czarina:
Report the 27yr old idiot to the authorities. Your sister is a minor. You have evidence.


After that you can focus on talking properly to your sister. She needs counseling.

Supported. I don't like marriage but I hate
Pedophilia more.

Ishilove:
Beat the pedophile, not the ignorant teenager.

You just have to talk to her again and spice the lecture with some hot slaps because you counselled her TODAY about sex and it's ramifications, yet she still wants to go ahead to waka useless waka. No, this is a very dangerous step she wants to take. Some factory resetting slaps are in order for disregarding all your advice less than 24hours after giving it.

After the slaps, draw her close and counsel her again because that is the best you can do. You can only show these children the way; whether they choose to take it is entirely up to them.

I swear u no get joy, lol. I concur

smat101:
I Am Planing To Seriously Beat My Kid Sister 2moro Morning

What I was scared of is finally happening...
I've a lot to say but let me try to be brief...

It's been 4years+ since I last went home to see my mum and siblings. I really love my kid sister so much even more than my mum.

There is a lot to say but to cut the long story short, when I came back she had already developed breast but she is just 14 years.
Just today I talked to her about sex, boyfriends, pornography relationship, sex, everything in that area.

Recently she was using my phone for Facebook, then I asked her consent to read some of her messages which she agreed. As I was reading through she dragged the phone from my hand when I wanted to click a particular chat. I became inquisitive but respected her privacy. I then asked her to log out when she is done...

Just this night I wanted to login to my Facebook then I clicked the Facebook icon her account was still logged in... What I saw broke my heart, she was planning to send nudes to a guy and the guy was planning to have sex with her this weekend, she kept on telling him that she was afraid, but he kept on telling her he will use condom, that she should not be afraid...

My problem is that she is a minor and this guy is 27...

So this is what I plan to do, Flog her thoroughly very early tomorrow, then later talk to her again...
Then that bastard beat him up in the evening with two other guys...

I really love this girl and Want the best for her pls parents preferably how should I handle this matter .

Foolishness is bound in the hearts of a child but the ROD of correction will drive it far from him. Remember, rod and not cane.

Bros, na beating sure pass.Don't forget our culture.. . Though beat with caution biko

[b]UpDate[\b] I didn't beat her this morning, but I gave her hot slaps and then counsel her. She cried and from the look of things the cry was very remorseful...
Thanks to Ishilove
Enwhen
eduman365
Misstearious
flyingdutchman
Lexusgs430
airex...
And Everybody that gave meaningful advice..

Remaining that guy, I've really thought about it...
I will just take some guys with me in the evening and warn Him thoroughly without being physical unless if he starts it... And make it clear to him that she's underage and he should stay clear...

Without leading her to Christ my brother... Your advice will be forgotten. Secondly your parents needs to keep a close eye on her. Have exalt issue now. Have been praying and will advice her before finally leaving. But I wonder what a guy will see in a teenager

If you're too harsh with her. She will keep on doing what u saw and this time she will be very discrete. You won't know jack

Sit down and talk to her. Tell her d repercussions of having sex, she may get pregnant if she does it

Tell her virginity is d pride of every woman and if she can keep it till she's 22 or 23, she will feel proud of herself

Tell her to wait for d right guy because that guy will leave her after he has had sex with her


I know what is worrying your sister sha. She feels the guy loves her and can never leave her but she doesn't know she's till young and there are lots of wolves in sheep's clothing

smat101:
I Am Planing To Seriously Beat My Kid Sister 2moro Morning

What I was scared of is finally happening...
I've a lot to say but let me try to be brief...

It's been 4years+ since I last went home to see my mum and siblings. I really love my kid sister so much even more than my mum.

There is a lot to say but to cut the long story short, when I came back she had already developed breast but she is just 14 years.
Just today I talked to her about sex, boyfriends, pornography relationship, sex, everything in that area.

Recently she was using my phone for Facebook, then I asked her consent to read some of her messages which she agreed. As I was reading through she dragged the phone from my hand when I wanted to click a particular chat. I became inquisitive but respected her privacy. I then asked her to log out when she is done...

Just this night I wanted to login to my Facebook then I clicked the Facebook icon her account was still logged in... What I saw broke my heart, she was planning to send nudes to a guy and the guy was planning to have sex with her this weekend, she kept on telling him that she was afraid, but he kept on telling her he will use condom, that she should not be afraid...

