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OP relaxed your mind ..move on..she is still coming back to you but I prayed it won't be too late for her because then you're going to be on freedoo!!! mode with her and she will succumb..She is going to regret her action.. Screen shot this message for future reference..I am different from others..I have told you..

czarr:
someone else bust the cherry either before you guys dated or very recently, she won't own up to you cos she knows eventually if she keeps dating you you'll find out and leave her.


better to end it herself and keep her sanity
she'll start afresh with a new guy who she won't lie to that she is a virgin, probably the guy who bust it.
[b]
the things is virgins just want someone bold enough to convince them [/b]and deceive them into giving up the cherry, trust me women just want someone to blame other than themselves , be that person they'll blame for leading them astray and they won't leave you.

True.
a part of them want to have the experience, the other part wants to wait.

If you try to increase the hunger for the experience, she might give in or run away

luminouzzzzzz:
I doubt if he would download it. He is hurting now and needs time to clear his head. He has been dumped twice this year and that must really rankle.

That is his double loss. There was a post I made some months ago talking about 3 things all men must know or suffer for the rest of their lives.

1. Handling women
2. How to make money
3. How to manage money

He lacks number 1 and this means he will probably lack number 2 and 3.

I have nothing much to say other than: it's left with him to grow or gloom.

Secrets of life are inside books.

czarr:
someone else bust the cherry either before you guys dated or very recently, she won't own up to you cos she knows eventually if she keeps dating you you'll find out and leave her.


better to end it herself and keep her sanity
she'll start afresh with a new guy who she won't lie to that she is a virgin, probably the guy who bust it.

the things is virgins just want someone bold enough to convince them and deceive them into giving up the cherry, trust me women just want someone to blame other than themselves , be that person they'll blame for leading them astray and they won't leave you.

You have said it all especially the last part

Wish I knew that fact in 2008

I adore this girl and her courageous enough to do this

Jahzmin007:
She does not want to stay ni jahre...
You were in same trouser with me earlier but now you are out...
Same thing happen to the girl I met four years ago...
No sex before marriage because of church stuff and unwanted pregnancy and abortion...
Look at there is nothing we have not done when it comes to Romance aside sex...
Name it...
And yet she is still a virgin...
My brother just leave her alone ooo...

Romance
Hypocrisy??

czarr:
someone else bust the cherry either before you guys dated or very recently, she won't own up to you cos she knows eventually if she keeps dating you you'll find out and leave her.


better to end it herself and keep her sanity
she'll start afresh with a new guy who she won't lie to that she is a virgin, probably the guy who bust it.

the things is virgins just want someone bold enough to convince them and deceive them into giving up the cherry, trust me women just want someone to blame other than themselves , be that person they'll blame for leading them astray and they won't leave you.

Oga the OP said He verified it that she is a virgin. The truth is, base on the OP write up, he might end up dis flowering the said lady. The girl is actually afraid of Him because He still try to reach out to that spot but the lady refused him.

IkemChris:
Hmmm. You are a nice person.... The very first paragraph of breakup

That is why I won't qoto with the idea of no sex before marriage Las Las she will break up with you , and what will you gain in return a broken heart, just imagine if you are been banging her mysteriously you would have just gotten over the break up

jagaban002:
God just answer ur prayer , u going into new year without gf stress u going to see this 2020 gonna be a greater year bros be happy and move on ASAP . The babe is fucking another guy look at her response ( should I be lying for u ) bros waka jeje

didn't u read where he said he verified her virginity. the girl is not sexing anything. if d guy cannot get married to her before having sex, he should leave her alone.

pocohantas:
Stop crying jare. With your comebacks that are as weak as your erections.

Alpha male wey dey bow to lick toto.

Alpha male oshi!!!

Like I said smallie, you're small fry. You're the one scrambling to make sensible posits...you have delved into petty tantrums...totally understandable

But like I said, you be small pikin. Your elders for the game of denial, game of claiming alpha females, game of lying that they can do without men have ALL been humbled.

Some were crossing bridges secretly to collect pr1ck while some fell pregnant. Some screamed online about how men are this and that, but got married to same men.Head to instagram, some of your mentors are already planning how to get hitched for 2020, one of them today was praying she finds love 2020.

So you can deny for all you care, you have, you will still be pounded by a man and be heads and heels all over masculine dominance.

Enter bus make we go find good girl wey like sex before next Xmas. No time

iLegendd:
That is his double loss. There was a post I made some months ago talking about 3 things all men must know or suffer for the rest of their lives.

