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You are not crazy bro. I would advise you take it slow though 'cause you wouldnt want to be in a situation where you are a rebound guy(based on the fact say she accept you like that). I wish you luck!

veteranExboy:
House, I met my current girlfriend in 2016 when she was in 100 level. I asked her to date me but got turned down. After several attempts to woo her, I gave up and decided to delete her contact because I hate being friend zoned.

Her reason was she had a boyfriend who was in another state schooling. Within 2016 and 2018 she called me twice and was not happy that I didn't have her number (I kept on asking who was speaking the two times she called) but I never stopped telling her I'm not going to be her friend because that's not what I want from her. I want a relationship.

Fast forward to may 2019, we met coincidentally and I got her contact again. I asked for a date, she agreed. We met at the joint, but she came along with a friend (after asking me 5 minutes before we met, I agreed). After the lunch (not a date anymore), we spoke at night and she agreed to date me after I asked again. She was single by this time.

Some of my male friends think I'm crazy because it took her all that time before she agreed to date me but I feel she was right not to double date and she said she didn't have any feelings for me then.

Please House, am I crazy because I still had interest in her after 3 years?

You are not crazy...you are just her calculated "Maga".

She was dating and sucking another dik and you waited patiently for her to finish and you accepted?!



Oh gosh! You're d man!

Ajeku...

Asha mo egun..

A won Mr driller ti kan omi wan ti move ahead..

Hahahaha

maynation:
Nairaland and wonders be like 5 and 6.

Oga you're not crazy, any other question?

Lamanii22:
You're not crazy Hun.. My now boyfriend waited 7 years... Not like I didn't like him then but I was waving off that feeling... I was like God forbid I can never be in love with this kind of guy... You won't believe all the relationship I had never lasted... Although we started dating recently... But he told me he's been dating me for seven years... Imagine... He said he has never stopped loving me and that he'd never.. So I don't think you're crazy...

So, you believed him
I been think say una wise sef.

veteranExboy:
House, I met my current girlfriend in 2016 when she was in 100 level. I asked her to date me but got turned down. After several attempts to woo her, I gave up and decided to delete her contact because I hate being friend zoned.

Her reason was she had a boyfriend who was in another state schooling. Within 2016 and 2018 she called me twice and was not happy that I didn't have her number (I kept on asking who was speaking the two times she called) but I never stopped telling her I'm not going to be her friend because that's not what I want from her. I want a relationship.

Fast forward to may 2019, we met coincidentally and I got her contact again. I asked for a date, she agreed. We met at the joint, but she came along with a friend (after asking me 5 minutes before we met, I agreed). After the lunch (not a date anymore), we spoke at night and she agreed to date me after I asked again. She was single by this time.

Some of my male friends think I'm crazy because it took her all that time before she agreed to date me but I feel she was right not to double date and she said she didn't have any feelings for me then.

Please House, am I crazy because I still had interest in her after 3 years?

u craze small,but na love-craze

Hope it won't take him another 1yr to colet
Lolz
This babes sef ehn
The guy too jobless
3yrs?
Na only u dei dis life?
In 3yrs I must have dated roughly 3different girls na

veteranExboy:
House, I met my current girlfriend in 2016 when she was in 100 level. I asked her to date me but got turned down. After several attempts to woo her, I gave up and decided to delete her contact because I hate being friend zoned.

Her reason was she had a boyfriend who was in another state schooling. Within 2016 and 2018 she called me twice and was not happy that I didn't have her number (I kept on asking who was speaking the two times she called) but I never stopped telling her I'm not going to be her friend because that's not what I want from her. I want a relationship.

Fast forward to may 2019, we met coincidentally and I got her contact again. I asked for a date, she agreed. We met at the joint, but she came along with a friend (after asking me 5 minutes before we met, I agreed). After the lunch (not a date anymore), we spoke at night and she agreed to date me after I asked again. She was single by this time.

Some of my male friends think I'm crazy because it took her all that time before she agreed to date me but I feel she was right not to double date and she said she didn't have any feelings for me then.

Please House, am I crazy because I still had interest in her after 3 years?

