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Lekside442:
but I’m saying the truth..she gets angry on unnecessary stuffs...I don’t just understand....just wondering if it’s not ordinary...she sees a picture of me and she was mad as hell...what for?just my pics...I don’t just understand anymore..

that just her personality..either you stay patient with her or leave her..choice is yours

emeijeh:
Aha!
Guys, should we tell him?

she is at her hoeing stage, that unnecessary anger is common among girls but this your girl mumu join her own, just do your own puff and pass no hard feeling cos whether you like it or not nothing productive comes out of such that is if you want something productive from her

Lekside442:
Thanks alot bro..you really talk alot of sense...but I really love her soo much..but this only sickness she got about getting angry on unnecessary issue..and she’d always act like she’s on the right...she’d be at fault and she’d want me to be the one plead...imagine that bro.

so far you love her..help her heal her sickness
you got yours too..
Either you help or leave her

Lekside442:
Good evening Nairalanders...I just need a little advice from you all. No insults please and don’t mind my English.

So we planned to meet today again. Though we’ve being meeting before. She came all the way from ondo to Akure. So when she got there, she called and I told her she just have to wait for me because it’s very hard to see motorcycle at this time of Christmas.

She was then patient, so when I finally got there, she said she has being waiting in the sun since. I then explained to her it’s very rare to get a bike this time, she then said okay.

Immediately we got there, I got Something for her, a cold stone, after sometimes, she was then going through my phone, she saw one of my pictures and she asked when I snapped it I showed her the info which was Thursday and her mood just changed and she asked me to get my phone away from her.

I asked her what’s wrong? She didn’t respond. She then said she’s going back to Ondo. I said I wanna give the bike man the TFare she said if I do she’s gonna tear it, saying all sort of things.
I then just have to leave her to go. She embarrassed me there and saying abusing words and that’s how I left her to go.

Pease Nairalanders, what do you think I can do about this shit? I’m fed up of her unnecessary angers all the time. We've being dating and it’s almost 4 months now.

Genuine advice please. I’d be very grateful...

Thanks.

she has mental illness. Her family already knew about it.



Free her

KevMitnick:
Oga, you have a very big work on your hands. If you are not going to be patiently patient, please let her go in order to preserve your self esteem. She needs to learn humility the hard way. You can't help her

U deserve a bottle of beer.. too much wisdom!

emeijeh:
Aha!
Guys, should we tell him?

dont let him suffer

Originalsly:
She is seeing somebody else in Akure. After enjoying herself... she calls you....most likely to see what you have to offer her....or she sees you first... then off to see the other guy. Do you expect her to tell you all this?... she must find an excuse to pretend to be angry and leave. But if you love her verrrrry much...... keep on inviting her and hope one day the leopard would change its spots

Spot on. Probably, she's seeing someone else in A kure like you said. Kai! Some girls and drama

Originalsly:
She is seeing somebody else in Akure. After enjoying herself... she calls you....most likely to see what you have to offer her....or she sees you first... then off to see the other guy. Do you expect her to tell you all this?... she must find an excuse to pretend to be angry and leave. But if you love her verrrrry much...... keep on inviting her and hope one day the leopard would change its spots

the last line of your comment vex me

Lekside442:
Good evening Nairalanders...I just need a little advice from you all. No insults please and don’t mind my English.

So we planned to meet today again. Though we’ve being meeting before. She came all the way from ondo to Akure. So when she got there, she called and I told her she just have to wait for me because it’s very hard to see motorcycle at this time of Christmas.

She was then patient, so when I finally got there, she said she has being waiting in the sun since. I then explained to her it’s very rare to get a bike this time, she then said okay.

Immediately we got there, I got Something for her, a cold stone, after sometimes, she was then going through my phone, she saw one of my pictures and she asked when I snapped it I showed her the info which was Thursday and her mood just changed and she asked me to get my phone away from her.

I asked her what’s wrong? She didn’t respond. She then said she’s going back to Ondo. I said I wanna give the bike man the TFare she said if I do she’s gonna tear it, saying all sort of things.
I then just have to leave her to go. She embarrassed me there and saying abusing words and that’s how I left her to go.

Pease Nairalanders, what do you think I can do about this shit? I’m fed up of her unnecessary angers all the time. We've being dating and it’s almost 4 months now.

Genuine advice please. I’d be very grateful...

Thanks.

Lol....Let me tell you the cause of her anger... When she asked you when the picture was snapped, she expected you to tell her verbally... But you showed her the info...

By that, she assumed you are saying she doesn't know how to check the date (info) from your phone .I think her problem is Ego.. Same reason she complained about waiting under the sun.

