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Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by staytravel: 1:15am On Dec 31, 2019
LMAOOOO
Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by SURElee(f): 1:19am On Dec 31, 2019
Did you court this insecure woman with serious anger management issues? If you did, how come you didn't see all these? Oya tell me love is blind, why are you then seeing them now if love is blind?


During courtship. We tend to leave the most important things to be chasing shadows and buying only shawarma instead of being sensitive to things that will matter in future, now an insecure woman with serious anger issues will soon throw a knife at you one day same way King Saul threw a spear a David in the Bible.


Guy, na you use your own hard earned money to go buy the property as a wife, begin dey reason am. You got in. You will figure it out yourself as e dey hot.

I see no reason why a woman in her right senses will smash her husband's phone, she kiss craze abi you lick iru wey dey shack her? You better wear the pants in your home as the man of the home or you become the mop stick for mopping the bathroom floor. The time is now! If you send her back home to learn to be a wife, to control her temper and work on her insecurities for 2months, she go know how far.


Ndi wife material 1billion yards smashing phones hahahaha.

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Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by Enculer2: 1:26am On Dec 31, 2019
Cheato64:
I got married in 2018, I love my wife so much and I know she loves me too but my wife is too dramatic.

She always claim she trusts me but mehn she doesn't let me out of her sight. I do everything and it's affecting me, we have a son and another is on the way, she has refused to learn how to drive on purpose, I take her everywhere, antenatal, market (hate this one the most), I drop and pick her from work, am forced to go church or other programs which I wouldn't like to go.

She goes through my phone every 3 days most especially at night. She noticed I snore I asked for a separate room, she will never let me, she Insists we sleep with light on.

Sometimes I pray for Nepa to take light. The day I called an ex that works in bank to assist me with transaction due to crowd, she went through my phone saw it, I had to explain out of anger she smashed my phone she does this very often she has smashed hers b4.

I feel like running away for a week but I can't leave my work or our son and she might go to my parents which I wouldn't want.

Pls I need help on how to tackle this wahala

You got no testicles

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Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by olumide3367(m): 1:33am On Dec 31, 2019
Hairdo666:

What power? Stfu
see the way them dey quote me.
Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by lilyheaven: 1:36am On Dec 31, 2019
[quote author=Cheato64 post=85355695] bro are you married? Women are not easy as you think oooo, how is it my responsibilities, I go to antenatal I see most women if not all coming by themselves. [/...
Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by EkoErrands: 1:42am On Dec 31, 2019
Cheato64:
I got married in 2018, I love my wife so much and I know she loves me too but my wife is too dramatic.

She always claim she trusts me but mehn she doesn't let me out of her sight. I do everything and it's affecting me, we have a son and another is on the way, she has refused to learn how to drive on purpose, I take her everywhere, antenatal, market (hate this one the most), I drop and pick her from work, am forced to go church or other programs which I wouldn't like to go.

She goes through my phone every 3 days most especially at night. She noticed I snore I asked for a separate room, she will never let me, she Insists we sleep with light on.

Sometimes I pray for Nepa to take light. The day I called an ex that works in bank to assist me with transaction due to crowd, she went through my phone saw it, I had to explain out of anger she smashed my phone she does this very often she has smashed hers b4.

I feel like running away for a week but I can't leave my work or our son and she might go to my parents which I wouldn't want.

Pls I need help on how to tackle this wahala

Pls give me that your wife and take mine. I beg you...I don't mind adding 1m on top for you.

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Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by Ilekokonit: 2:00am On Dec 31, 2019
Cheato64:
out of anger she smashed my phone she does this very often she has smashed hers b4.

I feel like running away for a week.

Pls I need help on how to tackle this wahala

Write her a letter spelling out how her controlling nature is driving you away from her and then run away for a week. She and your son will both be fine as God forbid something happens to you, she will continue living her life.

Don't wait until she smashes your head in your sleep based on her unfounded suspicions before you realize that she is a husband killer in waiting.

If a Naija woman can get so angry as to smash HER OWN PHONE, then your head is the next thing she may smash in her blind rage of anger and God help you if you are sleeping when she pounces on your head with a hammer because she suspects you rightly or wrongly of cheating on her.

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Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by KennieKingOba(m): 2:18am On Dec 31, 2019
i once dated a lady, you cant imagine we only had little arguement, and she just slapped me, just like that! Though she later begged me, but in my own heart, it was already over.