When punna was still fresh.... she didn't reason you.
Now every beautiful things on her is getting old and ugly... she would settle for anything.
Be wise bro, you're better than this.... nothing comes easy bro..... if it does.. please be vigilant.
Why did she choose you so easy now, ask yourself closely.... it doesn't make much sense... open your eyes.

Not at all, you're not crazy, you're just a first class manjina hungrying for used puna ni that's all.

Swargu:
Story story, what else would he say to make you feel better, its ur type of heart I like to break

Lol don't break my heart oo.. I'm a nice person

do you want her to double date nii.. atleast she kept in contact with you while you ignored her

I think u are not crazy and I will presume she should be a good girl for accepting after break up !

Swear, do you truly love him right from time.? Or you just accept him now because you are out of options

Lamanii22:
You're not crazy Hun.. My now boyfriend waited 7 years... Not like I didn't like him then but I was waving off that feeling... I was like God forbid I can never be in love with this kind of guy... You won't believe all the relationship I had never lasted... Although we started dating recently... But he told me he's been dating me for seven years... Imagine... He said he has never stopped loving me and that he'd never.. So I don't think you're crazy...

Davash222:
So, you believed him
I been think say una wise sef.

I believe him... He is not heartless like you lots on here...

Davash222:
So, you believed him
I been think say una wise sef.

That guy must be an MVP

veteranExboy:
House, I met my current girlfriend in 2016 when she was in 100 level. I asked her to date me but got turned down. After several attempts to woo her, I gave up and decided to delete her contact because I hate being friend zoned.

Her reason was she had a boyfriend who was in another state schooling. Within 2016 and 2018 she called me twice and was not happy that I didn't have her number (I kept on asking who was speaking the two times she called) but I never stopped telling her I'm not going to be her friend because that's not what I want from her. I want a relationship.

Fast forward to may 2019, we met coincidentally and I got her contact again. I asked for a date, she agreed. We met at the joint, but she came along with a friend (after asking me 5 minutes before we met, I agreed). After the lunch (not a date anymore), we spoke at night and she agreed to date me after I asked again. She was single by this time.

Some of my male friends think I'm crazy because it took her all that time before she agreed to date me but I feel she was right not to double date and she said she didn't have any feelings for me then.

Please House, am I crazy because I still had interest in her after 3 years?

another foolish ediot on the loose!

donstan18:
I don't know if you are crazy or not, but one thing I'm sure of is that it will be very annoying to find out that she isn't worth the stress and patience you passed through while waiting for 3 years.

Who said he was waiting? How sure are you he didn't get involved with other people even if he was still interested in her? Their recent meeting was a coincidence.

Lamanii22:
I believe him... He is not heartless like you lots on here...

Aunty, he’s our ‘Dilector’.

veteranExboy:
House, I met my current girlfriend in 2016 when she was in 100 level. I asked her to date me but got turned down. After several attempts to woo her, I gave up and decided to delete her contact because I hate being friend zoned.

Her reason was she had a boyfriend who was in another state schooling. Within 2016 and 2018 she called me twice and was not happy that I didn't have her number (I kept on asking who was speaking the two times she called) but I never stopped telling her I'm not going to be her friend because that's not what I want from her. I want a relationship.

Fast forward to may 2019, we met coincidentally and I got her contact again. I asked for a date, she agreed. We met at the joint, but she came along with a friend (after asking me 5 minutes before we met, I agreed). After the lunch (not a date anymore), we spoke at night and she agreed to date me after I asked again. She was single by this time.

Some of my male friends think I'm crazy because it took her all that time before she agreed to date me but I feel she was right not to double date and she said she didn't have any feelings for me then.

Please House, am I crazy because I still had interest in her after 3 years?

You might want to find out about her life all those three years.

How old are you ?
Do you have no dignity or shame ?
How can a living being like you turned you down not once but severally n you still end up reconciling with her ?! Once I summoned the courage shame gut to walk up to u n you say no, my sister you no stand for no until you walk back n tell yes no time for rubbish abeg.

veteranExboy:
House, I met my current girlfriend in 2016 when she was in 100 level. I asked her to date me but got turned down. After several attempts to woo her, I gave up and decided to delete her contact because I hate being friend zoned.

Her reason was she had a boyfriend who was in another state schooling. Within 2016 and 2018 she called me twice and was not happy that I didn't have her number (I kept on asking who was speaking the two times she called) but I never stopped telling her I'm not going to be her friend because that's not what I want from her. I want a relationship.

