too. I am, I think, the most academically gifted amongst them all, but I am also the least successful in monetary terms. Abdul has built a 12-room mansion in Abeokuta, Kareem runs a thriving car-wash and lounge business; Dike currently lives in Cyprus where he married to a Cypriot, have 3 kids, and living large; Chisom is now a car dealer -- his dealership in Oregun contains more than 40 assorted and exotic cars; Dare runs a printing press that is contracted to the Lagos State Government till 2023; Jabba owns a wholesale liquor business that, according to him, moves 5000 crates of beer per week; Me, Nujabes, what do I own? Nothing much I should say.

Are my happy that I do not have as much money as they do? No, I am not. Am I envious of their success at the moment? God Forbid!

I have one thing that they could never have: I have a clean heart. My conscience does not prick me. I can boldly tell anyone what my line of work entails.

Two weeks ago, I was invited by Ikeja Local Government to coach in workers Digital Innovation and management. In the first week of February, I am going all the way to Calabar to coach another group on Digital Innovation. I love what I do even though it is not generating much money, but I know that with time, my efforts will accumulate. I am using my mind and creating value, growing mentally and spiritually.

You said it will take 15 years to accumulate the money they have, well, why not start now? In 15yrs you will be 47 if you ask me that's a great age to retire.


Some facts that you should consider:

1. I can boldly tell people what my work entails
2. I create value in society; I do not take value
3. My mind is very sharp because I have taken pain to develop myself.
4. Hard work will grow you mentally and spiritually.


It is par for the course to experience feelings of envy or regret when we see our peers doing well in comparison to us. However, an ethical and morally sound person, which you seem to be will not dwell on it, because the satisfaction that comes from doing the right thing should out-weigh whatever monetary gains that could have come from compromising your moral stand.



Bottle up these feelings of disgust and regret; seek ways to develop your self. Do you know where the cushy jobs you speak of are? Reach out to those companies unrelentingly. If you want to do business, develop your business plan, pour all your energies into it.


The heart of what I am trying to say is this: this bad energy that has gotten you down has no place in your life if you want to beat your unethical friends -- you need to up your hustle as well.

NAMES WERE CHANGED.
if i had a mentor like you in real life i will never contemplate fraud... The truth is there are hardly any good role models worthy of emulation.... Just imagine someone who takes invictus obi so much at heart, or is it our politicians you want to look up to... Sir you are a rare gem in the multitude.. I will like to have you on my side even though we will never get to meet.. I have sent you a pm pls reply
Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by samtol4(m): 11:26pm On Dec 24, 2019
MZrapper:
PLEASE make money regardless of how it comes.
No one cares how you make money, just be rich.
is your conscience alive or dead ?
Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by joinnow: 11:27pm On Dec 24, 2019
Even, sometimes, they did engage my service of writing an official and professionally worded statements meant to be furnished to their clients.


already u have compromise by writing for them.

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Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by samtol4(m): 11:29pm On Dec 24, 2019
Comparison the thief of joy
Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by samtol4(m): 11:31pm On Dec 24, 2019
You measure your success with others?! You need to change your mindset ! The past is gone ,the future will be determined by what you do now

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