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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by alphaNomega: 10:22am On Jan 04
kunkelhanspeter:
Hope she’s a virgin after waiting for 3 years bro if not it doesn’t worth it

Lol. Funny dude

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by iPrevail(m): 10:23am On Jan 04
swedbase:


Not because she didn't double date then means she can't now. A lot can change in a person within a time frame period. She is dating a different man now with a different time period plus what she has learnt from her previous relationship that lead to their break up. I wouldn't date a girl who rejected me 3 years ago but i'm not discourageng the OP not to date her however i wouldn't like to see the OP coming here in the future to write ..... She said this is why i rejected you 3 years ago

You are right, people do change. Personally, I would not even ask a girl out again after getting rejected the first time.. She'll have to give me a very good reason to do that. After three years? We didn't even exist

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by abbatoir(m): 10:23am On Jan 04
Lamanii22:



I swear... I loved him right from time.. I'm not desperate for relationship... Or getting married... Plus I never run out of options.. Nah dem dey rush me...
That is my girl..I fancy your pride..

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Ibfpleasant(m): 10:28am On Jan 04
Lamanii22:
You're not crazy Hun.. My now boyfriend waited 7 years... Not like I didn't like him then but I was waving off that feeling... I was like God forbid I can never be in love with this kind of guy... You won't believe all the relationship I had never lasted... Although we started dating recently... But he told me he's been dating me for seven years... Imagine... He said he has never stopped loving me and that he'd never.. So I don't think you're crazy...
7 years? Some guys are just out of their minds.
Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by lucky4west: 10:29am On Jan 04
its kool...she lost the other relationship life is like that...i think she is a faithful gal...please be honest with her

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by OlawaleBammie(m): 10:30am On Jan 04
boiz2men:

He's well to do right? grin
Don't mind dat girl joo, it's glaring d guy was broke den.

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Lamanii22(f): 10:32am On Jan 04
successful35:


They are rushing you to use you and dump.


Nah i'm too classy for that... I dump a guy's ass before he dares too... Or I never give him attention at all...

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Ibfpleasant(m): 10:32am On Jan 04
the maximum time I can spare a lady to do shakra after I woo her is 30 days.. I wouldn’t bother her any longer after that. But anything that make her comes back to me after “guys” na to shattered her heart.

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Trillyonaire: 10:33am On Jan 04
grin

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by abbatoir(m): 10:33am On Jan 04
Vortex369:
Let's get some things straightened out, dear humans.

So that whatever you do, you do not get lost in the universe of words.

She has agreed to have sex with you now and in return, she expects to enjoy the sex too, while you also provide material-financial care as well as any other additional incentives like recharge cards, occasional feeding money, etc.

If you like the sex and she is beautiful enough to get you erection, then you are not crazy yet but you will soon be crazy when you realize that when girls are no longer getting new 'toasters' they have a way of waking up refuses from dustbin and recycling them while waiting for new entries on their database of exploitative explorations.
.. Experience count

Bravo!
Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Worksunlimited: 10:34am On Jan 04
veteranExboy:
House, I met my current girlfriend in 2016 when she was in 100 level. I asked her to date me but got turned down. After several attempts to woo her, I gave up and decided to delete her contact because I hate being friend zoned.

Her reason was she had a boyfriend who was in another state schooling. Within 2016 and 2018 she called me twice and was not happy that I didn't have her number (I kept on asking who was speaking the two times she called) but I never stopped telling her I'm not going to be her friend because that's not what I want from her. I want a relationship.

Fast forward to may 2019, we met coincidentally and I got her contact again. I asked for a date, she agreed. We met at the joint, but she came along with a friend (after asking me 5 minutes before we met, I agreed). After the lunch (not a date anymore), we spoke at night and she agreed to date me after I asked again. She was single by this time.

Some of my male friends think I'm crazy because it took her all that time before she agreed to date me but I feel she was right not to double date and she said she didn't have any feelings for me then.

Please House, am I crazy because I still had interest in her after 3 years?

I agree with your friends...

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by alexistaiwo: 10:41am On Jan 04
When the desirable is not available, the available becomes desirable.

Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Ibfpleasant(m): 10:45am On Jan 04
BigDick70inch:
Op..u r not craze but u jux "mad and foolish combined"

Well..aint here to shout alpha male or whatever..it is something I will never do..



U even lack self worth to accept..a girl..dat claim not to have a feelin for u..while she was so fresh and young ..


