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Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by Viking007(m): 11:19am On Jan 04, 2020
Ishilove:
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More oil on your head. Which kain useless rebellion is that? Na so fvck dey hungry am?

The beating should not be too much but make sure you slap some sense into her. Oniranu omo.

As for that despoiler of innocence, make sure you treat his fvck up. Keep chatting with him pretending to be your sis, set a fvck date with him then show up at the venue with some Oshodi thugs who will rearrange his dentition and shift his jaw. Oloriburuku omo ale
God bless you. What nonsense!

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Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by capnies: 11:20am On Jan 04, 2020
Most times children copy what they see. You as an adult what example are you showing, do you talk to girls or boys openly to their hearing and feel your up to. My advise use the Bible as a yard stick to train them, they must see sin as bad and also know that God sees them so your being there or not would mean nothing. Preach the Bible to them yourself and practice righteousness. Make that a way of life and watch God do the rest. There is no age ripe enough for sex, sex is only for married couples. If you don't have that believe then stop complaining, your reaping what you believe and planted
Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by swedbase(m): 11:20am On Jan 04, 2020
czarina:
Report the 27yr old idiot to the authorities. Your sister is a minor. You have evidence.


After that you can focus on talking properly to your sister. She needs counseling.

I totally agree with you. Arresting the 27 years old man will be a nice move because it will scare him from doing it with other minors.

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Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by MrOfficer(m): 11:20am On Jan 04, 2020
If you beat the boy up he might take up a case of assault against you. Your kid sis is a minor, therefor whether she gave the guy consent is immaterial. For this reason he stands a chance of a jail term should he be dragged to court. So I will advice you you make a report at the nearest police station and have the bst arrested and prosecuted.

smat101:
I Am Planing To Seriously Beat My Kid Sister 2moro Morning

What I was scared of is finally happening...
I've a lot to say but let me try to be brief...

It's been 4years+ since I last went home to see my mum and siblings. I really love my kid sister so much even more than my mum.

There is a lot to say but to cut the long story short, when I came back she had already developed breast but she is just 14 years.
Just today I talked to her about sex, boyfriends, pornography relationship, sex, everything in that area.

Recently she was using my phone for Facebook, then I asked her consent to read some of her messages which she agreed. As I was reading through she dragged the phone from my hand when I wanted to click a particular chat. I became inquisitive but respected her privacy. I then asked her to log out when she is done...

Just this night I wanted to login to my Facebook then I clicked the Facebook icon her account was still logged in... What I saw broke my heart, she was planning to send nudes to a guy and the guy was planning to have sex with her this weekend, she kept on telling him that she was afraid, but he kept on telling her he will use condom, that she should not be afraid...

My problem is that she is a minor and this guy is 27...

So this is what I plan to do, Flog her thoroughly very early tomorrow, then later talk to her again...
Then that bastard beat him up in the evening with two other guys...

I really love this girl and Want the best for her pls parents preferably how should I handle this matter .
Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by obiZEAL(m): 11:21am On Jan 04, 2020
smat101:
I Am Planing To Seriously Beat My Kid Sister 2moro Morning

What I was scared of is finally happening...
I've a lot to say but let me try to be brief...

It's been 4years+ since I last went home to see my mum and siblings. I really love my kid sister so much even more than my mum.

There is a lot to say but to cut the long story short, when I came back she had already developed breast but she is just 14 years.
Just today I talked to her about sex, boyfriends, pornography relationship, sex, everything in that area.

Recently she was using my phone for Facebook, then I asked her consent to read some of her messages which she agreed. As I was reading through she dragged the phone from my hand when I wanted to click a particular chat. I became inquisitive but respected her privacy. I then asked her to log out when she is done...

Just this night I wanted to login to my Facebook then I clicked the Facebook icon her account was still logged in... What I saw broke my heart, she was planning to send nudes to a guy and the guy was planning to have sex with her this weekend, she kept on telling him that she was afraid, but he kept on telling her he will use condom, that she should not be afraid...

My problem is that she is a minor and this guy is 27...

So this is what I plan to do, Flog her thoroughly very early tomorrow, then later talk to her again...
Then that bastard beat him up in the evening with two other guys...

I really love this girl and Want the best for her pls parents preferably how should I handle this matter .