My problem is that she is a minor and this guy is 27...

So this is what I plan to do, Flog her thoroughly very early tomorrow, then later talk to her again...
Then that bastard beat him up in the evening with two other guys...

I really love this girl and Want the best for her pls parents preferably how should I handle this matter .

Please brothers and sisters. I have a question.


What do people (adults) see in Minors)


A 27 year old man will be fantasizing how to fuuuck a 10,12,14, etc years old baby girl.

When there are more than 500 girls on my facebook list asking for free sex.

I mean sweet ladies asking me for sex.

Tufiakwa

[quote author=Enwhen post=85479771]


Very simple , leave that idiot 27 years old fool, it's more important to work on your own sister, if u beat the both of them , u would regret it, u will just only poison the mind of both mostly the stupid 27 year old..


Now , your sister is learning fast, all u need to do , reset her mind set with enough slap, don't flog her pls, just be give her hot slaps on her face... There after seat her down talk to her , counsel her with good examples , ask what she wants to be and how she is planning to achieve it , talk to her very well, thereafter , try by all means possible , take her out to a cinema and buy ice cream , CHK, spoil her with anything she want make her happy and during this period be telling her how much u like her and only trying to protect her from evil guys who want to destroy her future and dump her , if u have any close bad example I've it to her , also help her by setting a time that I would love to see her with a reasonable guy , maybe after university of possible.... She needs more talk therapy than beating ..sip it.[/quote/
Op I think this advice is quite OK follow this

smat101:
I Am Planing To Seriously Beat My Kid Sister 2moro Morning

What I was scared of is finally happening...
I've a lot to say but let me try to be brief...

It's been 4years+ since I last went home to see my mum and siblings. I really love my kid sister so much even more than my mum.

There is a lot to say but to cut the long story short, when I came back she had already developed breast but she is just 14 years.
Just today I talked to her about sex, boyfriends, pornography relationship, sex, everything in that area.

Recently she was using my phone for Facebook, then I asked her consent to read some of her messages which she agreed. As I was reading through she dragged the phone from my hand when I wanted to click a particular chat. I became inquisitive but respected her privacy. I then asked her to log out when she is done...

Just this night I wanted to login to my Facebook then I clicked the Facebook icon her account was still logged in... What I saw broke my heart, she was planning to send nudes to a guy and the guy was planning to have sex with her this weekend, she kept on telling him that she was afraid, but he kept on telling her he will use condom, that she should not be afraid...

My problem is that she is a minor and this guy is 27...

So this is what I plan to do, Flog her thoroughly very early tomorrow, then later talk to her again...
Then that bastard beat him up in the evening with two other guys...

I really love this girl and Want the best for her pls parents preferably how should I handle this matter .

What is she doing on social media at14?

I'm not judging oh but what's a 14 year old doing on Facebook? We are part of the problem we need to stop giving kids smart phones until they are 18 cos the honest truth is there are a lot of sadistic pervs out there.

smat101:
[b]UpDate[\b] I didn't beat her this morning, but I gave her hot slaps and then counsel her. She cried and from the look of things the cry was very remorseful...
Thanks to Ishilove
Enwhen
eduman365
Misstearious
flyingdutchman
Lexusgs430
airex...
And Everybody that gave meaningful advice..

Remaining that guy, I've really thought about it...
I will just take some guys with me in the evening and warn Him thoroughly without being physical unless if he starts it... And make it clear to him that she's underage and he should stay clear...

If the guy na cult guys or e get gang members, you and the boys you want hire go hear am later.
I don tell you, hire some MOPOL or SARS or Soldiers, give them booze, then arrange them to panel beat the guy stupidity. Then warn him never to come near your sister or else... Highest 20k, you don finish work for the guy.

Abeg beat the living hell out of her.I can so relate with the op's scenerio in fact mine happened to my younger sister
I had to reset her brain with serious beating

@czarina, ori e wanbe- your head is there.And it's thinking well.The most sensible comment by a mile.Reporting him would serve as a warning to other paedophiles. Counseling your sister should then come next.There's no point beating her.She's gonna lock up.
We live in a world where everything moves very fast .Kids know too quick ; they act hastily and they feel they have the carte blanche to live their lives the way they deem fit.

Ishilove:
Beat the pedophile, not the ignorant teenager.

