She has fallen in love. That is the aspect that escapes you commentators.

When emotions fuel a decision, beatings dont cut it.

Arrange with a girl to privately call your sister claiming to be girlfriend of the pedo guy and saw their chat about sex and threaten to beat and disgrace her if she dares come close to her supposed man

Her fragile heart will crack. Then follow up by saying that a strange girl call you and warned to pour her acid cos she is sleeping with her guy. Then arrange some nice canes on her ass. Make it hurt that she can not lie down for sex.

Slap makes no sense and looks too mature for her. Use fresh cane and Arrange 12 strokes on same spot on her ass. That will be part of her memory. Cane the ass enough so she cant sit or lay down on it. Make see how she wants to lie down for Bleep.

Stop being too direct in age of AI. It don't work

DavidEsq:

shey that's where she would now meet more virile men ready to test her at the back of some stadium building na. Na den trainer go turn nacker. I know wetin I dey talk o

Look man, try to outgrow this kind of thinking. If and when you travel overseas (you may have already), it could land you in hot water. Everything doesn't have to revolve around "knacking". I am a parent here and an uncle who has practiced what I am advising the guy. It works.

flyingdutchman:

Look man, try to outgrow this kind of thinking. If and when you travel overseas (you may have already), it could land you in hot water. Everything doesn't have to revolve around "knacking". I am a parent here and an uncle who has practiced what I am advising the guy. It works.

What did you expect when many of the lives in the section revolves around "knacking"?

Dude just had to find a way to rubbish your suggestions with that idea to appear "knowledgeable".

makydebbie:
I'm going through this same thing with my 16 years old cousin. I really don't know what to do anymore because I've told her the dangers of her actions yet she's still going out without letting anyone know only return hours later and I don't want to resort to beatings because I'm sure it'll make her even more rebellious.

it seems sixteen is the new adult age for women now? I have this same problem over here, the thing is she alone is sixteen three other ladies living with us are all adults, so she heres them on the phone and listens to all the adult gist, the girl is now behaving like their mate, i have couselled this girl tire.the problem is they dont think of us in their choices, they only think of themselves, yet at worst they would still be our responsibility.

That 27 year old goat need to be dealt with. Just collect your kid sister's phone as evidence and then get the old fool arrested.

He must sign undertaken not to ever communicate with a minor again.

smat101:
What I was scared of is finally happening...
I've a lot to say but let me try to be brief...
Its been 4years+ since I last went home to see my mum and siblings.
I really lovey kid sister so much even more than my mum.
there is a lot to say but to cut the long story short,
when I came back she had already developed breast but she is just 14years.
just today I talked to her about sex,boyfriends, pornography relationship,sex, everything in that area...recently she was using my phone for Facebook,then I asked her consent to read some of her messages which she agreed as I was reading through she dragged the phone from my hand when I wanted to click a particular chat. I became inquisitive but respected her privacy. I then asked her to log out when she is done...
just this night I wanted to login to my Facebook then I clicked the Facebook icon her account was still logged in...What I saw broke my heart, she was planning to send nudes to a guy and the guy was planning to have sex with her this weekend,she kept on telling him that she was afraid, but he kept on telling her he will use condom, that she should not be afraid...
.
.
My problem is that she is a minor and this guy is 27...
So this is what I plan to do, Flog her thoroughly very early tomorrow, then later talk to her again...
Then that bastard beat him up in the evening with two other guys...
I really love this girl and Want the best for her pls parents preferably how should I handle this matter .

The same privacy you said you respected is the one you flouted and want to beat her on top of it?

Beating her will drive her further away. Just pretend you didn't see it and coerce her in trusting you as a friend.

Let her allow you to read everything, then talk to her of the repercussions if possible cite examples of people whose dreams, future were thwarted cos of it.

Let her know that the dude could post it online for the world to see, unwanted pregnancy and denial.

bluebay:
I'll suggest you monitor her closely ad lay ambush for them ... For if you report to the authorities at this stage, he will go Scott free coz they will see he wasn't caught red handed . Just keep watching their chat then the day of the action, burst them up ..

