Brunicekid:
Am proud of you, OP.

My Name is Buhari Yusuf (don"t mind my monicker)

I will tell my Father to give you Presidential Medal of Relationship Integrity.

Omotayor123:
Met this guy late September, he was in for loving doving and all. Told me I was the perfect definition of


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Destined2win:
Okay you did well but why do ladies here like hyping their boyfriends.

Some are directly opposite with smelly boxers and hungry.

Ariza:
Madam, not every girl will jump at such opportunity.I have personally let more than two well to do men go because I wasn't emotionally connected to them.One even offered me job and accommodation while I was in dire need of both but I rejected all because I knew his intentions (he wanted me). And yes I once walked out of a relationship with someone I love because I got to know he came to me due to issues he had with his girlfriend.Dude got so confused that I had to help him make the decision by initiating the break-up. Point is in all this, I never thought myself to be some hero or the next best thing that ever happened to man.Rather I thought I did what a sane person with integrity would do.

Yes, I get the point in your thread and I hope ladies who are yet to attain such level of integrity will but please stop making it seem like you're some magical being from Pluto. Except if you want some validation for your acts, then I will tell you, you did well.

Skmoda360:

Why painment esubeleke?

Prettiedame:
You can't continue saving unions. We are all someone's ex. No need to feel special about one you didn't want. The lady who married your ex is a realist

femi4:
I doubt if the marriage will last. The union is a forced fit

safarigirl:


Lots of unions in Nigeria are forced, but a lot of them are also managing each other, so that world people will not mock them. That is why this country is filled with sad, frustrated people.

Don't fret sha, whenever they encounter difficulties, OP will be on hand for marriage counseling.

Omotayor123:
Met this guy late September, he was in for loving doving and all. Told me I was the perfect definition of what he was looking for in a bride.

This is a well to do single man with chains of businesses, cars, a good house & also working for mining company. He is Responsible disciplined and religious.
Bottom line is He's what any lady would be glad to have.

The thing is, He had problems with his bae & wanted to find solace and comfort with me, forget his Fiancee and moved on.

I could have taken Advantage of their situation, played the Angelic Good wife, hold him tight, pretend to tolerate all his mess & made him forget totally about his bae.
But I see it as a challenge I have to overcome.
Why

I had issues with my fiance, he left to find comfort in the hands of another girl. The girl jumped on the opportunity without hesitation, played the perfect babe and the rest is history...

I couldn't do the same to another girl, i know how heartbreak & betrayal feels.
so I decided to help them for I know their issue isn't beyond repair.

I took my time to let the guy know I am not perfect and equally have my flaws.
I made him see reason why he shouldn't give up and run to a comfort zone each time his relationship has issues.
Their issue was just communication breakdown & lack of understanding. They could fix it if they really want to and ready to shift grounds...

And now, I'm grateful my efforts played off, with my coaching, he realized he was making a mistake taking the risk of throwing a 3 years relationship away for another one which the outcome is yet unknown.

Now they are back Together, settled all differences and their wedding date is set.
I just received an IV to attend their wedding holding on 18th of January 2020.

If i had entered their Picture, it may be impossible or almost imposssible for this great feat to happen.

I couldn't be more proud of myself.

Ladies This Year Let's help ourselves out!
Don't take Advantage of other people's situations
Don't be the reason why a relationship or marriage breaks totally.
Don't let Despiration push you into hurting others.
May God help us, Give us the best of partners and not make us a stumbling block to the happiness of others.

I did well right


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Omotayor123:

I'm not financially stable ooo, in fact I'm job seeking.
But I'm not a fan of using people for my selfish interest.
I'm just kind of Morally & sexually reserved.
Most of my friends would call me ancient

safarigirl:
it is the debasement of values that has gotten us to the point where people make common sense look extraordinary

Even people saying women 'chop clean mouth' na lie. Nothing goes for nothing, there is no such thing like chop clean mouth, because whatever people give you with one hand, they wish to collect with another. Anything you eat from a man, he will collect it in another form. You aren't playing him, you are playing yourself.