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Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by Nobody: 2:20am On Dec 31, 2019
this is the Best advice for you bro, jealousy is part of love bro. this man i quoted has said it all, Turn it to fun, if you have money to buy her a car then i believe you should have money to pay 30k into her uber account monthly , you should still drive her around but reduce it by 20% and let her use uber as an alternative and gradually, driving her around will degrade if you beg her to use uber once in a while. get another phone and don't ever take it home, always leave it at work, you can use that one to commit adultery, don't worry adultery is meant for adults... you didn't call your ex to transfer money , you called her because you started feeling lonely after your wife's jealousy. but don't worry you will be alright by the time she catch you red handed. Please note: don't mind everyone saying you should be a man, you won't win this. all you can do is to pet her, she truely love you.
nero2face:
she loves u so much mehn, I wish for such a loving jealous wife, she only want u for her self alone...endure it and try turning it into fun, laugh at her when she do those things and let her know u love her and won't chest on her...u can device a fun means of cajoling her whenever she act up
Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by ekpeye(m): 2:26am On Dec 31, 2019
Cheato64:
I got married in 2018, I love my wife so much and I know she loves me too but my wife is too dramatic.

She always claim she trusts me but mehn she doesn't let me out of her sight. I do everything and it's affecting me, we have a son and another is on the way, she has refused to learn how to drive on purpose, I take her everywhere, antenatal, market (hate this one the most), I drop and pick her from work, am forced to go church or other programs which I wouldn't like to go.

She goes through my phone every 3 days most especially at night. She noticed I snore I asked for a separate room, she will never let me, she Insists we sleep with light on.

Sometimes I pray for Nepa to take light. The day I called an ex that works in bank to assist me with transaction due to crowd, she went through my phone saw it, I had to explain out of anger she smashed my phone she does this very often she has smashed hers b4.

I feel like running away for a week but I can't leave my work or our son and she might go to my parents which I wouldn't want.

Pls I need help on how to tackle this wahala
Hmm
Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by Surulereman(m): 2:33am On Dec 31, 2019
And she smashed your phone and had earlier smashed hers? Oga you're a good man but also a weak man and she knows it and exploits it. Firm up and be the man you are supposed to be. At this rate, your life is in serious danger. You may lose it in the hsnds of a jealous insecure wife.

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Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by Jabioro: 2:47am On Dec 31, 2019
Purely you are married to a trouble,it would be difficult for you to have better forge in life,she will like to have access to everything you do in life, controlling your inner man Spirit..it won't favour you at end..I saw divorce..no amount prayers can change the situation except you stand up as man otherwise you're in for long things

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Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by Nobody: 2:49am On Dec 31, 2019
Whatever you're intends to do wait for her to give birth.

Then anytime she'd that stupid things Give her a very heavy SLAP, she might wanted to see you react like a Man....you are too doll bro.
Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by Dididrumz(m): 2:52am On Dec 31, 2019
nero2face:
she loves u so much mehn, I wish for such a loving jealous wife, she only want u for her self alone...endure it and try turning it into fun, laugh at her when she do those things and let her know u love her and won't chest on her...u can device a fun means of cajoling her whenever she act up

If to say i get money, i for bless you for this conment. Thumbs up man, you are my kind of person.
Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by armyofone(m): 2:57am On Dec 31, 2019
Loving your wife is a very humbling experience. Relax and feel secure. No running from life issues- life throws you lemon, make lemonade.

Cheato64:


I feel like running away for a week but I can't leave my work or our son and she might go to my parents which I wouldn't want.

Pls I need help on how to tackle this wahala
Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by Nobody: 3:03am On Dec 31, 2019
Cheato64:
bro are you married? Women are not easy as you think oooo, how is it my responsibilities, I go to antenatal I see most women if not all coming by themselves.

Its your responsibility baba get sense abeg

What are complaining about set?


Carry her to antenatal, market and so are those beautiful moments that makes marriage sweet, don't be dull my brother that woman loves you a lot.

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Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by xandy84: 3:07am On Dec 31, 2019
Guess people does not have miscarriage in car? You sound like your wife.... ENJOY HER














Cheato64:
how am I supposed to know she won't want to learn how to drive on purpose, and if I decide to firm and she jumps bike, accident or miscarriage might happen, I won't forgive myself
Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by Fearcom(m): 3:17am On Dec 31, 2019
frozen70:


Are you that weak or you are too soft to take a decision that will give you freedom and happiness

I laugh when men says women don't have brains

Am average woman knows how to handle her man

She choses not to drive so that you will always be there for her

Smart woman, that's what she is

If you can't take a bold decision now, once those kids gets to teenage age, it will be extremely difficult to pull out

You think you are doing favour to her, Mr man, you are creating burden for yourself not yer

She is on her game and she has mastered the act

Why are you afraid of her reporting you to your family

Is it that you want to remain with it or that your family will disown you

Use your brain that's why it's in your head

If you don't know, fear women, they must do things to their advantage


She doesn't have brains.

If her husband suddenly collapses and dies due to exhaustion, she will blame God for his early demise.

That's not being smart; that's being sly.

If she's smart let her apply her intelligence in handling and managing her home, family, work and business with wisdom.

Her "smartness" will backfire when he eventually snaps.

My wife was once like this; even telling me that she's older than me upstairs.