4thFreedom:
Compliment of the season.

Kindly check your mail, and do call me
Thank you.

Ok.
Compliment of the season.

stop online dating and thank me later

emeijeh:
Aha!
Guys, should we tell him?

Hold on , I think there is more to this , never judge incomplete info.
May God just forgive those rushing to judge the girl.


How can someone get angry because of your pics is what I don't get!

Originalsly:
She is seeing somebody else in Akure. After enjoying herself... she calls you....most likely to see what you have to offer her....or she sees you first... then off to see the other guy. Do you expect her to tell you all this?... she must find an excuse to pretend to be angry and leave. But if you love her verrrrry much...... keep on inviting her and hope one day the leopard would change its spots

lol,guy u funny, how do conclude stuff about d girl u don't know, of course some girls do this, but u can't be sure of this same situation

Lekside442:
but I’m saying the truth..she gets angry on unnecessary stuffs...I don’t just understand....just wondering if it’s not ordinary...she sees a picture of me and she was mad as hell...what for?just my pics...I don’t just understand anymore..

maybe she actually spot other things you don't know and she doesn't let you know.




Well, do what pleases you.

I don't give audio suggestions: Post the picture let's see if we can get angry with her.

Bola146:
Then go on your knees for prayers... Maybe her village people do not want her to get married

Please don't involve us, we have no hand in this

Girls of nowadays wants to be in control and most likely she's dating another guy or she wants to be milking your money. Shecw Guy you need to be in control. Pretend to call it quit, that is when you will know whether she really loves you or not.

aminusodiq:
Leave her... Dont call or text... Her brain needs restructuring

hahahaha,na ur comment make me laugh pass

Irascible ladies are killjoy. Sometimes, I wonder how the unlucky guys that are unfortunate enough to get married to theses horrible species have fun with them.

Ur babe na small pikin.. and besides carry her sitdown talk to her well well, things like thisbi jst go straight to the point so she can decide weda to stay or go cos i nor sabi shout......u nor need advice

one thing missing here, op u didnt giv us ur age range. it will help to give a broader perspective on this. However a lot of responses here are good to act upon. just sift thru and adopt the ones that applies reasonably to ur situation. I assume your around 25 urself, this shit happens for people around that dating bracket and as a responder rightly said, dating 20 yr olds can be a real pain in the butt. Either shut this down or prep urself for a lot of hassles till shes matures...

Biko pack and go...my candid advice, will you still be enduring or enjoying her after marriage? This one na sign...

Lekside442:
Good evening Nairalanders...I just need a little advice from you all. No insults please and don’t mind my English.

So we planned to meet today again. Though we’ve being meeting before. She came all the way from ondo to Akure. So when she got there, she called and I told her she just have to wait for me because it’s very hard to see motorcycle at this time of Christmas.

She was then patient, so when I finally got there, she said she has being waiting in the sun since. I then explained to her it’s very rare to get a bike this time, she then said okay.

Immediately we got there, I got Something for her, a cold stone, after sometimes, she was then going through my phone, she saw one of my pictures and she asked when I snapped it I showed her the info which was Thursday and her mood just changed and she asked me to get my phone away from her.

I asked her what’s wrong? She didn’t respond. She then said she’s going back to Ondo. I said I wanna give the bike man the TFare she said if I do she’s gonna tear it, saying all sort of things.
I then just have to leave her to go. She embarrassed me there and saying abusing words and that’s how I left her to go.

Pease Nairalanders, what do you think I can do about this shit? I’m fed up of her unnecessary angers all the time. We've being dating and it’s almost 4 months now.

Genuine advice please. I’d be very grateful...

Thanks.

Lekside442:
shes just 20

No wonder...

Better look for someone who is more mature.

By the way why would you allow a lady to order you around like she's doing you a favour by dating you?

Martinez39:
Hehe. You need to love her more and accept her sh!t. Worship her and apologise even when you are wrong. If she gets angry, insults you, and freaks out on you in public, don't set her straight or break the relationship, don't set standards in your relationship instead, you endure and apologise. Isn't that the price to pay for love? You still don't know what to do? Well, apologise even when you are wrong and accept her unnecessary anger and insults after all, you love her. Don't you? Endure, tolerate, and always be at her beck and call and always have the mindset that no matter what, her nastiness is your fault and there is something fundamentally wrong with you that you must change and be the man she wants. Oshisco.