Fast forward to may 2019, we met coincidentally and I got her contact again. I asked for a date, she agreed. We met at the joint, but she came along with a friend (after asking me 5 minutes before we met, I agreed). After the lunch (not a date anymore), we spoke at night and she agreed to date me after I asked again. She was single by this time.

Some of my male friends think I'm crazy because it took her all that time before she agreed to date me but I feel she was right not to double date and she said she didn't have any feelings for me then.

Please House, am I crazy because I still had interest in her after 3 years?

OP, your craziness no be for dis world!

How are you sure she is not smarter now, 100lvl to 300lvl. People changed man, and u guys weren't communicating during that period. Do some research so u dont regret later

donstan18:
I don't know if you are crazy or not, but one thing I'm sure of is that it will be very annoying to find out that she isn't worth the stress and patience you passed through while waiting for 3 years.

I see unforseen problems, you are a fiddle anyway, her second choice.

After she has been used and dump severally, and finally dumped by her last hope she now falls back to him as alternative option . Am convinced its not true love. To me, NO NO NO

My opinion please, no insults.

Thanks

Kaeboy:
Swear, do you truly love him right from time.? Or you just accept him now because you are out of options

I swear... I loved him right from time.. I'm not desperate for relationship... Or getting married... Plus I never run out of options.. Nah dem dey rush me...

veteranExboy:
House, I met my current girlfriend in 2016 when she was in 100 level. I asked her to date me but got turned down. After several attempts to woo her, I gave up and decided to delete her contact because I hate being friend zoned.

Her reason was she had a boyfriend who was in another state schooling. Within 2016 and 2018 she called me twice and was not happy that I didn't have her number (I kept on asking who was speaking the two times she called) but I never stopped telling her I'm not going to be her friend because that's not what I want from her. I want a relationship.

Fast forward to may 2019, we met coincidentally and I got her contact again. I asked for a date, she agreed. We met at the joint, but she came along with a friend (after asking me 5 minutes before we met, I agreed). After the lunch (not a date anymore), we spoke at night and she agreed to date me after I asked again. She was single by this time.

Some of my male friends think I'm crazy because it took her all that time before she agreed to date me but I feel she was right not to double date and she said she didn't have any feelings for me then.

Please House, am I crazy because I still had interest in her after 3 years?

Get your own share of national cake and move on. Don't be a second fiddle to any woman. If she later settles with her boyfriend, she will dump your lazy ass

Lamanii22:
I believe him... He is not heartless like you lots on here...

Baby trust me,he's using you or he is plain foolish. I once waited 4years to get my turn.

Davash222:
Aunty, he’s our ‘Dilector’.

Lol... His thinking faculty is not like a regular Nigerian guy.. He is different...

veteranExboy:
House, I met my current girlfriend in 2016 when she was in 100 level. I asked her to date me but got turned down. After several attempts to woo her, I gave up and decided to delete her contact because I hate being friend zoned.

Her reason was she had a boyfriend who was in another state schooling. Within 2016 and 2018 she called me twice and was not happy that I didn't have her number (I kept on asking who was speaking the two times she called) but I never stopped telling her I'm not going to be her friend because that's not what I want from her. I want a relationship.

Fast forward to may 2019, we met coincidentally and I got her contact again. I asked for a date, she agreed. We met at the joint, but she came along with a friend (after asking me 5 minutes before we met, I agreed). After the lunch (not a date anymore), we spoke at night and she agreed to date me after I asked again. She was single by this time.

Some of my male friends think I'm crazy because it took her all that time before she agreed to date me but I feel she was right not to double date and she said she didn't have any feelings for me then.

Please House, am I crazy because I still had interest in her after 3 years?

It happens and I believe it’s a good sign the gal Ure with doesn’t double date no matter what. It’s a good attribute not every has.

I’m not a against gals that double date cos there are sm with smwhat valid reasons bt Aslong as it’s not reckless bt gals dat don’t are quite nice and trustworthy.

This is not an achievement. As a guy,d list thing u should think about is girls. U have better things to do with ur life

Afamed:
Get your own share of national cake and move on. Don't be a second fiddle to any woman

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