You just have to talk to her again and spice the lecture with some hot slaps because you counselled her TODAY about sex and it's ramifications, yet she still wants to go ahead to waka useless waka. No, this is a very dangerous step she wants to take. Some factory resetting slaps are in order for disregarding all your advice less than 24hours after giving it.

After the slaps, draw her close and counsel her again because that is the best you can do. You can only show these children the way; whether they choose to take it is entirely up to them.

Well said

tedimola:
That will be the wrongest move. She has started doing what adults do, so treat her like one. Flogging will make her be more discrete later. You will never see jack again, and she will do times 100 of what you can ever imagine. Be wise. She needs counselling.

Park well at least two slaps will do you mean he should just counsel her with sweet words that girl is just 14 her sense has to be beaten to restore it.

Larryfest:
When you beat her finish she go run comot for house go dat crazy guy place den your eye go clear....

You dey mind the guy. The guy dey talk like woman, no deep reasoning. He suppose join cult, they need his type. Na him type go first carry gun without thinking things through. LMAO

I just dey pity that girl, na by 16 she go carry belle because of the emotional damage this guy go put on her when he puts his hand on her. Fear senseless people, they do more damage than crooks. Just look at his reply; he no dey even reason with anyone

Don't beat yourself up over this or carry out the flogging as you intended, also don't allow this to diminish the love you have for your baby sister. She is becoming and adult and will always do whatever she wants to do. Just sit her down and talk to her in a calm way with respect, let her know the consequences of such actions regarding her future, if she feels respected, she will listen but if your action treats her like a kid, she will go all the way to prove to you that she is no longer that kid sister she used to be.

Smat101,
1. The guy might not know she's 14. It's SM.
2. Though she's a minor, she's giving her consent. So, this isn't a rape, especially if the guy doesn't know her age. She will still have sex without your knowledge, but maybe best with her agemates. So, you need to intensify your counseling. You can deter the guy by responding to his FB chat or deleting his account and phone number.
3. Beating your sister shows you will be a wife beater. You display ignorance and entitlement to physically abuse her because "you feel you have the right or love"; same way you will do to your wife.

smat101:

I just finished talking to her like an hour ago, and she is still wanting to give in to sex...
I think if I beat her it will help her remember what I told her.

But according to your story she used you phone to Facebook before you talked to her about sex.so probably she charted with the guy before your talk..or am I missing something?

smat101:

I just finished talking to her like an hour ago, and she is still wanting to give in to sex...
I think if I beat her it will help her remember what I told her.

You see those saying you should counsel her only mtcheww. Make sure her parents are there when you are beating her up after if she like let her go and Bleep its her life on your own part you didn't spare the rod to spoil the child.

She Might even be a Marlian

smat101:

iPrevail, she is a very hardworking, respectful and intelligent girl...
Beating her can NEVER make her rebellious instead it will make her very scared and embarrassed.

U know all solutions to ur questions end, y are u asking for pple opinion? 100% sure u didn't detail us. All this while u are away she was not planing to Bleep just when u are around she is using ur phone to negotiate when to Bleep!

That's why I won't pray for any female child..... God forbid

smat101:
I Am Planing To Seriously Beat My Kid Sister 2moro Morning

What I was scared of is finally happening...
I've a lot to say but let me try to be brief...

It's been 4years+ since I last went home to see my mum and siblings. I really love my kid sister so much even more than my mum.

There is a lot to say but to cut the long story short, when I came back she had already developed breast but she is just 14 years.
Just today I talked to her about sex, boyfriends, pornography relationship, sex, everything in that area.

Recently she was using my phone for Facebook, then I asked her consent to read some of her messages which she agreed. As I was reading through she dragged the phone from my hand when I wanted to click a particular chat. I became inquisitive but respected her privacy. I then asked her to log out when she is done...

Just this night I wanted to login to my Facebook then I clicked the Facebook icon her account was still logged in... What I saw broke my heart, she was planning to send nudes to a guy and the guy was planning to have sex with her this weekend, she kept on telling him that she was afraid, but he kept on telling her he will use condom, that she should not be afraid...

My problem is that she is a minor and this guy is 27...

So this is what I plan to do, Flog her thoroughly very early tomorrow, then later talk to her again...
Then that bastard beat him up in the evening with two other guys...

I really love this girl and Want the best for her pls parents preferably how should I handle this matter .

Report this to higher authority. Your parents.