That will be dangerous. What if the action day skipped him?

smat101:
What I was scared of is finally happening...
I've a lot to say but let me try to be brief...
Its been 4years+ since I last went home to see my mum and siblings.
I really lovey kid sister so much even more than my mum.
there is a lot to say but to cut the long story short,
when I came back she had already developed breast but she is just 14years.
just today I talked to her about sex,boyfriends, pornography relationship,sex, everything in that area...recently she was using my phone for Facebook,then I asked her consent to read some of her messages which she agreed as I was reading through she dragged the phone from my hand when I wanted to click a particular chat. I became inquisitive but respected her privacy. I then asked her to log out when she is done...
just this night I wanted to login to my Facebook then I clicked the Facebook icon her account was still logged in...What I saw broke my heart, she was planning to send nudes to a guy and the guy was planning to have sex with her this weekend,she kept on telling him that she was afraid, but he kept on telling her he will use condom, that she should not be afraid...
.
.
My problem is that she is a minor and this guy is 27...
So this is what I plan to do, Flog her thoroughly very early tomorrow, then later talk to her again...
Then that bastard beat him up in the evening with two other guys...
I really love this girl and Want the best for her pls parents preferably how should I handle this matter .

Take her to a pastor for deliverance and prayers from spirit of immorality

Lexusgs430:



Flogging does nothing........ What happens after flogging?


You need to educate her, not be physically abusive.......

You beat the other guy up, he dies or becomes seriously injured, you don enter police case (hope you have the will to bear your actions)....

So are you saying I should leave the guy...

Nah you shouldn’t beat your sister she’s just a kid, just talk to her about how internet works and how sick people prey on kids.

Then track down the 27 year old twàt and beat his paedo asss up. Dunno how things work in Nigeria re paedophilia cos in the western world he’d face time and his name put on a sex offenders list.
Regardless, beat his asss up.

Asquare84:


Take her to a pastor for deliverance and prayers from spirit of immorality

Yea that’ll surely solve all the problems, deliverance.

Asquare84:


Take her to a pastor for deliverance and prayers from spirit of immorality

Thanks for your advice but I am sorry to say, you are one of the problems of these teenagers.

smat101:

So are you saying I should leave the guy...

Of what use is a goat to a lion, when the goat escapes .............

Have you heard this song? 'Eni ti won Tori e Na mi ni un I pada fe' meaning the person they punished me not to date is the one I will finally get married to.

If you beat her with whatever, just expect her to beat the guy with enough 'puna'.

Pray she hasn't tasted the 'adam's' Rod once. If she has, she already knows how sweet it is. Best to do is to talk to her. She going to be her own teacher sooner or later. Hope she no go carry belle before then.

smat101:

Thanks for your advice but I am sorry to say, you are one of the problems of these teenagers.

Guy, you get any soldier friends or SARS r MOPOL friends?
Gather them buy them booze, give them 10-20k, make them mend the guy body wella for 1 day and threaten am wella not to come anywhere near your sister. Make them even smash his phone.

As for your sister, advice her and also engage her in sports. Seize her phone.

IMO make effort to change her by way of advise, counseling and otherwise but if it prove abortive my guy relax and focus on yourself and plan your future these things didn’t start last decade neither did it start the previous one it is what it is just show effort and chill.

At the end she will look back and see that she is the one that has messed her self up with deep regret.

So don’t let that bother your mentality keep strong

Best of luck

Let us not pretend to be saints like we never did this sort of tin at her age or even worse..I came in contact with porn at 11 and d addiction I still find diff to control and d sex part I had already experienced d type of sex a 14yo will have and I regret because dia was no one to put me in the right order or counsel me so you see all she needs is counselling and don't hit her girls are naive...Let her keep male frnds too but be aware of them and Don't restrict her from living her life cos her type wen they get to d university nah dem dey knack every damn gee.. At 20 i had a huge crush on a 15 yo but I didn't do anything bc no matter how big and pretty she looks wen I remember her age my mind wouldn't let me...So guy tidy dah ni** a fk up..he's a perv,psycho and pedophile..if u don't stop him now he'll definitely take advantage of someone else's sister!

Vortex369:
She has fallen in love. That is the aspect that escapes you commentators.

When emotions fuel a decision, beatings dont cut it.

Arrange with a girl to privately call your sister claiming to be girlfriend of the pedo guy and saw their chat about sex and threaten to beat and disgrace her if she dares come close to her supposed man

Her fragile heart will crack. Then follow up by saying that a strange girl call you and warned to pour her acid cos she is sleeping with her guy. Then arrange some nice cains on her ass. Make it hurt that she can not lie down for sex.

Slap makes no sense and looks too mature for her. Use fresh cain and Arrange 12 strokes on same spot on her ass. That will be part of her memory. Cain the ass enough so she cant sit or lay down on it. Make see how she wants to lie down for Bleep.

Stop being too direct in age of AI. It don't work

You're so dark, are you sure you're not from the DC Universe?

Vortex369:
She has fallen in love. That is the aspect that escapes you commentators.

When emotions fuel a decision, beatings dont cut it.