1. Handling women
2. How to make money
3. How to manage money

He lacks number 1 and this means he will probably lack number 2 and 3.

I have nothing much to say other than: it's left with him to grow or gloom.

Secrets of life are inside books.

Lol...I have number 1 and 3...
Still perfecting number 2 though

tayooluwole:
PHOTO: Dilemma, This Is My Girlfriend's Christmas Gift For Me...

I have never been this confused in my life. I started dating my girl like 3 months ago. This is a girl that is committed to Gods things and firmly stands on christian value and principle in her dealings all around.

Shortly along the line of our relationship, she revealed to me that she is a virgin which I doubted until she allowed me to verify like I was taken child delivery for her. She is 24 years old, her dad is a deeper life pastor and a solder at the same time.

Funny enough, her dress does not suggest that she has anything at all to do with deeper life, though she doesn't wear trousers and doesn't put on hair rings. But in all of these, her look still doesn't bear semblance with a typical religious person.

She asked me if I can wait until marriage in terms of sex because she is not ready to give up her virginity for anything at all until official solemnisation, firstly because she doesn't want to disappoint her dad and secondly, because she doesn't want to betray her Christian value and believe. I was so happy to have a woman of such rarely found quality in my life and never thought it twice before striking a relationship deal of no sex with her.

All was going fine. Once in a while we passionately kissed when such opportunity presents it self. While doing this, I sometimes got carried away by stretching my hands towards the location of NO GO AREA clearly defined in the preagreement terms of our relationship. But her determination in protecting that area is second to none.

Honestly, I fell in love with this girl and even the scar of satisfying her is still visible on my body. I did all I could to make her persistently happy.

To cut it short, just this morning, she sent me a breakup message. It was unbelievable and came as a shock because breakup message is what I least expected from her at this nascent stage of our relationship.

Meanwhile, just yesternight which is barely 12 hours ago, we had a good conversation on WhatsApp like we used to have, in which she was asking me about my day, what I ate, my activities for that day and all that. The conversation was so mutual and ran smooth that it didn't suggest any hostility or preconceived plan of breaking up.

Since I saw the message, I have been muttering to my self about what could actually be the real reasons for such spontaneous decision. Though when I pressured her about the real reasons for this action, she told me that a guy broke her heart in 2017, and since that time she has been finding it difficult to love.

Pls how can I handle this situation ? I love this girl genuinely and at the same time, at this stage of my life, I don't want to waste anytime by making repetitive appeal and persuasion in hope that probably she is gonna change her mind...

This is one thing most of you dudes don't know about this confused girls .....

she has been nurturing the idea for long and I don't think she sees you as some1 she wanna spend the rest of her life with ...

just complete ya hustles and find some1 better !!

From experience, whenever they start such convos or try to qualify your entire persona with the words "you're a nice guy," bro just know you're fùcked.

There ain't no coming back from that, I mean it's the final nail to the coffin kissing goodbye to whatever hopes said relationship ever had I tell you.

*. *. *. *. *.

Hey, learn from this. Never put your life and sexuality on hold for anybody. You thought you could negotiate attraction didn't you? You thought by acting all sweet, patient and understanding you could negotiate your way into her letting you pop her cherry on that sweet wedding night huh? It's a rude awakening for you my brodah, why place her on a pedestal? All that wasted time and energy, for what - some piece of skin between her legs? Why put your life on pause like that?

Please,

Learn to love yourself.

Learn to live your life in the NOW, too.

In the end she's gon give it up to some dude who probably won't even be half the man you are. You lost, take your L and move the f*ck on.

Ok boy OP am sorry you were treated this way but let me give you some candid words


You were boring and women are attracted to men who create excitement, mind games or drama around them once in a while. Women love men who are once in a while unpredictable; say or do some little crazy things and you failed that test long ago. How? Let me tell you


.... have you ever played “unavailable” on her since you started dating her? Like putting her in suspense by refusing to even chat her up on WhatsApp pretending to be busy while you see and read her messages? If you never did that you are a fool.

... when she denied you sex, did you ever make her jealous for once that you may probably 4 ck someone else? Either by openly flirting lightly with another female in her presence, maybe someone more beautiful and classy than her? If you never did you are a fool.

Women love to fight for something not things handed over to them easily. Probably she didn’t sleep with anyone yet, maybe someone who has been ignoring her “on purpose” just smiled and said hi to her and she suddenly realized she won a prize and that you suck!!!


You are too easy and weak for her liking, period!

Dude go 4ck her sister, cousin, neighbor or best friend and make sure she knows about it and MOVE ON. If you don’t do that within the next one month, you deserve to be konked without mercy!

kids comment is all i see allover with the exception of few.