You're correct

Martinez39:
Hehe. You need to love her more and accept her sh!t. Worship her and apologise even when you are wrong. If she gets angry, insults you, and freaks out on you in public, don't set her straight or break the relationship, don't set standards in your relationship instead, you endure and apologise. Isn't that the price to pay for love? You still don't know what to do? Well, apologise even when you are wrong and accept her unnecessary anger and insults after all, you love her. Don't you? Endure, tolerate, and always be at her beck and call and always have the mindset that no matter what, her nastiness is your fault and there is something fundamentally wrong with you that you must change and be the man she wants. Oshisco.

... Sad things is, that's exactly what some guys would do

Lekside442:
Good evening Nairalanders...I just need a little advice from you all. No insults please and don’t mind my English.

So we planned to meet today again. Though we’ve being meeting before. She came all the way from ondo to Akure. So when she got there, she called and I told her she just have to wait for me because it’s very hard to see motorcycle at this time of Christmas.

She was then patient, so when I finally got there, she said she has being waiting in the sun since. I then explained to her it’s very rare to get a bike this time, she then said okay.

Immediately we got there, I got Something for her, a cold stone, after sometimes, she was then going through my phone, she saw one of my pictures and she asked when I snapped it I showed her the info which was Thursday and her mood just changed and she asked me to get my phone away from her.

I asked her what’s wrong? She didn’t respond. She then said she’s going back to Ondo. I said I wanna give the bike man the TFare she said if I do she’s gonna tear it, saying all sort of things.
I then just have to leave her to go. She embarrassed me there and saying abusing words and that’s how I left her to go.

Pease Nairalanders, what do you think I can do about this shit? I’m fed up of her unnecessary angers all the time. We've being dating and it’s almost 4 months now.

Genuine advice please. I’d be very grateful...

Thanks.

If I were you n I'm truly convinced that I did nothing wrong,I will let her go for good,if she ever get to her senses and try contacting me then I will finally place her in her rightful place,in dealing with girls you need to be good but very firm when the need arises else ladies will make a fool of you.

Your previous pictures made her believe you were rich and posh. When she saw a first real picture of your true real condition she was upset and disappointed. Her dream of rich boyfriend was dashed.
Both of you were living in scam. Lol. Cunny man meet cunny man..

You are dating a 20year old that gets angry over anything and nothing, embarrassed you in public and you are still asking what to do.....how old are you?

Originalsly:
She is seeing somebody else in Akure. After enjoying herself... she calls you....most likely to see what you have to offer her....or she sees you first... then off to see the other guy. Do you expect her to tell you all this?... she must find an excuse to pretend to be angry and leave. But if you love her verrrrry much...... keep on inviting her and hope one day the leopard would change its spots

Don't be cynical, she isn't seeing anybody in Akure.
From his narration he hasn't been offering her anything so by
your logic she has no reason to be seeing him for 4 months.

Lekside442:
shes just 20

a 20yrs Old girl...... my brother you have a long way to go

GogobiriLalas:
Take her somewhere where no one can hear her scream and beat the sh!t out of her warning her that the next time she makes any outburst, she won't make it out alive. I'm speaking from experience and the girl in question is currently cooking me dinner in the kitchen as I write. She's happy and so am I; thank me later.

Bro. u dey mad gan o

Lekside442:
Good evening Nairalanders...I just need a little advice from you all. No insults please and don’t mind my English.

So we planned to meet today again. Though we’ve being meeting before. She came all the way from ondo to Akure. So when she got there, she called and I told her she just have to wait for me because it’s very hard to see motorcycle at this time of Christmas.

She was then patient, so when I finally got there, she said she has being waiting in the sun since. I then explained to her it’s very rare to get a bike this time, she then said okay.

Immediately we got there, I got Something for her, a cold stone, after sometimes, she was then going through my phone, she saw one of my pictures and she asked when I snapped it I showed her the info which was Thursday and her mood just changed and she asked me to get my phone away from her.

I asked her what’s wrong? She didn’t respond. She then said she’s going back to Ondo. I said I wanna give the bike man the TFare she said if I do she’s gonna tear it, saying all sort of things.
I then just have to leave her to go. She embarrassed me there and saying abusing words and that’s how I left her to go.

Pease Nairalanders, what do you think I can do about this shit? I’m fed up of her unnecessary angers all the time. We've being dating and it’s almost 4 months now.

Genuine advice please. I’d be very grateful...

Thanks.

I’m sorry I don’t have genuine advice to give u.

She a stupid gal and such gals on act right or get sense from manipulation by from bad boys.

Good guys like u can’t handle her, she will frustrate ur life. A bad boy will manipulate her senses till she will be crying and begging him. If u still want her for any ridiculous reason at all then u must learn to act like or be a bad boy and put her in her fvcking place. Stop being too nice to her.

I’m sorry again because this is not the genuine advice I wud love to give people bt it may be necessary advice.