Hope the plan to Bleep the fool up later today has been finalized?
As for your sister, just talk to her.
Flogging her will not help.
Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by sammirano: 11:21am On Jan 04, 2020
Op. Dont mind those telling you dont beat her bull s hit. They are the same people that got us in the rubbish in the first place. Adopting the western will never help us as Africans. You should thoroughly beat her and apply other strategic methods that will deter future occurence. Instill that fear in her in your ways, you should think of how to do that. If she still go ahead against all ofds. Then it is mea culpa for her.

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Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by OnyesomJ(m): 11:21am On Jan 04, 2020
I don’t need a Female Child
I don’t wanna have Heart attack

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Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by folks4luv(f): 11:22am On Jan 04, 2020
Beating her at this point will make her heart more hardened. She is even afraid of doing it, that's what you should use to your advantage. Let her know the guy is not in love with her, let her know she will live to regret this. Don't exaggerate, but paint a picture of how she will surfer physically and emotionally.
If you can, get an older lady to talk to her. Not a mummy o, preferable a young lady but older than her. I wish you all the best
Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by ezenna191(m): 11:22am On Jan 04, 2020
At that age, she needs a lot of counseling
Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by Ishilove: 11:22am On Jan 04, 2020
kingreign:

If the guy na cult guys or e get gang members, you and the boys you want hire go hear am later.
I don tell you, hire some MOPOL or SARS or Soldiers, give them booze, then arrange them to panel beat the guy stupidity. Then warn him never to come near your sister or else... Highest 20k, you don finish work for the guy.
Smat101, take this guy's advice. Even if you don't panel beat him, go along with a uniform person so he will understand that what he is trying to do is a criminal offence.

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Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by Alooone: 11:22am On Jan 04, 2020
Please go ahead with your initial plan
Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by Stringz1: 11:22am On Jan 04, 2020
the sad reality of the world we currently live in.
Sex is something that will occur, but at 14, me thinks she is too young mehn... once she is 20, she can decide to do whatever with her body...she is old enough to understand the magnitude of the sonsequences of her deeds
makydebbie:
I'm going through this same thing with my 16 years old cousin. I really don't know what to do anymore because I've told her the dangers of her actions yet she's still going out without letting anyone know only return hours later and I don't want to resort to beatings because I'm sure it'll make her even more rebellious.
Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by Clem20(m): 11:23am On Jan 04, 2020
First flogging is the worst move... Secondly she is a minor so all you need do is report the boy to the police . A 27year old boy with a 14yr old girl trust me police won't take it likely with him... You should talk to your sister and report the boy to the police or naptip... And explain all these to your sister.
Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by jayloms: 11:23am On Jan 04, 2020
Ishilove:
Beat the pedophile, not the ignorant teenager.

You just have to talk to her again and spice the lecture with some hot slaps because you counselled her TODAY about sex and it's ramifications, yet she still wants to go ahead to waka useless waka. No, this is a very dangerous step she wants to take. Some factory resetting slaps are in order for disregarding all your advice less than 24hours after giving it.

After the slaps, draw her close and counsel her again because that is the best you can do. You can only show these children the way; whether they choose to take it is entirely up to them.

Love you.. Can't stop laughing.. Iz lukin like u wee b harsh o

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Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by arma: 11:23am On Jan 04, 2020
I tot it is a normal thing down there.
Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by Nobody: 11:23am On Jan 04, 2020
I keep saying it and those who have ears let them hear!! Do not allow a minor access to open a facebook account or unsupervised internet access. I repeat. Do not!!!

They will be prone to explore so many things that can lead them to their early grave. The guy he is chatting with is likely to be a kidnapper or ritualist. But she wont listen. The best i believe you should do is deactivate the account and dont let her have access to internet for a while. Trust me.... God will reward u if u do that. Cos u will be saving a soul.
Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by chival(f): 11:23am On Jan 04, 2020
smat101:
I Am Planing To Seriously Beat My Kid Sister 2moro Morning

What I was scared of is finally happening...
I've a lot to say but let me try to be brief...

It's been 4years+ since I last went home to see my mum and siblings. I really love my kid sister so much even more than my mum.

There is a lot to say but to cut the long story short, when I came back she had already developed breast but she is just 14 years.
Just today I talked to her about sex, boyfriends, pornography relationship, sex, everything in that area.

Recently she was using my phone for Facebook, then I asked her consent to read some of her messages which she agreed. As I was reading through she dragged the phone from my hand when I wanted to click a particular chat. I became inquisitive but respected her privacy. I then asked her to log out when she is done...

