dview001:


Lol..nothing wey lala no go see for front page. Which guy will wait 7years for an ugly pile of poo like you?..these wh*ores be hyping themselves anyhow

Lamanii22:
You're not crazy Hun.. My now boyfriend waited 7 years... Not like I didn't like him then but I was waving off that feeling... I was like God forbid I can never be in love with this kind of guy... You won't believe all the relationship I had never lasted... Although we started dating recently... But he told me he's been dating me for seven years... Imagine... He said he has never stopped loving me and that he'd never.. So I don't think you're crazy...

philip0906:

Ofcourse you won't think he's crazy because you're the beneficiary of craze.

Wait until you guys have done YEARS then we'll ask your boyfriend if you were worth it and if he isn't crazy.

Afamed:

Get your own share of national cake and move on. Don't be a second fiddle to any woman. If she later settles with her boyfriend, she will dump your lazy ass

itsme01:
do you want her to double date nii.. atleast she kept in contact with you while you ignored her

Lamanii22:



Nah i'm too classy for that... I dump a guy's ass before he dares too... Or I never give him attention at all...

TheRedpillguy:

Well she is getting older so she will have to put her eggs in differnt basket now. you are one of the options to fall back too if things don't go according to plan. If you been making money or studying a professional course that will land u a good job after school then, more reasons she is forming interested now. Best belive its not for your good. Go ahead date her but don't be crazy about her and be ready to dumb anytime she starts acting up.

izubext007:
Jst Kmw You Were Her Spare Tyre, Approved By Her Fuckanizer ( Her Friend), Who She Came With To Observe You In D Dinner.

Lamanii22:
You're not crazy Hun.. My now boyfriend waited 7 years... Not like I didn't like him then but I was waving off that feeling... I was like God forbid I can never be in love with this kind of guy... You won't believe all the relationship I had never lasted... Although we started dating recently... But he told me he's been dating me for seven years... Imagine... He said he has never stopped loving me and that he'd never.. So I don't think you're crazy...

Lamanii22:
You're not crazy Hun.. My now boyfriend waited 7 years... Not like I didn't like him then but I was waving off that feeling... I was like God forbid I can never be in love with this kind of guy... You won't believe all the relationship I had never lasted... Although we started dating recently... But he told me he's been dating me for seven years... Imagine... He said he has never stopped loving me and that he'd never.. So I don't think you're crazy...

Sunnybabe:
OP, I can't really say maybe u are crazy or not but lemme ask u this, for that three years are u not in any relationship also

Fejimummy:



I rejected my present fiance for good 7 years before I said yes . he wasn't what I wanted at that moment but he didn't stop coming for me I made sure his improvement was visible cos he really needed to work on himself

ADAMUdaCOWBOY:

She was disappointed by the ex. She may just be looking for a place to relieve herself of the shock of a failed relationship and where else can she go better than to a guy that kept on hustling for her when she never gave a damn? Your ability to walk away and act like she is dispensable is a good one that many guys can't do. It made her to have second thoughts on her self worth, you left her wondering if she was even worth you in the first place, imagine, she called you twice and you didn't even have her number she'd be like, this guy no even get my number, na so my value dey? No wonder ex leave me. You are not crazy, just thread with care, remember, what gives everything in the world value is scarcity, don't make yourself too available and don't shower love recklessly on her at once, take things easy and let it grow gradually else she'd take you for a sissy, after all, she said no and came back at her time - 3 years later - and you accepted her.

domopps:
Today seems to be relationship day ...




You are not crazy .....but you forgot to tell us what happened to your own current relationship because I didn't also see where you mentioned you waited for her

Thanks,prior to her agreeing to date me, I was only into friends with benefits kind of relationship within the 3 years. I only stopped that kind of relationship when she agreed to date me.


Cheers

veteranExboy:



Thanks, you are one of the few humans who will take their time to read and understand a write up before commenting.You captured important details and gave advice in line with my message. Meanwhile, Ubunja's miseducation has been helpful in recent times and his advice actually works.

veteranExboy:
House, I met my current girlfriend in 2016 when she was in 100 level. I asked her to date me but got turned down. After several attempts to woo her, I gave up and decided to delete her contact because I hate being friend zoned.

Her reason was she had a boyfriend who was in another state schooling. Within 2016 and 2018 she called me twice and was not happy that I didn't have her number (I kept on asking who was speaking the two times she called) but I never stopped telling her I'm not going to be her friend because that's not what I want from her. I want a relationship.

Fast forward to may 2019, we met coincidentally and I got her contact again. I asked for a date, she agreed. We met at the joint, but she came along with a friend (after asking me 5 minutes before we met, I agreed). After the lunch (not a date anymore), we spoke at night and she agreed to date me after I asked again. She was single by this time.

Some of my male friends think I'm crazy because it took her all that time before she agreed to date me but I feel she was right not to double date and she said she didn't have any feelings for me then.

Please House, am I crazy because I still had interest in her after 3 years?

veteranExboy:


I had this same thought earlier.. However,she left her ex because she caught him cheating on her.Moreover I don't mind if this was the case, I have my own story too.

successful35:


Keep dumping while your body count keep on increasing.

rahztafari:


This post ehnn I might just find somewhere safe to faint from lafta.

Sorry to mention you bae but do you really like the guy?? Like seriously, is it a relationship you can invest in??

jeromestarks:

As in he is such a loser to wait on a girl like you for seven years in the 21st century.

lereinter:


7yrs, and she know you were with another man

that man na mumu

veteranExboy:
House, I met my current girlfriend in 2016 when she was in 100 level. I asked her to date me but got turned down. After several attempts to woo her, I gave up and decided to delete her contact because I hate being friend zoned.

Her reason was she had a boyfriend who was in another state schooling. Within 2016 and 2018 she called me twice and was not happy that I didn't have her number (I kept on asking who was speaking the two times she called) but I never stopped telling her I'm not going to be her friend because that's not what I want from her. I want a relationship.

Fast forward to may 2019, we met coincidentally and I got her contact again. I asked for a date, she agreed. We met at the joint, but she came along with a friend (after asking me 5 minutes before we met, I agreed). After the lunch (not a date anymore), we spoke at night and she agreed to date me after I asked again. She was single by this time.

Some of my male friends think I'm crazy because it took her all that time before she agreed to date me but I feel she was right not to double date and she said she didn't have any feelings for me then.

Please House, am I crazy because I still had interest in her after 3 years?

donstan18:
I don't know if you are crazy or not, but one thing I'm sure of is that it will be very annoying to find out that she isn't worth the stress and patience you passed through while waiting for 3 years.

veteranExboy:
Likely she might dump you if she settles with her ex boyfriend but who knows?

I hope not, though you never know with women

donstan18:
I don't know if you are crazy or not, but one thing I'm sure of is that it will be very annoying to find out that she isn't worth the stress and patience you passed through while waiting for 3 years.