TheGoodJoe:
Cheer up. Go and find an Akwa Ibom girl, Anang Girl to be precise. You will be the one typing text that you can not cope. Ironke Confusion.

On a serious note, she does not love you. Move on and find one who does love you.

Please tell me more about this Akwa Ibom girls, is it that they don't give up? Am literally stuck with one here

Cholls:
my brother your starting was correct,but your end statement is incorrect. I dey street! things are happening really fast our women are catching up really fast,dey don learn new format (psychology) to make our young men miserable....I no wan reveal much cuz of suckers

U be sabi guy. Their format Psycology and emotional blackmail but as a bad guy. I sense these from afar, continue like a dumb dude & then Bleep them up befr them even finish planning.

philip0906:
Like I said smallie, you're small fry. You're the one scrambling to make sensible posits...you have delved into petty tantrums...totally understandable

But like I said, you be small pikin. Your elders for the game of denial, game of claiming alpha females, game of lying that they can do without men have ALL been humbled.

Some were crossing bridges secretly to collect pr1ck while some fell pregnant. Some screamed online about how men are this and that, but got married to same men.Head to instagram, some of your mentors are already planning how to get hitched for 2020, one of them today was praying she finds love 2020.

So you can deny for all you care, you have, you will still be pounded by a man and be heads and heels all over masculine dominance.

I read the banters between u two and laughed out loud.

Chill out bro.

thundafire:
Ur sex drive made her run oh nothing more either u ain't satisfying her or dey stuff dey enter her throat she can't endure again

It's obvious u and your followers didn't read the post .....

Slynation:
Please tell me more about this Akwa Ibom girls, is it that they don't give up? Am literally stuck with one here

Unstuck yourself and hand her over to me. I know what to do with such girls.

egopersonified:
Nairaland guys, don't you people have friends and brothers you can talk issues over with? Is it the 'men don't cry' mantra that is causing all these or what? I am really getting tired of all these I love her so much and I don't want to lose her stories. Upon the ubanja guys help, una still dey cry like this. I don taya abeg.

honestly even me self don taya have told ubujan even if you like give this guys red pills a simp weakling is a simp weakling

MrVeyron:
She's started seeing someone else. Take it or leave.

True talk

ogbonti:
Ok boy OP am sorry you were treated this way but let me give you some candid words


1. You were boring and women are attracted to men who create excitement or drama around them once in a while. Women love men who are once in a while unpredictable, and say or do some little crazy things and you failed that test long ago. How? Let me tell you


.... have you ever played “unavailable” on her since you started dating her? Like putting her in suspense by refusing to even chat her up on WhatsApp pretending to be busy while you see and read her messages? If you never did that you are a fool.

... when she denied you sex, did you ever make her jealous for once that you may probably 4 ck someone else? Either by openly flirting lightly with another female in her presence, maybe someone one beautiful and classy than her? If you never did you are a fool.

Women love to fight for something not things handed over to them easily. Probably she didn’t sleep with anyone yet, maybe someone who has been ignoring her “on purpose” just smiled and said hi to her and she suddenly realized she won a prize and that you suck!!!


Dude go 4ck her sister, cousin, neighbor or best friend and make sure she knows about it and MOVE ON. If you don’t do that within the next one month, you deserve to be konked without mercy!

You initially good points but your conclusion was offkey and forceful.
Easy naaa

tayooluwole:
PHOTO: Dilemma, This Is My Girlfriend's Christmas Gift For Me...

I have never been this confused in my life. I started dating my girl like 3 months ago. This is a girl that is committed to Gods things and firmly stands on christian value and principle in her dealings all around.

Shortly along the line of our relationship, she revealed to me that she is a virgin which I doubted until she allowed me to verify like I was taken child delivery for her. She is 24 years old, her dad is a deeper life pastor and a solder at the same time.

Funny enough, her dress does not suggest that she has anything at all to do with deeper life, though she doesn't wear trousers and doesn't put on hair rings. But in all of these, her look still doesn't bear semblance with a typical religious person.

She asked me if I can wait until marriage in terms of sex because she is not ready to give up her virginity for anything at all until official solemnisation, firstly because she doesn't want to disappoint her dad and secondly, because she doesn't want to betray her Christian value and believe. I was so happy to have a woman of such rarely found quality in my life and never thought it twice before striking a relationship deal of no sex with her.

