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Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by Nobody: 11:19pm On Jan 03, 2020
makydebbie:
I'm going through this same thing with my 16 years old cousin. I really don't know what to do anymore because I've told her the dangers of her actions yet she's still going out without letting anyone know only return hours later and I don't want to resort to beatings because I'm sure it'll make her even more rebellious.
start treating her like an adult.

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Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by makydebbie(f): 11:20pm On Jan 03, 2020
funmisticqueen:
start treating her like an adult.

How?

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Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by Okoroawusa: 11:20pm On Jan 03, 2020
My brother just talk with her so that she can see her self worth. She is at an age where her hormones are running riots.So she needs direction. Just do your best but don't beat her. Pikin wey go hear word go hear word.

My grandma say,"Toto go tear young girl reach where e tear old woman na only a matter of time"

Just do your best.

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Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by smat101(m): 11:27pm On Jan 03, 2020
iPrevail:
Let me be honest with you, there is nothing you can do to save her... If you like beat her with iron. In fact, it will even make her the more rebellious.
The world as we see it has gone to the dogs. You don't want her to become another "street meat".. But that's a decision she has to make for herself.. To embrace the right way of life. You will only achieve this by talking to her.. Not beating.
iPrevail, she is a very hardworking, respectful and intelligent girl...
Beating her can NEVER make her rebellious instead it will make her very scared and embarrassed.

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Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by Nobody: 11:27pm On Jan 03, 2020
makydebbie:


How?
tell her that her actions have consequences. She needs to learn responsibility. If she thinks she can be going out without being accountable or lying. Let her be the adult one,

Take all the clothes you bought for her, gadgets(except phone) and tell her to go and find work, pay a bill or something. Let her get money for data herself, get her own food since she is an adult. But do this in a calm manner. Also listen to what she has to say like an adult. let her earn her pocket money or money for WAEC or JAMB. She has too much time on her hands, thats why she's rebellious.

For my teenage days, the threat of pregnancy, poverty and AIDS was enough. Those were good times

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Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by Came4amod: 11:28pm On Jan 03, 2020
smat101:
What I was scared of is finally happening...
I've a lot to say but let me try to be brief...
Its been 4years+ since I last went home to see my mum and siblings.
I really lovey kid sister so much even more than my mum.
there is a lot to say but to cut the long story short,
when I came back she had already developed breast but she is just 14years.
just today I talked to her about sex,boyfriends, pornography relationship,sex, everything in that area...recently she was using my phone for Facebook,then I asked her consent to read some of her messages which she agreed as I was reading through she dragged the phone from my hand when I wanted to click a particular chat. I became inquisitive but respected her privacy. I then asked her to log out when she is done...
just this night I wanted to login to my Facebook then I clicked the Facebook icon her account was still logged in...What I saw broke my heart, she was planning to send nudes to a guy and the guy was planning to have sex with her this weekend,she kept on telling him that she was afraid, but he kept on telling her he will use condom, that she should not be afraid...
.
.
My problem is that she is a minor and this guy is 27...
So this is what I plan to do, Flog her thoroughly very early tomorrow, then later talk to her again...
Then that bastard beat him up in the evening with two other guys...
I really love this girl and Want the best for her pls parents preferably how should I handle this matter .
If u beat her .. u just made her a hoe for life .. mr man .. just talk to her jejely .. violence is never the answer.. talk to her like a matured person .. tell her about hiv and aids and pregnancy and all the bad things that can happen to her .. beating her with make her a hoe .. mistakes many parents are making is using violence to solve a diplomatic problem.. be guided .. be wise..

But about the guy . You are free to report him to the nearest police station .. in his life he will never talk to minor again .. if police drill person for u .. u know na .. make I no talk too much .. he go hear wieee

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Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by kingreign(m): 11:33pm On Jan 03, 2020
Ishilove:
I
More oil on your head. Which kain useless rebellion is that? Na so fvck dey hungry am?

The beating should not be too much but make sure you slap some sense into her. Oniranu omo.

As for that despoiler of innocence, make sure you treat his fvck up. Keep chatting with him pretending to be your sis, set a fvck date with him then show up at the venue with some Oshodi thugs who will rearrange his dentition and shift his jaw. Oloriburuku omo ale

OP, this is your best advice. Follow this.

