bukatyne:


Hahahahahahaha!

Why before New Year? Is there a catch?

midnighter:


Well the guy already gave her this one for Christmas, so I don't want her to find out what her New Year's gift will be...moreover who even knows what he's planning to wear that day, God have mercy

bukatyne:


Chai!

Before my family think I am crazy here.

Mrsprissy:
For the past 3 days he has been acting as if I did wronged him, he doesn't talk to me, he doesn't eat my foods and he left the room and he is now sleeping in our son room. I just don't know what to do again

DavidEsq:

. I take God beg u, no let me disturb my family wey dey sleep abeg.

bukatyne:
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I need to leave this thread!

I have been laughing since.

I have read the OP twice and I want to blame it on spiritual attack.

Nothing else makes sense if this is the true story.

Cutehector:
Not that I am supporting him for hitting you ooo.. Never. But take a look at your words


You asked him to take a family picture and he snapped and slapped you just like that? I sha know that women are very good at removing a lot of details when narrating their own side of the story.

Mrsprissy:
Good evening my brothers and sisters in the house. First , I am not a troll . I've been a member on NL since 2008 and am very active, but I prefer using a new account for my story to seek advice and also learn from other experienced people in this great group. On christmas day hubby and I were invited to attend a special dinner at his friend's house and I picked a nice outfit for him to wear on the day, he wore another outfit a t shirt and jeans his every day clothes so I asked him politely to go and change, he got angry at me and told me to keep quiet and he went inside.

He was in our room for an hour while the kids and I were still waiting for him , I even sent the kids in their room to play , he later came out he only changed his top but didnt changed the trousers and trainers , I have decided not to say anything for peace to reign , so as we were leaving , I asked him if we could take a family picture, he just snapped and slapped me and started beating me up so badly, he only stopped because my children were screaming and crying for him to stop.
I am so pained because before the incident happened, we were fine , no quarrel at all , I just dont understand his reasons for beating me like this and I swear to God , I didnt say something to make him this angry, he left me there and went out , his friend later called to know if we were still coming because he couldn't reached hubby on the phone , I told him we are coming.
I cleaned myself ,change my clothes and I left with the kids to.his friend house , to my surprised he was already there , we acted like everything was normal and I tried hard to stop tears coming because I was in pained.

For the past 3 days he has been acting as if I did wronged him, he doesn't talk to me, he doesn't eat my foods and he left the room and he is now sleeping in our son room. I just don't know what to do again

thorpido:
That must be his own way of celebrating Christmas with you.

Enwhen:



The issue maybe before the preparation for your hubby's friend birthday, go and meet him now , beg him that u are sorry in other to resolve two possible reasons for his behaviour, first stage depression( maybe due to what he is facing in his place of work) or the fact that u know he doesn't have much dress like yourself , yet u were speaking like a novice.... Go beg him , he may not answer u immediately, keep crying while begging, it's a serious issue disturbing your husband, it may even be that he has been 'jaz' to just hate u for no reason ,... Go meet him now ,the earlier the better ...I suspect depression ...

MariaAngeles:

Trashed!
Now, let us wait for sensible comments ...

Enwhen:


Is TRASH because it involves begging




NA U SUPPOSED GET THAT MAN AS HUSBAND FOR SERIOUS BEATING NOT ONLY XMAS DAY... but also NewYear, Easter , Eid Kabir, Eid maluud, Eid Fitri , Eid Mubarak, Independence day, Workers day, Children's day, infact all holidays .

Enwhen:


Is TRASH because it involves begging




NA U SUPPOSED GET THAT MAN AS HUSBAND FOR SERIOUS BEATING NOT ONLY XMAS DAY... but also NewYear, Easter , Eid Kabir, Eid maluud, Eid Fitri , Eid Mubarak, Independence day, Workers day, Children's day, infact all holidays .

MariaAngeles:

I dare any man to try that trash with me...
Oh Jehovah!
In fact, make e be say na you sef... Hahahahahaha.....

