Riele:


Okay .

Seems you have sense because most nairalanders your age and even older than you are still spreading their decayed sem*n and consoling themselves with the excuse of being on redpill overdose .

My advice :- plan your life first and maybe own a house before settling down .

lovat:
You are advising him to own a house before settling down? His salary is 50k today and to own a house he will need to work for the next twenty years without doing any expenses.


Are you not the Tata abi Pikin that her thread graced Fp? Stop giving kids advice because other people are trying to learn something meaningful

Kirinwa:


Did your father own a house before he married your mum?

With this advice, very few will marry.

womenareapes:
let me advise you!

KILL THAT STUPID FEELING

If you want to have heart attack at early age, be my guest.

Naija women are useless, I repeat Naija women are useless to have a serious relationship

Those apes roaming the streets have serious entitlement issue, and them will drain your life both emotionally and financially.

Apart from sex and bringing bastard to this world, nothing they can offer you.

You are too long to be thinking of settling down.
Just find a young girl and be fvvcking her, that's all.

With that 50k salary of yours, you can accomplish many things like building House, taking good care of yourself, buying yourself a nice electronic to enjoy the flavour of life.

Once you dear add a woman into your life. BOY!
YOU WILL NOT ONLY HATE YOURSELF BUT WISHING YOU WERE NOT BORN

You see those biitches out there called Naija women? there are destiny breakers with low mental self esteem!. There are all just looking for who to dumb there miserable life on. Don't fall victim and spread the word.

Riele:


I meant he should have a house of his own maybe rent one .

He can't marry a woman into a house shared with a friend .

For your second question , Get some sense.

CHESTER48:
op. The question you would ask yourself is, all these people telling you to make money, did their parents make the type of money they want you to make before they got married? Most of them are from very poor homes but still there is happiness. The key is happiness. Even a dirty man has another dirty woman admiring him. Find a woman and grow with her. Ask yourself where your parents condition still the same since the day you were born till now?, Of course no. They would have improved

mikeayus:
Congratulations man...I'm really impressed with your story

Riele:


Fixed .

Barrywhite15:
Which state are you working, if its lagos, Abuja,porthar don't try it mind you if your fiance understand you like my wife you are good to go,I married my wife when my salary is 15000 now I'm collecting 30000 and we are living a comfortable life

TheRedpillguy:

Lol, why is it so important for females to turn men into slaves? I feel like I am missing something. Less talk about it.

Waterview:
Hustle more hustle more hustle more.

This is the problem with Nigerians, we chase money a lot, that's why it'll be very hard to see a selfless politician, greediness has eaten deep into our system no thanks to our barbaric culture.
I made a mistake when I was in Sec. School which am still regretting till today; I couldn't find love in Sec school, it good to find somebody you'll love unconditionally (vice versa) at a very tender age.

Op you need to find someone now, it might be too late to see true love when you turns 30+, find someone that both of you will grow (in love) together.

Don't listen to the ones shouting hustle more above.

50k is not too small, at least you talking about relationship not marriage.

I don talk my own.

Ahamefuna0001:
Matured minds please.

I'm a 25years old guy who who just completed my NYSC and got a job which pays me 50K monthly salary. I paired with a colleague at work to rent a single room self contain.

I have this mixed feeling that am over due to have a fiancée. I don't know if this feeling is wrong. I'm I good to have a serious girlfriend or fiancée at this stage of my life?

Riele:



Care to provide a seat for me ?

Fash20:

Would you mind sitting on my head?

guru90:


What ar u saying brother? Say that said that pikin go grow past their parents. So u want him to follow his parents footsteps. H.e.l.l. No....

I am a living witness. My late dad didn't own a house at all when they gave birth to me till he died... But now I will be counting how many lands I own plus the one I don dey build now.
Ahamefuna, plz kindly grow past your parents before u think of marriage.

Waterview:
Hustle more hustle more hustle more.

This is the problem with Nigerians, we chase money a lot, that's why it'll be very hard to see a selfless politician, greediness has eaten deep into our system no thanks to our barbaric culture.
I made a mistake when I was in Sec. School which am still regretting till today; I couldn't find love in Sec school, it good to find somebody you'll love unconditionally (vice versa) at a very tender age.

Op you need to find someone now, it might be too late to see true love when you turns 30+, find someone that both of you will grow (in love) together.

Don't listen to the ones shouting hustle more above.

50k is not too small, at least you talking about relationship not marriage.

I don talk my own.

Riele:


Okay .

Seems you have sense because most nairalanders your age and even older than you are still spreading their decayed sem*n and consoling themselves with the excuse of being on redpill overdose .

My advice :- plan your life first and maybe own a house before settling down .

enshi:
Immediately he starts paying his rent two months in advance, he starts sending home food stuff or money as the case maybe, he starts wanting to have food served him once he is home, once he has been in a wedding committee of friends trice

Ahamefuna0001:


Can you throw more lights on this

mogboyelade:
Pls hustle more and take care of your parent first, they've invested on you and this is right time to pay back. If you have a fiance and marriage sets in, you won't be able to take care of your parents and siblings again. Na to focus on your nuclear family go remain.

Ahamefuna0001:
Matured minds please.

I'm a 25years old guy who who just completed my NYSC and got a job which pays me 50K monthly salary. I paired with a colleague at work to rent a single room self contain.

I have this mixed feeling that am over due to have a fiancée. I don't know if this feeling is wrong. I'm I good to have a serious girlfriend or fiancée at this stage of my life?

Ahamefuna0001:
Matured minds please.

I'm a 25years old guy who who just completed my NYSC and got a job which pays me 50K monthly salary. I paired with a colleague at work to rent a single room self contain.

I have this mixed feeling that am over due to have a fiancée. I don't know if this feeling is wrong. I'm I good to have a serious girlfriend or fiancée at this stage of my life?

Ahamefuna0001:
Matured minds please.

I'm a 25years old guy who who just completed my NYSC and got a job which pays me 50K monthly salary. I paired with a colleague at work to rent a single room self contain.

I have this mixed feeling that am over due to have a fiancée. I don't know if this feeling is wrong. I'm I good to have a serious girlfriend or fiancée at this stage of my life?

Riele:


You're getting it all wrong .

It's the men who wants to turn ladies into slaves .

Kirinwa:


I will advise you like my junior brother.

First of all: take a deep breath.

Good. Congratulations first of all on your new job.

Let's get down to the basics. Its from clap, that a dance starts. Do you have a close girlfriend at the moment?

Do you intend to marry within 2 years from now? If not I don't think you need a fiancee. Reason being that its a liability. Majority of the Nigerian females take relationship as a career where they are entitled to salary. So how much will you be paying her monthly? #20k?
That leaves you with #30k, how about that?
Its irrelevant whether she's working or not because she will still be expecting something from you.

I believe I have answered your question.