We should feel bad for people who think this special, says a lot of their encounters in life.

safarigirl:
it is the debasement of values that has gotten us to the point where people make common sense look extraordinary

Even people saying women 'chop clean mouth' na lie. Nothing goes for nothing, there is no such thing like chop clean mouth, because whatever people give you with one hand, they wish to collect with another. Anything you eat from a man, he will collect it in another form. You aren't playing him, you are playing yourself.

We should feel bad for people who think this special, says a lot of their encounters in life.

Gforce2019:


They call you ancient. But you're not old.? You better stop them from calling you such name.. just a suggestion, anyway..

Omotayor123:

I'm not financially stable ooo, in fact I'm job seeking.
But I'm not a fan of using people for my selfish interest.
I'm just kind of Morally & sexually reserved.
Most of my friends would call me ancient

Gforce2019:
You started your epistle very well until you added that ladies shld not take advantage of horrible situation....when I read that part I just hissed..
Some ladies.pray and fast for wonderful.marriage.to.scatter so that they can come in. Some ladies would.not even mind to be the 10th wife as far the guy is rich.

My sister, you are one in a million. Naija Ladies are desperately.wicked.

Omotayor123:

Ancient not because I'm old. But because I still believed in some behavior they termed "Old fashion"

femi4:
I doubt if the marriage will last. The union is a forced fit

Omotayor123:
Met this guy late September, he was in for loving doving and all. Told me I was the perfect definition of what he was looking for in a bride.

This is a well to do single man with chains of businesses, cars, a good house & also working for mining company. He is Responsible disciplined and religious.
Bottom line is He's what any lady would be glad to have.

The thing is, He had problems with his bae & wanted to find solace and comfort with me, forget his Fiancee and moved on.

I could have taken Advantage of their situation, played the Angelic Good wife, hold him tight, pretend to tolerate all his mess & made him forget totally about his bae.
But I see it as a challenge I have to overcome.
Why

I had issues with my fiance, he left to find comfort in the hands of another girl. The girl jumped on the opportunity without hesitation, played the perfect babe and the rest is history...

I couldn't do the same to another girl, i know how heartbreak & betrayal feels.
so I decided to help them for I know their issue isn't beyond repair.

I took my time to let the guy know I am not perfect and equally have my flaws.
I made him see reason why he shouldn't give up and run to a comfort zone each time his relationship has issues.
Their issue was just communication breakdown & lack of understanding. They could fix it if they really want to and ready to shift grounds...

And now, I'm grateful my efforts played off, with my coaching, he realized he was making a mistake taking the risk of throwing a 3 years relationship away for another one which the outcome is yet unknown.

Now they are back Together, settled all differences and their wedding date is set.
I just received an IV to attend their wedding holding on 18th of January 2020.

If i had entered their Picture, it may be impossible or almost imposssible for this great feat to happen.

I couldn't be more proud of myself.

Ladies This Year Let's help ourselves out!
Don't take Advantage of other people's situations
Don't be the reason why a relationship or marriage breaks totally.
Don't let Despiration push you into hurting others.
May God help us, Give us the best of partners and not make us a stumbling block to the happiness of others.

I did well right


Sorry for the Long Epistle
Cc. Lalasticlala help push to Front Page, Let others Learn.
lalasticlala
farano

Ariza:
Madam, not every girl will jump at such opportunity.I have personally let more than two well to do men go because I wasn't emotionally connected to them.One even offered me job and accommodation while I was in dire need of both but I rejected all because I knew his intentions (he wanted me). And yes I once walked out of a relationship with someone I love because I got to know he came to me due to issues he had with his girlfriend.Dude got so confused that I had to help him make the decision by initiating the break-up. Point is in all this, I never thought myself to be some hero or the next best thing that ever happened to man.Rather I thought I did what a sane person with integrity would do.

Yes, I get the point in your thread and I hope ladies who are yet to attain such level of integrity will but please stop making it seem like you're some magical being from Pluto. Except if you want some validation for your acts, then I will tell you, you did well.

omokoginimi:
Oh wow! Who is peeling onions? I’m crying. This story Is so touching and inspiring. Thank you for sharing


Iranu

bonnyhope:

I want to ask you out
Can you give me the opportunity?