Even..when I was a novice(during my predegree day in uni)..

I tried toasting a 100level girl for months as per I like her so much Oo..she was telling she doesn't love but like me excuse..

Had.. to ignore her for like 2 years..even tho shes always the first to say hi when we cross path...


Fast-forward to her 300l days..i realised she do fix her gaze more on me..only God knew what was going on thru her mind..

She di..seize every opportunity to talk to me but I never change..

Not because..i'm proud Oo but once my mind is made up..aint goin back


Again..i wooed one girl in my department back in uni too..but she was doing shakara(she said we dating Wud distract our studies)..
I showed her love,
care..
gave her enough attention..
Was jovial and make her so free with me..

I knew she..was into me cos she had do anything for me
There was a day..she invited me and my g to his house and cooked..

I refuse to eat the food which made her so furious and ended up telling me..she went thru the cooking wahala to see me eat her food Oo...


But when..i eventually locked my heart against her ehn..she even instruct her friend to beg on her behalf with knowing her wrong..

I never called nor chat her up sinx i left skool..

my type of man.. this is how a real nigga should treat women not all these waiting for 3 or 7 years guys.. every reasonable man should have limited feelings and love for a woman, your everyday goal should be how to make moneyb

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by TheRedpillguy: 10:53am On Jan 04
veteranExboy:
House, I met my current girlfriend in 2016 when she was in 100 level. I asked her to date me but got turned down. After several attempts to woo her, I gave up and decided to delete her contact because I hate being friend zoned.

Her reason was she had a boyfriend who was in another state schooling. Within 2016 and 2018 she called me twice and was not happy that I didn't have her number (I kept on asking who was speaking the two times she called) but I never stopped telling her I'm not going to be her friend because that's not what I want from her. I want a relationship.

Fast forward to may 2019, we met coincidentally and I got her contact again. I asked for a date, she agreed. We met at the joint, but she came along with a friend (after asking me 5 minutes before we met, I agreed). After the lunch (not a date anymore), we spoke at night and she agreed to date me after I asked again. She was single by this time.

Some of my male friends think I'm crazy because it took her all that time before she agreed to date me but I feel she was right not to double date and she said she didn't have any feelings for me then.

Please House, am I crazy because I still had interest in her after 3 years?
Well she is getting older so she will have to put her eggs in differnt basket now. you are one of the options to fall back too if things don't go according to plan. If you been making money or studying a professional course that will land u a good job after school then, more reasons she is forming interested now. Best belive its not for your good. Go ahead date her but don't be crazy about her and be ready to dumb anytime she starts acting up.

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by sprints1: 10:55am On Jan 04
Lamanii22:
You're not crazy Hun.. My now boyfriend waited 7 years... Not like I didn't like him then but I was waving off that feeling... I was like God forbid I can never be in love with this kind of guy... You won't believe all the relationship I had never lasted... Although we started dating recently... But he told me he's been dating me for seven years... Imagine... He said he has never stopped loving me and that he'd never.. So I don't think you're crazy...
continue u still think say u dey market...7 years nkwa..kilode..Na so relationship dey b dear on and off like Ijebu Light... U better be giving them chance quick..fishes plenty for water...
Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by dview001(m): 11:00am On Jan 04
Lamanii22:
You're not crazy Hun.. My now boyfriend waited 7 years... Not like I didn't like him then but I was waving off that feeling... I was like God forbid I can never be in love with this kind of guy... You won't believe all the relationship I had never lasted... Although we started dating recently... But he told me he's been dating me for seven years... Imagine... He said he has never stopped loving me and that he'd never.. So I don't think you're crazy...

Lol..nothing wey lala no go see for front page. Which guy will wait 7years for an ugly pile of poo like you?..these wh*ores be hyping themselves anyhow

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by lereinter(m): 11:02am On Jan 04
Do you expect to meet a grown lady who doesn't have bf before?

Because trailer have pass between her and her ex and she move to your side doesn't mean any harm

But that doesn't mean she can't leave you also she's just your gf for now

Why did she come with her friend on a first day?

Just

Make sure there's good f.u.cking in the affair.

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Binhamid(m): 11:02am On Jan 04
You are not crazy, you are just mad.

After she has gone up and down, she now wants to use you to do Plan C. The fact is you will always love her more than she loves you. And she will always use the leverage on you throughout the relationship.