Then when she talks and shouts and argues she knows she's talking to a wall. I don't get into any arguments with her whatsoever: I won't be pulled into one. She knows.

When I've made a sound decision that's all. If you go and do otherwise there are heavy consequences

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Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by googlelove: 3:29am On Dec 31, 2019
Op you have a wife that loves. Her overreaction is as a result of being pregnant. Believe me she won't have your time once she gives birth.
Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by EteBabaagba222(m): 3:30am On Dec 31, 2019
Do things that make her happy
Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by baby124: 4:05am On Dec 31, 2019
This is a toxic relationship. Quite parasitic and scary. I don’t see love here. This madam has so many issues I don’t even know where to start. How did OP get married to someone with this personality? Maybe OP is a troll because I just can’t. Goodluck to you OP. For now, stop impregnating her and ensure she gets a job and gets busy.

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Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by hollacoonley: 4:10am On Dec 31, 2019
He sounds as if he already made up his mind for separation/divorce....oga keep trying until you get what you want from your wife...you already in...out is no option here...keep trying until it works...stop all this excuses...
Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by eyinjuege: 4:25am On Dec 31, 2019
Cheato64:
bro are you married? Women are not easy as you think oooo, how is it my responsibilities, I go to antenatal I see most women if not all coming by themselves.

Nothing wrong with attending antenatal classes. It is to help you also as a man prepare for the birth of your child. It helps you understand what to expect in pregnancy, labour and even after birth.
That's why you see some men run away when their wives are in labour. They pick race after dropping her in hospital..
It's just to prepare you too.
You would be surprised that some children are born at home, or in the car because labour was quick. If that happens to you, and you have no freaking idea of what to expect talkmore of what to do, na gobe be that
Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by Zenlife: 4:34am On Dec 31, 2019
LOGOBELT:
You have really tried discovering her faults.

The next thing is to study her... Like what are the things that makes her angry? What are the things i do that piss her off? Most importantly, what does she want?

The matrimonial bedroom is not just a sleeping room... Wake her up at night, talk to her solemnly, once again i said solemnly...

As for your chat with your ex Biko, end it "its better to stay off Ex especially when you are married, to prevent Family Palava"

As for driving her to the market, antenatal and church, boss its your RESPONSIBILITY as the husband.

We men only show love to our partner before marriage, once she is in, you find it difficult to continue what you started.

Like I said, yoy have discovered her faults, next is to study her......

After that, next is to wake her up at night, say sweet and emotion capturing words to her, then when she fall for it.... Hit her with the words " Dear, i want to discuss something with you" while you caress her. Talk to her about it, and am sure she will listen.

Women aren't that DIFFICULT you just need to ADJUST a little, so that ONE TROUSER CAN FIT YOU TWO



Woman wrapper...
Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by Zenlife: 4:36am On Dec 31, 2019
nero2face:
she loves u so much mehn, I wish for such a loving jealous wife, she only want u for her self alone...endure it and try turning it into fun, laugh at her when she do those things and let her know u love her and won't chest on her...u can device a fun means of cajoling her whenever she act up
Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by Zenlife: 4:37am On Dec 31, 2019
nero2face:
she loves u so much mehn, I wish for such a loving jealous wife, she only want u for her self alone...endure it and try turning it into fun, laugh at her when she do those things and let her know u love her and won't chest on her...u can device a fun means of cajoling her whenever she act up

Careful what you wish for.


This is a schizophrenic.
Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by menthomatics(m): 4:38am On Dec 31, 2019
ok
Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by Zenlife: 4:40am On Dec 31, 2019
APOPTOSIS:
U get luck Say u no marry witch, by now you for no get HAND to use TYPE.

It's always better the LADY loves you more than you LOVE her.


Sure she ain't a witch anyway?
Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by bayulll011(m): 4:48am On Dec 31, 2019
Cheato64:
how am I supposed to know she won't want to learn how to drive on purpose, and if I decide to firm and she jumps bike, accident or miscarriage might happen, I won't forgive myself

All shes saying is you are weak.
Not bravados or trying to be a lion that terrorise the house makes you a strong man,the simple truth is she doesnt rate you at all.

Am still saying it,any decision both of you cannot make together and always one sided is a toxic relationships u can still talk to her,things married folks need to be doing why keeping ur ex call logs or chat ogbeni delete them to avoid all these unnecessary drama

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Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by nini007(m): 4:53am On Dec 31, 2019
You have never acted like a man. It's okay to love your wife but succumbing to her every wish and thereby displeasing yourself at all times will only cause more problems.

Set your rules and be firm on them.

It looks like she has some kind on leverage on you which you ofcourse cannot mention here.

Why are you scared of her reporting you to your parents?

You gotta start behaving like a man that you are!

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Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by celeiyke: 4:54am On Dec 31, 2019
What do u do for a living

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