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Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by Nobody: 11:36pm On Jan 03, 2020
@smat101

When a girl reaches puberty and all her goodies begin to show, there are so many guys that will start approaching her, regardless of her age. One of my relative's child is like that too. I don't even bother checking her phone again cos she has passworded everything, but we know enough and have advised her well enough. She is gradually leaving her mid teens and I know that sometimes experience is the best teacher after one has advised them thoroughly and consistently.

The solution is to sit her down and let her know you saw the sexual discussion between her and the guy, seize her phone for the time being and report the case to the police so you can trap that guy. A 14 year old is underage by all means and that 27 year old is an irresponsible child molester.

Do not do more than slapping her once or twice, you don't wanna appear abusive cos its a normal stage of life for girls. Social media is not helping matters too cos children are being exposed to the wrong things and strangers too fast...

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Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by lilmax(m): 11:36pm On Jan 03, 2020
Lol beat her?


This happens when you have FAILED parents


More of this trash to come


The big problem here is the 27 year old man, that's your problem not your sister



The irritating thing about girls like your sister is they learn the hard way

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Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by chiefolododo(m): 11:39pm On Jan 03, 2020
Lazarus come forth!

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Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by czarina(f): 11:39pm On Jan 03, 2020
smat101:
..
Beating her can NEVER make her rebellious instead it will make her very scared and embarrassed.
Don't push your luck with kids, my dear. Don't push your luck.


All the best

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Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by smat101(m): 11:43pm On Jan 03, 2020
lilmax:
Lol beat her?


This happens when you have FAILED parents


More of this trash to come


The big problem here is the 27 year old man, that's your problem not your sister



The irritating thing about girls like your sister is they learn the hard way


lilmax you are sounding as though she is stubborn, she is not , she is respectful,very obedient,kind too...Her problem is that she is naive...

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Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by makydebbie(f): 11:52pm On Jan 03, 2020
funmisticqueen:
tell her that her actions have consequences. She needs to learn responsibility. If she thinks she can be going out without being accountable or lying. Let her be the adult one,


I've spoken to her already like 1 billion times I'm not even joking but still.



Take all the clothes you bought for her, gadgets(except phone) and tell her to go and find work, pay a bill or something. Let her get money for data herself, get her own food since she is an adult. But do this in a calm manner. Also listen to what she has to say like an adult. let her earn her pocket money or money for WAEC or JAMB. She has too much time on her hands, thats why she's rebellious.


I've personally seized her phone. Thing is we can't do this because she's the one who takes care of our grandmother when we're away.


For my teenage days, the threat of pregnancy, poverty and AIDS was enough. Those were good times

Sigh, I'm getting real worried.

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Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by kingxsamz(m): 11:53pm On Jan 03, 2020
All these ones talking about giving her 'hot slaps', if you hit that girl and she slumps, or worse, what will be your case?
Hitting her won't solve sh!t.

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Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by stinflame: 11:56pm On Jan 03, 2020
As a person suggest here, laying ambush and catching her in the act will be the best.
I bet you in the course of the disgrace,she will abstain from it for good.
Human tends to run away from things they were disgraced on.

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Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by Nobody: 11:56pm On Jan 03, 2020
makydebbie:


I've spoken to her already like 1 billion times I'm not even joking but still.




I've personally seized her phone. Thing is we can't do this because she's the one who takes care of our grandmother when we're away.



Sigh, I'm getting real worried.
that's tough...

I really don't know.

Maybe life will teach her. You can always use poverty to threaten her


Just watch out for her
Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by Nobody: 11:59pm On Jan 03, 2020
kingxsamz:
All these ones talking about giving her 'hot slaps', if you hit that girl and she slumps, or worse, what will be your case?
Hitting her won't solve sh!t.
violence is the worst

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Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by Ishilove: 12:01am On Jan 04, 2020
makydebbie:


I've spoken to her already like 1 billion times I'm not even joking but still.
Then leave her to learn the hard way. There's so much you can do for another human being.
Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by Misstearious(f): 12:31am On Jan 04, 2020
Humans are evil and very wicked at heart.
How can a 27 year old man plan to sleep with a 14 year old??
Listen sir, please by all means slap that girl and slap her well. You shouldn't just sit her down . Slap Some sense into before having that talk..


