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Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by midnighter(f): 11:58pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
bukatyne: Well the guy already gave her this one for Christmas, so I don't want her to find out what her New Year's gift will be...moreover who even knows what he's planning to wear that day, God have mercy 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by bukatyne(f): 11:59pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
midnighter: Chai! Before my family think I am crazy here. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by midnighter(f): 12:05am On Dec 29, 2019 |
bukatyne: Hm! I no fit even laugh. It would be better if before marrying, we could find out if some of them are real people or just reptiles in human skin ...Nawa 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by Ilekokonit: 12:48am On Dec 29, 2019 |
Mrsprissy: There is something bothering your husband that he has not told you. That though is no reason for him to beat you. You are going to have to be less confrontational and think outside the box to get to the bottom of this. Write him a letter spelling out how you feel with no abusive words, seal the letter in an envelope and address it to him and put it somewhere he will find it himself. If after reading the letter his heart doesn't melt then only prayers and maybe in extreme cases speaking to his mum can calm him down. 2 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by mzhorlah(f): 1:29am On Dec 29, 2019 |
Have you tried asking him questions? |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by crackhaus: 4:40am On Dec 29, 2019 |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by MajorWarren: 6:21am On Dec 29, 2019 |
He’s done this before? And you’re still asking for advice 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by Nobody: 6:38am On Dec 29, 2019 |
Cutehector:Look at words? No amount of vabal rants/ assault equals physical assault. Nigerians/Africans need to know this! Animals 13 Likes |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by Nobody: 6:42am On Dec 29, 2019 |
Btw,seems fake/tales by moonlight stories have overtaken this section......hard to see genuine stuffs here these days 6 Likes |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by Nobody: 6:57am On Dec 29, 2019 |
He is in the process of disengaging from you, probably because he has found out something you've done that he does not like. Did you leave something incriminating on your phone? Have you been physically or emotionally unfaithful recently? Have you been indiscreet, collected money from, or exchanged flirtatious messages with, someone that you should never have done so with? The questions are for you to think of; I don't expect you to answer any of them here. He is in his man cave now; thinking of what to do with you, concerning this latest information he has obtained. He has a lot to think about, and you shouldn't disturb his train of thought for now. Just keep out of his way and behave normally. When he has come to a final decision, you will be the first to know either way. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by cooooooks(m): 7:41am On Dec 29, 2019 |
Madam, get out of that relationship before he kills you. If you die in the name of "staying for the children", you won't be there for the children. If you live in a big city, find out from women organizations how possible it is to compel alimony and child support payments. Mrsprissy: 7 Likes |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by baby124: 7:58am On Dec 29, 2019 |
I think your husband is cheating. He may think he’s in love with this woman and you all are an inconvenience all of a sudden. You would be surprised how some married men can fall in love. Crazy ones I tell you. OP, maybe the side chick bought the shirt that you said was not nice . On a serious note, it’s either he’s cheating and had plans that day. He tried to thwart the family plans but you get strong head. Or he’s got a psychological problem. Please report this to your family and his. Get to the root of the matter. In the mean time find a safe place to stay and consider what is best for you and your kids. The next time he snaps, you may not survive it. 12 Likes |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by waledeji(m): 8:15am On Dec 29, 2019 |
thorpido: 4 Likes
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Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by AgwoAkpi: 8:18am On Dec 29, 2019 |
[s][quote author=waledeji post=85308563][/quote][/s] my nigga what's up |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by MariaAngeles: 8:19am On Dec 29, 2019 |
[s] Enwhen:[/s] Trashed! Now, let us wait for sensible comments ... 7 Likes |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by Enwhen(m): 8:31am On Dec 29, 2019 |
MariaAngeles: Is TRASH because it involves begging NA U SUPPOSED GET THAT MAN AS HUSBAND FOR SERIOUS BEATING NOT ONLY XMAS DAY... but also NewYear, Easter , Eid Kabir, Eid maluud, Eid Fitri , Eid Mubarak, Independence day, Workers day, Children's day, infact all holidays . 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by bdchange(m): 8:54am On Dec 29, 2019 |
Enwhen:una no go kill person on this forum. Wetin she do u nah to deserved this can cause.lolz 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by MariaAngeles: 8:57am On Dec 29, 2019 |
Enwhen:I dare any man to try that trash with me... Oh Jehovah! In fact, make e be say na you sef... Hahahahahaha..... 11 Likes |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by healthserve(m): 8:59am On Dec 29, 2019 |
What a country. See speculations everywhere disguised/presented as facts. I wonder when Nigerians will stop being reactionary and wait for complete information before throwing the weight behind half-information before judgements is made 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by bdchange(m): 9:03am On Dec 29, 2019 |