Mrsprissy:
Good evening my brothers and sisters in the house. First , I am not a troll . I've been a member on NL since 2008 and am very active, but I prefer using a new account for my story to seek advice and also learn from other experienced people in this great group. On christmas day hubby and I were invited to attend a special dinner at his friend's house and I picked a nice outfit for him to wear on the day, he wore another outfit a t shirt and jeans his every day clothes so I asked him politely to go and change, he got angry at me and told me to keep quiet and he went inside.

He was in our room for an hour while the kids and I were still waiting for him , I even sent the kids in their room to play , he later came out he only changed his top but didnt changed the trousers and trainers , I have decided not to say anything for peace to reign , so as we were leaving , I asked him if we could take a family picture, he just snapped and slapped me and started beating me up so badly, he only stopped because my children were screaming and crying for him to stop.
I am so pained because before the incident happened, we were fine , no quarrel at all , I just dont understand his reasons for beating me like this and I swear to God , I didnt say something to make him this angry, he left me there and went out , his friend later called to know if we were still coming because he couldn't reached hubby on the phone , I told him we are coming.
I cleaned myself ,change my clothes and I left with the kids to.his friend house , to my surprised he was already there , we acted like everything was normal and I tried hard to stop tears coming because I was in pained.

For the past 3 days he has been acting as if I did wronged him, he doesn't talk to me, he doesn't eat my foods and he left the room and he is now sleeping in our son room. I just don't know what to do again

MariaAngeles:

I dare any man to try that trash with me...
Oh Jehovah!
In fact, make e be say na you sef... Hahahahahaha.....

Enwhen:



Make e be say na me ko ??

I have never lay my hand on any woman and I pray not to do so , but for u to have dare me , Kai


If I Mary u, beacus of this, everyday na igbo(weed), shayo ogororo(dry gin) to get inspiration to beat u well well it wouldn't be Xmas day and holidays only but everyday until u beg and beg and becomes loyal and respectful...your daily meals will be beating that u will always remind me for ur beating daily... stubborn MariaAngeles.

Enwhen:


[s]The issue maybe before the preparation for your hubby's friend birthday, go and meet him now , beg him that u are sorry in other to resolve two possible reasons for his behaviour, first stage depression( maybe due to what he is facing in his place of work) or the fact that u know he doesn't have much dress like yourself , yet u were speaking like a novice.... Go beg him , he may not answer u immediately, keep crying while begging, it's a serious issue disturbing your husband, it may even be that he has been 'jaz' to just hate u for no reason ,... Go meet him now ,the earlier the better ...I suspect depression ...[/s]

theButterfly:
Isn't he the one who needs to beg and apologize to her for beating her, and to the kids who witnessed the scene?

Ilekokonit:


There is something bothering your husband that he has not told you. That though is no reason for him to beat you.

You are going to have to be less confrontational and think outside the box to get to the bottom of this.

Write him a letter spelling out how you feel with no abusive words, seal the letter in an envelope and address it to him and put it somewhere he will find it himself.

If after reading the letter his heart doesn't melt then only prayers and maybe in extreme cases speaking to his mum can calm him down.

Enwhen:


How do u expect that kinda of person to beg, it is clear he is not in a stable mental state... He is being depressed or being manipulated , and she must act fast , before the madness push him to pack her loads out that she is a witch... I have seen many of such , that man is in a serious problem, he needs help

Enwhen:

[s]How do u expect that kinda of person to beg, it is clear he is not in a stable mental state... He is being depressed or being manipulated , and she must act fast , before the madness push him to pack her loads out that she is a witch... I have seen many of such , that man is in a serious problem, he needs help[/s]

bdchange:

You better be careful with what you asked for? It is better to leave an abusive marriage than trying to be Anthony Joshua . All men are not same oo. Before you even raise two hands..the next thing is hospital bed

Plead:

Look at words?

No amount of vabal rants/ assault equals physical assault. Nigerians/Africans need to know this!

Animals