Arrange with a girl to privately call your sister claiming to be girlfriend of the pedo guy and saw their chat about sex and threaten to beat and disgrace her if she dares come close to her supposed man

Her fragile heart will crack. Then follow up by saying that a strange girl call you and warned to pour her acid cos she is sleeping with her guy. Then arrange some nice cains on her ass. Make it hurt that she can not lie down for sex.

Slap makes no sense and looks too mature for her. Use fresh cain and Arrange 12 strokes on same spot on her ass. That will be part of her memory. Cain the ass enough so she cant sit or lay down on it. Make see how she wants to lie down for Bleep.

Stop being too direct in age of AI. It don't work

You r right buh I don't agree with u on the love part..14yo is too young, naive and wants to explore and someone is trying to take advantage of that...nothing like 'fallen in love pls.

Beating her solves little or nothing on this one,
as you're always going to leave the village soon.

But you said she's a virgin which makes it a little good to handle.
Tell her you'll be coming home after 6month for a Virginia test.
If found broken, that ends her educational life.
As you'll totally hands off her.
If she's sensible enough, she may have a rethink.

But..
Are you the one sponsoring her?

smat101:
What I was scared of is finally happening...
I've a lot to say but let me try to be brief...
Its been 4years+ since I last went home to see my mum and siblings.
I really lovey kid sister so much even more than my mum.
there is a lot to say but to cut the long story short,
when I came back she had already developed breast but she is just 14years.
just today I talked to her about sex,boyfriends, pornography relationship,sex, everything in that area...recently she was using my phone for Facebook,then I asked her consent to read some of her messages which she agreed as I was reading through she dragged the phone from my hand when I wanted to click a particular chat. I became inquisitive but respected her privacy. I then asked her to log out when she is done...
just this night I wanted to login to my Facebook then I clicked the Facebook icon her account was still logged in...What I saw broke my heart, she was planning to send nudes to a guy and the guy was planning to have sex with her this weekend,she kept on telling him that she was afraid, but he kept on telling her he will use condom, that she should not be afraid...
.
.
My problem is that she is a minor and this guy is 27...
So this is what I plan to do, Flog her thoroughly very early tomorrow, then later talk to her again...
Then that bastard beat him up in the evening with two other guys...
I really love this girl and Want the best for her pls parents preferably how should I handle this matter .

What you want to do here, will work. Trust me, it will.

smat101:

I can't take this risk

Okay.. but don't beat her . After all, she hasn't agreed to the sex offer..

DavidEsq:

Shift his jaw! Chai! awon Jason Statham. Oshey.

Awa niyen

victor2fresh:
Let us not pretend to be saints like we never did this sort of tin at her age or even worse..I came in contact with porn at 11 and d addiction I still find diff to control and d sex part I had already experienced d type of sex a 14yo will have and I regret because dia was no one to put me in the right order or counsel me so you see all she needs is counselling and don't hit her girls are naive...Let her keep male frnds too but be aware of them and Don't restrict her from living her life cos her type wen they get to d university nah dem dey knack every damn gee.. At 20 i had a huge crush on a 15 yo but I didn't do anything bc no matter how big and pretty she looks wen I remember her age my mind wouldn't let me...So guy tidy dah ni** a fk up..he's a perv,psycho and pedophile..if u don't stop him now he'll definitely take advantage of someone else's sister!

No amount of counseling would have stopped you. You know that fact.

flyingdutchman:

Look man, try to outgrow this kind of thinking. If and when you travel overseas (you may have already), it could land you in hot water. Everything doesn't have to revolve around "knacking". I am a parent here and an uncle who has practiced what I am advising the guy. It works.

I would try it also. Thanks

Ishilove:
Beat the pedophile, not the ignorant teenager.

You just have to talk to her again and spice the lecture with some hot slaps because you counselled her TODAY about sex and it's ramifications, yet she still wants to go ahead to waka useless waka. No, this is a very dangerous step she wants to take. Some factory resetting slaps are in order for disregarding all your advice less than 24hours after giving it.

After the slaps, draw her close and counsel her again because that is the best you can do. You can only show these children the way; whether they choose to take it is entirely up to them.

Loool maddo... This post should be moved to front page...

ndcide:


No amount of counseling would have stopped you. You know that fact.

At that age if u hit me you'll just make things worse cos I was really stubborn..So what do u suggest..beating her??

You're planning to beat her. That means you're still thinking about it. Beat her sharp sharp and reset her brain real quick.

Ishilove:

Okay nice one. You can use your goons but make sure you teach him a lesson so that when next he see small girls he will flee for his life and destiny.

what if the guy has bigger goons? Make e freestyle the guy. Na e sister e suppose they think of not the guy.