According to your explanation, your hubby must be suffering psychologically to behave in such manner. Yet there can be hundreds of reasons why he is behaving such. Or there is something else you are not saying. It just doesn't make sense for someone who doesn't beat you. Involve family member first that is after you find out he knows what he is doing. I pity women in this sham called marriage. They are allowed to take rubbish but the men can't or shouldn't. 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by bdchange(m): 9:07am On Dec 29, 2019 |
MariaAngeles:You better be careful with what you asked for? It is better to leave an abusive marriage than trying to be Anthony Joshua . All men are not same oo. Before you even raise two hands..the next thing is hospital bed 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by Kirinwa: 9:09am On Dec 29, 2019 |
Mrsprissy: Next time, tell him to wear pampars because its obvious he's a baby literally. That said, there's a difference between what we say and how people view it. Maybe he's having a wrong interpretation of what you say because he may feel the picture was to mock him or that you are commanding him or taking charge. That's not enough reason to beat you nor any other reason whatsoever. You should let him know firmly that he must NEVER lay his hands again to beat you. If he does, report him to welfare. 7 Likes |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by Enwhen(m): 9:12am On Dec 29, 2019 |
MariaAngeles: Make e be say na me ko ?? I have never lay my hand on any woman and I pray not to do so , but for u to have dare me , Kai If I Mary u, beacus of this, everyday na igbo(weed), shayo ogororo(dry gin) to get inspiration to beat u well well it wouldn't be Xmas day and holidays only but everyday until u beg and beg and becomes loyal and respectful...your daily meals will be beating that u will always remind me for ur beating daily... stubborn MariaAngeles. |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by MariaAngeles: 9:24am On Dec 29, 2019 |
Enwhen:Woman beater like you ! Who knows sef ? You even worse pass op husband. We know una type; bitter and angry lots who think the world owes them. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by Nobody: 9:30am On Dec 29, 2019 |
Isn't he the one who needs to beg and apologize to her for beating her, and to the kids who witnessed the scene? Enwhen: 13 Likes |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by Enwhen(m): 9:34am On Dec 29, 2019 |
theButterfly: How do u expect that kinda of person to beg, it is clear he is not in a stable mental state... He is being depressed or being manipulated , and she must act fast , before the madness push him to pack her loads out that she is a witch... I have seen many of such , that man is in a serious problem, he needs help 6 Likes |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by healthserve(m): 9:37am On Dec 29, 2019 |
Ilekokonit: But if somethings wrong with the husband, shouldn't he talk what the issue is. After all, marriage is for adults not children 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by midnighter(f): 9:53am On Dec 29, 2019 |
Enwhen: Exactly but since the sound of her voice is already enough to send him mad, its better if she leaves and comes back later. The guy is not all right; the begging might annoy him even more. She should just totally avoid him before he snaps and causes her a serious injury. 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by Nobody: 9:56am On Dec 29, 2019 |
Stop making excuses for him. It's he who needs to apologize to her. If he's remorseful about his actions, he need not be told before doing so. There's absolutely no excuse for domestic violence. It's he who is being manipulative, as he has been acting like she wronged him after beating her - when he's the one at fault. To say that is manipulative behavior is an understatement. Enwhen: 13 Likes |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by leonard002(m): 9:58am On Dec 29, 2019 |
Nothing justifies physical abuse. You need to talk about it with him, one on one. Has he always been like this? What changed? |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by MariaAngeles: 10:30am On Dec 29, 2019 |
bdchange:Raise hands ? Me ? Nooo I kuku do not have the strength to fight o, but God Almighty blessed me with 3strong brothers ( tall hefty men at that o), so I'd like to see the bastârd who dares to hurt their sister ( princess like me kee ) 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by Goddeywithme: 10:33am On Dec 29, 2019 |
Plead: I disagree with you 100% Verbal assaults can be emotionally and psychologically damaging. Their impacts last for years and destroys people. Sometimes it is more lethal and leaves no trace, in the sense that it can drive the victim to suicide, and leaves the guilty party free to walk away innocently, because there is no evidence. Comments like yours make women feel they have the God given right to use their tongue to kill a man's soul, believing it is acceptable and has no consequence. Not so sir. I beg you to read up on psychological books on the evidence of the destructiveness of emotional and verbal assaults. As many have said, op's story doesn't add up. I am waiting for the fuller picture before I.... Just as many women say that the day a man lays a hand in them, that is the end of the marriage/relationship. I often say, the day a woman verbally or emotionally or psychologically insults me, that is the end of the relationship /marriage. This mindset has led me to avoid abusive women. Some women will come here now and say but that is just a way for a woman to vent her frustration. Thus makes me laugh when I hear it. My reply to them is this, what if I tell u that a man beating u is his way of letting out his frustration? My advice to women is if u want a shouting match or want to show ur prowess in verbal assaults, go finds a fellow woman. For men, if u want to show ur strength, go find a fellow man and have a boxing match. I know the impact of emotional and psychological abuse by women. I know men who have committed suicide because of that, and the woman continues to enjoy life. 11 Likes 2 Shares |
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