As for the 27 year old fool , please properly arrange on how he'll be caught and when you find him , go with thugs and beat the perversion out of him..

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Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by Nobody: 1:24am On Jan 04, 2020
makydebbie:


I've spoken to her already like 1 billion times I'm not even joking but still.




I've personally seized her phone. Thing is we can't do this because she's the one who takes care of our grandmother when we're away.



Sigh, I'm getting real worried.
There is a limit to what a human being can do, you have talked, counselled and even scolded and she remains defiant in her ways then allow her face the consequences of her choices the hard way like the adult she thinks she has become. It's painful to watch but experience is the best teacher. It will start from a heart break and then the rest will follow.

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Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by flyingdutchman(m): 2:29am On Jan 04, 2020
Hey man, if you like, you can dm me. My wife and I can have a facetime video chat with her and calm her nerves down. Look, at her age, her hormones are on fire. She needs constant reassurance and INVOLVE HER IN SPORTS!

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Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by Lexusgs430: 2:36am On Jan 04, 2020
smat101:
What I was scared of is finally happening...
I've a lot to say but let me try to be brief...
Its been 4years+ since I last went home to see my mum and siblings.
I really lovey kid sister so much even more than my mum.
there is a lot to say but to cut the long story short,
when I came back she had already developed breast but she is just 14years.
just today I talked to her about sex,boyfriends, pornography relationship,sex, everything in that area...recently she was using my phone for Facebook,then I asked her consent to read some of her messages which she agreed as I was reading through she dragged the phone from my hand when I wanted to click a particular chat. I became inquisitive but respected her privacy. I then asked her to log out when she is done...
just this night I wanted to login to my Facebook then I clicked the Facebook icon her account was still logged in...What I saw broke my heart, she was planning to send nudes to a guy and the guy was planning to have sex with her this weekend,she kept on telling him that she was afraid, but he kept on telling her he will use condom, that she should not be afraid...
.
.
My problem is that she is a minor and this guy is 27...
So this is what I plan to do, Flog her thoroughly very early tomorrow, then later talk to her again...
Then that bastard beat him up in the evening with two other guys...
I really love this girl and Want the best for her pls parents preferably how should I handle this matter .


Flogging does nothing........ What happens after flogging?


You need to educate her, not be physically abusive.......

You beat the other guy up, he dies or becomes seriously injured, you don enter police case (hope you have the will to bear your actions)....

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Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by DavidEsq(m): 3:07am On Jan 04, 2020
Ishilove:
I
More oil on your head. Which kain useless rebellion is that? Na so fvck dey hungry am?

The beating should not be too much but make sure you slap some sense into her. Oniranu omo.

As for that despoiler of innocence, make sure you treat his fvck up. Keep chatting with him pretending to be your sis, set a fvck date with him then show up at the venue with some Oshodi thugs who will rearrange his dentition and shift his jaw. Oloriburuku omo ale
Shift his jaw! Chai! awon Jason Statham. Oshey. If the boy's father is rich and OP lands in sars cell, shey u would be the first to post "A nairalander goes to jail for shifting the son of a rich man's jaw"

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Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by DavidEsq(m): 3:08am On Jan 04, 2020
flyingdutchman:
Hey man, if you like, you can dm me. My wife and I can have a facetime video chat with her and calm her nerves down. Look, at her age, her hormones are on fire. She needs constant reassurance and INVOLVE HER IN SPORTS!
Why involve her in sports. I wanna know
Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by flyingdutchman(m): 3:11am On Jan 04, 2020
DavidEsq:

Why involve her in sports. I wanna know
Distraction and would help her expend excess energy.
Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by DavidEsq(m): 3:12am On Jan 04, 2020
kingreign:

OP, this is your best advice. Follow this.
See as everybody wan set OP up. If that guy get paddy for Sara ehn

Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by DavidEsq(m): 3:13am On Jan 04, 2020
flyingdutchman:

Distraction and would help her expend excess energy.
shey that's where she would now meet more virile men ready to test her at the back of some stadium building na. Na den trainer go turn nacker. I know wetin I dey talk o

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