Just this night I wanted to login to my Facebook then I clicked the Facebook icon her account was still logged in... What I saw broke my heart, she was planning to send nudes to a guy and the guy was planning to have sex with her this weekend, she kept on telling him that she was afraid, but he kept on telling her he will use condom, that she should not be afraid...

My problem is that she is a minor and this guy is 27...

So this is what I plan to do, Flog her thoroughly very early tomorrow, then later talk to her again...
Then that bastard beat him up in the evening with two other guys...

I really love this girl and Want the best for her pls parents preferably how should I handle this matter .

Do not flog her. That will be counterproductive. My daughter is nine and already going through puberty and I've had that talk with her. Let an adult preferably your mum, if she is available, talk to her about the consequences and dangers of being sexually active now. Reason with her. Also find out if she's doing this because she's been promised financial and other kinds of rewards. If that's the case make sure she lacks nothing. Finally, get her involved in a hobby that will be beneficial and keep her busy outside school.

As for the 27 year old creep, the world is full of them unfortunately. If you deal with this one, more will creep out from the woodworks. The more effective approach would be to handle things from your sister's angle in such a way that she is no longer gullible to paedophiles. Pray for and with her also. It helps.

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Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by dazzlingd(m): 11:24am On Jan 04, 2020
Onomatopoeia.


I pray not to have any female child
Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by lebron7(m): 11:25am On Jan 04, 2020
smat101:

I just finished talking to her like an hour ago, and she is still wanting to give in to sex...
I think if I beat her it will help her remember what I told her.
Guy no, trace the stupid guy then if you dey pH arrange niggas wey go drill am well well
Bcus I'm sure he is d one dat is wanting to do it
Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by Breezzy(m): 11:25am On Jan 04, 2020
Bro sorry na naija we dey some certain things don go beyond our control but lemme drop a piece of advice for you, DON'T BEAT HER SHE'S STILL A TEEN (THE WAY SHE THINKS IS NOT THE WAY A FULL GROWN UP DO THINK) SO ACCEPT THE FACT. JUST FIND A WAY TO GET THE CONTACT OF THE GUY THAT WANNA HAVE S*X WITH HER & TALK TO HIM LIKE A MAN, THE DUDE MAY NOT BE AWARE OF YOUR SISTER'S AGE COS OF HOW MATURED YOUR SIS IS JUST LIKE YOU STATED ABOVE BUT IF HE INSIST HMMMM THEN YOU HAVE TO DO THE NEEDFUL BY REPORTING HIM TO THE AUTHORITIES. ONE MORE THING KEEP ON MONITORING THEIR CONVO DON'T LOG OUT
#PEACE BE UNTO YOU MAY GOD HELP US ALL
Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by SouLPoison(m): 11:26am On Jan 04, 2020
this kids wants to feel among, blood dey hot, everybody want tear eye.

Beating won't solve this kind of issue, she's already into this person to accept something like that. I would have love that guy to be arrested too, I mean 27-14 (wow !) in saner climes the guy accepting this is already guilty of a crime.

She should have someone she fears sha, I think na because say fear no dey she wan carry waka, that person should talk to her and if you decide to talk to her tell her the implications on a short run and on a long run, don't forget to pray for her everyday, the world we are in now, any girl or guy that allows themselves to be wrongly influenced at a young age would be lucky if they have not used today to ruin tomorrow .

You have loads of work to do. Beating won't sort things out baba, its her age na so their blood dey hot.
Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by Ishilove: 11:26am On Jan 04, 2020
Viking007:
God bless you. What nonsense!
I don't know what some men see in underaged girls. The mind boggles.
Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by Nobody: 11:26am On Jan 04, 2020
TooBlunt:


Bad advice. Op don’t mind this one oo.
You will by urself push her to the mercy of the 27years old because she will start asking him for those things you are denying her and if he gives her. She will assume he’s the only one that has her interest in heart and then resent you. She won’t even listen to u again.
this was in response to another matter, not op's story
Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by rihzon(m): 11:26am On Jan 04, 2020
She need counseling. Let her know how guys like you can sweet talk a girl with their sugar coated mouth into doing the wrong things. Let her know sex is forbidden till she is married.
Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by AntiWailer: 11:26am On Jan 04, 2020
Flog ke.
Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by Nobody: 11:27am On Jan 04, 2020
@op, she insisted because u don't know the right words to say to her.

Look for somebody to help you talk to her.
An intelligent grown up female not church people o.

All she needs is proper sex education

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