All was going fine. Once in a while we passionately kissed when such opportunity presents it self. While doing this, I sometimes got carried away by stretching my hands towards the location of NO GO AREA clearly defined in the preagreement terms of our relationship. But her determination in protecting that area is second to none.

Honestly, I fell in love with this girl and even the scar of satisfying her is still visible on my body. I did all I could to make her persistently happy.

To cut it short, just this morning, she sent me a breakup message. It was unbelievable and came as a shock because breakup message is what I least expected from her at this nascent stage of our relationship.

Meanwhile, just yesternight which is barely 12 hours ago, we had a good conversation on WhatsApp like we used to have, in which she was asking me about my day, what I ate, my activities for that day and all that. The conversation was so mutual and ran smooth that it didn't suggest any hostility or preconceived plan of breaking up.

Since I saw the message, I have been muttering to my self about what could actually be the real reasons for such spontaneous decision. Though when I pressured her about the real reasons for this action, she told me that a guy broke her heart in 2017, and since that time she has been finding it difficult to love.

Pls how can I handle this situation ? I love this girl genuinely and at the same time, at this stage of my life, I don't want to waste anytime by making repetitive appeal and persuasion in hope that probably she is gonna change her mind...

U say u love this gal genuinely and u know fully well she’s a Virgin bt yet Ure looking for how to disvirgin her any time U get close. U don’t love her u just want a taste of her. Once shes out of ur system ur good to go. If u love her keep ur wondering hands to urself and behave.

Don’t be a bad temptation to her. Hot boy she’s a Virgin and wants to wait for her own good reasons.


My biggest concern in all of this isn’t that she broke up with u cos that can be fixed bt that she said she doesn’t love u. What does that mean? Is she just using u or whiling away time with u because she’s bored or hasn’t found sm1 she loves or she’s not ready for love yet cos of her past?

This is my major concern here.

Brainiac12:
Shey she dey deny you sex no cos she be virgin {I don't believe tho}
Bro just::
1. Locate any night club near you tonight have fun drink like a brewery
2. Carry one olosho Bleep am with your vexnation anger fury nor forget to take man power Sha by tomorrow morning you go forget shap shap

Will u foot the bills?

czarr:
someone else bust the cherry either before you guys dated or very recently, she won't own up to you cos she knows eventually if she keeps dating you you'll find out and leave her.


better to end it herself and keep her sanity
she'll start afresh with a new guy who she won't lie to that she is a virgin, probably the guy who bust it.

the things is virgins just want someone bold enough to convince them and deceive them into giving up the cherry, trust me women just want someone to blame other than themselves , be that person they'll blame for leading them astray and they won't leave you.

Hahaha
Baddest badoo
You can't be more right
Oya take one carton

philip0906:
Like I said smallie, you're small fry. You're the one scrambling to make sensible posits...you have delved into petty tantrums...totally understandable

But like I said, you be small pikin. Your elders for the game of denial, game of claiming alpha females, game of lying that they can do without men have ALL been humbled.

Some were crossing bridges secretly to collect pr1ck while some fell pregnant. Some screamed online about how men are this and that, but got married to same men.Head to instagram, some of your mentors are already planning how to get hitched for 2020, one of them today was praying she finds love 2020.

So you can deny for all you care, you have, you will still be pounded by a man and be heads and heels all over masculine dominance.

Show me one post where I have ever said I can do without men? You have never been able to, you are just a petty male.

I can only do without poor talkative men like you! I like RICH INTELLIGENT MEN, the records are there!!!

You spark no curiousity in me. I can NEVER bend for a prick like you. Chuchuchu like parrot. Dating you will feel like being a lesbian relationship. No single mysteriousness and masculinity. Always whining like someone experiencing menstraul cramps.

I will be very pounded by the main Alpha male. Not audio like you. Tueeh!

luminouzzzzzz:
Lol...I have number 1 and 3...
Still perfecting number 2 though

If that is true, then you're on your way to success — you'll be great in life.

Since Nigeria has a high poverty rate, temporarily lacking number 2 is understandable. A man who doesn't have a grip of 1 and 3 is in trouble.

Slynation:
Please tell me more about this Akwa Ibom girls, is it that they don't give up? Am literally stuck with one here

I know say no be me you qoute o,but be wary of stereotypes okay?
Whatever anyone tells you about Akwa ibom ladies,is his own experience and not necessarily what the one you are with will exhibit. So,form your own opinion based on your personal experience with one.Thanks

eni4real:
Romance
Hypocrisy??

Well-done...
Na your bae abi na you dey do am..
Abi na you wan marry am for future...
At least she is my bae and she is still a virgin...
Abeg mind your business...