Please Bleep her and go. There are plenty fishes in the ocean

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by lereinter(m): 11:04am On Jan 04
Lamanii22:
You're not crazy Hun.. My now boyfriend waited 7 years... Not like I didn't like him then but I was waving off that feeling... I was like God forbid I can never be in love with this kind of guy... You won't believe all the relationship I had never lasted... Although we started dating recently... But he told me he's been dating me for seven years... Imagine... He said he has never stopped loving me and that he'd never.. So I don't think you're crazy...

7yrs, and she know you were with another man

that man na mumu
Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by litaninja(m): 11:06am On Jan 04
Its time to payback b*tch. Chop the babe like there's no tomorrow and move on.

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by lereinter(m): 11:06am On Jan 04
veteranExboy:


She's never tasted the forbidden fruit... don't ask how I got to know

Really

Don't be magaed

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Sunnybabe(m): 11:06am On Jan 04
OP, I can't really say maybe u are crazy or not but lemme ask u this, for that three years are u not in any relationship also

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by swedbase(m): 11:08am On Jan 04
dview001:


Lol..nothing wey lala no go see for front page. Which guy will wait 7years for an ugly pile of poo like you?..these wh*ores be hyping themselves anyhow

Don't speak ill on a woman like this please.
Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by HardeyGold: 11:09am On Jan 04
Mad oooo.. well .. I can say you seriously love her but not lust.... But on a second thought does this girl love you the way you do



At any moment in time.. brother dey expect break up..... Girls are not to be trusted ... Maybe she wanna screw you and go.... (Chop and clean mouth)

NEVER TRUST GIRLS❌❌❌

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Vibesking(m): 11:17am On Jan 04
Lamanii22:



Maybe I just realized.. I'm still young lol... Not like I wanna be married that soon.... I just accepted my feelings for him... Plus he is really kind, he isn't perfect but has the quality of a father,husband,teacher and boyfriend like all in one quality... Funny how I've never been as connected to anyone as I am with him.. We connect so effortlessly...



Although if I had waited a little longer, if I was still doing shakara.. He would have travelled out and I'd have lost him forever.. But God was still on my side, he got visa denial (i'm not saying it's a good thing).. I was the first person he called.. He told me everything, he was really down.. I was literally crying...

Outright hogwash.

After you've sucked multiple d!cks and gotten yourself fucxed by different guys; used, dumped and recycled, you now decided to settle for this man who obviously has no sense of self worth. I really hope he wakes the hell up after using you to his satisfaction.

After 7 years you automatically started feeling a connection. Bullsh!t.

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by divineuk(m): 11:20am On Jan 04
During this period of 3 years, didn’t you see another girl

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Brightdude007: 11:27am On Jan 04
You would be dumbfounded that during d period u were dieing n begging her day n night for her love wit tears....she was busy forcing it on other guys who dont even want it. Inside life...i just hope the wait is worth it.

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Adams12345: 11:28am On Jan 04
maynation:
Nairaland and wonders be like 5 and 6.
Oga you're not crazy, any other question?
madness no go do you, oga any other question?

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Fejimummy: 11:36am On Jan 04
favoryte33:
In as much as i wish you good luck on your new relationship,i would ask that you take your time to observe her. If a woman rejects u for that long,then she doesn't have u in her plans. 3 fuking good years? she must have been left shattered those years.


I rejected my present fiance for good 7 years before I said yes . he wasn't what I wanted at that moment but he didn't stop coming for me I made sure his improvement was visible cos he really needed to work on himself

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Fourwinds: 11:38am On Jan 04
veteranExboy:


She's never tasted the forbidden fruit... don't ask how I got to know
chai!! Says who

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Lamanii22(f): 11:46am On Jan 04
Vibesking:


Outright hogwash.

After you've sucked multiple d!cks and gotten yourself fucxed by different guys; used, dumped and recycled, you now decided to settle for this man who obviously has no sense of self worth. I really hope he wakes the hell up after using you to his satisfaction.

After 7 years you automatically started feeling a connection. Bullsh!t.



Nah... I'm not that kind of girl... He Is not using me.. Maybe you're just hurt... Or pained I don't know lol... And again guys don't freak me.. I'm not desperate or anything.. I guess it's just the right time for both of us to be together and I've never been happier... So your judgment should be kept to yourself I don't need it.. I'm happy.. I and my fiancé...

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Lamanii22(f): 11:47am On Jan 04
lereinter:


7yrs, and she know you were with another man

that man na mumu


Nah.. He isn't... Not every guy is like nairaland guys...

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